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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If someone sends you up to four messages in four hours saying they want to come round do you block them?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if you find that irritating, then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would personally, and after the first if I wasn't interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you up to four messages in four hours saying they want to come round do you block them?

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can we tho'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be easy just to block them,

but i simple no thanks might be appreciated by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you up to four messages in four hours saying they want to come round do you block them?

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If you have said no and they keep pestering you report them and then block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you up to four messages in four hours saying they want to come round do you block them?

If you have said no and they keep pestering you report them and then block them "
report them for what? Being annoying?

Just block if your fed up of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes wondering if its because they have been drinking, i thought i had replied to him but it was someone else.

i have replied to him now though.

If i have told someone they arent my type then i usualy block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if some guys even remember messaging at all the times I get the same messages from the same guys

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't usually block after saying thanks but no thanks....but I had one come back and say (paraphrase) 'Oh why not, I thought I looked a bit like 'x' that you met up with last month....'

EEEWWW!!!! BLOCK!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent some at the start of the year,

If some of the women replied now i wouldn't even remeber what i said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hehe guys say that?? lol.. that would not have occurred to me to say that.. haha! tragic.. and desperate lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After gettin a few 'well your fat anyway' type messages, after sending a polite thanks but no thanks, if I'm not interested in a guy who messages, now I just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't usually block after saying thanks but no thanks....but I had one come back and say (paraphrase) 'Oh why not, I thought I looked a bit like 'x' that you met up with last month....'

EEEWWW!!!! BLOCK!!!!!!!!!"

I sometimes look at their meets to see if i have anything in common,

If they are all above 6ft i know am not for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be told to fuck off you cheeky little perv than be ignored lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if you keep getting the same messages from someone saying, when are you going to invite me round or why havnt you answered my message that can put you off people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if some guys even remember messaging at all the times I get the same messages from the same guys "

If you don't reply to their messages then the next time you try it tells them...one of the other reasons I stopped replying as the site tells them you basically weren't interested last time.

And OP, yeah I'd block...harassing me into a reply is either desperate or almost intimidating so I wouldn't be interested anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather be told to fuck off you cheeky little perv than be ignored lol "

So after sending repeated messages and being ignored you wouldn't get the hint?

Surely after sending 1st message and not getting a reply you would kind of get the hint and think they are not interested in me, I won't bother them again?!

Personally I would block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder if some guys even remember messaging at all the times I get the same messages from the same guys

If you don't reply to their messages then the next time you try it tells them...one of the other reasons I stopped replying as the site tells them you basically weren't interested last time.

And OP, yeah I'd block...harassing me into a reply is either desperate or almost intimidating so I wouldn't be interested anyway"

I reply to all first messages. If I'm not interested I say a polite no thank you then I don't reply to any further mails from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you send a thanks but no thanks message & they keep on, then yes, block. If no message was sent telling them you're not interested, then blocking is a bit below the belt. Not bothering to reply to messages in the first place is wrong. People took the time & effort to get in contact, which is why people join this site, only to be ignored. But I hear people saying "but I get 100s of messages", you joined to contact other like minded people, so you can't complain if that's what they're doing, don't punish them for it. Reading the forums, it seems that there are a lot of people who want to block people just for looking at their profile page. Blocking is supposed to be a punishment. You can't punish people for doing what you wanted in the first place, people contacting you. It's different if they can't take the hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone sends you up to four messages in four hours saying they want to come round do you block them?

"

Dora, did you ever get a Beatle for Christmas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you send a thanks but no thanks message & they keep on, then yes, block. If no message was sent telling them you're not interested, then blocking is a bit below the belt. Not bothering to reply to messages in the first place is wrong. People took the time & effort to get in contact, which is why people join this site, only to be ignored. But I hear people saying "but I get 100s of messages", you joined to contact other like minded people, so you can't complain if that's what they're doing, don't punish them for it. Reading the forums, it seems that there are a lot of people who want to block people just for looking at their profile page. Blocking is supposed to be a punishment. You can't punish people for doing what you wanted in the first place, people contacting you. It's different if they can't take the hint."

Blocking is to be used for what ever reason the person wants to use it...which for me has ranged from someone putting posts in the forum I don't like and negative status updates to stalker like messages and abuse. If I want to block someone, then I'll block them. And just because I'm on here doesn't mean I'm looking to make contact with ever other swinger who can hit send on a message. No reply means no thank you...I don't reply to all the companies that post shite through my door with a 'thanks but no thanks' message and I'm not going to reply to every message from every person who sends a fancy a fuck message from over 200 miles away.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"If you send a thanks but no thanks message & they keep on, then yes, block. If no message was sent telling them you're not interested, then blocking is a bit below the belt. Not bothering to reply to messages in the first place is wrong. People took the time & effort to get in contact, which is why people join this site, only to be ignored. But I hear people saying "but I get 100s of messages", you joined to contact other like minded people, so you can't complain if that's what they're doing, don't punish them for it. Reading the forums, it seems that there are a lot of people who want to block people just for looking at their profile page. Blocking is supposed to be a punishment. You can't punish people for doing what you wanted in the first place, people contacting you. It's different if they can't take the hint."

We block for all kinds of reasons.

Including simply because we're not remotely attracted to someone and have no interest in chatting. Sometimes we even block proactively where there's never been any prior contact.

You could argue we're doing them a favour and saving them wasting time composing a message.

Blocking is not just a 'punishment' - it can simply be a filter.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you send a thanks but no thanks message & they keep on, then yes, block. If no message was sent telling them you're not interested, then blocking is a bit below the belt. Not bothering to reply to messages in the first place is wrong. People took the time & effort to get in contact, which is why people join this site, only to be ignored. But I hear people saying "but I get 100s of messages", you joined to contact other like minded people, so you can't complain if that's what they're doing, don't punish them for it. Reading the forums, it seems that there are a lot of people who want to block people just for looking at their profile page. Blocking is supposed to be a punishment. You can't punish people for doing what you wanted in the first place, people contacting you. It's different if they can't take the hint.

We block for all kinds of reasons.

Including simply because we're not remotely attracted to someone and have no interest in chatting. Sometimes we even block proactively where there's never been any prior contact.

You could argue we're doing them a favour and saving them wasting time composing a message.

Blocking is not just a 'punishment' - it can simply be a filter.

A"

I do this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you send a thanks but no thanks message & they keep on, then yes, block. If no message was sent telling them you're not interested, then blocking is a bit below the belt. Not bothering to reply to messages in the first place is wrong. People took the time & effort to get in contact, which is why people join this site, only to be ignored. But I hear people saying "but I get 100s of messages", you joined to contact other like minded people, so you can't complain if that's what they're doing, don't punish them for it. Reading the forums, it seems that there are a lot of people who want to block people just for looking at their profile page. Blocking is supposed to be a punishment. You can't punish people for doing what you wanted in the first place, people contacting you. It's different if they can't take the hint."
blocking is not a punishment, it's a tool of the site! If iv blocked local guys before they've looked at profile, then iv saved them the waste of time that messaging me would of been. It's not wrong not to reply, fancy a fuck type messages are not worth answering.

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Only if I said no the first time around. Then I would block them. If they just kept mentioning it. I would just assume they were keen and state my intentions

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