FabSwingers.com forum: Skinny guys. Put on a bit of meat, or fine as they are?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious to see people's opinions.

I think being skinny (as a guy) may hamper potential meets slightly - but just peeking into everyone's mindset.

(Disclaimer: My profile is going to be updated later today, in case you mention it's kinda crap!)

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing wrong with skinny. If your naturally skinny stay as you. People should accept people for who they are or look elsewehere. That's a lovely cock you have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ah, thank you very much! I'm going to chuck on some slightly better photos (too many cocks spoil the broth!), but just do wonder sometimes.

I reckon muscles (at least toned) is more preferential - but that's just survival of the fittest in action, haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are quite slim (envy here) but it's how you are meant to be, I do prefer a little more muscle but you are very young and it will develop I'm sure. Too young for me but nice profile etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your build won't hamper your meets, but your mental associations with it might.

When I met JN he had terrible associations with his body. All he needed was someone to show him how to embrace it. Confidence in ones self works wonders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be who you are and embrace it. Some people will like it, some won't and want you to change...... Don't do it, concentrate on the people who like you for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it will undoubtedly hold you back wih those women who like a muscular guy. Similarly the fact you are white will probably be an issue for anyone seeking BBC and your age will be a deal breaker for those seeking older men...

The point I am making is that you will never be what everyone is looking for. And you can't influence other people's preferences. So focus on what you can offer rather than what you can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like skinny men

I prefer chunky but not muscular

I am fat so skinny isn't right I would break them and muscular isn't right because I look shit

That's my thought for the day

But others prefer skinny men

I wish I was skinny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your build won't hamper your meets, but your mental associations with it might.

When I met JN he had terrible associations with his body. All he needed was someone to show him how to embrace it. Confidence in ones self works wonders."

I dont think anyone can look in the mirror and 100% happy with thier body. But your right, sometimes it takes is someone to show and appreciate you for that confidence to appear.

And your not too skinny, you have a good base to tone up with if you ever wanted to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your build won't hamper your meets, but your mental associations with it might.

When I met JN he had terrible associations with his body. All he needed was someone to show him how to embrace it. Confidence in ones self works wonders."

Thank you. You do raise a very valid point. I don't mind my body too much (c'mon, whoever thinks they're perfect?!) - but do sometimes bring up my slimness ad I hate to give false pretenses.

Perhaps it sometimes gives the wrong.impression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like skinny guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Always a handful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, I far prefer slim blokes, so, so sexy.

Inflated muscular look does nothing for me.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I think these types of threads say a lot more about the people who start them than the people who answer then!

What would you do if every said yuck skinny... Put on 1/2/3 stone?

This says a lot more about being body conscience and the amount of confidence you have in yourself....

Just go out there and be the best "you" you can be!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I did ask as it was relating to me of course!

I'm adding a bit of bulk regardless of what goes on here, but definitely not denying I'm 100% super comfortable.

It honestly was just to see a small range of opinions and reasoning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i could tho...never been happy with my bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think these types of threads say a lot more about the people who start them than the people who answer then!

What would you do if every said yuck skinny... Put on 1/2/3 stone?

This says a lot more about being body conscience and the amount of confidence you have in yourself....

Just go out there and be the best "you" you can be!"

He's 20 Fabio.(no insult meant to you OP)

We're typically in a far different place mentally at 20 than 40.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !"

Same for one of my meets, he's six two and 11stone 6. Could kill the bastard as I watch him polish of a large pizza.

Your body is lovely by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's hard for single guys to get a meet on this site anyway so many fakes and time wasters and if you do try and put weight on its a pain in the ass trying to eat right and six meals a day type thing and gym just be yourself and persevere you will get a meet eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your disclaimer lol.

...don't worry about what others may think of your body. As long as you like it or it's you that wants to change it for yourself. Then go for it. If you do it for others - it will never be worth it.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eat well and train hard, some guys are bigger/smaller than others, but with plenty of nutritious calories and dedicated lifting, pretty much any guy can increase their muscle mass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My granddad was very skinny he could not get in the army as said to skinny and he hated it so he would eat and eat ....... and still was very skinny .. You are what you are and I hope on the inside nice too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should just be yourself. I'm not into slimmer guys but many people are. There is someone for everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !"

I've always been slim/ skinny and could eat anything I wanted but could never put weight on or get a bigger size till someone done a diet for me to eat and I realised I was eating all the wrong stuff. Managed to put on a few stone and feel healthier and better for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !"

Same here tried everything to gain weight (goodgirl)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !

Same here tried everything to gain weight (goodgirl)"
Some people would pay 1000s to never gain weight so in some way your lucky and I find we are never happy big or small at time s ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am also in the skinny group, no matter what i eat or take to try and gain mass/muscle it dosent work for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You are quite slim (envy here) but it's how you are meant to be, I do prefer a little more muscle but you are very young and it will develop I'm sure. Too young for me but nice profile etc "

agree. i think you look fine....wish i was twenty again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ever worry about how you look or who you are.... Some people will always like and some people will always dislike opinions are individual it's the way the mop flops!! Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am also in the skinny group, no matter what i eat or take to try and gain mass/muscle it dosent work for me!"
if you could bottle this up and put onto the market you would be a very rich man. stay slim no need to diet its cream cake day and chocs every day of the week. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am also in the skinny group, no matter what i eat or take to try and gain mass/muscle it dosent work for me! if you could bottle this up and put onto the market you would be a very rich man. stay slim no need to diet its cream cake day and chocs every day of the week. xx

Some people simply cant gain/lose weight no matter what they do though, check out 'somatotypes' - ectomorphs (small built) typically struggle with putting on weight, endomorphs (heavy built) tend to have a lot more trouble slimming down.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Your buggared either way... skinny and want to gain weight, chubby and want to lose weight.

It's took me to reach the grand old age of 46 (if you tell anyone that i will kill you all) to realise 'i am what i am' if people don't like it then look the other way. If i don't like it then suck it up and do something about it.

My preference is a little tum to stroke while sucking the cock of a more mature gentleman btw

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your buggared either way... skinny and want to gain weight, chubby and want to lose weight.

My preference is a little tum to stroke while sucking the cock of a more mature gentleman btw

Julie x"

Totally agree, I've had body-loathing issues since puberty. I was 38 when something clicked, my sex-life had evaporated and I thought, you're going to regret this kid of you don't change your mindset. I'm finally winning the battle with hating my body and thinking everyone else does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your buggared either way... skinny and want to gain weight, chubby and want to lose weight.

My preference is a little tum to stroke while sucking the cock of a more mature gentleman btw

Julie x"

Was going to put something like this, it's harder when you're young but it's true, you are who you are, don't change for anyone, some will like, some won't

Don't wait till you're much older to embrace yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to all the responses to this, thus far! It's true I've had weight/body image problems up to very recently... But it's really encouraging to hear that the majority of you all grow beyond the worry. Not just beneficial information to me, but anyone browsing the topic, really.

Also, especially thank you to those who have complimented

Annoying ego boost sorry, but it's comforting to here. I've been looking over your profiles and I approve muchly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

(Forgive the typos. On phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim guy here and couldn't give a shit. I can eat what I want and not exercise without putting on any weight so if you are like me, think of it more like a blessing!

As for what women prefer, some do and some don't so it doesn't really matter. I can see why some women would like a more muscular man but I wouldn't let it bother you. If you have other qualities they like I'm sure it won't stand in your way.

That's enough from me anyway, I've got to get back to eating this cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Slim guy here and couldn't give a shit. I can eat what I want and not exercise without putting on any weight so if you are like me, think of it more like a blessing!

That's enough from me anyway, I've got to get back to eating this cake."

Smug bastard

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Don't put nails in with a toffee hammer

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

makes your cock look bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Smug bastard"

Got to look in the bright side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me months to gain weight on or bulk up and one week of not eating right and i loose it again,

But a pot belly looks worse on me

so as long as i don't have one am fine with how i look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 6 pack hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

Really, not sure you've ever mentioned that before lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

Really, not sure you've ever mentioned that before lol"
Hmmm cant think I have done and yes I have, hundreds of times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just reading this thread through and I'm not seeing a skinny guy.....the thing that leaps out at me is your a decent lad, and that will serve you better through life far more than your size be you tiny or be you huge...

You get your body to however YOU are comfortable and stay a decent bloke and you won't go too far wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

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lol good have a good time.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

You is you! Be comfortable, happy and confident in yourself and that will show! Many will be attracted to that in itself! Ps, do hope you got your rino skin on with this post OP? Just remember some have opinions not all will share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to see people's opinions.

I think being skinny (as a guy) may hamper potential meets slightly - but just peeking into everyone's mindset.

(Disclaimer: My profile is going to be updated later today, in case you mention it's kinda crap!)

Thanks!

wish I was that slim again stay as u are mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

Power belly lol, much sexier than a six pack

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I like your disclaimer lol.

...don't worry about what others may think of your body. As long as you like it or it's you that wants to change it for yourself. Then go for it. If you do it for others - it will never be worth it.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

lol good have a good time."

Your invited too man....fetch your six pack

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Slim guy here and couldn't give a shit. I can eat what I want and not exercise without putting on any weight so if you are like me, think of it more like a blessing!

That's enough from me anyway, I've got to get back to eating this cake."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

Power belly lol, much sexier than a six pack

And we have our first guest...come in and help yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

lol good have a good time.

Your invited too man....fetch your six pack

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Thanks and I will bring some fanta as well and some haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was meeting i adored skinny guys

x my current bf is slim x

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

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never been able to put weight on, tried , can eat, drink anything i want,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got a 6 pack hehe

I have a whole keg! Party's over here

lol good have a good time.

Your invited too man....fetch your six pack

Thanks and I will bring some fanta as well and some haribos

Ooh. Bit of fanta for tomorrow's hangover and haribos for...well....anytime for haribo! A most welcome guest with those goodies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to stop eating cheesecake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to stop eating cheesecake!

Put the spoon down and back away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't put nails in with a toffee hammer

Don't put drawing pins in with a sledge hammer....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha, very true. I wouldn't take offense from anything that was said anyway! All a learning experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to stop eating cheesecake!

Give me a slice please!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I had no idea

Maybe eventually when I pluck up the courage I'll pop along to those famous events!

But nah, at least I know some that like it are out there!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Actually, looking at your pics I think you have accentuated your slenderness with your posture and a poor camera angle. You look from the first pic to have quite a good shoulder to waist ratio - I would delete the third and take one straight on with your shoulders back, chest up, and I bet you'll look fine.

Impressive assets too

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !"

So you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never go by BMI, i look like i'm on hunger strike when i'm in the "healthy" range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have always been a slim jim...and 'putting on a bit of meat' has never been an option for me ! Impossible & i eat like a ganet !

So you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to worry about if you're a naturally svelt chap. From a slimjim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"never go by BMI, i look like i'm on hunger strike when i'm in the "healthy" range

BMI is a total waste of time. Mine is 30.2 which makes me obese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"never go by BMI, i look like i'm on hunger strike when i'm in the "healthy" range

Sheesh...think we can see where all the meat went on you sir ! Ha...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to see people's opinions.

I think being skinny (as a guy) may hamper potential meets slightly - but just peeking into everyone's mindset.

(Disclaimer: My profile is going to be updated later today, in case you mention it's kinda crap!)

Thanks!

Lots like skinny guys I wouldn't worry just be happy with the way you are a confident guy always attracts people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"never go by BMI, i look like i'm on hunger strike when i'm in the "healthy" range

BMI is a total waste of time. Mine is 30.2 which makes me obese

Fat Free Mass Index (FFMI) is what its all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just curious to see people's opinions.

I think being skinny (as a guy) may hamper potential meets slightly - but just peeking into everyone's mindset.

(Disclaimer: My profile is going to be updated later today, in case you mention it's kinda crap!)

Thanks!

Lots like skinny guys I wouldn't worry just be happy with the way you are a confident guy always attracts people.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I like a guy with meat on his bones personally, I like quick a wide chest and shoulder to waste ratio

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like a guy with meat on his bones personally, I like quick a wide chest and shoulder to waste ratio

#waiste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm skinny..weight just doenst add on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to stop eating cheesecake!

Put the spoon down and back away! "

I can't! Its so good. Covered with double cream too.

Oh gawwwwd!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I need to stop eating cheesecake!

Put the spoon down and back away!

I can't! Its so good. Covered with double cream too.

Oh gawwwwd!

Be strong man, be strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a guy with meat on his bones personally, I like quick a wide chest and shoulder to waste ratio

Gotta work them overhead presses! *flexes*

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I like a guy with meat on his bones personally, I like quick a wide chest and shoulder to waste ratio

Gotta work them overhead presses! *flexes*"

Its good to flex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference that's all . I'm a skinny guy myself an don't have any issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you look at someone and immediately think they're too skinny it's normally because they are. You need a certain amount of body fat to have a healthy immune system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im skinny but i love being the way i am and would not want to change for anyone.Its my body and if they want to share it then they can (if i like them)and if they dont then thats fine. everybodys got there type.

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