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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for the guys, do you like a lady that squirts? Sometimes feel a bit embarassed about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think squirting is brilliant, who cares what the guy thinks!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

enbarressed .... why ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gets a bit messy, need bath towel !

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

Squirting doesn't always mean a woman has orgasmed, a mistake men often make.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting doesn't always mean a woman has orgasmed, a mistake men often make."

Was just wondering what it had to do with a female orgasm

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

on their bed: don't mind it but it does nowt for me.

on my bed: no fucking way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Works as orgasm for me, guess we're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting is not an orgasm

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

At lot of guys make it the main aim of a meet, to make a woman squirt. I know exactly when a guy starts to do it and it is a major turn off for me. If it happens naturally during play, fine, but otherwise is game off! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting is not orgasm. I'd be gutted to discover a bloke had a fascination with squirting at a meet. My orgasms are whole body shuddering affairs and I'd rather a bloke concentrates on mutual pleasure than being determined to make me squirt (and cause me discomfort) because he thinks he needs to see an obvious result of his efforts, even if that result isn't pleasurable.

Sorry for the rant folks but this has happened to me and it was horrible.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Squirting doesn't always mean a woman has orgasmed, a mistake men often make.

Was just wondering what it had to do with a female orgasm "

Yup. And some men give up after seeing a woman gush/squirt because they think 'job done' leaving you dissatisfied.

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By *ady_CuntaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Squirting doesn't always mean a woman has orgasmed, a mistake men often make."

yes exactly....ty! glad someone mentioned that, you can hack at my g spot all you want fellas it'll make me squirt but I wont orgasm..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often advise my meets to bring the tenna lady....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting is not orgasm. I'd be gutted to discover a bloke had a fascination with squirting at a meet. My orgasms are whole body shuddering affairs and I'd rather a bloke concentrates on mutual pleasure than being determined to make me squirt (and cause me discomfort) because he thinks he needs to see an obvious result of his efforts, even if that result isn't pleasurable.

Sorry for the rant folks but this has happened to me and it was horrible."

me too. I now feel I have to forbid a man to do it after telling a man it's not a nice feeling. He tried to prove me wrong

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By *aughty monkey31Man
over a year ago

Walsall

There does seem to be an obsession with guys on Fab trying to make women squirt, guess they think they've made the woman orgasm but I know my missus prefers clitoral simulation to achieve orgasm so don't bother trying to make her squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me i think its erotic if it just happens...but due to it becoming popular I bet there's loads of men that go at it like they're in turkey stuffing competition whilst the woman is thinking please just lick the finger and rub gently !!!

Maybe women should start fingering the guys japs eye until he pisses himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't bother me i think its erotic if it just happens...but due to it becoming popular I bet there's loads of men that go at it like they're in turkey stuffing competition whilst the woman is thinking please just lick the finger and rub gently !!!

Maybe women should start fingering the guys japs eye until he pisses himself "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't bother me i think its erotic if it just happens...but due to it becoming popular I bet there's loads of men that go at it like they're in turkey stuffing competition whilst the woman is thinking please just lick the finger and rub gently !!!

Maybe women should start fingering the guys japs eye until he pisses himself "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't bother me i think its erotic if it just happens...but due to it becoming popular I bet there's loads of men that go at it like they're in turkey stuffing competition whilst the woman is thinking please just lick the finger and rub gently !!!

Maybe women should start fingering the guys japs eye until he pisses himself "

I suggested that before. Or use a sounding rod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dose it not all depend on the lady in the end? I have a regular who squirts like hell when she orgasms but not the others. Iv been told for a lot of women orgasm is much deeper than just a good fuck but if im wrong pointers would be great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dose it not all depend on the lady in the end? I have a regular who squirts like hell when she orgasms but not the others. Iv been told for a lot of women orgasm is much deeper than just a good fuck but if im wrong pointers would be great

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Yeah but here's the point. We know orgasm (unless something is very wrong) is pleasurable for women. Squirting is certainly not pleasurable for all women. Why therefore would you pursue making a woman squirt over trying to make her climax without asking? I'd never try clumsy tricks with a mans body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I understand that I guess its down to (sorry for not standing up for us men) our ignorance and basic understanding. This makes a good point simply as most have said most men are in the mind thay squirt is orgasm. Rather than getting to know what their person likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish that it squirting/gushing wasn't seen as some sort of trophy for some guys, they seem to go hell for leather to achieve that. I would much prefer to relax and have a mutually pleasurable time and a toe curling orgasm or two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squirting isn't for me but if that's what a woman wants ,that's what the woman gets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say that I adore women who squirt/gush, however there's a train of thought that 1 in 10 women can naturally ejaculate when orgasming...however there's 'fail-proof tricks' (which are well documented in porn) that can make ANY woman squirt...

IMHO, squirt/gush shouldn't be sought-after purposely...if it happens, great! If not, generous lovers should ALWAYS know if you did enough to make your partner orgasm, without squirt/gush as your 'badge of honour'....differentiate orgasm & squirt...& in the future if you're lucky, the two may meet together occasionally & you'll be the richer for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to say that I adore women who squirt/gush, however there's a train of thought that 1 in 10 women can naturally ejaculate when orgasming...however there's 'fail-proof tricks' (which are well documented in porn) that can make ANY woman squirt...

IMHO, squirt/gush shouldn't be sought-after purposely...if it happens, great! If not, generous lovers should ALWAYS know if you did enough to make your partner orgasm, without squirt/gush as your 'badge of honour'....differentiate orgasm & squirt...& in the future if you're lucky, the two may meet together occasionally & you'll be the richer for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting is not orgasm. I'd be gutted to discover a bloke had a fascination with squirting at a meet. My orgasms are whole body shuddering affairs and I'd rather a bloke concentrates on mutual pleasure than being determined to make me squirt (and cause me discomfort) because he thinks he needs to see an obvious result of his efforts, even if that result isn't pleasurable.

Sorry for the rant folks but this has happened to me and it was horrible."

Goal focussed sex seems to be something that has come from watching porn, pity, as it takes out the passion and pleasure.

I suffered the same, I find BJ's a nice feeling if done gently, teasing, licking length, playing with precum soaked tip. I rarely cum that way .. One meet I had was going at my hard cock like sone sort of pile driver with teeth ... Rapid, hard sucking, .... So uncomfortable and skin pulled hard back ... She even said "cum on you fucker" ... Erection lost, passion lost ... Recovered and ended fine, but goal focussed sex is missing so much of what can be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, by the way I do love being squirted on ... Especially tongue ... Mmmm so don't be embarrassed, its great to know you feel so good you can let go ... But its not something I would strive to get as reward for effort ... Great sex is not like that its about giving pleasure not taking it .. In my humble opinion. (waiting for flames now!!)

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By *preadeagleCouple
over a year ago

hull

I do squirt and hate it I hold off for as long as I can but I had a stage of no meets because its a pain in the ass to be quite honest I dont mind if its done while having sex but if a bloke intentionally goes for just that I go home simple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do squirt and hate it I hold off for as long as I can but I had a stage of no meets because its a pain in the ass to be quite honest I dont mind if its done while having sex but if a bloke intentionally goes for just that I go home simple x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a massive turn on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, have only just achieved this ability. I also agree that clitoral orgasm is somewhat more intense but both together is sensational for me. It gives me an amazing calm & liberated feeling afterwards, almost like I'm on drugs - I believe this is caused by the surge in dopamine that is released. To be honest this sense if fulfilment only happens with my partner so it is likely to be linked to our 'emotional attachment' to each other as well xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wanted to meet a woman who squirts not happened yet though. Im all for it.

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By *untimeanytimeMan
over a year ago

kings lynn


"Question for the guys, do you like a lady that squirts? Sometimes feel a bit embarassed about it "

Never feel embarassed about it everyones body works differently if people dont like it thats their problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i just say, everyone is different.

if, for the OP she orgasms when she squirts, or vice versa, then who are any of us to dispute it?

V squirts, but its a cum, not an orgasm.

however, i like a squirter.

usually tastes lovely too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some thought provoking replies. Agree that orgasm can be an attitude as hold back if not comfortable. Feels pretty amazing to me anyway!,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think squirting is brilliant, who cares what the guy thinks!! "

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes


"Squirting is not orgasm. I'd be gutted to discover a bloke had a fascination with squirting at a meet. My orgasms are whole body shuddering affairs and I'd rather a bloke concentrates on mutual pleasure than being determined to make me squirt (and cause me discomfort) because he thinks he needs to see an obvious result of his efforts, even if that result isn't pleasurable.

Sorry for the rant folks but this has happened to me and it was horrible."

Me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting is not an orgasm "
...and we don't all need towels lol - I'm a 'delicate' squirter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think squirting is brilliant, who cares what the guy thinks!! "

and its always the guys who get called selfish when it comes to sex!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"It doesn't bother me i think its erotic if it just happens...but due to it becoming popular I bet there's loads of men that go at it like they're in turkey stuffing competition whilst the woman is thinking please just lick the finger and rub gently !!!

Maybe women should start fingering the guys japs eye until he pisses himself "

Haha that made me wince.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it's a strange obsession. We were at a party a few years ago. This guy Guaranteed he could make a girl squirt and fair do's I could see his technique worked every time, I dunno. It all seemed so mechanical and not exactly rocket science. He did bang on about it a lot though and seemed to have a little queue formed in one of the bedrooms. LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jane cums and squirts all at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squirting doesn't always mean a woman has orgasmed, a mistake men often make.

Was just wondering what it had to do with a female orgasm

Yup. And some men give up after seeing a woman gush/squirt because they think 'job done' leaving you dissatisfied. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Question for the guys, do you like a lady that squirts? Sometimes feel a bit embarassed about it "

I have no problem with women who gush or squirt infact sometimes its a real turn on.. I put a plastic cover under the sheet to save the matures at home towel if were out so don't be embarrassed embrace it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very arousing if whomever I playing with squirts / gushes. Embrace it dont be embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bludy amazing never be embarrassed

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