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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

When a woman is married and says she is owned by another man, what does this mean? I understand generally but wondered how far it went.

Does anyone have any experience of being owned?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm not owned my anyone...even when married I was not his procession...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like all things it's up to the individuals the relationship to decide. impossible to generalise.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

You don't have to be married to be owned - and most married women aren't 'owned'. They're in a partnership.

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

To be owned is a bdsm term sub/ dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be owned is a bdsm term sub/ dom "

Also a term used in cuckolding/hotwife/bull relationships.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

It is usually a term in Ds...a sub or slave is owned by their Dom or Master. That may or may not be their husband/wife. Applies to male or female..

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

I just wondered if anybody had any experiences of this and how far it went. Does their owner let them have sex with their husbands? Does the husband have the right to overrule the owner?

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

From experience the owner is normally in a vanilla relationship like mark and I, or the owned is single and it's used in ds style relationships. Once or twice I have seen married women play ds in which she is owned for the purposes of the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm owned by my master, in a dom/sub bond, I wear a chain with a padlock

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I'm not owned my anyone...even when married I was not his procession... "
id quite like to have my own procession .. maybe behind me stripped to the waist carrying a big ostrich feather fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if anybody had any experiences of this and how far it went. Does their owner let them have sex with their husbands? Does the husband have the right to overrule the owner? "

the intricacies you're taking about would be thoroughly outlined and discussed before the sub ever agreed to be owned. it's unlikely the Dom in this scenario would expect a wife to refuse sex with her husband on a regular basis, though he or she may ask that sex doesn't take place within say....24 hours of the D/s play session. D/s relationships involve a looooooot of in depth communication between the people involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it, I'm dominant and I've had relationships with subs and, to be honest, when I'm with any woman, she's all mine at that moment, like I'm all hers. But if they went around telling people I owned them when I wasn't around, I'd be concerned, fuck me we fought 2 world wars to be free and abolished slavery centuries ago. C'mon girls, commit by all means, but 'owned' !!!!! Ok ok, must be getting old - I'll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually get mine 'Pre-owned' through Exchange & Tart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get mine 'Pre-owned' through Exchange & Tart.

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this made me actually lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get mine 'Pre-owned' through Exchange & Tart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not owned my anyone...even when married I was not his procession... "

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By *ornyTamworthCplCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

Am owned by the wife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tamworthcouple

Are you not scared that she will see that post and beat you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a couple he was dom, her sub. He picked her clothes age wasn't allowed to wear trousers. Had to ask. She was owned but very happy !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm ownership x love it x

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

Being interested in interracial cuckolding,I'm fascinated to hear how far people actually go with this. Being owned is such a strong term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had many a guy think they own me, married guys who stick their dick in any hole yet get jealous at my rare meets

Even when I was married I wasn't owned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be owned is a bdsm term sub/ dom "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually get mine 'Pre-owned' through Exchange & Tart.

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You're on top form Prof, that's twice you've had me "lolling" at your posts, keep it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wondered if anybody had any experiences of this and how far it went. Does their owner let them have sex with their husbands? Does the husband have the right to overrule the owner?

the intricacies you're taking about would be thoroughly outlined and discussed before the sub ever agreed to be owned. it's unlikely the Dom in this scenario would expect a wife to refuse sex with her husband on a regular basis, though he or she may ask that sex doesn't take place within say....24 hours of the D/s play session. D/s relationships involve a looooooot of in depth communication between the people involved. "

Or 2 weeks of extreme edging where you're begging to cum and can't think straight because of the punishments you've endured in between....very intense things go on in these relationships from what I've heard. From being given daily task, being told what to wear, reporting several times a day the list goes on, so many think its only about sex.... While all this sounds extreme to some, there is still at any moment where the sub can say they've had enough. Most likely they've spent hours talking about the ins and outs of things! rules/boundaries/punishments etc. it's not for the faint of heart! Again this is what Ive heard I'm pretty uncontrollable

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

The thing is if a sub is owned its because she wants to be.

Being owned means to give yourself to someone compleatly, and owning means to take full responsability for that person. Its powerplay. But in DS circles it can be relinquished at any time. They are not trapped as some seem to think.

My wife is owned and collared by me. She can stop at any point its her choice.

Xxxx

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

I understand but often a wife is owned by another man. It's a sexy dynamic but I wonder how it works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was seeing a black male once for a while and he didn't want me having any sex with my husband , had never heard the term cuckolding until I met him,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message fron a owned slut (her words not mine) who suggested if I messaged her master giving good reasons he would let her meet me.

I said why don't you ask him but that was not allowed apprantely.

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