FabSwingers.com forum: its the vile crudeness...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I've figured out my love hate relationship with fab..I love it for a while have some fantastic meets, chats etc. but then the darker side creeps in again..the women stating..'where's all the fat black cock'...and 'I'm your slut' with pictures of cocks aimed at them like shotguns on an old pheasant!!..I then feel like I'm in an 80s porn shop with a load of mustached men pawing at a dubbed woman...

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh well, least you know now....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy."

You have to realise some people really get off on the seedy side its what does it for them so if you don't like that move on to the next profile. After all if people didn't have variety in their sex life there would be no swinging at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I firmly believe in leaving some things for the imagination. .....!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand smutty, vulgar language but I do agree it's the opposite for others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a look at my profile, will restore your faith xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm waiting for you to seduce me

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

So how many times do you have to keep coming back just to check that the sleaze is still there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such turmoil

The inner challenges some people face in life

it's a wonder how they get through ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try and ignore the 'darker side', stay light hearted and take everything with a pinch of salt and my tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many times do you have to keep coming back just to check that the sleaze is still there?

I would guess when the cock strikes 12.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site caters for all tastes that's for sure!!

I'm in the less is more camp but others have different _iews on what they want to see on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy."

Would have to say I agree with you, yes each to their own and yes, it's what gets some people off but not everyone.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Yep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy."

Yes, I have to agree...

I accept that some people like to communicate like that, and wouldn't want to censor them.

I don't so much hate the bad language itself - just the blatant assumption that it's ok to try using it to open a discussion with me - it isn't.!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The site caters for all tastes that's for sure!!

I'm in the less is more camp but others have different _iews on what they want to see on here.

You are aware I think yours is just fine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love that language in the heat of the moment. possibly even after banter is well established. not as an opening gambit for a potential meet, though. if it's on a profile, i just see it as descriptive of the person and how they want to be treated/treat me and judge accordingly..... mostly depending on the mood I'm in at the time.

see, we women aren't complicated at all. honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't stand smutty, vulgar language but I do agree it's the opposite for others x"

DEFINITELY not in the dark corner of the 80s porn shop...

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

aye everyone is different, dont i know. . .i struggle to take criticism seriously for my language or whatever from guys with their hairy Arshole opened up for the world to see..

x X X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy."

you don't even know the meaning of the word crude till you've had a single females profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The site caters for all tastes that's for sure!!

I'm in the less is more camp but others have different _iews on what they want to see on here.

You are aware I think yours is just fine...

Oh yes I am aware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Such turmoil

The inner challenges some people face in life

it's a wonder how they get through ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy."

With you all the way brother, don't Check out the cu*t thread, need I say more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't stand smutty, vulgar language but I do agree it's the opposite for others x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree can't stand all the cock shots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want classy go on a dating site and find a lady to serenade with Keats and Byron.. There you will find Less seediness and hairy tv ladies called Bryan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That puts me off..

back again for a bit.

I LOVE sex...I'm filthy when I want to be...but I think the art of eroticism and seduction really fights the sleaze on here, and I guess i take a break to almost cleanse and rearm...

each to their own mind...x

Enjoy."

I couldn't have put it better myself, and so funny too! I know exactly how you feel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree sweetie ! No crude talk from me or revolting road kill puss pics lol x some of us have a sense of decoram xx lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many times do you have to keep coming back just to check that the sleaze is still there?

I would guess when the cock strikes 12.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want classy go on a dating site and find a lady to serenade with Keats and Byron.. There you will find Less seediness and hairy tv ladies called Bryan "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a nice bit of The Smiths on in the background of this thread.

Suits the mood.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

oi im a fucking classy bitch lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a jump to the left,

...and then some sex to the right.

Put your hands in her hips.

...and hope she's nice and tight.

But it's the vile crudeness,

That really drives you insayyayyayiane....

Let's do the Fab Talk again.....

Let's do the Fab Talk again!

Sorry, couldn't resist....

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

"I've got a nice bit of The Smiths on in the background of this thread.

Suits the mood.

Good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worse things on here than sleaze for me. People who think they are a cut above the rest for instance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With you all the way brother, don't Check out the cu*t thread, need I say more

I agree .... Absolutely vile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree sweetie ! No crude talk from me or revolting road kill puss pics lol x some of us have a sense of decoram xx lol xx "

Not sure when calling womens vaginas 'roadkill' started to constitute decorum but glad you're able to gain a bit of satisfaction from making others feel a little bit ashamed and shitty about their naked bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the condescending posts from people who society would consider to be a bike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less is more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmm....

Seems the wheat is separating itself from the chaf...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Less is more "

I'd like to see a little more in some cases....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Worse things on here than sleaze for me. People who think they are a cut above the rest for instance "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet here we all are on a website who's primary purpose is to facilitate and promote a pastime which the majority of 'non-scene' people would find distasteful, crude and vulgar.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the way some behave, god forbid if I wasn't a cut above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the condescending posts from people who society would consider to be a bike"

You couldnt make it up could you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people like their food 'presented'

others are fine with it slapped on a plate..

each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Less is more

I'd like to see a little more in some cases....

Strips immediately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like their food 'presented'

others are fine with it slapped on a plate..

each to their own...

Can I lay down naked and you cover me with food and eat me all up lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people like their food 'presented'

others are fine with it slapped on a plate..

each to their own...

Can I lay down naked and you cover me with food and eat me all up lol"

As long as I can bring the silverware..I'm not riff raff..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people like their food 'presented'

others are fine with it slapped on a plate..

each to their own...

Can I lay down naked and you cover me with food and eat me all up lol

As long as I can bring the silverware..I'm not riff raff..

Hee hee

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By *onacletonyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton, Greater London

It seems to me that if we have been here long enough we all know what to expect. The site caters to all tastes, and one can just skip past profiles that are not to their particular tastes. As for the vulgarity, or the crude messages one receives, presumably some people like it, and a great number of men must think that this is an effective way to approach a woman. My guess would be that those men are the ones who remain Fab virgins, and cannot work out why, or perhaps they have simply gone in for the blitz method after writing several lengthy and witty messages and getting nothing in return. Or maybe they are just a bit thick. Who knows. Anyway, I do not see the point of complaining. It is just like people who complain about television programs. Turn the channel, or, in our case, close the window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree sweetie ! No crude talk from me or revolting road kill puss pics lol x some of us have a sense of decoram xx lol xx

I like what I like - you like what you like !! Lets all swing and be cool !!

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