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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When the person you've been chatting to and planning to meet sends you a face pic and you realise you know them!

Anyone else had this?

Getting on great, he seems nice and normal (traits uncommon on Fab!), sent me a face pic and realised he is a teacher at my daughters school!!

AWKWARD

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

Always a potential issue in a small community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us once and I felt sick. Almost scared us off swinging for good. Decided to just admit we knew them, swore to secrecy and declined to message/meet. Theres plenty more fish!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Both here for the same reason as long as discretion is key!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, years ago...it was my brother in law

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully its never happened and not sure how I'd handle it if it did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the person you've been chatting to and planning to meet sends you a face pic and you realise you know them!

Anyone else had this?

Getting on great, he seems nice and normal (traits uncommon on Fab!), sent me a face pic and realised he is a teacher at my daughters school!!

AWKWARD "

Hmmmmmm Use it to get your daughter better grades!

OK, seriously, you could go through with it as he'd be just as worried about keeping things hush-hush as you or simply block and move on. Your both adults so as long as you're sensible, it should be fine.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"When the person you've been chatting to and planning to meet sends you a face pic and you realise you know them!

Anyone else had this?

Getting on great, he seems nice and normal (traits uncommon on Fab!), sent me a face pic and realised he is a teacher at my daughters school!!

AWKWARD "

two ways to approach it - be honest and tell him who you are or dont post a thread where he might be able to find out you know him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one of my sons old school friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So are you going to meet him x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think going ahead with a meet would be playing too close to home, not sure whether I should admit that my daughters go to his school and have it awkward or just to say no thanks sorry and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Single guy sent his face pic and he sat two desks from me at work. Luckily we hadn't sent our pics to him so we just said he wasn't what we were looking for. It really spooked us and especially for single guys that's why we always get pics first now.

Does make you think though how many people you know are secretly doing it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I think going ahead with a meet would be playing too close to home, not sure whether I should admit that my daughters go to his school and have it awkward or just to say no thanks sorry and block "

he is obviously not bothered about playing close to home. If it bothers you - move on, but try to be normal at parents eve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were communicating with a local couple and swapped pics.

The guy was spitting image of Kate's brother so we explained and said "no thanks"

Then there was a couple where the lady looked like one of Kate's mates, so that one went up the Swanny too

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By *hooWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yep, years ago...it was my brother in law "

Lol.. did you tell your sister?

I had an ex message me. I don't know if he recognised the boobs or just liked the profile description. I never responded to it I just deleted the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a lot to be said for arranging meets out of your local area. I think it would be too risky for both of you. Though if you have a teacher/pupil fetish could work out just fine!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saw an old school mate's girlfriend here. One of those "it's the quiet ones" momemts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exchanged pics with a cpl and turned out D and the make half work at the same place and the wife had used to work there too. All very cool about it and Daz and the male partner agreed neither would say anything at work and they haven't, and it hasn't caused any problems there. We saw them at clubs a cpl of times and I even had a little play with the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really spooked us and especially for single guys that's why we always get pics first now.

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Why just single guys??? Oh sorry! I forgot couples are higher up the food chain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It really spooked us and especially for single guys that's why we always get pics first now.

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Why just single guys??? Oh sorry! I forgot couples are higher up the food chain! "

You've only just realised

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we were messaged on another site by a colleague of mine and we're 99.9% certain that a friend of one of our kids contacted us too, blocked them both.

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By *amcpl4FUNCouple
over a year ago

St Austell

I ( Mr) met a couple who were work colleagues at a club once. We acknowledged each other and agreed to go to different parts of the club after discretion was assured. After all they were there for the same thing as us.

It was never mentioned outside the club. Which was good enough for us.

But I would have just loved to have fucked the arse off her.....Ohhh well

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Had this happen was a second cousin messaging me blocked that one. Second one was a ex work colleague who i always fancied so worked out perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had the girl who to babysit me :-S blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happened to us once,after a few messages we asked for a face pic. turned out was a friend of the parents lol

even tho he's a good looking guy,we said sorry not fir us,we was gob smacked

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