FabSwingers.com forum: I Don't believe it

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I came home from work and found a note shoved through my letterbox.

It was addressed to my screen name (M) asking that I check my messages on Fab and reply or to text on the phone number in the note as the lady lived closeby.

Sure enough there was a message on fab saying the same thing. I was not happy to say the least adn neither was Dee.

Our unhappiness increased when I found out that a single male we had met and liked a few weeks earlier thought it was a great idea to pass the address and profile onto this lady in question.

So that's two people we wont be meeting !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came home from work and found a note shoved through my letterbox.

It was addressed to my screen name (M) asking that I check my messages on Fab and reply or to text on the phone number in the note as the lady lived closeby.

Sure enough there was a message on fab saying the same thing. I was not happy to say the least adn neither was Dee.

Our unhappiness increased when I found out that a single male we had met and liked a few weeks earlier thought it was a great idea to pass the address and profile onto this lady in question.

So that's two people we wont be meeting !"

Its a little crass and lacks respect but that happens sadly when you let people into your world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief, think I would tear someone's head off and shit down their neck if they did that to us. Really how totally disrespectful is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good grief, think I would tear someone's head off and shit down their neck if they did that to us. Really how totally disrespectful is that. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disrespectful and pig-ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came home from work and found a note shoved through my letterbox.

It was addressed to my screen name (M) asking that I check my messages on Fab and reply or to text on the phone number in the note as the lady lived closeby.

Sure enough there was a message on fab saying the same thing. I was not happy to say the least adn neither was Dee.

Our unhappiness increased when I found out that a single male we had met and liked a few weeks earlier thought it was a great idea to pass the address and profile onto this lady in question.

So that's two people we wont be meeting !"

That is not good. I would not be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful. It may be a sex site but discretion and privacy should be respected

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

whoa!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for you, what an arse !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has shocked us . Sorry that it has happens to you.

Not being disrespectful but glad we don't do home meet. Was thinking of doing them. But after reading this it's a no no now.

Thanks for sharing the information. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes neither one of us is happy. I'm just blown away by the lack of resepect and discretion. Dee want's to tear the guys cock off but I don't even want to talk to them again (no they are not on our verification or friend list either)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This has shocked us . Sorry that it has happens to you.

Not being disrespectful but glad we don't do home meet. Was thinking of doing them. But after reading this it's a no no now.

Thanks for sharing the information. xxx "

Sorry to shock you, didn't mean to put you off home meets for good. However you must do what you feel is best for and your safety, if people don't like it then tough monkey's I say.

I am lucky in that me and Dee don't live together and we only meet at mine for home meets so my Princess is safe. Dee can look after herself but no one likes the idea of some random just rocking up to the door on the off chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is disgraceful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol and tearing someones head off isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How disrespectful to put a note through your door and then bugger off.

If she wasn't sitting on our doorstep when we got home we'd be well pissed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only is that a little weird it shows a total lack of discretion. Who knows who would have found that note, could have a family member stopping by etc.

Pardon my french, but what a bunch of twats they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mind if I found a womans note in my letter box lol x.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What's her name, if good looking she can do this with me, I'm a single bloke so desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it probably happens a lot we dont always find out about it though, i have had men calling me on my phone and i hadnt given them my phone number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't even make that shit up....BANG out of order, don't suppose you know where they live, time for payback perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why we won't meet at our home either. Sorry that's happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would find this a little crass too, althoug would have welcomed the message in the inbox, the note through the door was a more than a little wrong.

imagine little hands getting hold of the letter after school.

disgraceful.

i would be more annoyed at the bloke for passing your details on though, tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plenty mad at both of them. Oh and to the person who pm'd me saying this is bullshit it isn't. I have saved all the messages and the note. I would have told you that in private if you hadn't blocked us after sending the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, that is pretty shitty! Defo made us think twice about home meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came home from work and found a note shoved through my letterbox.

It was addressed to my screen name (M) asking that I check my messages on Fab and reply or to text on the phone number in the note as the lady lived closeby.

Sure enough there was a message on fab saying the same thing. I was not happy to say the least adn neither was Dee.

Our unhappiness increased when I found out that a single male we had met and liked a few weeks earlier thought it was a great idea to pass the address and profile onto this lady in question.

So that's two people we wont be meeting !"

That is a disgrace.

I cannot begin to think how they thought was a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men do it more, cant think of a woman doing this kinda thing, do you recon so to ?.

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

That's absolutely terrible. And creepy. Completely uncalled for. We would not tolerate such behavior either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blatant lack of respect... It begs belief!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I came home from work and found a note shoved through my letterbox.

It was addressed to my screen name (M) asking that I check my messages on Fab and reply or to text on the phone number in the note as the lady lived closeby.

Sure enough there was a message on fab saying the same thing. I was not happy to say the least adn neither was Dee.

Our unhappiness increased when I found out that a single male we had met and liked a few weeks earlier thought it was a great idea to pass the address and profile onto this lady in question.

So that's two people we wont be meeting !"

ouch hope you reported them that is not nice. You think a bit of respect and manners from people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good grief, think I would tear someone's head off and shit down their neck if they did that to us. Really how totally disrespectful is that.

or at least slap him into next week well out of order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats disgusting, i wld never pass anyones address or personal info on.

Some ppl hv no decorum or respect. That bloke is an idiot and shd b ashamed. But i doubt it. Classless wimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont accomodate due to a man turning up unannounced last year in school holidays,text from parked car wanting to come in.he was told by text he crossed the Line,immediately given red card.i never given my address since

Inviting people into your own home is risky,but to give other peoples information is not on,bang out of order,people should respect peoples privacy

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By *uth 50Woman
over a year ago

Leeds/Huddersfield

It's so easy in the heat of the moment and I have been on the receiving end of this. Thought I could trust the guy, little did I know he would threaten to turn up unannounced at my home. I was sick with worry for a few weeks and kept getting threatening texts. So the moral of the story is never meet at your home! I ignored the texts and thankfully he's moved on, I'm not in a position to report him, but to any ladies contemplating a meet at home, please think twice about the consequences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inviting people into your own home is risky,but to give other peoples information is not on,bang out of order,people should respect peoples privacy"

what are these people playing at you have to respect peoples lives away from the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men do it more, cant think of a woman doing this kinda thing, do you recon so to ?."

it is rare however i have had a previous bad experience with a female when on another site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think men do it more, cant think of a woman doing this kinda thing, do you recon so to ?.

it is rare however i have had a previous bad experience with a female when on another site "

It was a woman who posted the note a man who told her my address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a disgrace I hope you reported the t**t to the site and he gets booted off. That's so out of order and wrong. I'd have gone round and slapped the woman in question and then tore the guys cock off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think men do it more, cant think of a woman doing this kinda thing, do you recon so to ?.

it is rare however i have had a previous bad experience with a female when on another site

It was a woman who posted the note a man who told her my address"

its a total disgrace i undrstand how you feel as i have had a similar experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god... I have done home meets in the past, but since moving into my new place this is partly reason why it worries me to host them now - hotels for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god... I have done home meets in the past, but since moving into my new place this is partly reason why it worries me to host them now - hotels for me! "

these incidents thankfully happen very very rarely and the people responsible should dealt with accordingly

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I joked about it earlier but it is so so crass. The mail is enough surely? I have no problem with a mail, even a call or text if the other person doesn't withhold their number.

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

bang out of order to do that

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By *uvseamsMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"I came home from work and found a note shoved through my letterbox.

It was addressed to my screen name (M) asking that I check my messages on Fab and reply or to text on the phone number in the note as the lady lived closeby.

Sure enough there was a message on fab saying the same thing. I was not happy to say the least adn neither was Dee.

Our unhappiness increased when I found out that a single male we had met and liked a few weeks earlier thought it was a great idea to pass the address and profile onto this lady in question.

So that's two people we wont be meeting !

That is a disgrace.

I cannot begin to think how they thought was a good idea."

That is so wrong in so many ways, I would need to get in touch with both of them and let them know how wrong they were, one is as bad as the other!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats so rude.lack of respect to you guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird people and could be frightening to some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it is fair to say we were not happy

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