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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This site would be rubbish without them

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

People would have nothing to moan about for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy, I've always read profiles and been respectful. There are idiots on fab, that message 100 women/couples a day and are pushy, but at the end of the day, we would all be single if we didn't approach new people and say hi...

That said, I'm not a fan of the 25 messages a day I get off gay men, asking me if I want a blow job haha but I don't get angry about it... Compliments a compliment haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an idiot.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This site would be rubbish without them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip of the hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I saw the title of this thread I thought, not another single guy rant. Thank goodness it isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys yummy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Single guys yummy xx"

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

As a single guy can I say how much I enjoy the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose "

I don't think most of the single guys are assholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose

I don't think most of the single guys are assholes."

Maybe not in real life, but on here most are pushy, desperate and can be quite aggressive if the woman is not interested (just the opinion I have formed from some of the women I know on here). It is typically the new users, or the ones with no pics/cock pics as their profile pics, and who don't post in the forums.

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By *EPROFUNDISMan
over a year ago

billingham

As a single guy; I've never pestered but I've had zero meets.. Not great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose

I don't think most of the single guys are assholes.

Maybe not in real life, but on here most are pushy, desperate and can be quite aggressive if the woman is not interested (just the opinion I have formed from some of the women I know on here). It is typically the new users, or the ones with no pics/cock pics as their profile pics, and who don't post in the forums."

I believe the minority of single guys are assholes. This is a very rare positive single man thread. And you've used it to slate the majority of single guys, priceless. Nice work, brother, happy Saturday.

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By *EPROFUNDISMan
over a year ago

billingham

I think showing respect is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always shown respect, & ive never been pushy, & if I dont get a reply then I just accept it. I have had a lot of suspicion & wariness though I suppose thats to be expected & I am fairly new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love love love the single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love love love the single guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an idiot."

So am I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love love love the single guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People would have nothing to moan about for a start "

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By *ohnnySmilesMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Nice to have some appreciation. Thank you.

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose

I don't think most of the single guys are assholes."
your not the 1 getting the pointless messages off them ha ha

But there are some nice guys out there to balance it out a little

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People would have nothing to moan about for a start "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love love love the single guys "

Me too

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"This site would be rubbish without them "

O please!!!!!

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater


"This site would be rubbish without them "

O please!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them

O please!!!!! "

Too nice a thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose

I don't think most of the single guys are assholes.

Maybe not in real life, but on here most are pushy, desperate and can be quite aggressive if the woman is not interested (just the opinion I have formed from some of the women I know on here). It is typically the new users, or the ones with no pics/cock pics as their profile pics, and who don't post in the forums.

I believe the minority of single guys are assholes. This is a very rare positive single man thread. And you've used it to slate the majority of single guys, priceless. Nice work, brother, happy Saturday. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

We don't mind putting up with you couples too

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By *el and DeeCouple
over a year ago

Derby

When I had a single profile I got a lot of messages. But took the time to reply politely to all. I chatted to some lovely guys on here and had a few good meets too. As long as your not married and genuinely single. I don't want someone's partner gunning for me .

We need single guys on here

Dee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love love love the single guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sales of sky remotes and lynx would plummet without them being on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a fair few and they have all been fab... My life would be full without them... They get done pretty shoddy treatment in comparison to single girls... And in their defence I've added a little extra to the bottom of my profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a fair few and they have all been fab... My life would be dull without them... They get done pretty shoddy treatment in comparison to single girls... And in their defence I've added a little extra to the bottom of my profile! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a fair few and they have all been fab... My life would be full without them... They get done pretty shoddy treatment in comparison to single girls... And in their defence I've added a little extra to the bottom of my profile! "

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London


"This site would be rubbish without them

O please!!!!! "

Oh please what!

If it wasn't for them who else would perv over your exhibitionist pictures ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guys yummy xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

And women

And couples

And mm couples

And ff couples

Your right....it would be shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love love love the single guys

Me too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes women and couple wouldnt have anything to do as they would mis to moan about us in the forums lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single guys are the best in my book I have made some fantastic friends on here, in fact I have been thoroughly spoiled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, but as we have had countless single guys just plainly ignore our profile and contact us asking to play even though we say no single guys, we hold single guys in very low esteem.

Whilst there are many couples who choose to met single guys we don't. Why therefore contact us asking for a met is WAY beyond us! Also single guys winking...., we dislike winks full stop! Why not read and respect our profile.

We understand that single guys may not like the fact that we exclude them but hey, it is a free world and we have the gift of choices.

We just wish the many that WE have come across respected OUR choices, not just theirs.

We accept that there are decent ones out there obviously, but not in our experience and all these arseholes do is get even the good guys a bad name!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Sorry, but as we have had countless single guys just plainly ignore our profile and contact us asking to play even though we say no single guys, we hold single guys in very low esteem.

Whilst there are many couples who choose to met single guys we don't. Why therefore contact us asking for a met is WAY beyond us! Also single guys winking...., we dislike winks full stop! Why not read and respect our profile.

We understand that single guys may not like the fact that we exclude them but hey, it is a free world and we have the gift of choices.

We just wish the many that WE have come across respected OUR choices, not just theirs.

We accept that there are decent ones out there obviously, but not in our experience and all these arseholes do is get even the good guys a bad name!"

just block them, drama gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but as we have had countless single guys just plainly ignore our profile and contact us asking to play even though we say no single guys, we hold single guys in very low esteem.

Whilst there are many couples who choose to met single guys we don't. Why therefore contact us asking for a met is WAY beyond us! Also single guys winking...., we dislike winks full stop! Why not read and respect our profile.

We understand that single guys may not like the fact that we exclude them but hey, it is a free world and we have the gift of choices.

We just wish the many that WE have come across respected OUR choices, not just theirs.

We accept that there are decent ones out there obviously, but not in our experience and all these arseholes do is get even the good guys a bad name!"

The good ones obviously read your profile and stayed away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot n horny, we agree with that statement 100%!

However there are lots of pricks who don't!

To the good ones, thanks!

To the arsehole please do not bother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree block them and stop moaning lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot n horny, we agree with that statement 100%!

However there are lots of pricks who don't!

To the good ones, thanks!

To the arsehole please do not bother!"

Why not just block them if your never going to meet anyone, it save you the hassle and saves the nice single bloke that are on getting slated because of the bad ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

View, why block them?

We credit single guys with the intelligence to read our profile.

We expect them to respect our choice.

In our opinion, we don't think that is a lot to ask, is it?

We shouldn't need to block them.

Surely, whoever you are going to contact, couple or single, you would read the profile first to see you are compatible?

Isn't that what profiles are for?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"View, why block them?

We credit single guys with the intelligence to read our profile.

We expect them to respect our choice.

In our opinion, we don't think that is a lot to ask, is it?

"

if it causes you grief and upset, the fact that you mention it suggests you are phased by it and sadly a lot of people don't read profiles, especially ranty ranty ones judging by the volumes of threads on the subject.... I am merely suggesting a way to minimise it by blocking, searching for guys who may take your fancy and starting the communication.

the choice will always be yours to do the best for you.... good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but as we have had countless single guys just plainly ignore our profile and contact us asking to play even though we say no single guys, we hold single guys in very low esteem.

Whilst there are many couples who choose to met single guys we don't. Why therefore contact us asking for a met is WAY beyond us! Also single guys winking...., we dislike winks full stop! Why not read and respect our profile.

We understand that single guys may not like the fact that we exclude them but hey, it is a free world and we have the gift of choices.

We just wish the many that WE have come across respected OUR choices, not just theirs.

We accept that there are decent ones out there obviously, but not in our experience and all these arseholes do is get even the good guys a bad name!"

Why haven't you set your filters so they can't message you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View, why block them?

We credit single guys with the intelligence to read our profile.

We expect them to respect our choice.

In our opinion, we don't think that is a lot to ask, is it?

We shouldn't need to block them.

Surely, whoever you are going to contact, couple or single, you would read the profile first to see you are compatible?

Isn't that what profiles are for?"

Understand completely but by reading your profile it obviously bothers you by the amount of times it's on there

Its your profile to do what you want with but it's a shame the good ones get a bad name because people you never want to meet don't read your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love single guys more for me to play with by myself (goodgirl)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"View, why block them?

We credit single guys with the intelligence to read our profile.

We expect them to respect our choice.

In our opinion, we don't think that is a lot to ask, is it?

We shouldn't need to block them.

Surely, whoever you are going to contact, couple or single, you would read the profile first to see you are compatible?

Isn't that what profiles are for?"

Of course it is your profile and you can use it how you want but I don't understand why you don't just use the filters as they seem to bother you so much. Shame that you have tarred them all with same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree totally we all your _iews, but in our comments above we make it very clear there are good single guys about and we accept that.

We even agreed with your statement.

We think we are being quite fair, don't you?

If a road says 'No Entry', it doesn't have to be blocked off for people to know. Our profile says the same to single guys, all we are saying is that it should be respected.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We agree totally we all your _iews, but in our comments above we make it very clear there are good single guys about and we accept that.

We even agreed with your statement.

We think we are being quite fair, don't you?

If a road says 'No Entry', it doesn't have to be blocked off for people to know. Our profile says the same to single guys, all we are saying is that it should be respected.

"

life is MUCH too short to angst over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im single but I'm a women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We agree totally we all your _iews, but in our comments above we make it very clear there are good single guys about and we accept that.

We even agreed with your statement.

We think we are being quite fair, don't you?

If a road says 'No Entry', it doesn't have to be blocked off for people to know. Our profile says the same to single guys, all we are saying is that it should be respected.

"

That made me chuckle

There are always going to be people who don't read and respect your wishes, ours part of life, I just think why not block people you don't want to meet to stop you the hassle

We meet singles and have met some lovely guys but when we have a break from meeting them we put a block on to stop us receiving messages from them and then take it off when we want to meet them again

It just saves everyone the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moodymoo, we don't know if you have read all the messages, but we actually agreed with Hot N Horny saying that there are good ones about.

How on earth is that tarring all with the same brush?

Shag tonight, like we said earlier, we shouldn't have to block anyone, our profile states what we want to be honest. We simply expect all single guys to respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot N Horny, you have your opinion and we respect that. We didn't chuckle at yours.

We have also voiced our opinion on an open forum. All we expect is that we are shown the same respect that we have given to you and everyone else.

You choose to block. Great!

We decide we don't want to block, just explain clearly what we are looking for. Also great!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moodymoo, we don't know if you have read all the messages, but we actually agreed with Hot N Horny saying that there are good ones about.

How on earth is that tarring all with the same brush?

Shag tonight, like we said earlier, we shouldn't have to block anyone, our profile states what we want to be honest. We simply expect all single guys to respect that.

"
I was supriced seeing my name there lol.. but yes I agree there to they should respect it.. I alwais look through before, but if the profile is 2 pages long, I jump to next profile lol xx.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot N Horny, you have your opinion and we respect that. We didn't chuckle at yours.

We have also voiced our opinion on an open forum. All we expect is that we are shown the same respect that we have given to you and everyone else.

You choose to block. Great!

We decide we don't want to block, just explain clearly what we are looking for. Also great!!"

The bit about the road made me chuckle I didn't mean it in a nasty way but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer it if there were fewer of them LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd prefer it if there were fewer of them LOL "

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag tonight, Hallelujah!!

All that we are asking of single guys!!

We have already agree with Hot N Horny that the decent ones do exactly as you said you would. Nowhere have we slated ALL single guys, we would NEVER intentionally do that.

We just ask for, and give, respect.

The single guys who bother us, get all offended when we ask if they suck cock and reply by asking us if we have read their profile where it says they are straight. Kind of double standards!!

Like you have just said in your message above.

Mutual respect, we all deserve it and should get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a normal couple perhaps all the single guys are messaging you about your profile pic . I t looks as though the tree is growing over the ladies Head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot N Horny, apologies. We get it now.

We are glad you understood what we are saying.

To decent people it WOULD make you chuckle as decent people do not need to be told about standards of behaviour because whether they are single or a couple, they already have those standards.

But the comparison is a valid one isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot N Horny, apologies. We get it now.

We are glad you understood what we are saying.

To decent people it WOULD make you chuckle as decent people do not need to be told about standards of behaviour because whether they are single or a couple, they already have those standards.

But the comparison is a valid one isn't it?"

It is and did make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shag tonight, Hallelujah!!

All that we are asking of single guys!!

We have already agree with Hot N Horny that the decent ones do exactly as you said you would. Nowhere have we slated ALL single guys, we would NEVER intentionally do that.

We just ask for, and give, respect.

The single guys who bother us, get all offended when we ask if they suck cock and reply by asking us if we have read their profile where it says they are straight. Kind of double standards!!

Like you have just said in your message above.

Mutual respect, we all deserve it and should get it."
Thanks yes, if they did read it before as well they wouldnt be offended as they knew what was involved .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

N. Hampton, an amusing comment.

You ever used cut and paste in 'paint'?

It looks better than just a black square.

Believe us, there is no perhaps about why these guys contact us. They make themselves very clear.

We see your profile saying that you do not want single guys. After saying that it would be rude if a guy contacts you asking for sex.

As you say on your profile, manners cost nothing, and neither does showing respect. We are sure you agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for explaining the photo. I've never used cutt and paste so it was a mystery to me.

Respect is very important but sadly lacking these days.

There are certain people who think normal rules do not apply to them. I Have actually seen people drive down a street that was converted to one way due to itssuse as a rat run. The one way sign made no difference.

Personally I just block any single guys that do not read the no entry sign on my account.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Maybe there should be "Love a single guy day"

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"As a single guy, I've always read profiles and been respectful. There are idiots on fab, that message 100 women/couples a day and are pushy, but at the end of the day, we would all be single if we didn't approach new people and say hi...

That said, I'm not a fan of the 25 messages a day I get off gay men, asking me if I want a blow job haha but I don't get angry about it... Compliments a compliment haha"

Yeah I've spent time in Walsall as well it's a real problem

Oh sorry you meant on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Maybe there should be "Love a single guy day" "

Excellent idea. Where do I sign up and how could I help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough Hampton, each to their own, but we don't feel the need to block, just explain in our profile.

we send a fair message first to gauge their intentions.

If we get a apology no problem.

However if we get what we usually get we send back torrents of abuse.

When they reply with indignation we say we find it highly amusing as they can easily read our reply but they couldn't read our profile.

We usually suggest they ask mummy for more reading lessons as behaving like they do gives them the appearance of being a little retarded. They usually crawl back to the hole they came from by then.

As you know Hampton, there are a lot of couples who actually ask for single guys, just like YOU say no single guys. Us respectful guys, well we respect that and move on exactly as you said earlier, the arsehole guys don't.

Sad really.

Mutual respect and everyone is happy.

But to be fair though Hampton, the arseholes won't post on here, only the decent ones will!

On here, or in life, there is no excuse for disrespectful bad behaviour, we are sure you agree.

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By *av1970Man
over a year ago

Tattershall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as my circumstances have now changed I'm now looking for a single guy. Profile changed and filters off. I will let you know what my verdict is after a few days.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Maybe there should be "Love a single guy day"

Excellent idea. Where do I sign up and how could I help?"
Dunno I'm just the ideas man

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Maybe there should be "Love a single guy day"

Excellent idea. Where do I sign up and how could I help?"
Dunno I'm just the ideas man

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over a year ago


"Well as my circumstances have now changed I'm now looking for a single guy. Profile changed and filters off. I will let you know what my verdict is after a few days. "

I may change that days to hours. 10 messages in 15 mins. Only one has bothered to read my profile. Not looking good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rest our case.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Maybe there should be "Love a single guy day"

Excellent idea. Where do I sign up and how could I help?Dunno I'm just the ideas man "

Half a bloody job!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well as my circumstances have now changed I'm now looking for a single guy. Profile changed and filters off. I will let you know what my verdict is after a few days.

I may change that days to hours. 10 messages in 15 mins. Only one has bothered to read my profile. Not looking good."

But that's a good thing. It means you can ignore 9 out of the 10. They're self-filtering to save you the job

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Maybe there should be "Love a single guy day"

Excellent idea. Where do I sign up and how could I help?Dunno I'm just the ideas man

Half a bloody job!"
What else did you expect from a man

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"I've met a fair few and they have all been fab... My life would be full without them... They get done pretty shoddy treatment in comparison to single girls... And in their defence I've added a little extra to the bottom of my profile! "

I visited your profile to read that but then got distracted by the sexy pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male who as been on the scene since the days lf msn chatrooms and midland swingers in particular (christ i feel old) i have always thought it was a priviledge to be invited to a couples relationship to be part of their fantasy fullfillment and i have meet some lovely couples/single females along my journey, long may it continue.

Happy swinging one and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as my circumstances have now changed I'm now looking for a single guy. Profile changed and filters off. I will let you know what my verdict is after a few days.

I may change that days to hours. 10 messages in 15 mins. Only one has bothered to read my profile. Not looking good."

Well that's me out after just 4 hrs. 50 messages and 3 have read the profile. Not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, well.

Do you all see our point?

You good guys out there you are in the minority.

And jigsawman whether we are a couple or singles, it is a privilege to any of us to be invited to join each other so we agree with your _iews totally!

However to some of the arseholes out ther they seem to think it is their right!

Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So having big shouty capitals on your profile and calling single men arseholes is the wat to go is it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So having big shouty capitals on your profile and calling single men arseholes is the wat to go is it?? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, well.

Do you all see our point?

You good guys out there you are in the minority.

And jigsawman whether we are a couple or singles, it is a privilege to any of us to be invited to join each other so we agree with your _iews totally!

However to some of the arseholes out ther they seem to think it is their right!

Have fun!"

Just filter out single males and your pain will go away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, well.

Do you all see our point?

You good guys out there you are in the minority.

And jigsawman whether we are a couple or singles, it is a privilege to any of us to be invited to join each other so we agree with your _iews totally!

However to some of the arseholes out ther they seem to think it is their right!

Have fun!

Just filter out single males and your pain will go away "

Another debate will start again in a minute now that you've put that

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"So having big shouty capitals on your profile and calling single men arseholes is the wat to go is it??

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, well.

Do you all see our point?

You good guys out there you are in the minority.

And jigsawman whether we are a couple or singles, it is a privilege to any of us to be invited to join each other so we agree with your _iews totally!

However to some of the arseholes out ther they seem to think it is their right!

Have fun!

Just filter out single males and your pain will go away "

Ah but if they did that their profile would be shorter and they wouldn't have any thing to moan about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, well.

Do you all see our point?

You good guys out there you are in the minority.

And jigsawman whether we are a couple or singles, it is a privilege to any of us to be invited to join each other so we agree with your _iews totally!

However to some of the arseholes out ther they seem to think it is their right!

Have fun!

Just filter out single males and your pain will go away

Ah but if they did that their profile would be shorter and they wouldn't have any thing to moan about "

That made me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a fair few and they have all been fab... My life would be full without them... They get done pretty shoddy treatment in comparison to single girls... And in their defence I've added a little extra to the bottom of my profile!

I visited your profile to read that but then got distracted by the sexy pics.

"

Haha thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, well.

Do you all see our point?

You good guys out there you are in the minority.

And jigsawman whether we are a couple or singles, it is a privilege to any of us to be invited to join each other so we agree with your _iews totally!

However to some of the arseholes out ther they seem to think it is their right!

Have fun!

Just filter out single males and your pain will go away

Ah but if they did that their profile would be shorter and they wouldn't have any thing to moan about "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found an interesting fact to chew on..

There aren't enough women users who actually want sex relative to the number of male users seeking it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single guys who deserve to be called arseholes, absolutely.

And we will patiently repeat this for the people who aren't accepting what we say.

We shouldn't have to block anyone as it is clear in our profile to leave us alone.

Moodymoo, if these single guys didn't contact us and respected our wishes then we wouldn't need to moan about anything. We take it from your comments that you don't agree with respecting other people's choices? That is all it comes down to, pure and simple.

Our profile states clearly we are not interested in single guys. If the ones that bother us respected OUR choices, then they would go straight past our profile and therefore would not even need to find out whether we have blocked them or not!

Also Moodymoo, we cannot see your profile as you have hidden it so we cannot comment nor would we want to. However please do not comment on the content or length of ours. we are perfectly happy with both the length and the content. We do not really care for other people's opinions on it. We don't comment on other profiles and we expect the same respect.

What we find curious however, is how you and some others here seem to want to justify bad behaviour.

Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The single guys who deserve to be called arseholes, absolutely.

And we will patiently repeat this for the people who aren't accepting what we say.

We shouldn't have to block anyone as it is clear in our profile to leave us alone.

Moodymoo, if these single guys didn't contact us and respected our wishes then we wouldn't need to moan about anything. We take it from your comments that you don't agree with respecting other people's choices? That is all it comes down to, pure and simple.

Our profile states clearly we are not interested in single guys. If the ones that bother us respected OUR choices, then they would go straight past our profile and therefore would not even need to find out whether we have blocked them or not!

Also Moodymoo, we cannot see your profile as you have hidden it so we cannot comment nor would we want to. However please do not comment on the content or length of ours. we are perfectly happy with both the length and the content. We do not really care for other people's opinions on it. We don't comment on other profiles and we expect the same respect.

What we find curious however, is how you and some others here seem to want to justify bad behaviour.

Cheers!"

Sorry, I just don't get it.

You don't want any contact from single males, but you refuse to set the message filter that would prevent them contacting you.

Or am I being stupid and missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single guys who deserve to be called arseholes, absolutely.

And we will patiently repeat this for the people who aren't accepting what we say.

We shouldn't have to block anyone as it is clear in our profile to leave us alone.

Moodymoo, if these single guys didn't contact us and respected our wishes then we wouldn't need to moan about anything. We take it from your comments that you don't agree with respecting other people's choices? That is all it comes down to, pure and simple.

Our profile states clearly we are not interested in single guys. If the ones that bother us respected OUR choices, then they would go straight past our profile and therefore would not even need to find out whether we have blocked them or not!

Also Moodymoo, we cannot see your profile as you have hidden it so we cannot comment nor would we want to. However please do not comment on the content or length of ours. we are perfectly happy with both the length and the content. We do not really care for other people's opinions on it. We don't comment on other profiles and we expect the same respect.

What we find curious however, is how you and some others here seem to want to justify bad behaviour.

Cheers!

Sorry, I just don't get it.

You don't want any contact from single males, but you refuse to set the message filter that would prevent them contacting you.

Or am I being stupid and missing something?"

I think blocking single guys would be the sensible thing to do!!But like somebody else said they would probably have nothing to moan about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single guys who deserve to be called arseholes, absolutely.

And we will patiently repeat this for the people who aren't accepting what we say.

We shouldn't have to block anyone as it is clear in our profile to leave us alone.

Moodymoo, if these single guys didn't contact us and respected our wishes then we wouldn't need to moan about anything. We take it from your comments that you don't agree with respecting other people's choices? That is all it comes down to, pure and simple.

Our profile states clearly we are not interested in single guys. If the ones that bother us respected OUR choices, then they would go straight past our profile and therefore would not even need to find out whether we have blocked them or not!

Also Moodymoo, we cannot see your profile as you have hidden it so we cannot comment nor would we want to. However please do not comment on the content or length of ours. we are perfectly happy with both the length and the content. We do not really care for other people's opinions on it. We don't comment on other profiles and we expect the same respect.

What we find curious however, is how you and some others here seem to want to justify bad behaviour.

Cheers!

Sorry, I just don't get it.

You don't want any contact from single males, but you refuse to set the message filter that would prevent them contacting you.

Or am I being stupid and missing something?

I think blocking single guys would be the sensible thing to do!!But like somebody else said they would probably have nothing to moan about! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers"

I never mentioned the word stupid!! Try reading who wrote what before you name people in your posts!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single guys are the best in my book I have made some fantastic friends on here, in fact I have been thoroughly spoiled. "

Some of the single girls are lovely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

You (OP) make it sound like us single men are from another planet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers

I never mentioned the word stupid!! Try reading who wrote what before you name people in your posts!!!!!!!!!!!!"

You tell em girl!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

not reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers

I never mentioned the word stupid!! Try reading who wrote what before you name people in your posts!!!!!!!!!!!!

You tell em girl! "

Well bit ironic really when all they've done is moan and complain that single men don't read their profile, yet they obviously don't read posts and accuse me of saying something I didn't!!!

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs


"The single guys are the best in my book I have made some fantastic friends on here, in fact I have been thoroughly spoiled.

Some of the single girls are lovely too "
would love to meet some of these lovely single girls. But not that lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers

I never mentioned the word stupid!! Try reading who wrote what before you name people in your posts!!!!!!!!!!!!

You tell em girl!

Well bit ironic really when all they've done is moan and complain that single men don't read their profile, yet they obviously don't read posts and accuse me of saying something I didn't!!! "

I was just about to say that myself!!Moan about people not reading profile but then can't be bothered to read a thread properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single guys are the best in my book I have made some fantastic friends on here, in fact I have been thoroughly spoiled.

Some of the single girls are lovely too would love to meet some of these lovely single girls. But not that lucky lol "

I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers

I never mentioned the word stupid!! Try reading who wrote what before you name people in your posts!!!!!!!!!!!!

You tell em girl!

Well bit ironic really when all they've done is moan and complain that single men don't read their profile, yet they obviously don't read posts and accuse me of saying something I didn't!!!

I was just about to say that myself!!Moan about people not reading profile but then can't be bothered to read a thread properly "

I see it hasn't quietened down in here much

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"The single guys are the best in my book I have made some fantastic friends on here, in fact I have been thoroughly spoiled.

Some of the single girls are lovely too would love to meet some of these lovely single girls. But not that lucky lol

I am "

Same here, I've met lots of people of all sexes and sexualities. Some have been single, some in relationships and their partners know and are involved with their meets one way or another. Others whose partners don't know what they do for kicks. It's a wonderful mix of people on here, that's partly what makes it so much fun to play in this world

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them

You (OP) make it sound like us single men are from another planet!"

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them

You (OP) make it sound like us single men are from another planet!

How so? "

I for one welcome the thread, it's refreshing to get positive feedback rather than then single guy bashing that is more the norm on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Although would prefer if had a partner in crime regular fb kinda thing to go clubs and to swing as a couple as used to do.

I guess are some benefits to be single bloke..... Means I am not inundated with messages. I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages, but it does seem as though is like 90 blokes to every female and that makes it not as easy as chatting up a woman in real world suppose.

The other thing don't get is women mostly seem to expect you to write lots in a message. Its most annoying when take the time to do so and it gets deleted not even read, then again if its a single woman, she might have hundreds of messages to go through and just not have time or come across what she wants in first email. I don't know is hard this site as a single guy.

Seems mostly women and couples say no single men lol

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" not reading"

Oh go on!!!!

Making me

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Dont know about it being rubbish without them....

But fk me....it would be boring!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need more not less, the messages and banter make this site. Oh and being greedy I do like a choice of cock Kate

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Sorry, but as we have had countless single guys just plainly ignore our profile and contact us asking to play even though we say no single guys, we hold single guys in very low esteem.

Whilst there are many couples who choose to met single guys we don't. Why therefore contact us asking for a met is WAY beyond us! Also single guys winking...., we dislike winks full stop! Why not read and respect our profile.

We understand that single guys may not like the fact that we exclude them but hey, it is a free world and we have the gift of choices.

We just wish the many that WE have come across respected OUR choices, not just theirs.

We accept that there are decent ones out there obviously, but not in our experience and all these arseholes do is get even the good guys a bad name!"

As you don t want contact from single guys you wont experience the good guys, I d like to say that No one gives me a bad name other than myself, thanks all the same

One further point and Its often been said that not reading and showing mutual respect is not specific to one particular demographic,

I d just like to say to the op thanks from this single bloke,

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


" We need more not less, the messages and banter make this site. Oh and being greedy I do like a choice of cock Kate"

Choose me, choose me

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

As you don t want contact from single guys you wont experience the good guys, I d like to say that No one gives me a bad name other than myself, thanks all the same

One further point and Its often been said that not reading and showing mutual respect is not specific to one particular demographic,

I d just like to say to the op thanks from this single bloke, "

bingo....

no one determines my fate on here but me....

its easy to talk about respect... but the disdain shown by some in the thread actually is incredible....

the site actually give you the option to block people if they induce ulcers in you... rather than the "i don't believe i should have to use it"

its pretty much biting off your nose to spite your face....

I am glad that in my 10-ish years of swinging I have met very few people like "some" in this thread in the countless socials I have been up and down the country and been looked down upon from such a great height.... (yes you can have that one... its call distain right back!)

I am not going to stick up for all single blokes... just like i wouldn't stick up for any group on mass... and as people have said... "an arse is an arse is an arse"

the irony is they are not the people who read the diatribes having a go on the forum... and the good one who do are.....

as others have said... its a self filtering process in the end, those who are arses in the end shoot themselves in the foot.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been meeting only single guys for the last year and have to say for the most part it has been a positive experience, there will always be those who are pushy and abusive when rejected but in my experience they are in the minority. The majority of single men I have encountered, even those I have declined, have been polite and respectful.

I am struggling to understand why anyone would refuse to use a filter to exclude those they don't want to meet and then seem to relish in writing disparaging replies to them but it takes all sorts I suppose. I for one have much better things to do with my time.

I also struggle to understand how people can claim to be respectful and use words such as retarded, a word I would have assumed most of us find offensive. If people (and I am referring to all groups not just single guys) fail to read profiles it has far more to do with being lazy or disinterested than being unfortunate enough to have a disability or learning difficulty.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I've been meeting only single guys for the last year and have to say for the most part it has been a positive experience, there will always be those who are pushy and abusive when rejected but in my experience they are in the minority. The majority of single men I have encountered, even those I have declined, have been polite and respectful.

I am struggling to understand why anyone would refuse to use a filter to exclude those they don't want to meet and then seem to relish in writing disparaging replies to them but it takes all sorts I suppose. I for one have much better things to do with my time.

I also struggle to understand how people can claim to be respectful and use words such as retarded, a word I would have assumed most of us find offensive. If people (and I am referring to all groups not just single guys) fail to read profiles it has far more to do with being lazy or disinterested than being unfortunate enough to have a disability or learning difficulty. "

What a great level head post, having now read your profile I'm not surprised by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people are not respectful in their behaviour they don't deserve to be treated with respect.

Ignoring our profile is simply disrespectful.

We know retard is disrespectful and we never use it to decent people but let's face it decent single guys don't bother us.

As for the guys who we do use it to, shouldn't respect go both ways?

We understand now that the people on this thread totally disagree with us and that is fine.

Funny enough, one of the guys on here trying to create an air of respectability has previously been too lazy to read our profile, rudely bothered us, then became abusive when he was rejected. Sadly, a case of double standards.

We will go our way and do exactly as we wish.

Luckily for us there isn't anyone in this thread we are interested in so we haven't damaged future opportunities.

Have fun all, we are sure you will all be really please to know we will drop the subject.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

Luckily for us there isn't anyone in this thread we are interested in so we haven't damaged future opportunities.

"

you think...... really????

there are going to be a fair few people who for example do "backreading"... the green arrow can be a powerful thing... and maybe where they were thinking "hmmmm" a few of them will now be thinking "naaah!"......

I bet you have actually alienated a lot more people that you have bargined on...

there is a delightful phrase... "if you give people enough rope, eventually they will find a way to hang themselves with it!"

this could be your moment........

but yes.. i wish you well, and hope you are never at a social I'm thinking of attending........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, we surrender!!

No worries about being at the same social as you, we certainly won't be bothering you, however we wish you well.

Thanks for your advice by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, I just don't get it.

You don't want any contact from single males, but you refuse to set the message filter that would prevent them contacting you.

Or am I being stupid and missing something?"

As a single bloke, I have to agree. I don't rant about getting messages from gay guys on my profile simply because they are barred from contacting me, ergo no need for SHOUTY CAPITALS on my profile.

Buying a house next to an airport then moaning about the noise springs to mind......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

Here, here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually don't mind being a single guy on here. Means I am not inundated with messages, but as long as I show my true self and am not a total asshole like most, I do get a decent anount of replies to my messages. Face pics help as well, I suppose

I don't think most of the single guys are assholes.

Maybe not in real life, but on here most are pushy, desperate and can be quite aggressive if the woman is not interested (just the opinion I have formed from some of the women I know on here). It is typically the new users, or the ones with no pics/cock pics as their profile pics, and who don't post in the forums."

Pish and piffle, very few are arseholes.

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Luckily for us there isn't anyone in this thread we are interested in so we haven't damaged future opportunities.

you think...... really????

there are going to be a fair few people who for example do "backreading"... the green arrow can be a powerful thing... and maybe where they were thinking "hmmmm" a few of them will now be thinking "naaah!"......

I bet you have actually alienated a lot more people that you have bargined on...

there is a delightful phrase... "if you give people enough rope, eventually they will find a way to hang themselves with it!"

this could be your moment........

but yes.. i wish you well, and hope you are never at a social I'm thinking of attending........

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but as we have had countless single guys just plainly ignore our profile and contact us asking to play even though we say no single guys, we hold single guys in very low esteem.

Whilst there are many couples who choose to met single guys we don't. Why therefore contact us asking for a met is WAY beyond us! Also single guys winking...., we dislike winks full stop! Why not read and respect our profile.

We understand that single guys may not like the fact that we exclude them but hey, it is a free world and we have the gift of choices.

We just wish the many that WE have come across respected OUR choices, not just theirs.

We accept that there are decent ones out there obviously, but not in our experience and all these arseholes do is get even the good guys a bad name!"

Surely deploying the block button would prevent the mixed-message you're sending?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

you do wonder what they do when single bloke find a lady and couple up??? do they then suddenly take back all that disdain they have?

or if is couple break up... does the single bloke become dead to them???

and thats why i find it so funny...

they think they are not affecting their chances... but all those potential couples in the future that haven't gotten together yet, will see the way they would have been treated if they didn't...

...and all them single women they are wanting could well the reading about they way they are treating other people...

....or in fact just couples in general who may not like their _iews and actions of how they treat others....

the forums can be brilliant thing, because some persona's slip so you see the real _iews of people rather than the side they truely want to show.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Legs

If you don't like our choices fine. We don't expect anyone else to like them however we do.

We have decided that we do not need nor do we want to switch any filters on.

You asked if you are stupid or something and if you are missing something but that only you can answer.

What we will say again however, and everyone keeps missing this for some strange reason, is if the single guys took the time to READ our profile they would not bother contacting us as we do not want them.

Blocking or filtering contacts would then be irrelevant as there would be no contact to block or filter.

The question here is not about whether we block, filter, ignore or anything.

It is simply about people respecting our choices and leaving us alone.

What is so hard to accept about that?

We just don't get it.

Cheers"

You still haven't had the decency to read the thread and apologise to legs for mis-quoting.You really are the ones who have made yourselves look a little silly.And are the ones with "double standards".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread looks juicy but I really can't be bothered to read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread looks juicy but I really can't be bothered to read it. "

Come on Hamster join in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please, we are really not bothered about who judges us about what they see from us on here, if they disagree with our _iew we would be of no interest to each other anyway!

And to the chap below that post, L HAS had her apology. She followed us to our own thread and we apologised to her on there.

Nice to see your concern for others, we wish ALL single guys showed the same concern.

There is a guy on here who seems to have an awful lot to say, however he is one of those guys who did exactly what we are talking about on here.

Double standards are everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Please, we are really not bothered about who judges us about what they see from us on here, if they disagree with our _iew we would be of no interest to each other anyway!

And to the chap below that post, L HAS had her apology. She followed us to our own thread and we apologised to her on there.

Nice to see your concern for others, we wish ALL single guys showed the same concern.

There is a guy on here who seems to have an awful lot to say, however he is one of those guys who did exactly what we are talking about on here.

Double standards are everywhere!"

Ok fair enough I'll have a look and see how that thread is going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Voyeur, it is leaning towards our point of _iew, but still controversial!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know about it being rubbish without them....

But fk me....it would be boring!!!

"

Exactly ! like everyone there is good & bad ! I've spoken to & met some lovely single guys on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know about it being rubbish without them....

But fk me....it would be boring!!!

Exactly ! like everyone there is good & bad ! I've spoken to & met some lovely single guys on here ! "

i agreed

good and bad in all sections within the scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our stance with single guys, and everyone else

1000's of single guys 50% are disrespectful. so we have to sadly block messages from all because we just get far too many messages to cope.

100's of couples 50% are disrespectful. we block the ones who are disrespectful

a handful of single fems 50% are disrespectful but so few to worry about

best solution... organise a group social and most disrespectfuls dont turn up and if they do they dont get invited a second time

result... just a bunch of respectful people to get to know and see where it goes from there

problem sorted, without the disrespectable idiots that ruin it for everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know about it being rubbish without them....

But fk me....it would be boring!!!

Exactly ! like everyone there is good & bad ! I've spoken to & met some lovely single guys on here ! "

Me too, I have met some amazing guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did someone mention single guys??? ooohh, let me at 'em!....I'm just in the mood for one, and there's only a married one here........

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Dont know about it being rubbish without them....

But fk me....it would be boring!!!

Exactly ! like everyone there is good & bad ! I've spoken to & met some lovely single guys on here !

Me too, I have met some amazing guys on here "

See folks, we're not all bad, I love the second and third photos on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "

Bless you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site would be rubbish without them "
How refreshing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know why so many people moan about single guys!!

Have mostly found them polite and well mannered!!

So high five to all the single gents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't know why so many people moan about single guys!!

Have mostly found them polite and well mannered!!

So high five to all the single gents "

You come across as a friendly couple with good profile text and pictures that are sexy and fun.I guess certain types of profiles attract a certain type of person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't know why so many people moan about single guys!!

Have mostly found them polite and well mannered!!

So high five to all the single gents "

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't know why so many people moan about single guys!!

Have mostly found them polite and well mannered!!

So high five to all the single gents "

High ten back at ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't know why so many people moan about single guys!!

Have mostly found them polite and well mannered!!

So high five to all the single gents

Totally agree."

Me too.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U havent met me u nobheads, why dont u bloody tossers.... joking haha calm down

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