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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X"
so you're happy to happy have you're fun girl on girl but, not that happy with you're fella having fun on his own with another women??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a common question, the real answer is just do what you guys are comfy with and enjoy yourselves, different strokes for different folks

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By *aughtyButExtraNice69Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I had this problem with my ex on here-we didnt want full swap but found finding a couple who only wanted ff play and soft swap to be near impossible!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No, not that I am not happy for him to play with another woman....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it comes to meets make sure you guys are in the driving seat and discuss with others what you want.

Your profile does not make it that clear where your preferences lie so perhaps change it to make it clearer what you are looking for.

A lot of our friends are soley soft swing or happy to do so when meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X"

We are the same as you guys and its really hard finding soft swing couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have changed our profile a bit to reflect our preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, we have found soft play couples difficult to come by.

but there are some full swap couples that are happy to play soft.

dont let anyone force you into going further than you are prepared to.

we like soft play.

personally, for us, its the best type lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be bullied into anything. Stay strong to each other and things will turn up.

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By *pikey 1Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

Well we are in Brum,

Soft Swing Couple XXxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys..nice profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys..nice profile"

See!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are.....in the main a soft swap couple. As long as we're all involved and get to enjoy the company.

We have full swapped before but would never dream of asking a couple to change their preferences to suit us.

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By *ames-victoriaCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

We are a couple and this is the guy messaging. We only want soft swap we like to keep something back thats between us

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

We (me & Kim) love soft swing as long as everyone gets to have fun, we prefer to soft swing when meeting new couples as you get to know what they really like rather than the "fuck like bunnies" stereo type swinger meet.

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Personally, I've never quite understood what soft swing is about, so I decline every time it is offered.

However, for those who find pleasure in it, like every other sexual preference under the sun I suppose you'll just have to find someone who wants what you want.

However, going by the OP's experience of struggling to find playmates, I'm guessing there isn't an abundance of soft swingers on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are.....in the main a soft swap couple. As long as we're all involved and get to enjoy the company.

We have full swapped before but would never dream of asking a couple to change their preferences to suit us. "

Diversity is what makes the scene so interesting whether certain preferences appeal to you or not, have fun and happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a couple and this is the guy messaging. We only want soft swap we like to keep something back thats between us "

that is your decision and understandable have fun and happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its a common question, the real answer is just do what you guys are comfy with and enjoy yourselves, different strokes for different folks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us but you do what your comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

those that have commented, apart from the lovely couple in ilfracombe, are local enough to go to the black country social thats being organised for next weekend

or even the coventry one thats being organised for the end of june.

take a look in the meets section and get your names down, if you are in anyway interested guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X"

We are pretty much the same as you, have been for several years, DO NOT get pushed into doing anything that you are not happy with, Yes soft swingers are harder to find, but if that's your thing, stick with it.

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By *ames-victoriaCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

Aww are we that lovely couple? Thank you x

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

just as long as you not meet anyone where your boundaries are changed at the last moment happened to me years ago my ex wanted to meet a soft swap cpl i didnt but we did and the guy fucked me ,his wife was in a different room and as she not let my ex fuck her ,my ex went ape x

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X"

You look hot.....that is our thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww are we that lovely couple? Thank you x"

no, the other one lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow....never posted on here before and have chatted to some lovely people xx

Thanks for your thoughts. ..keep them cuming! X

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

we have full swapped in the past, but after a break we have decided to start playing again soon but we only want to go down the soft swap route with the girls playing etc but ultimate with own partner

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

We only looking for soft swap we both talked about what we liked and didn't like and we have found a lovely couple that want the same thing as us so we would say take your time and do what you feel comfortable with not what people want you today as the whole thing should be enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are only soft swap too , there seems to be plenty of soft cples coming out of the wood work for this post hee hee ,

stick to your boundrys guys, the cple you are looking for is out there waiting to be found and it will be worth the wait rather than rush into a potentially bad meet that could put you off all together,

soft is erotic and horny for us

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We only soft swing and still get plenty of offers! Just stick with what your happy doing;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still so many nice messages x

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Happy to do either, soft swap can be an amazing tease, before swapping back then having sex with own partner.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We are easy. Full or soft swap. What ever the couples rules are when we meet. Definetly agree it's very horny watching 2 ladies playing and if the guys join in for soft play and full play with own partners then that is fine with us. We have had fun either way so don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're happy with full or soft swap (on our couples profile). Don't let anyone make you feel bad about what you want to do. It's supposed to be fun. x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X"

Find a couple who will take it slowly with you and understand, accept and abide by your groundrules, then when you are less nervous, you could gradually ease into full swing if you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering, as a full swing couple, have any soft swing couples ever had the urge to fuck the other soft swing couple they met?

You see, to us it would be the natural progression of things and would be against our natural instincts not to.

XXXX

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley


"When it comes to meets make sure you guys are in the driving seat and discuss with others what you want.

Your profile does not make it that clear where your preferences lie so perhaps change it to make it clearer what you are looking for.

A lot of our friends are soley soft swing or happy to do so when meeting. "
Totally agree, soft can be so much more sensual than full, it's about who we're with. Set your boundaries early, if you're comfortable, it makes for a more involved, fabulous evening. We never have a problem with soft swing, at all. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can someone explain soft swap??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've recently changed to soft swap as we're trying for a baby and we've found it an eye-opener how many people will not give you the time of day unless you're full swap or open to possible full swap. When we DID do full swap we were flexible in our play and we enjoyed many meets where we just did soft fun and it was great. For us, you don't NEED to have penetrative sex to have a good time - we think its all about the people you play with as opposed to what you necessarily do with them.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham


"We've recently changed to soft swap as we're trying for a baby and we've found it an eye-opener how many people will not give you the time of day unless you're full swap or open to possible full swap. When we DID do full swap we were flexible in our play and we enjoyed many meets where we just did soft fun and it was great. For us, you don't NEED to have penetrative sex to have a good time - we think its all about the people you play with as opposed to what you necessarily do with them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've recently changed to soft swap as we're trying for a baby and we've found it an eye-opener how many people will not give you the time of day unless you're full swap or open to possible full swap. When we DID do full swap we were flexible in our play and we enjoyed many meets where we just did soft fun and it was great. For us, you don't NEED to have penetrative sex to have a good time - we think its all about the people you play with as opposed to what you necessarily do with them."

totally agree with this...some of our hottest times have been with good friends who don't do full penetration with others...fabulous times...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Loving all the responses guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been interested in teasing & flirting, i have never been into ferry sex

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By *WcplCouple
over a year ago

Tameside

we started off with soft swing and FF play. as we became more confident an going to a club now and then, it was a natural progression to go all the way with opposite sex. You carry on as you are, you will both know when the time is right to take the next step ..... there is no rush !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bifem, girl on girl action is a real turn on for me and my guy loves to watch. Not so many soft swing couples on here...

Several hot couples have offered us full swing, but we are both nervous.

Any thoughts? X"

You do what you feel is right no more no less. We prefer full swop but would never play unless both of us were comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wondered how long it would be until people started talking about taking 'the next step'.

why does there have to be?

does always have to lead to heroin?

does shoplifting have to lead to murder?

no

of course not.

some can be more than happy to be soft swingers for the duration of their time swinging, and never even fancy doing any more.

to answer a question posted earlier about whether anyone has wanted to have sex with another soft play couple, personally, no.

from the people we have met and played with so far, not one has made either of us want to take things further, and i have been offered to take things further as its something V would like to watch.

so from our pov, no, the 'natural' feelings to have sex with someone else never come up.

we always want to have sex with each other

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Just wondering, as a full swing couple, have any soft swing couples ever had the urge to fuck the other soft swing couple they met?

You see, to us it would be the natural progression of things and would be against our natural instincts not to.

XXXX"

Yes I have but I find my partners boundaries more important than my desire to full swap. With that said, the day it becomes a problem for me, will be the day I quit the lifestyle. - Mr. B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started off soft. Everything was OK but actual penetration. I luved watching the wife eat pussy and suck cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are only soft swap too , there seems to be plenty of soft cples coming out of the wood work for this post hee hee ,

stick to your boundrys guys, the cple you are looking for is out there waiting to be found and it will be worth the wait rather than rush into a potentially bad meet that could put you off all together,

soft is erotic and horny for us "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We started off soft. Everything was OK but actual penetration. I luved watching the wife eat pussy and suck cock "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well thankfully others too are simaler to us we thought it was just us that didn't want to shag the whole of fab members , we have met others but just never happened why were not sure as we are very nervous this may not be for us we may only ever go on cam or just chat to others like this ,one couple actually said to us we have been on here now for over 6 months its about time we met them well sorry you prick we will do as we wish when we with and will only ever be soft swing or less than soft swing we still enjoy being on here and some of the pics we see on here are quite seedy were not posh but some pics of the surroundings where people are doing it knocks us back even further

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