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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not a natural Dom or indeed overly assertive, but a woman I have been playing with for some time has hinted she would like to experiment a little and spice things up in that direction. To date we've been have fairly vanilla sex with lots of me licking her pussy.

So I guess I'm after tips and suggestions for things to maybe try ... ?! I know she's read the 50 shades books and told me apart from pain it all turns her on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Above all you need to be confident or at least act it. Before you do anything work out in your head what you going to do and how.

So say you want her to suck you off. You can tell her to go on her knees, bind her hands behind her back, grab her hair and tell her you are ganna fuck her mouth but you're going to start slow. Tease her with your cock. Make her look at you. Look arrogant. Like she should be greatful she gets to suck your cock.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, that sounds good advice sexysubmissive. I guess posting here is me already thinking I need to have planned some ideas at least, and then maybe go with the flow depending how things develop. Should I make her swallow my cum do you think? Would an assertion that she's sucking to completion and swallowing be a turn on even if she might not ordinarily?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very dom and all i do is go with the flow, i respect her in every single way (dom and rape play is fine but it has to be respectful deep down lol) but then she is MY slut to do with as i please and use and abuse till she can't take any more ......then give more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It takes some time to build up that kind of trusting relationship to allow use, abuse? I assume?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Above all you need to be confident or at least act it. Before you do anything work out in your head what you going to do and how.

So say you want her to suck you off. You can tell her to go on her knees, bind her hands behind her back, grab her hair and tell her you are ganna fuck her mouth but you're going to start slow. Tease her with your cock. Make her look at you. Look arrogant. Like she should be greatful she gets to suck your cock.

Hope that helps. "

It helped me get a a tad excited

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