FabSwingers.com forum: Change of sexual preferences...

By *iss_Behaving OP Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Are you set in your ways ???

Have been a member of this site for quite a while and a swinger for even longer.

Now, in all the time i have swung ( is that a word ? ) i have noticed my tastes have varied from week to week.

For example, i can go through a mad notion of meeting couples, then the next few weeks really fancying to meet up with a single guy.

The following month or so, I'm mad up for meeting with single ladies !!!!

Have noticed though going through the vary varied profiles on here that most of the users are kinda set in their ways as to what they would like to meet up with.

So, am i not a 'normal' swinger ?, if there ever was/is such a thing, or is it true, variety really is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing in change my partner is very bi.

Myself never thought of it until one night we was having and we started telling each other our fantasies.

My partner wants me to try another man so I agreed why not I'm going to like it or not.

You only live once so its best to try something new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldna say i was set in my ways, i just prefer one on one with a fella, preferably not the male half of a couple, am not bi so not into females only as mates, and not into couples cos i greedy i want all the sex the fella got in him while he with me i aint sharing on that time lol just my preferance tried others not to my taste so sticking with tried and tested and very much to my taste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact we're on this site shows our sexual tastes have evolved over the years - we all start off vanilla!

If you're bi the very nature of your sexuality means you'll have a more diverse sex life.

As a straight woman I don't find other women the least bit sexually attractive, so I'm not going to "spice up my life" that way.

My avatar shows I like to spice things up in other ways - just look what was sprawled on my dining room table yesterday!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find men attractive its the fact that my female wants me to do it to please her.

I don't know why it turns me on is that strange ?

I could never have bloke dom me but when a woman does wow what a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What it's all about, you are doing what most of us want to, good on ye, and keep it up xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand some changing but never had the inclination to do so my self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see it like fashion, always changing! see as long as your enjoyin yourself thats the main thing! x

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

We're always swapping and changing what we want

It would seem boring to me to be static with what we look for x

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By *umpingJackFlashMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near you?

"I don't find men attractive its the fact that my female wants me to do it to please her.

I don't know why it turns me on is that strange ?

I could never have bloke dom me but when a woman does wow what a turn on

Its all about the boundaries we set and whether we are prepared to push them or not. Sometimes it can be suprisingly pleasent to be "made" to do something we would usually not concider.

But I'd agree on a safeword between everyone as in my experience, in roleplaying no doesn't always mean no. Ie the sub claims no to doing something the role demands they say no to but ends up with them being "forced" to do, but the word "octopuss" stops the situation should anyone become uncomfortable. I know thats common sence to most "old hands" at the sub/Dom scene but maybe not to newbies.

It certainly wasn't common knowledge to me the first time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change!? Don't know!

But, I've moved from indifference to many BDSM practices to being much more strongly aginst it.

I'm more conscious that sexual liberation can't really contain even mild BDSM.

Maybe this'll open another thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change!? Don't know!

But, I've moved from indifference to many BDSM practices to being much more strongly aginst it.

I'm more conscious that sexual liberation can't really contain even mild BDSM.

Maybe this'll open another thread!

but if you not partaking in it what has it got to do with you really?? just curious to know?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Change!? Don't know!

But, I've moved from indifference to many BDSM practices to being much more strongly aginst it.

I'm more conscious that sexual liberation can't really contain even mild BDSM.

Maybe this'll open another thread!

That's your personal preference others may and will disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swap and change what I'm looking for and amend my profile accordingly. To someone reading it for the first time though, they wouldn't realise that so to them it might seem that I'm 'stuck in my ways' and not open to other experiences I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose the idea of swinging is to have FUN - whatever your sexual preferences might be at thet time of day! Variety is the spice of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own , whatever makes you happy me thinks . im just not into0 guys if thats set in my ways then thats me lol

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