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"Im sure there are - my mate likes big built stock but very tall bald guys - aged 50 plus - the total complete opposite of what I look for ! Lol x I always say - there is someone for everyone on Fab " MILFY You are the bomb! | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys" I prefer somewhere in between | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between " And detective hottie bottie you are explosive too. Sorry for hijacking the thread | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between " like moi | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between like moi " I would happily be the filling in a you & naughty pirate sandwich | |||
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"Seems nobody likes us fat guys boo hoo!" I am no stick insect but having looked at your pics you dont look that big to me | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys" where yes it is a question... it is almost a bit defeatist...... it almost suggests that you think people only make their decisions on how a person looks size wise... and yes there are people who will reject on that basis.. its preference... but there also a lot more people out there where it may play some factor, and some where it will play none..... there are so many other selling points you have than just size... some I may like, some I detest... but sell "you" to your best ability.... I am a lump... i am not afraid to admit it... my fan club may not be as big as others... but you know what! conentrate on those people who like you... rather than those who are not going to at all... fight the battles you can win.... you are not going to be able to change everyones mind so why try! all that time spent trying to convince people who will always so no can be use to better purposes elsewhere..... | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys where yes it is a question... it is almost a bit defeatist...... it almost suggests that you think people only make their decisions on how a person looks size wise... and yes there are people who will reject on that basis.. its preference... but there also a lot more people out there where it may play some factor, and some where it will play none..... there are so many other selling points you have than just size... some I may like, some I detest... but sell "you" to your best ability.... I am a lump... i am not afraid to admit it... my fan club may not be as big as others... but you know what! conentrate on those people who like you... rather than those who are not going to at all... fight the battles you can win.... you are not going to be able to change everyones mind so why try! all that time spent trying to convince people who will always so no can be use to better purposes elsewhere....." you always talk sense fella. I agree 100% | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between like moi I would happily be the filling in a you & naughty pirate sandwich " mmmm and what a tasty filling you would make | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between like moi I would happily be the filling in a you & naughty pirate sandwich mmmm and what a tasty filling you would make " | |||
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"Im sure there are - my mate likes big built stock but very tall bald guys - aged 50 plus - the total complete opposite of what I look for ! Lol x I always say - there is someone for everyone on Fab " giz 'er number | |||
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"if I did a 30 mile radius search now I reckon I'd find at least 10 Size 16+ women making stipulations about toned, muscly men preferred" Doesn't mean they're going to get them though. | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between " I'm inbetween Kent and Scotland | |||
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"Want to perv on the big guys pics....sigh !" If you would let a 29 year old message you then you can lol | |||
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"if I did a 30 mile radius search now I reckon I'd find at least 10 Size 16+ women making stipulations about toned, muscly men preferred Doesn't mean they're going to get them though." Their veris suggest otherwise | |||
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"if I did a 30 mile radius search now I reckon I'd find at least 10 Size 16+ women making stipulations about toned, muscly men preferred Doesn't mean they're going to get them though. Their veris suggest otherwise" Supply and demand - guys outnumber women on here, hence women are able to be more picky than the former. If a fit athletic guy doesn't find larger women attractive however, then he's not going to meet them, regardless of who is and isn't available. | |||
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"if I did a 30 mile radius search now I reckon I'd find at least 10 Size 16+ women making stipulations about toned, muscly men preferred Doesn't mean they're going to get them though. Their veris suggest otherwise Supply and demand - guys outnumber women on here, hence women are able to be more picky than the former. If a fit athletic guy doesn't find larger women attractive however, then he's not going to meet them, regardless of who is and isn't available." I've always been able to be picky!!! My ex was 10 years younger, slim and (to my mind) gorgeous. | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between " and what a hottie bottie it is too. Phew it's hot in here xx | |||
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"the thread is really infuriating me... not the subject as such, but the defeatism in it... so time to be blunt...... size is one factor is someone selection process... it is not the be all and end all.... if you think that is a negative in you.... play up the positives.... the site gives you a million and one ways of doing that.... use all of them.... use some of them.... use none of them.... but please don't use it as some sort of "crutch" to say.. my god i am blameless... its everyone elses.... those mean people (i am so tempted to say nasty pastys!!) the onus is on YOU to make people see the best YOU you can be..... show people you are different, give people other reasons to say "Wow, I must meet that person!!!" its too easy to blame the things going on around yourself, a lot harder to look in a mirror and say "what can I do to make myself better?, what can i do to improve myself?, what can i do to show people i am different?, what can i do??" " And this post can cover so many other subjects as well! | |||
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"if I did a 30 mile radius search now I reckon I'd find at least 10 Size 16+ women making stipulations about toned, muscly men preferred Doesn't mean they're going to get them though. Their veris suggest otherwise Supply and demand - guys outnumber women on here, hence women are able to be more picky than the former. If a fit athletic guy doesn't find larger women attractive however, then he's not going to meet them, regardless of who is and isn't available." yep, aware of all that, hence the last line in my initial post | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys" I am sure there are woman here who like you for you .. And Big ladies do well here so Big men should too theres more to a person then a size. | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guysI am sure there are woman here who like you for you .. And Big ladies do well here so Big men should too theres more to a person then a size." C'Mon Jo you know better than that ! Am not saying that all fat guys find it impossible to meet, but they do have it tougher than the 'fit' guys They, to a degree, get 1 or 2 women saying they like big guys, then more posts saying stick with it, 'there's someone out there that will fancy ya (just not me)', advised to go to a club or get yourself to a social and let your 'personality' shine thru That isn't a moan btw. It is an observation and tbh, I get it. Why should people settle for rump if they can get fillet ? | |||
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"if I did a 30 mile radius search now I reckon I'd find at least 10 Size 16+ women making stipulations about toned, muscly men preferred Doesn't mean they're going to get them though. Their veris suggest otherwise Supply and demand - guys outnumber women on here, hence women are able to be more picky than the former. If a fit athletic guy doesn't find larger women attractive however, then he's not going to meet them, regardless of who is and isn't available. yep, aware of all that, hence the last line in my initial post" Hardly 'weird and wonderful' though is it? It actually makes perfect sense, if the ratios of males to females were closer to 50/50, then chunkier guys would have a far similar chance of being able to find slim, youthful girls to swing with as 16+ women currently have to find toned, muscular guys - my original point was that regardless of the ratios, people wouldn't swing together if there wasn't some attraction. | |||
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"Big 17stone 11 lump here with a fat ass too." Your pic doesn't tell that story. Don't put yourself down, you obviously carry your weight well. | |||
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"Seems nobody likes us fat guys boo hoo!" Lip up fatty... | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between I'm inbetween Kent and Scotland " | |||
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"I like someone to cuddle don't like guys too slim or with too many muscles " Mmmmmm | |||
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"Nothing wrong with big guys more weight to pound it in with and no worries of breaking them in half when I ride them too hard lol plus its more about if we get on with them than the size " Breaking me in half lol! I almost like the sound of that! | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys where yes it is a question... it is almost a bit defeatist...... it almost suggests that you think people only make their decisions on how a person looks size wise... and yes there are people who will reject on that basis.. its preference... but there also a lot more people out there where it may play some factor, and some where it will play none..... there are so many other selling points you have than just size... some I may like, some I detest... but sell "you" to your best ability.... I am a lump... i am not afraid to admit it... my fan club may not be as big as others... but you know what! conentrate on those people who like you... rather than those who are not going to at all... fight the battles you can win.... you are not going to be able to change everyones mind so why try! all that time spent trying to convince people who will always so no can be use to better purposes elsewhere....." Well said | |||
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"Big 17stone 11 lump here with a fat ass too." look hot to me | |||
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"This topic has given me some confidence about me being me and not how big i am, right ladys where are you?????" Haha I'm on the lookout too! | |||
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"Big 17stone 11 lump here with a fat ass too.look hot to me " wow you look even hotter yourself.x | |||
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"Over 16 stone of Yorkshire man here for your delectation " careful what you wish for | |||
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"You cant beat a bit of prime british beef " You're not so bad yourself love! | |||
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"Over 16 stone of Yorkshire man here for your delectation " Cor | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guys I prefer somewhere in between " I like to get in between! | |||
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"As long as he's fit enough to fuck I don't care what size a man is" here here I always feel more pressure with super fit/good lookin blokes...gimme joe average anyday.. | |||
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" Hardly 'weird and wonderful' though is it? It actually makes perfect sense, if the ratios of males to females were closer to 50/50, then chunkier guys would have a far similar chance of being able to find slim, youthful girls to swing with as 16+ women currently have to find toned, muscular guys ." Not so - on dating sites where the number of women far outstrips the number of men available I get almost exclusively young toned men chasing me, despite the recently accentuated curves! Evolutionally I think women are more hardwired to seek tone and men roundy bits as befits our differing cave dwelling roles! | |||
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"Can't speak for everyone but I think attraction is on a whole person, big, small, short or tall. We all have our preferences but wouldn't discount anyone on one thing." Would love to think that this would be the ideal for a site that everyone would be judged the same ? But ! Most don't even seem to judge by looking at profiles ? So I can't see how that quote works ? Unless I'm just in the wrong place with the wrong attitude and seem to care about others feelings !! | |||
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"Nothing wrong with big guys more weight to pound it in with and no worries of breaking them in half when I ride them too hard lol plus its more about if we get on with them than the size " Yep definitely no breaking me in half... I know I'm a big guy but that doesn't get me down I know there will be some people on here who like a cuddly guy and others who won't... I just gotta find the ones who do | |||
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"You cant beat a bit of prime british beef " Irish rump here I just checked my bmi apparently i am either 8ft 7ins or dead | |||
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"Any women on here interested in the bigger man or just the muscle bound gym guysI am sure there are woman here who like you for you .. And Big ladies do well here so Big men should too theres more to a person then a size. C'Mon Jo you know better than that ! Am not saying that all fat guys find it impossible to meet, but they do have it tougher than the 'fit' guys They, to a degree, get 1 or 2 women saying they like big guys, then more posts saying stick with it, 'there's someone out there that will fancy ya (just not me)', advised to go to a club or get yourself to a social and let your 'personality' shine thru That isn't a moan btw. It is an observation and tbh, I get it. Why should people settle for rump if they can get fillet ?" people should be themselves no matter of size ...... we need to be true to who we are . | |||
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