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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When a profile says they want 'to be spoilt' does that usually mean they want paying or getting gifts for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a profile says they want 'to be spoilt' does that usually mean they want paying or getting gifts for sex?"

Ive always assumed thats what they mean, if it is what they want i think its against site rules.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It could mean they want to be treated like a lady, which may include meals/days out, gifts, and so on, or may mean just being treated well.

Or it could be their way of saying they want someone who is really talented at various sexual shenanigans.

Or it may mean they want to go off, like milk.

Best off asking them personally I reckon.

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Not necessarily. It can mean that person wants to be treated extra specially. Although a nice cooked dinner and glass of wine always helps lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might add it to my profile then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When a profile says they want 'to be spoilt' does that usually mean they want paying or getting gifts for sex?

Ive always assumed thats what they mean, if it is what they want i think its against site rules."

It's a difficult one to interpret , I tend to think it's for those reasons, just seems like an odd thing to put in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It could mean they want to be treated like a lady, which may include meals/days out, gifts, and so on, or may mean just being treated well.

Or it could be their way of saying they want someone who is really talented at various sexual shenanigans.

Or it may mean they want to go off, like milk.

Best off asking them personally I reckon."

Surely asking for Meals, gifts or days out is a form of payment isnt it? Prostitution by other means other than cash surely??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It could mean they want to be treated like a lady, which may include meals/days out, gifts, and so on, or may mean just being treated well.

Or it could be their way of saying they want someone who is really talented at various sexual shenanigans.

Or it may mean they want to go off, like milk.

Best off asking them personally I reckon.

Surely asking for Meals, gifts or days out is a form of payment isnt it? Prostitution by other means other than cash surely??"

I agree, it's more subtle but still basically the same thing, I call them free loaders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have in mine that I have been very spoilt in the past as in my past meets being amazing in and out of the sack. People sometimes do interpret things the wrong way and it's easily done.

Maybe if it's not quite clear what they mean, you should ask the person who's profile you are querying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appears marginally acceptable when a woman asks to be spoilt i e Gifts meals etc, Dont think us guys would have much success or sympathy asking for it!!!

***Ladies please spoil me by bringing me a gift of a cement mixer when you visit, thanks***** lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I think sometimes it is innocent enough and they mean 'I want to made to feel special', but sometimes I see profiles where they are definitely hinting that they want something in return for meeting (which isnt allowed of course...)

If in doubt you can report it and Admin will review.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Appears marginally acceptable when a woman asks to be spoilt i e Gifts meals etc, Dont think us guys would have much success or sympathy asking for it!!!

***Ladies please spoil me by bringing me a gift of a cement mixer when you visit, thanks***** lol"

would your partner be happy spoiling a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might add it to my profile then. "

I'll bring some socks for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ponses, its all about give and take, not hand out and take and take.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have in mine that I have been very spoilt in the past as in my past meets being amazing in and out of the sack. People sometimes do interpret things the wrong way and it's easily done.

Maybe if it's not quite clear what they mean, you should ask the person who's profile you are querying. "

Just read your profile and you are talking of being spoilt in the past tense, the fact you were spoilt having sex is very clear.

What the OP is referring to is ladies who ask to be spoilt with nice things, some usually even ask for nice presents, perfume, wine etc, which is asking for a form of payment for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might add it to my profile then.

I'll bring some socks for you "

I'm still waiting, my feet are freezing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might add it to my profile then.

I'll bring some socks for you

I'm still waiting, my feet are freezing. "

can I suck your toes ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The spoil me line is so open to interpretation, which do you think?

A. I'm an escort

B. I'm very needy

C. I'm not an escort but you need to bribe me to sleep with you

D. I should not be on FAB I should be on a dating site

E. The DSS haven't sent me my dole money, please help

F. I owe my drug dealer money

Bone of these seem very appealing to me so I avoid xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I hit a nerve?

No retorts!

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