FabSwingers.com forum: anyone help?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Joined last week and tbh hardly no-one even replies to my messages :L

I'm not moaning, just wondering where I'm going wrong. I don't ask for sex straight out, message people looking for conversation first but still no luck.

Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to just ask for the sex straight out. This is a sex site not a chat site. By not just asking for a shag you make them think you are not serious. I bet that is where you are going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience, patience and..............yep you guessed it......patience.

There's no magical answer to getting replies. You'll either appeal to who you're messaging or you won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and tell people what you are looking for . Patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest you pic looks like your hiding in a cupboard and you need to work on your profile, a week is a very short time so stick around and keep trying

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

Suggest you compare your profile with others and see where you may be going wrong.(it's a bit slim on detail)

Also its not like going to Argos, you don't put an order in and wait for delivery, it takes time as there are plenty of single men to choose from. Its best if you go to a social first and just chat as an opening move in getting verified.

Getting verified will give you experience and get you noticed, invites don't come flooding in, it takes time and a lot of patience and a can-do attitude to sticking with it.

Don't meet with everyone with the expectation that it will end in sex, take every opportunity to meet and enjoy their company and if it happens then its a bonus, women are not things to be exploited treat them right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't sound as if you have a clue what you want,your pic is poor,your profile as it is at the moment doesn't stand out as anything outstanding or dynamic so probably won't get any interest from people when you compare it to other mens profiles on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need to just ask for the sex straight out. This is a sex site not a chat site. By not just asking for a shag you make them think you are not serious. I bet that is where you are going wrong."

I imagine we are speaking here on behalf of many couples on fab when I say that we simply delete & ignore any "fancy a shag" message. We get heaps of them.

Also we delete:

- Hey

- Hows use

- What u up to

- I fancy destroying ur ass

- wanna fuck

- Can I empty my sack in you

- U look like a whore.

Yes it is a sex site - we don't need to be told that but we like to get a bit of a sense of the personality & attitudes of the person writing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait for someone to message you

winwin

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