FabSwingers.com forum: status updates

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a regular updater ... is it annoying I just got this msg of a guy"no-one wants to know what your doing you stupid cow its just a shag" trying not to get upset but words can hurt any thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally I don't see why we need to know your every movement. I've had guys on my friends list that I have removed purely because I got fed up with their constant updates.....especially referring to all the fun they have had " you know who you are" etc etc. There is no need to broadcast in my opinion....but it is just that. My opinion.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a regular updater ... is it annoying I just got this msg of a guy"no-one wants to know what your doing you stupid cow its just a shag" trying not to get upset but words can hurt any thoughts on this?

personally i sometimes wrack my brain trying to think of a catchy update for my status in case i may seem boring to anybody who may notice its never changed so if you ask me you carry on updating as many times as you like

Its your page and nobody has the right to tell you what to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like a knobhead x you do what you want x and just block anyone who doesn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like a knobhead x you do what you want x and just block anyone who doesn't like it

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

He sounds like a knobhead x you do what you want x and just block anyone who doesn't like it

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Do as you please mate. Can't please everybody. Those who don't like it shouldn't read it!

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

I put what i want and it varies from the comedic to the profound and sometimes the informative if people find them annoying all they have to do is block i wont be offended as i prob wont even realise they have done so ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanx all .. feel better now ... off to update my status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to jump in folks. I just updated my profile to try not come across like a dickhead. So am I being annoying. What do you think and also of the profile? Do I sound like bellend..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to jump in folks. I just updated my profile to try not come across like a dickhead. So am I being annoying. What do you think and also of the profile? Do I sound like bellend..

It's about status not profiles x

Not a bellend x lovely hairy chest n an Irish accent will do for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for all the thumbs - shy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its your profile and your status so you get to write what you like and really sod all to do with anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all the thumbs - shy x

N innocence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ur very welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's refreshing to see people being pleasant to each other. Having said that now I'll get ripped apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im feeling very very fortunate at the min lol

i'd be telling a lie if i said i've spoken to any ass-holes so far

hope i havnt just jinxed myself ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"im feeling very very fortunate at the min lol

i'd be telling a lie if i said i've spoken to any ass-holes so far

hope i havnt just jinxed myself ffs

"
I havnt spoke to many and have met and cgatted to some lovely people :»

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip its most likely da usual story..... 1 or 2 moaners who find it easier to try to wreck other ppl heads rather than sit wallowing in their own sadness and misery

but without the likes of them nobody would know just how "fabulous" we are lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yip its most likely da usual story..... 1 or 2 moaners who find it easier to try to wreck other ppl heads rather than sit wallowing in their own sadness and misery

but without the likes of them nobody would know just how "fabulous" we are lolol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck em if they don't like it I say. I put on mine few weeks ago said "warning any fertile ladys don't let me lick your pussy's you may get pregnant after today's events" it got lots of laughs and actually got me a meet plus was kinda true lol sure I was burping sperm for days Mmmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aaaaaahahahaahaha funny billy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like reading statuses. If the same people on my update page keep slating people / the site for their lack of luck then I will block. Don't like negativity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/04/14 03:33:45]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love POSITIVITY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do - some dont - simples - like it or not up to whoever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some do - some dont - simples - like it or not up to whoever "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"personally I don't see why we need to know your every movement. I've had guys on my friends list that I have removed purely because I got fed up with their constant updates.....especially referring to all the fun they have had " you know who you are" etc etc. There is no need to broadcast in my opinion....but it is just that. My opinion. "

Domino is on my friends list and is a friend of mine and her updates arent about her every movement, they're just your nice normal updates.....like many folks updates, certainly not deserving of any abuse off of some fab trolls anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was speaking generally. I've never seen the OPs status updates. There was no abuse towards the op. She asked for Thoughts. Those were mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts... the guy was jealous that you're having fun and he probably isn't.

I don't look at the update page because it's not my thing. I don't like facebook for the same reason. But other people do and I'm happy for them.

You use it how you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was speaking generally. I've never seen the OPs status updates. There was no abuse towards the op. She asked for Thoughts. Those were mine. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He does sound like a fool, but why do yiu feel the need to keep updating your status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's jealous it's not him, laugh, block and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like a prick. You carry on putting what you like on your status. Your not here to please everyone and if people don't like it they can block you. Try not to let an idiot upset you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 16/04/14 07:49:21]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's your profile so you run it your way.

If he finds your status updates not for him he should just block you, then he wouldn't see them.

He is just looking to hurt your feelings I think as he has nothing better to do.

Block him and enjoy your updates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like status updates I think they're funny except the 'Mmmmm great night babe..you know who you are'

They bug me cuz I want to know who they are too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a complete muppet that guy is, some status updates are hilarious and make me smile.

Don't let it bother you to much, I know it's hard but report him and think 'idiot'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have such shitty lives they're not happy unless they're spreading their misery around

Im sure you've had more positive reactions from your status's than negative ones so why let someone elses misery affect you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and move on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could change your status to "oy knobhead! No shag for you, jog on!"

That might work

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

'You know who you are' Fucccccccck I sooo hate that trite saying.

In my humble opinion regular status updates are like regular Facebook updates, that is ' methinks they profess too much '. And the ones where the wife says cringeworthy stuff like 'great sex last night hubby'..... Dear god we wet ourselves at those upsates. I mean. Really !!!

If you're happy and having fun why feel the need to convince others? It's very immature in my opinion.... And you did ask ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like status updates I think they're funny except the 'Mmmmm great night babe..you know who you are'

They bug me cuz I want to know who they are too

agreed lol.

But ultimately it's your profile so it's yours to update, and if people don't like it there's a magic button on peoples profiles that means they never have to see your updates (the block button) so keep doing it hon. And report any abuse as u have a right not to be bullied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I occasionally have a status rant x

The ones where the guys say ' a polite no thank you..... Blah blah blah'

Are my main moans x about updates that is x lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for all comments ... I will be updating as an when I wish ... happy fabbing everyone and enjoy the sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was speaking generally. I've never seen the OPs status updates. There was no abuse towards the op. She asked for Thoughts. Those were mine. "
and there was none to you....thus the smiley

I was just jumping in to the defense of my friend is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it meant your 'status' in life that's why I'm tempted to put 'middle class top dog'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never read my local updates only those on my friends & hotlist ~ i like reading what people are thinking or upto.

The only ones that bug me are the ~ 'awesome night babe, you know who you are' ones & that's only 'cos I'm nosey & want to know who they are!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was speaking generally. I've never seen the OPs status updates. There was no abuse towards the op. She asked for Thoughts. Those were mine. "

When I said abuse from fab trolls I wasn't referring to you...more the person that she'd posted about.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the local updates say the same comment every other day,

But I do read those who are on my hotlist

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't get the whole update thing and the upset it draws.

You see updates like 'really horny, what shall I do ? '

an hour later, they are ranting the messages are sexual

what did they expect ? The Lords Prayer.

if people play their lives out on them, they will get mixed reactions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some of the local updates say the same comment every other day,

But I do read those who are on my hotlist

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sammy can I be on your hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put what i want and it varies from the comedic to the profound and sometimes the informative if people find them annoying all they have to do is block i wont be offended as i prob wont even realise they have done so ... "

I like the way you updated your profile as well on this subject.

For mr I never know what to put on a profile update, so it is normally boring.

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

I like the way you updated your profile as well on this subject.

For mr I never know what to put on a profile update, so it is normally boring."
thank you kindly

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Yeah Im on his side

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls .. "

Whats a troll?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?"

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

Thats what I thought. I think perhaps Troll is the wrong word in this case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

Thats what I thought. I think perhaps Troll is the wrong word in this case."

What would be a better word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of the local updates say the same comment every other day,

But I do read those who are on my hotlist

sammy can I be on your hotlist

Only if you keep your status updated and funny

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

Thats what I thought. I think perhaps Troll is the wrong word in this case.

What would be a better word?

I cant think of just one word to describe.

The way I see it is 'someone with a differnt opinion'.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Its your profile and your status so you get to write what you like and really sod all to do with anyone else. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

Thats what I thought. I think perhaps Troll is the wrong word in this case.

What would be a better word?

I cant think of just one word to describe.

The way I see it is 'someone with a differnt opinion'.

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a different opinion I accept ... name calling I dont have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you/people update your status, are you just making a statement/comment for your friends or do random people ever respond to your rambling

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

Thats what I thought. I think perhaps Troll is the wrong word in this case.

What would be a better word?

I cant think of just one word to describe.

The way I see it is 'someone with a differnt opinion'.

a different opinion I accept ... name calling I dont have to"

Same. Hence why I debate over the use of 'troll'. That to me reminds me of a bully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you just put what you like ... block and ignore the trolls ..

Whats a troll?

Just folk who like going on the web to annoy and give people shit.....as far as I know

Thats what I thought. I think perhaps Troll is the wrong word in this case.

What would be a better word?

I cant think of just one word to describe.

The way I see it is 'someone with a differnt opinion'.

I can kind of see what you mean.....nothing at all wrong with opposing opinions....ita what keeps the world interesting and not populated by automatons....I think sues point was he didn't need to call her names over it...

You see people with lots of varying opinions on here but I doubt many would feel compelled to private message someone and be mean about it....I find its a strange thing to be compelled to do, as you say, its akin to bullying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you/people update your status, are you just making a statement/comment for your friends or do random people ever respond to your rambling

It varies for me....sometines i'll put a joke up, or sometimes just What i'm thinking...sometimes something to try and provoke thought...sometimes just some rambling crap...

Now and again my friends come ask what I'm on about but mainly not

don't think any random peeps have come and talked to me off the back of my idiotic musings yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of random messages about whatever status I have up,just friendly conversation starters,sometimes ill reply and sometimes not,they're never aimed at anyone or anything in particular

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I update mine now and again either as a message to someone or I have heard a song I like and post a line from the lyrics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes get into trouble with mine but I don't mean to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged guys who have put a funny / witty / clever status up, got chatting and now they're on my hit list!

Can be used as another tool to draw people into your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I sometimes get into trouble with mine but I don't mean to

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gary095 good recovery or you would of been wanking this weekend lol xxx

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