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"I know a couple on here who are trying to get her knocked up, met them a couple of weeks ago and declined..... too mechanical and felt asthough it was not going to be a fun evening Wtf they wanted you to get her pregnant .... And you actually met them ...." I had 3 requests to do this in the past. Once here and twice on a previous site ( as I fire blanks it ain't gonna happen - but if she was we'll fit I might pretend to try lol!) | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. " I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load " Over my tits lol Would never go b b lol and don't like in mouth | |||
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"I've been offered a guys services to get me pregnant. Even offered to be at the birth " That's not a bad offer to be fair! | |||
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"I've been offered a guys services to get me pregnant. Even offered to be at the birth That's not a bad offer to be fair! " yeah, but he did want to have his dick in her mouth at the time lol | |||
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"I've been offered a guys services to get me pregnant. Even offered to be at the birth That's not a bad offer to be fair! yeah, but he did want to have his dick in her mouth at the time lol" something to bite down on to cope with the pain | |||
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"Thought it was you Kent gardener Now you found me" Monty don?lol | |||
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"How good would it be to turn on ITV at 0930 and Jeremys got a stage full of people, the caption "I got pregnant from a Swingers party, I need to know the father". Let's do those all important DNA results........... " | |||
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"Thought it was you Kent gardener Now you found meMonty don?lol" Can tell u watch gardeners world lol | |||
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"Nope, can't get pregnant anyways" | |||
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"Thought it was you Kent gardener Now you found meMonty don?lol Can tell u watch gardeners world lol" Yes I do. I am quite the fan of the show, aren't you?lol. | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? " Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying | |||
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"Nope, can't get pregnant anyways " Could if I wanted to, I choose not to | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying " Bit over sensitive there really | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying " As a bastard child myself I found it funny, but guess we all have different humour. I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? I'm the product of an affair and only know a handful of my father's family, but never missed it because I was brought up by the man I call my Dad. However if it's purely for the kink factor and not to have a child then I'm not a fan | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load " Wow that did it for me | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load Wow that did it for me " Something I enjoy | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from?" Yes. | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes." Life's hard enough for children as it is! | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! " Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene? | |||
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"Imagine if the baby when grown want to know and say, hey mum, where did you meet dad, she sais we meet on fabswingers, so ur a swingers baby lol." Or imagine if the dad had got several women pregnant in same area, local meets, where they live and the siblings get together without realising they are related? | |||
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"Imagine if the baby when grown want to know and say, hey mum, where did you meet dad, she sais we meet on fabswingers, so ur a swingers baby lol. Or imagine if the dad had got several women pregnant in same area, local meets, where they live and the siblings get together without realising they are related?" What a horrendous thought!!!! Could well happen | |||
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"I got pregnant as a result from seeing someone on fab...but it was more than a shag...he did a runner and I lost the baby...shit happens " Oh However you look it, that's upsetting; I'm sorry for you | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene?" I'm sure no parent would ever say 'it was a random guy off a swinging site...his name was bigcock4u' (sorry if that's a real name!). Maybe it's because I have many friends with absent fathers I see things differently, but there are plenty of people out there who don't know one or both of their biological parents and are getting by just fine...myself included. Is it ideal, no, but how is it different to insemination from a sperm donor (before the laws on being traced)? | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene? I'm sure no parent would ever say 'it was a random guy off a swinging site...his name was bigcock4u' (sorry if that's a real name!). Maybe it's because I have many friends with absent fathers I see things differently, but there are plenty of people out there who don't know one or both of their biological parents and are getting by just fine...myself included. Is it ideal, no, but how is it different to insemination from a sperm donor (before the laws on being traced)?" Artificial insemination tho, their sperm is tested for all sorts, including stuff like cf gene and other defects so I would think though it's no different from meeting a random guy for sex to have a baby it's safer for baby and mother of course x | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene? I'm sure no parent would ever say 'it was a random guy off a swinging site...his name was bigcock4u' (sorry if that's a real name!). Maybe it's because I have many friends with absent fathers I see things differently, but there are plenty of people out there who don't know one or both of their biological parents and are getting by just fine...myself included. Is it ideal, no, but how is it different to insemination from a sperm donor (before the laws on being traced)? Artificial insemination tho, their sperm is tested for all sorts, including stuff like cf gene and other defects so I would think though it's no different from meeting a random guy for sex to have a baby it's safer for baby and mother of course x " But then how many people have hubby tested for these things before deciding to have a child? Like I said to begin with, I'm on the fence with the whole thing as I can see both sides of the argument...main thing to me though is a child is loved and cared for rather than where it came from. And as for the comment someone put up earlier about siblings meeting each other and not knowing...I have 2 half brothers and I only met one of them last year by accident whilst car hunting (which he doesn't know as I don't think he knows about my sister & me) so it can happen without having a swinging family! | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene? I'm sure no parent would ever say 'it was a random guy off a swinging site...his name was bigcock4u' (sorry if that's a real name!). Maybe it's because I have many friends with absent fathers I see things differently, but there are plenty of people out there who don't know one or both of their biological parents and are getting by just fine...myself included. Is it ideal, no, but how is it different to insemination from a sperm donor (before the laws on being traced)?" I don't know my Dad. Except to know he's dead, I know nothing of him. Only a selfish fuckwit would choose to place a child in that position for nothing other than their sexual kinks. | |||
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"It's a persons choice at the end of the day none of us will play a part in that child's life so why should we judge...as long as the child is looked after and loved then that's all that matters..." But we like judging. Isn't that what the forums are for? | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene? I'm sure no parent would ever say 'it was a random guy off a swinging site...his name was bigcock4u' (sorry if that's a real name!). Maybe it's because I have many friends with absent fathers I see things differently, but there are plenty of people out there who don't know one or both of their biological parents and are getting by just fine...myself included. Is it ideal, no, but how is it different to insemination from a sperm donor (before the laws on being traced)? I don't know my Dad. Except to know he's dead, I know nothing of him. Only a selfish fuckwit would choose to place a child in that position for nothing other than their sexual kinks." Which is something I put in my first post, but this wasn't quoted. To put a child in a loving home is one thing...maybe for a couple that can't conceive naturally...but for a sexual kink is a completely different one. Oh and I'm in a similar position as my 'dad' died when I was 7, but I never knew him as he went back to his wife long before that. I know from experience that a family doesn't have to be a perfect one to be a happy one | |||
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"I know a couple on here who are trying to get her knocked up, met them a couple of weeks ago and declined..... too mechanical and felt asthough it was not going to be a fun evening Wtf they wanted you to get her pregnant .... And you actually met them ...." That was my thought: knowing that he actually went?!! | |||
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"I have just had a message off a guy saying i will be blocked by ppl an get no meets because of this post I only put it on beause i was curios " Don't worry about it, it's said only 1% of members use the forums. | |||
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"I have just had a message off a guy saying i will be blocked by ppl an get no meets because of this post I only put it on beause i was curios " Don't lose too much sleep over it love!! | |||
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"I have just had a message off a guy saying i will be blocked by ppl an get no meets because of this post I only put it on beause i was curios Don't lose too much sleep over it love!!" | |||
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"How good would it be to turn on ITV at 0930 and Jeremys got a stage full of people, the caption "I got pregnant from a Swingers party, I need to know the father". Let's do those all important DNA results........... " lol could imagine that. | |||
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"Would there be any harm in it as long as both / all parties consented and agreed parameters before meeting ? Unless you met more than once you would be very fortunate (or unfortunate) to catch off a single meet. To some it is just weird, to others a fetish, to others a means to an end. I remain open minded about it." | |||
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"How good would it be to turn on ITV at 0930 and Jeremys got a stage full of people, the caption "I got pregnant from a Swingers party, I need to know the father". Let's do those all important DNA results........... " lol | |||
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"I got pregnant as a result from seeing someone on fab...but it was more than a shag...he did a runner and I lost the baby...shit happens Oh However you look it, that's upsetting; I'm sorry for you " Yeah, that's harsh...soz to hear x | |||
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"I wonder how that child would feel being conceived on a swinging site, when it tells its friends ect, fucked up springs to mind. And I couldn't see the parents staying together after that anyway, none of fair to the child. And there could be " whose my daddy"" you say swinging site like its a bad thing. do people normaly tell their kids where they were concieved? to me its no different from using a sperm doner. if a man couldnt give his wife a baby then someone else could. lots of men dont mind bringing up other mens babys. | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load " Tell it how it is lol. That's how it should be though x | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying " totaly agree offence all over it | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying totaly agree offence all over it " ah well, cant help some people getting offended by someting | |||
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"It's a persons choice at the end of the day none of us will play a part in that child's life so why should we judge...as long as the child is looked after and loved then that's all that matters..." definitely well said | |||
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"I can see why some people would consider this train of thought if all other options failed, but it is like playing russian roulette with your life." Not much different from getting pregnant by a one night stand in my eyes... It does happen and even playing safe there is no guarantee... To me as long as the baby is wanted and loved it doesn't matter about conception... Lynn | |||
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"I wonder how that child would feel being conceived on a swinging site, when it tells its friends ect, fucked up springs to mind. And I couldn't see the parents staying together after that anyway, none of fair to the child. And there could be " whose my daddy"" I got pregnant out of a supposed relationship....I knew who the father was...he was not prepared to have any responsibility for the child...I would of answered any questions should that child have...in an truthful manner.. | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying totaly agree offence all over it ah well, cant help some people getting offended by someting" I saw the funny side, Hercules | |||
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"I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? Yes. Life's hard enough for children as it is! Agree totally, imagine finding out that your real dad is some random man of a swing site.... Or worse, if said child needed medical history for an illness? My friends son has cf, not everyone is a carrier of the gene, all it takes is a random stranger to have the gene same as the mum and hey presto kid has cf, how could the mother possibly contact the father to warn him he has gene? I'm sure no parent would ever say 'it was a random guy off a swinging site...his name was bigcock4u' (sorry if that's a real name!). Maybe it's because I have many friends with absent fathers I see things differently, but there are plenty of people out there who don't know one or both of their biological parents and are getting by just fine...myself included. Is it ideal, no, but how is it different to insemination from a sperm donor (before the laws on being traced)? Artificial insemination tho, their sperm is tested for all sorts, including stuff like cf gene and other defects so I would think though it's no different from meeting a random guy for sex to have a baby it's safer for baby and mother of course x But then how many people have hubby tested for these things before deciding to have a child? Like I said to begin with, I'm on the fence with the whole thing as I can see both sides of the argument...main thing to me though is a child is loved and cared for rather than where it came from. And as for the comment someone put up earlier about siblings meeting each other and not knowing...I have 2 half brothers and I only met one of them last year by accident whilst car hunting (which he doesn't know as I don't think he knows about my sister & me) so it can happen without having a swinging family!" I've not once said this is wrong or shouldn't be done... All I've suggested is it's all well having a child with a stranger but not the implications of having a child with illnesses that relate to family, or the chances of siblings getting together x | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load " but if you swallow on the 3rd Wednesday of the month and it's a full moon you can still get pregnant from that can't you? | |||
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"I don't think its too strange. Ok less common, but certainly not bad. I've donated sperm privately to women be they single, lesbian or in a straight relationship. There are a lot of people that actually do need help, as in fertility treatment, not mental help. A lot of them (even those in relationships) would opt for a one night stand or short casual relationship, as its cheaper, and they'll get to know more about the guy than using an anonymous sperm donor profile in a Fertility Clinic. I must confess, I do find it hot the thought of a woman wanting to get pregnant pretty hot. I guess it goes back to natural selection. The woman doesn't just want you for a bit of sex, she thinks your genes are good enough quality to father her child. I've not come across these women or couples on here who want to get cream pied to get pregnant, so I don't know. I'd imagine most of them are seeking guys with "Alpha-male" traits, intelligent, successful, driven, tall, muscular, and of course with a Big cock? I've often thought that if I were married and had a micropenis or anything smaller than 4 inches, I would not only want another guy to fuck my wife, regularly, but I would want them to impregnate her. I couldn't take the risk of getting her pregnant, and siring a male with such an inadequacy in todays world. " You know any of those women you've "donated privately" to can come fuck you for 18 years of child support. ... | |||
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" You know any of those women you've "donated privately" to can come fuck you for 18 years of child support. ..." That's the theory. In practice, very few would attempt such a thing. If one ever did, I would simply split the payment amongst them and all of the women. So they wouldn't get much. To me that would be a small price to pay in order to have more kids than the average 1-2 children people have in this country. Note: I never said I just did this just to get laid. I do it to pass on my genes, and to help others. No good deed goes unpunished. So far the only punishment I've had is having a sore dick from pounding multiple women around the same time due to ovulating closely lol. Ok I must confess, nothing beats having sex naturally, without a condom, with a woman that is ovulating, and wants you to sire her children. After all that is nature. Just need to be responsible with your health and theirs, and choose wisely who you make babies with | |||
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" You know any of those women you've "donated privately" to can come fuck you for 18 years of child support. ... That's the theory. In practice, very few would attempt such a thing. If one ever did, I would simply split the payment amongst them and all of the women. So they wouldn't get much. To me that would be a small price to pay in order to have more kids than the average 1-2 children people have in this country. Note: I never said I just did this just to get laid. I do it to pass on my genes, and to help others. No good deed goes unpunished. So far the only punishment I've had is having a sore dick from pounding multiple women around the same time due to ovulating closely lol. Ok I must confess, nothing beats having sex naturally, without a condom, with a woman that is ovulating, and wants you to sire her children. After all that is nature. Just need to be responsible with your health and theirs, and choose wisely who you make babies with " Take with a large pinch of salt I think. Why would people that already have 1-2 children need your help having more? The 'average 1-2' children is more than enough given we have an over-population. You're not helping society | |||
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"Back in my younger days I used to use the chat up line "wanna go halves on a bastard"? Sorry but being adopted myself thats a very offenssive saying As a bastard child myself I found it funny, but guess we all have different humour. I'm on the fence about the whole 'breeding' thing...if a child is going to be born into a loving family then does it really matter where it came from? I'm the product of an affair and only know a handful of my father's family, but never missed it because I was brought up by the man I call my Dad. However if it's purely for the kink factor and not to have a child then I'm not a fan" | |||
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"I know a couple on here who are trying to get her knocked up, met them a couple of weeks ago and declined..... too mechanical and felt asthough it was not going to be a fun evening" I've a friend that had a message from them too! | |||
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" Take with a large pinch of salt I think. Why would people that already have 1-2 children need your help having more? The 'average 1-2' children is more than enough given we have an over-population. You're not helping society " I think you misunderstand me, totally. I didn't say anything about helping people that have 1-2 children. I just said *I*, biologically speaking have more offspring than the UK average which is between 1-2 children. Anyhow, that's going off topic. As is a debate over the topic of "over-population", but I'll leave it as, "There's a fine line between Britain, and the population woes of Japan". I just wanted to say that I can see things from a genuine sperm donation perspective of helping an infertile couple conceive, and I can also see things from a swinging point of _iew… Usually with a typical non-swinging infertile couple. The wife would take an AI (Artificial Insemination) donation. Or she would meet with the donor privately in a hotel. The husband wouldn't want to know any details, just that she gets pregnant, and they can start their family. Why would she choose to sleep with her donor, instead of do things the AI way? Because a) she may prefer to conceive naturally, or b) she might not have a choice - lack of guys that are willing to do AI. But what if the couple have been swinging before. Then decide they want to have a family, and the guy is firing blanks. They might just decide to use their existing swinging network to find a suitable donor. Is it immoral only because they're mixing the two? IMO, the main thing that is immoral is a couple or single woman looking to get pregnant or pregnancy risk for some kink. I'm not really sure if any woman or couple would do it just for a kink. There would have to be a practical reason in that they want to have a child. | |||
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" Take with a large pinch of salt I think. Why would people that already have 1-2 children need your help having more? The 'average 1-2' children is more than enough given we have an over-population. You're not helping society I think you misunderstand me, totally. I didn't say anything about helping people that have 1-2 children. I just said *I*, biologically speaking have more offspring than the UK average which is between 1-2 children. Anyhow, that's going off topic. As is a debate over the topic of "over-population", but I'll leave it as, "There's a fine line between Britain, and the population woes of Japan". " It reads like an interesting fantasy - but like you say I may be misunderstanding you totally. Japan has a declining population - your services might be welcomed there.. | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load " | |||
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"The risk is always there, condom could split for example. I prefer guys to withdraw before coming and whipping the condom off and letting me swallow the load Over my tits lol Would never go b b lol and don't like in mouth " So why can't I find nice ladies like you two. | |||
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"Imagine if the baby when grown want to know and say, hey mum, where did you meet dad, she sais we meet on fabswingers, so ur a swingers baby lol." we met each other at a swingers club after both our previous relationshios had failed .She did a pregnancy test at the club too , positive. Was planned though still together and have a gorgeous 19 month old child now | |||
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"I always squirm when I see breeding on profiles and posts. I guess everyone has a line which they wouldn't cross and that's mine. Should it happen can you imagine the child in 15 years time asking where they came from and having to answer that question??" I just simply couldn't and wouldn't do it. It crosses my line too. | |||
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"I can see why some people would consider this train of thought if all other options failed, but it is like playing russian roulette with your life. Not much different from getting pregnant by a one night stand in my eyes... It does happen and even playing safe there is no guarantee... To me as long as the baby is wanted and loved it doesn't matter about conception... Lynn " i have to disagree, falling pregnant by a one night stand is a spur of the moment thing however planning to have a child by another man through swinging (being bred) implies that there as been a lot of discussion and planning and all parties are in agreement. The only thing that is similar is this act of sex itself however how you arrive at that point is totally different in my opinion | |||
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"Imagine if the baby when grown want to know and say, hey mum, where did you meet dad, she sais we meet on fabswingers, so ur a swingers baby lol. Or imagine if the dad had got several women pregnant in same area, local meets, where they live and the siblings get together without realising they are related? What a horrendous thought!!!! Could well happen " Knew a girl it happened to, luckily though they hadn't done much as they were only 13 bout the time | |||
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"People our so judgemental on here. Breeding fantasy is not a fantasy as such. It's a basic instinctive need. It's perfectly normal for men to think about reproduction when they find a woman attractive. That's why men find women attractive. It's the reason we exist. 21 century mortality and children's welfare have to be considered obviously. But essentially it's a basic primal instinct. To say it's crazy or mad is completely illogical. " What might be more illogical is to have a fantasy, turn it into reality and then argue it's a primal need. See what I did there! | |||
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"Firstly I think 99% of this kink is from men. Of the 1% of women that maybe into it again 99% are probably fantasists. Not talking about people after sperm donors. I'm talking about people wants pregnancy risk sex for the kink of getting pregnant by someone other than their partner. I'd imagine if it does occur, then most kids probably grow up not knowing that they were conceived via swinging. They will either think dad is dad, or will think there was a one night stand somewhere along the way and their parents got through it. I'll be honest I can't say I recall how my kids where conceived? If I could remember I am certain it would not be a topic I'd be discussing with them. It could have been romantic sex, it could have been very mechanical sex, ie we need to fuck tonight to keep trying for a baby. Or I could have been calling their lovely mother a fucking slut whore, or she could have been calling me a filthy slag. In the end the process of how they were made, is nothing and means nothing. They are your world and you would walk in front of a fucking train for them. I would only feel sorry for those kids if once the kink game was over and the couple or single girl was pregnant, with the child, they cared nothing for the actual child. It's one thing to be born outside of love, it's quite another to be brought up without love. So long as people are ready to do anything for the kids in their care, whether they be biologically there's or not I could not care less. There are too many uncaring parents out there who conceive in the conventional manner for me to care about the one or two who make a kinky game out of it, but may be the best parents in the world." How many people are there that think they know who there biological dad is? How many people know for sure??? | |||
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