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By *ngie1962 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us saying yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck first" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

filter em all out we do simple !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"filter em all out we do simple !!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont we all have ratings called verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be happy with something like that. Its the idiot single guys that make it so much harder for us genuine ones.

Unfortunately the timewasters seem to outweigh us genuine guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there a lot of wankers on here and it gives us genuine guys a bad name a hate it as a live in a very small town and get yard with the same brush and find it hard to get meets x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Surely its not ALL single guys,Ive spoke to "couples" and theyve either chatted and disappeared,ignored me or theres just the guy.there. He wants to meet me alone he darent tell his wife hes gay,but we can look at pix/vids of her. Ive spoke to a couple for 2yrs and Im the guy they want,we'll meet soon. Nada

There are some genuine people on here both couples and singles. I made a couples fantacy of making out on a yacht come true,Ive still got his hat and her sunglasses at mine.... They know who they are

Dont waste your time ranting about the idiots (whatever title they have) Concentrate on the genuine peeps instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Dont waste your time ranting about the idiots (whatever title they have) Concentrate on the genuine peeps instead "

^^^^^^^ this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had my share of couples and females pissing me about too.

Not good.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have had my share of couples and females pissing me about too.

Not good."

Yes us too where couples are concerned, I would say that of the people we have had contact with single men are the most reliable on the whole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry to say it goes both ways. I tottly understand that their are alot of single men on fab who can hardly string a sentence together and a load of chancers but we are not all the same. After weeks of chat with couples I have been cancled whilst on my way or left standing in pubs on no shows plenty of times. I sometimes wonder if my bi side frightens them off last min but I want to be honest on my profile . I always exchange pics through messages. I keep a private public view as somedays at work I can meet fifty or a hundred people and after being reconised once before decided this was best so I dont have ten year old five stone lighter pics . Verification and any thing else is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont we all have ratings called verifications? "

However being verified doesn't mean a person is not a timewaster, been there done that, got the t-shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had my share of couples and females pissing me about too.

Not good."

me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be happy with something like that. Its the idiot single guys that make it so much harder for us genuine ones.

Unfortunately the timewasters seem to outweigh us genuine guys."

How do they ruin it?

If you had been up against the 4 men mentioned in the original post you'd likely have got a meet just because the others ruled themselves out. Surely the idiots make it easier for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really, it seems to make people all the more wary.

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By *eterpotedMan
over a year ago

Warrington

It is hard on here for single guys and I've had the same thing couples that want to meet then you get nothing from them . I understand it's upto the individuals who they meet or don't meet as the case may be but ...... Nope stop there or I could rant for ages !!!!!

Don't tar us all with the same brush some of us are nice genuine blokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be happy with something like that. Its the idiot single guys that make it so much harder for us genuine ones.

Unfortunately the timewasters seem to outweigh us genuine guys.

How do they ruin it?

If you had been up against the 4 men mentioned in the original post you'd likely have got a meet just because the others ruled themselves out. Surely the idiots make it easier for you?"
i agree with this i dont search for meets now and tbh i prefer clubs where you Can See people and See if theres an attraction and Yes i Know Not everyone likess clubs but you tend to get people who play and Like to play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us sameet ig yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck first" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x "

Being devils advocate, I can't see what is that wrong with 2 of those. What's wrong with checking you'll also get what you want (a blowjob) or expressing a preference not to meet in a club?

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By *ave_diamondMan
over a year ago

Rhyd-y-foel


"Have had my share of couples and females pissing me about too.

Not good."

it's far better to be pissed off than pissed on (unless you're into that sort of thing!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the way that posts like these bring out all the genuine guys.

Fucking hateful word. As if the guys that mess people around don't describe themselves as that.

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By *ngie1962 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

Thanks for all of the above we agree with nearly everyone .. There are lots if genuine guys and we are sure some time waster couples .. Verifications are great but only the positive ones get posted .. Maybe all we all really want is honesty if some is married or just wants some teasing messages say so, genuine couples and singles would appreciate it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Im not married but have kids at home and a busy public job. I csn do days and nights with notice to sort child care. I oh sod it someone suck my cock whilst I lick this pussy

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By *ercedes_SLKMan
over a year ago

nottingham


"Thanks for all of the above we agree with nearly everyone .. There are lots if genuine guys and we are sure some time waster couples .. Verifications are great but only the positive ones get posted .. Maybe all we all really want is honesty if some is married or just wants some teasing messages say so, genuine couples and singles would appreciate it xx"

This about sums it up....

Why do people with generally good interpersonal skills think it's ok to not take those traits online....

Be honest to yourself and others if you expect the same in return....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont we all have ratings called verifications?

However being verified doesn't mean a person is not a timewaster, been there done that, got the t-shirt "

So true. Have been time wasted with profiles with good veris. Wonder how many fake profiles are set up to verify the other profiles.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find each category has its fair share of less desirable characters... Trying to ween them out or shouting about your own bad scenarios will only hinder the genuine single guys you have a choice to block and even report, please don't expect all single guys to be genuine knights in shining armor just like we single men don't expect the same of ladies or couples... Learn and move on

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By *eterpotedMan
over a year ago

Warrington


"Thanks for all of the above we agree with nearly everyone .. There are lots if genuine guys and we are sure some time waster couples .. Verifications are great but only the positive ones get posted .. Maybe all we all really want is honesty if some is married or just wants some teasing messages say so, genuine couples and singles would appreciate it xx"

I concure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not just single guys that mess you about and are time waster, single women do it as well. There happy to chat but never have the time for a meet. Couples can be the just as bad as well.

To be fair there do seem to a hell of a lot of single men on every site that a @~%* just the way it goes. It is nice to see that you know not all of us are like it.

I never have a problem meet up at a neutral place for just a coffee or drink and a chat on the first meet.

As for a rating system no it will be missed used big time.

I on a few game forums that use a system like for reputation points. Say something bad about the game and the trolls will give as many bad rep points as they can.

There is no way that will work 100% I am sorry to say. All we can do is keep looking and keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you'll find each category has its fair share of less desirable characters... Trying to ween them out or shouting about your own bad scenarios will only hinder the genuine single guys you have a choice to block and even report, please don't expect all single guys to be genuine knights in shining armor just like we single men don't expect the same of ladies or couples... Learn and move on"

This knobheads come in all shapes and formats in this world. So it would be unfair to declare a single guy rating system without everybody having it. It's more common for couples to have cold feet first time in our opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to the genuine single guys , but we agree that they ( in our experience) are the most likely not to show up .

We will only meet for a first meet at our local club , which has a free social every Wednesday night . For every ten guys who say they will meet us there , one may actually show .

And this is apparently good going as single girls and other couples tell us it's more like one in twenty that actually show up .

Interestingly , the same can't be said for couples as half of them arrive after saying they will , and the same with single girls .

So we believe that single guys generally have a fear of attending a club , or are liking the idea but bottling out more than couples or single girls .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said we all need to be polite and respectful to each other. Manners cost nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us saying yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck first" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x "

Yer some for the biggest wxxkers are couples in my experiece

You should realise it the single guys that keep this site in business my rant over

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

even with verifications they can still be wank##s so how can you find genuine ones

cos even so you think are turn out not to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us saying yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck first" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x "

Have two categories - single males and established single males (being those who've multiple verifications, pictures, well written profiles and generally proven themselves to be serious about swinging) who can be filtered separately, I've lost track of the number of womens profiles I've come across stating that they ARE seeking single males but are overwhelmed and unimpressed with the quantity and quality of the messages they're receiving, thus have become frustrated and blocked ALL of them - causing more frustration amongst those single males who may well have been just the kind she was seeking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us saying yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck first" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x "

Stop moaning

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract


"Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us saying yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck first" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x

Have two categories - single males and established single males (being those who've multiple verifications, pictures, well written profiles and generally proven themselves to be serious about swinging) who can be filtered separately, I've lost track of the number of womens profiles I've come across stating that they ARE seeking single males but are overwhelmed and unimpressed with the quantity and quality of the messages they're receiving, thus have become frustrated and blocked ALL of them - causing more frustration amongst those single males who may well have been just the kind she was seeking."
and thats the problem for me ive met too many wankers on here so given up with it all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"even with verifications they can still be wank##s so how can you find genuine ones

cos even so you think are turn out not to be "

Why bother then???

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it time single guys got some sort of rating .. 4 single guys contacted us yesterday asking for a meet. After protracted messages dispite us saying yes one suddenly had a call out at work another after inviting him to a club (Neutual ground and safe for all) said "should we meet and have a fuck foirst" another "If we meet will you suck my hard cock" another wanted to meet during the day only because his lodger (Wife) was home tonight and he did want to leave them alone in the house FFS !! There some lovely genuine singles but an large number if w**kers. Rant over x "

Yes, absolutely yes xx

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Mostly married but playing away

Or they've lied and put someone else's pic on their profile

I've got commitments and can only meet a certain times but I would be upfront from the start and wouldn't piss people about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha its so funny I've just stumbled across this! I've just been filtering through our inbox and noticed a couple of messages from the same bloke so dropped him a message to say hi... Then got told we're dirty f*ckin mancs and we have a shit football team! Nice to see all the genuine single guys standing up for themselves and not letting idiots like the one I've just spoke to ruin it for you all! Good luck lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We put a meet up and out of 14 saying they were coming 5 turned up, sometimes life out of here gets in the way or they may have got cold feet and decided against it even so it's their choice,just keep looking you might find some lovely men like we did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met a lot of fantastic guys - only been stood up properly once ( I'm on my way but never came ) - silent treatment on day of meet about three times - only one guy didnt look pics - once left in pub as refused to go back and have sex there and then and two were not great sexual experiences. However I've met a LOT of guys socially, in clubs and playing ( almost all under 25) and the rest have been fab so the percentage is very low. I never do naked or sex pics or vids and never engage in detailed sex talk. I find these are the best filters of all to sort out the time waster / fantasists from the genuine guys.

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