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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We allways shower before a meet,but after having a drink and chatting we allways freshen up before we play,but have found lots of people dont,are we right to freshen up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've found lots of people don't?! Where do you go? I'd like to note to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes never stop it is vital

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cant name them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We allways shower before a meet,but after having a drink and chatting we allways freshen up before we play,but have found lots of people dont,are we right to freshen up "
yes very much so it's only what you would like to expect on a meet.

If people don't it puts me off big time.

Wet wipes are always handy, there is no excuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we think so to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We allways shower before a meet,but after having a drink and chatting we allways freshen up before we play,but have found lots of people dont,are we right to freshen up "

Absolutely

It's a respect thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we allways have them in our bags x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my wife allways smells lovely and fresh down below thats why i am allways there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God why wouldn't you lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god yes, always be clean, it's quite rude and very unsexy not to be. When we go clubbing we always arrive fresh and squeeky clean. Mr D thinks its hilarious but I carry a little kit in my handbag with a gentle intimate wash, deodorant and of course mouth freshener for during the course of the evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God why wouldn't you lol !! "

Well that's what I think. Can't believe this is actually a discussion!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well done to your wife and her little bag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who doesn't get a shower before a meet first thing you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God why wouldn't you lol !!

Well that's what I think. Can't believe this is actually a discussion!"

Indeed !!

It's like I always wash my hair before the hair dressers lol

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"God why wouldn't you lol !! "

After seeing your profile I thought the same about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who doesn't get a shower before a meet first thing you do "
Iv met a few guys and clearly they think deoderant is not needed!

And don't get me started on sweaty balls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God why wouldn't you lol !!

After seeing your profile I thought the same about you "

Hee hee cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always keep wet wipes and feminine wash along with deodorant with me to freshen up before and during fun.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if they didn't, they would be told to go...

I don't do stinking orifices

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"God why wouldn't you lol !!

After seeing your profile I thought the same about you

Hee hee cheeky"

I couldn't help it, the option to write it was too much

Although its spot on as your profile caused multiple vists

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Always keep wet wipes and feminine wash along with deodorant with me to freshen up before and during fun. "

Bet you got a nice sized handbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always keep wet wipes and feminine wash along with deodorant with me to freshen up before and during fun.

Bet you got a nice sized handbag "

As long as it matches my shoes

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By *oodyshere2011Man
over a year ago

Midlands


"Always keep wet wipes and feminine wash along with deodorant with me to freshen up before and during fun.

Bet you got a nice sized handbag

As long as it matches my shoes "

Good answer..... Women and men both likes someone that has matching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cant name them lol"

do it then we can avoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We allways shower before a meet,but after having a drink and chatting we allways freshen up before we play,but have found lots of people dont,are we right to freshen up "

I like you guys but what a stupid thing to say. At the least before procreation one would deem themselves clean to act.

Personal hygiene should be a given! You saying others don't?? Horrid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it .. who wants to play with someone who cant be bothered washing? Ew

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We're always freshly showered and shaved before a meet but no we wouldn't wash again after a couple of drinks and a natter!

If I've been flirting and teasing another woman then I want to taste the result when we start playing....not wet wipes

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right it goes without saying, and people who dont sort yourselves out errrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're always freshly showered and shaved before a meet but no we wouldn't wash again after a couple of drinks and a natter!

If I've been flirting and teasing another woman then I want to taste the result when we start playing....not wet wipes

Mrs Dirty "

So you go to the toilet and allow your nether regions to smell/taste of urine?

I always freshen up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't taste of wet wipes personally. I carry a tiny bottle of intimate wash, I taste of a spring bouquet pmsl. Actually I have tasted it myself to make sure it's not overpowering and it's so mild I can only taste myself if that makes sense.

I would not want to think I tasted of urine, sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Freshen up' every time

'Freshen up' to me is a shower at least, not a quick wipe of me arse n balls with a wet wipe.

I am a little erm ... OTT with eliminating 'personal smells'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always give me willy a dunk in the washing up bowl before a meet . Love that fairy liquid smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no excuse for poor personal hygiene. I can't abide stinkers, avoid them like the plague!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Freshen up' every time

'Freshen up' to me is a shower at least, not a quick wipe of me arse n balls with a wet wipe.

I am a little erm ... OTT with eliminating 'personal smells'"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no excuse for poor personal hygiene. I can't abide stinkers, avoid them like the plague!"
How do you know they are stinkers till you have met them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no excuse for poor personal hygiene. I can't abide stinkers, avoid them like the plague! How do you know they are stinkers till you have met them "

The carrier bags for shoes and beard with food in can be an ominous portent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no excuse for poor personal hygiene. I can't abide stinkers, avoid them like the plague! How do you know they are stinkers till you have met them

The carrier bags for shoes and beard with food in can be an ominous portent."

As is the cloud of flies above their head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my tuppence worth. There is nothing worse, for me, than going down on a lady and getting bits of toilet paper in your mouth. Equally so though the taste of intimate wash or deoderant on a lady is equally as off putting. Use some common sense. Nothing wrong with a clean natural taste.

John

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have a bath and shave, ect an hour before going out, then let my natural smell shine lol

I wouldn't use wipes or deodorant down there, takes me back to when the ex, up to no good too, thought I couldn't smell another woman lol.

But keep myself tip top.

Her

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"We're always freshly showered and shaved before a meet but no we wouldn't wash again after a couple of drinks and a natter!

If I've been flirting and teasing another woman then I want to taste the result when we start playing....not wet wipes

Mrs Dirty

So you go to the toilet and allow your nether regions to smell/taste of urine?

I always freshen up!"

I understand and agree with you mrs dirty. Of course I assume that any visit to the toilet wouldn't just be left. A quick wash is appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry femfresh wipes for before,during (when giving the guy a rest lol) and after hate the thought of smelling unclean

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Keeping clean yes and yes again after going to the loo but eliminating all natural clean sex smell is for me OTT and a turn off. I like the smell of natural juices

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keeping clean yes and yes again after going to the loo but eliminating all natural clean sex smell is for me OTT and a turn off. I like the smell of natural juices

Mrs Dirty "

Those natural juice are still there and will emerge very quickly when turned on.

Women often go through their teens being told their genitals smell unpleasant and it goes on through adult life. Even our natural lubricant is described as discharge? What a horrible word.

Yes it might be a hangup but I will go on being OCD and feeling I'm as clean as possible rather than worrying if I smell of piss, which is what can happen when people don't bother, as I have discovered from my own personal experience.

Given the choice between piss and a neutral taste I'll take neutral.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"We allways shower before a meet,but after having a drink and chatting we allways freshen up before we play,but have found lots of people dont,are we right to freshen up "

Of course you are right. Well done.

Peeps who don't are the biggest turn off urrrgh.

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