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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have had three meets lately where men have turned up and won't get within three feet of me without a condom. Fair enough, I agree with safe sex.

However, in all three cases, they have demanded that I supply the condom as they have not bought any with them, remembering this is an arranged meet. When told that I don't consider it my responsibility to supply such things for them, I get abuse.

My philosophy is simple, I arrange the meet for them, I drive to their area, I'm giving them what they want, the least they can do is spend £1 on a condom! Am I wrong?

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By *erseysideridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

up to them 2 supply condom,,they haven't got much respect if they dnt supply ,,,how do u no the size they want 4 comfort ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally right.

Takes two to tango, its the least they can do bar give the lady a good time

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Have had three meets lately where men have turned up and won't get within three feet of me without a condom. Fair enough, I agree with safe sex.

However, in all three cases, they have demanded that I supply the condom as they have not bought any with them, remembering this is an arranged meet. When told that I don't consider it my responsibility to supply such things for them, I get abuse.

My philosophy is simple, I arrange the meet for them, I drive to their area, I'm giving them what they want, the least they can do is spend £1 on a condom! Am I wrong?"

I consider it a joint responsibility - I would generally expect both parties to have condoms, unless previously agreed otherwise (eg: one person has said they'll provide particular ones down to personal preference).

'Giving them what they want' is a strange turn of phrase, imo - surely it's meant to be a mutually beneficial/ pleasurable arrangement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask before meeting. If they have some great. If not I take my own. Can't understand any one not wanting to even try and not play safe!!

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


" I don't consider it my responsibility to supply such things for them"

It's not supplying it for 'them' - it's about looking out for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If guys dont turn up with condoms in clubs it annoys me as shows their lack of wanting safer sex. Ive actually pretended I havent got any and walked out. However on saying that I always supply condoms on meets as I get bundles from the clinic and know they are good etc and have a variety of sizes x I tell the guys in advance I have loads of condoms and a bottle of red will do instead lol x

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By *ingerjo_leeCouple
over a year ago

swinton

I only give condoms out if the cock is worth it lol but in a way your best to supply your own then you know your safe then and the condom hasn't been messed with

Same when a guy buys a condom from a club then asks for money back because he hadn't used it they get a polite sorry don't do refunds lol

Thanks jo

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise"

what would make you insist on a condom?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise"

On what planet is that relevant? I doubt her looks decide whether the guys choose to wear a condom or not...

I am just glad to hear that these men are taking their sexual health seriously. x

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

In response to the O.P, yes, we find it cheeky when ANYONE turns up without condoms, unless it has been previously agreed that we will supply them and they will bring a bottle of wine or something...

At the end of the day, we will always supply our own (We know they are in date and haven't been tampered with then!) but it says a lot about a person's attitude to safe sex when they turn up without anyway. x

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Chester

I personally think the onus is on the man to supply the condoms. Be for a meet I've had women/couples say they've got condoms but I never expect as I regard it that we men should already have some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise

what would make you insist on a condom?"

If she had two heads and seven arms, would make me a bit cautious..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just about " giving him" what he wants, its also about " him " giving you what you want too.

Both parties should be in supply.

Her

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I generally keep 4 in my pocket,I went out last weekend and took 8 just incase my mate needed any or incase I needed em all..... The girl I was meeting sounds like she wants it all night. But I didnt use any,it was the wrong time of the month. This doesnt put me off but she wasnt up for it

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Same when a guy buys a condom from a club then asks for money back because he hadn't used it they get a polite sorry don't do refunds lol"

It should surprise me that guys do this. Sadly, it doesn't..!

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise

what would make you insist on a condom?

If she had two heads and seven arms, would make me a bit cautious.."

Touchè... Although think of the gangbang possibilities! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you had some pics on your profile we could see why they insist on using condoms and we could then give you some advise

what would make you insist on a condom?

If she had two heads and seven arms, would make me a bit cautious..

Touchè... Although think of the gangbang possibilities! x"

Hell yeah , lol

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