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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey wondering from the ladies what should a first msg should be like to get your attention i try and include something from there profile to show I have read it and I don't write hey your hot like a fuck just want some advice cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

funny, witty, clever messages stand out a mile from the one liners.

I think it's a good idea to include something from their profile or status update in your message.

good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it personal to the profile there isn't a definitive first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a ball ache but one's that stand out are the people that have taken the time to tailor their message to the needs on our status or profile. However taking into account you are a single male and the competition on her we can appreciate how tiresome this could become on here not getting any replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And forget the......

Face pics

Suit pics

Unbuttoned white shirt pics

Unbuttoned jeans with naked torso pic

Body/torso pics

Bum pics, with or without pants pics

Cocks underneath boxerspics

And throbbing, glistening battle ready hard cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers I do try and put something whitty and personal but might just come across as a bit of a dick lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And forget the......

Face pics

Suit pics

Unbuttoned white shirt pics

Unbuttoned jeans with naked torso pic

Body/torso pics

Bum pics, with or without pants pics

Cocks underneath boxerspics

And throbbing, glistening battle ready hard cock pics.

"

What are you still doing on here ~ you've got work to do, those pics ain't gonna take themselves.....?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's bloody mine field on hear shows ya cock don't show ya cock never know what to send lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ps classy lady had a quick gander on your profile what's with the hammer lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers I do try and put something whitty and personal but might just come across as a bit of a dick lol "

But as long as you come across as you is the thing......I'm a right idiot, and it shows...so I just run with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ps classy lady had a quick gander on your profile what's with the hammer lol "

ah that's to keep all you cheeky single men in check!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha aslong your not some said eat :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And forget the......

Face pics

Suit pics

Unbuttoned white shirt pics

Unbuttoned jeans with naked torso pic

Body/torso pics

Bum pics, with or without pants pics

Cocks underneath boxerspics

And throbbing, glistening battle ready hard cock pics.

What are you still doing on here ~ you've got work to do, those pics ain't gonna take themselves.....?!"

Oops sorry but pant shopping does takes time

Oh and sorry OP it should have said don't forget!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldnt...but i Send the same generic message out and ive always done ok with it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Something perceptive always gets my attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing I can say is what a lady on here said to me - be yourself. If yourself then people will like you - not someone you're trying to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask "where do you stand on bareback sex"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each if us ladies are different what works for one won't for another the only advice is read the profile check you ate what they are after.then send a message to show you have read it.....hopefully you will get the reply you ate after if not say thank you then move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well if anyone fancys checking out my profile for me aswell and give some tips on anything they would change let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a look. Maybe take the grey boxer shot off and say what turns you on. Otherwise its good hunni

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers removed will write things up later

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