FabSwingers.com forum: married females

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there any women on this site that are either married or are in a relationship, that the other half dosn't know that they are on this site. If so please message me as its a fantasy of mine to have fun with a married woman behind her husbands back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you might be better on a dating site, what your after is pretty much the opposite to swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even still there are loads od married ladied on here

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"Is there any women on this site that are either married or are in a relationship, that the other half dosn't know that they are on this site. If so please message me as its a fantasy of mine to have fun with a married woman behind her husbands back."

As fantasies go that's a pretty high risk one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you might be better on a dating site, what your after is pretty much the opposite to swinging

We concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be easier to get ur bum into town of a weekend and get yourself a knee trembler ...

and probably safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be some on here. Look at profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see how this is foolproof, Single bloke amongst many expecting women to message HIM, saves a lot of effort i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And one day mate you will be married and then.........................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do let us know if you've found a niche in the market

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No threats were made, just pointing out the dangers of chasing married women

Good luck OP, you're a braver man than I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen few married women.. love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure if they're on here they know exactly what they want and are on here for extramarital sex behind their husbands backs?I don't know why the OP is getting such a hard time its his fantasy and there are married women on here,I doubt they need to message anyone for fun though and will be inundated with other men who are also very happy to fuck married women

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By *eeperMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I would be amazed to find that there weren't loads of married women looking to experience more who have husbands who wouldn't consider swinging. Surely there must be just as many as men, or at least it stands to reason that many couples have partners who want more without leaving their relationship.

Not everyone is lucky enough to have a partner who shares their husband or wife's interest in swinging.

I am amazed at the reactions some people have displayed to what seemed a perfectly honest interest. There's a certain securness to be had if both swingers have family commitments as FB boundaries would be clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seen few married women.. love it

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oh your there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seen few married women.. love it

.oh your there lol"
Yes I am love lol x.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I'm married x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You gottta love the impartial views of the forums. Keep your head up mate the no matter what view you have on anything the vultures are there ready to pick at it like carrion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get how or why people on here are so judgemental.

Surely everyone is allowed to express their fantasy just as everyone is allowed to voice an opinion but on a site like this I would have expected more understanding for the op and his fantasy. After all we all have them he was just brave enough to share his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plenty of women doing the same as what people lambast the guys for doing.

the op just asked in here, instead of being a little more discreet and searching profiles.

bad OP

naughty OP

go to your room!

OR, just use a little common sense.

tbh there was a thread not long ago stating that people shagging marrieds behind their partners backs are the lowest, so.. you know..whatever..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I just don't get how or why people on here are so judgemental.

Infidelity hits a nerve every time when it's mentioned in the forums unless.it's a young, pretty woman

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am never going to condone violence at all...but that is one hell of a dangerous fantasy to play out...

what I find is that angry people if they catch up with you dont tend to be rational people.... why put yourself is a situation that could cause yourself harm

risk-reward.. or risk-consequence....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A novel twist to a boring thread. There are many married women on here without their husbands knowledge. There are also many men on here chastising these same women for their infidelities.

There are also men who publicly condemn married women but privately chase after them to arrange meets.

The hypocrisy of public opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a fairly rational chap, I swing with my partner and watched her have sex with men and women, but I've got to say if I found out a man was trying to get in her knickers behind my back I'm not sure how is react

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

One of the reasons Sue is not oriented to single men was she was approached, lucky not off this site, by a man who wanted to meet her so he could "spunk" on her wedding ring.

He didn't appear to be quite as keen when she said she would ask me if that was OK, supposed to summed him up really.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"One of the reasons Sue is not oriented to single men was she was approached, lucky not off this site, by a man who wanted to meet her so he could "spunk" on her wedding ring.

He didn't appear to be quite as keen when she said she would ask me if that was OK, supposed to summed him up really.

It not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was only a month ago a man had his bits removed with wire cutters for shagging someone he shouldn't have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahaha I think you need to subscribe to Ashley Madison ..it was on he news last week ..good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get how or why people on here are so judgemental.

Infidelity hits a nerve every time when it's mentioned in the forums unless.it's a young, pretty woman

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Wise words indeed as in this thread alone two have mentioned they are married with no comeback, had they been guys they would have been commented on!

As for the guys that profess they would take a hammer to someone that's shocking...even if it's hypothetical in the context of a thread!!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it."

I think people forget that their view isn't always the only one to be had..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it."

People post to get a reaction, won't always be the one they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one has different opinions and likings.

I would have thought that most of us a very liberated sexually on this site.

Why can't we be tolerant and let people enjoy extra marital sex if that is what they enjoy.

Some people do not have partners that are into sex or an open relationship which would give them the freedom they desire.

Some people on here are very lucky they have a very open and liberated relationship. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get how or why people on here are so judgemental.

Yeah but we dont go onto a forum for swingers and highlight that we want dishonesty. We've been to clubs and as a married couple we play with singles and married couples. That is very different to us deliberately looking to deceive.

I mean cheats have their own websites. The op came onto a site full of couples (open honest ones) to post he wants to do someones mrs without her other half knowing

Yeah I'm sure all us married blokes cant wait to meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't get how or why people on here are so judgemental.

I mean cheats have their own websites. The op came onto a site full of couples (open honest ones) to post he wants to do someones mrs without her other half knowing

Yeah I'm sure all us married blokes cant wait to meet him

It is a swingers site but for a lot of people they view it as just a sex site hence they post the way they do. There are a lot of couples that post in the forums so it touches a nerve.

however as mentioned earlier in the thread there are lots of married men/woman on here, there are plenty of people who do not mind that fact. There are also couples where the male/female approach the opposite sex not necessarily with their partners knowledge

So you can see why people might get a little confused as to what is expected here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm amazed how intolerant and judgemental some people are on here.

Its a site for all sorts of people with many sexual interests and desires.

Isn't it all about giving and sharing pleasure. J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm amazed how intolerant and judgemental some people are on here.

Its a site for all sorts of people with many sexual interests and desires.

Isn't it all about giving and sharing pleasure. J

I should be tolerant to someone who wants to fuck my wife behind my back. Yeah right.

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By *pplecrunchWoman
over a year ago

Yeovil

What about the single woman going after married men?

What about married couples playing with married men or married woman that have single profiles?

Give the bloke a rest. We are all as bad as each other but hay this is a swinging sex site.

Sex in the name, sex is the fun

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"What about the single woman going after married men?

What about married couples playing with married men or married woman that have single profiles?

Give the bloke a rest. We are all as bad as each other but hay this is a swinging sex site.

Sex in the name, sex is the fun "

in the examples you give I would say no difference... and would have said the same think in all of them...

for me.. if you are complicit in the deception, then you are also deserve no sympathy in any of the consecquences that arise...

you made the conscience decision to take the risk

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

Since when did swinging become the territory of the 'elite'....

It's no ones business who or what anyone else does, if you don't like it stick to what you do like....

As long as people are upfront about there situation it is their business and their business alone.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

It may be me, however, relationship dishonesty kind of doesn't fit into my model of what swinging is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since when did swinging become the territory of the 'elite'....

It's no ones business who or what anyone else does, if you don't like it stick to what you do like....

As long as people are upfront about there situation it is their business and their business alone.

Chrissie. Well said. I could not put it better myself.

It's a site for people enjoying sex with one another and sharing fun. As you say as long as people are up front it's their business. You then choose who you want to enjoy sex with. Tc jim

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it.

People post to get a reaction, won't always be the one they want."

Most that were removed were against site rules.

There is no excuse for abuse, no matter what the subject is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It may be me, however, relationship dishonesty kind of doesn't fit into my model of what swinging is about. "

then don't call it swinging

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Look hard enough , your wife is on here!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP....I am sure there will be married women about that are on here for fun so hopefully you will find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it.

People post to get a reaction, won't always be the one they want.

Most that were removed were against site rules.

There is no excuse for abuse, no matter what the subject is.

I haven't seen any abuse, do you do the removing, if you do you shouldnt be commenting in the threads.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Look hard enough , your wife is on here!!"

How do you know he is married?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it.

People post to get a reaction, won't always be the one they want.

Most that were removed were against site rules.

There is no excuse for abuse, no matter what the subject is.

I haven't seen any abuse, do you do the removing, if you do you shouldnt be commenting in the threads."

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"It may be me, however, relationship dishonesty kind of doesn't fit into my model of what swinging is about.

then don't call it swinging "

Your right, perhaps I should approach this in a whole new light...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op fantasy isn't out of ordinary. In fact I am sure many people prefer to meet married people who are on here without partner knowing because it means less hassle and no strings fun usually stays no strings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it.

People post to get a reaction, won't always be the one they want.

Most that were removed were against site rules.

There is no excuse for abuse, no matter what the subject is.

I haven't seen any abuse, do you do the removing, if you do you shouldnt be commenting in the threads.

Maybe add a

to go with the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im sure if they're on here they know exactly what they want and are on here for extramarital sex behind their husbands backs?I don't know why the OP is getting such a hard time its his fantasy and there are married women on here,I doubt they need to message anyone for fun though and will be inundated with other men who are also very happy to fuck married women"
I have to agree its his fantasy It really shouldn't unsettle any couple secure in their relationship but it looks like it has.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you please let people start threads without this constant attacking when you don't like the subject.

If it isn't for you, avoid it.

People post to get a reaction, won't always be the one they want.

Most that were removed were against site rules.

There is no excuse for abuse, no matter what the subject is.

I haven't seen any abuse, do you do the removing, if you do you shouldnt be commenting in the threads.

Maybe add a

to go with the

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this is the only forum I go on where the mods post opinions. It can often lead to what looks like a conflict of interests. In this case the mods were wholly correct in my opinion to remove the posts. Difference of opinion leads to debate. There is no need for abuse because of differing views.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Funnily enough, I didn't offer an opinion to what people were discussing.

If mods do get into a meaty debate ( which isn't often as it just causes comments like these )they can control any conflict of interest and not ban people just for disagreeing with what they have said. It is probably why Admin don't stop mods joining in on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since when did swinging become the territory of the 'elite'....

It's no ones business who or what anyone else does, if you don't like it stick to what you do like....

As long as people are upfront about there situation it is their business and their business alone.

So by 'elite' you mean people who have the view that cheating is wrong? I'd have gone with 'decent' or 'honest' but hey, elite is fine. I'm sure I've been called worse.

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By *hrissie1961Woman
over a year ago

dumfries and galloway

Loads would say there is nothing decent about enjoying watching your partner shag/be shagged by someone else

As I said each to there own......no one is forcing you to meet us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not condoning not approving BUT if this thread was entitled "I'm a married 22 yo female looking to play behind hubbies back, any takers" I can assure you there'd be pages of volunteers both male female and couples, so replies on here are somewhat aimed at "pleasing the crowds"... Just saying as I read a thread ages ago by a married lady on this very site and you see them in the chat rooms and let's be fair, it's like flies round the brown stuff....

Each to there own but as already said, op it's a dangerous path your looking to tread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the OP stated is no different to any other fantasy ie: cuck, threesome etc

The difference is the perceived threat to some male posters masculinity because of whatever insecurities they may have about their own relationships

How many times have men said that they wouldn't be happy with their wife or partner swapping yet they are happy enough to have sex with somebody else?

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