FabSwingers.com forum: why block someone who has never even viewed your profile..let alone messaged you??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ? Maybe they just thought you were too close for comfort ? There could be hundreds of reasons, people always seem to focus on the negative , don't worry and just look at the positives of being on here

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ? Maybe they just thought you were too close for comfort ? There could be hundreds of reasons, people always seem to focus on the negative , don't worry and just look at the positives of being on here "

Never a truer work spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how do you know your blocked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe accidental - weve blocked good friends before now slip of the finger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really arsed why tbh

Too many people on here worried about their inability to justify and/or control the actions and mindsets of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they know you?

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

You'd drive yourself mad giving it any thought as to other peoples reasoning. Just think, ok, next! and forget.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

There's 19604 members of Fab at the minute (one or two of them may even be "genuine", but that's another thread)...I think you should start a happy thread about the 19603 potential meets you could be contacting

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By *utzzCouple
over a year ago

wrexham

"maybe accidental - weve blocked good friends before now slip of the finger "
guilty of that too, and un friending good friends. Easy done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember you will won't be able to tell they have not _iewed your profile if they have activated stealth mode

So they may have come across your profile and for whatever reason have decided to block

No big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because some people live in this bubble onhere. and even a slight difference of opinion can threaten them so they block all threats

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So how do you know your blocked?"
" well i was _iewing profiles and it came up saying i couldnt _iew one due to either being blocked or hidden!? am all for peoples privacy...just wondered..seeing as i have never messaged or _iewed that profile before why i would be unable to

am quite new'ish to the site...just hope i havent upset anyone

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

their forum posting makes my skin crawl....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

It's just the way it is mate, I have stated blocking people for various reasons, ugly, ignorant, crap posts on here etc, I can only message about 2 people now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

am not upset..or bothered about it so that it wrecks my head...i just thought how odd it was....guess i have a lot to learn about people...even at my age things can still puzzle me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"their forum posting makes my skin crawl...."
"who's??"

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"their forum posting makes my skin crawl...."who's??""

I answered in the context of 'why do people block'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

like the streets sang

dry your eyes mate

i know its hard to take but

her minds has been made up

plenty more fish in the sea

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

We'll said lol there are some idiots on here I've had loads invite them as a friend to we can set something up there only in looking at my pics don't even reply to a message yet we are friends lol had to delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been blocked by some cause we met and they didn't want to see me again and been blocked by a few cause of who I met please themselves couldn't careless

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By *picyrodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally I think friends option should be removed from the site cuts all the crap out that way if someone's interested they can text each other if not jog on

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I block anyone local who isn't what I'm looking for, saves me clicking on their profile when searching, nothing personal, just not my type or what I'm looking for.

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over a year ago

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

It's life. ..move on to the next one. You can't be to everyone's taste as how boring would life be then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's life. ..move on to the next one. You can't be to everyone's taste as how boring would life be then"
"yes i totally agree....but if i was to block everyone who wasnt to my taste i'd have a very very big list indeed! lol.... i was just wondering why?? i wont lose any kip over it...just think its a tad odd thats all"

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

A guy just messaged me to tell me he was going to block me. Still at least he had the manners to warn me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not really arsed why tbh

Too many people on here worried about their inability to justify and/or control the actions and mindsets of others"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had it before where they have joined like a hour or two before and clicked on their profile and i am blocked already. I learned to just ignore it otherwise you will drive yourself insane wondering what you could of done for them to block you without a single word been spoken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you said something they didn't like or agree with on a forum post ?"
This probably accounts for at least half of my block list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeahh,I've had some block me..despite never having spoken..maybe they just dont like me...fair play...not exactly worried.

Its neither sides 'loss', and they arent any more or less special than anyone I hope to meet or have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked people in the past for their comments in the forum, and thought, wow, I don't want to meet this person. I have blocked people who keep deleting and re-joining to get around blocks. I monitor the recently joined, their profiles and locations are usually similar enough to block them before unpleasant contact............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

You might find you have been blocked by more now, why do you feel the need to try and control other people's motives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not really arsed why tbh

Too many people on here worried about their inability to justify and/or control the actions and mindsets of others

"
"am not bothered myself...just thought it was odd and wanted to know what others thought about it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol

You might find you have been blocked by more now, why do you feel the need to try and control other people's motives."
"where in my post does it say i'm trying to control other people??? read it right....i said i dont understand why people do that- there by inviting people to discuss why they think others do it....not i want to know why i have been blocked!!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

I have a few blocked on my local updates, simply because their pictures were putting me off Fab. Not nice to log in and see em at all

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.

I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.

and now your blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have been blocked by mostly women, because they dont like what i say on the forums or because they dont want me looking at their pics and profile.

i have blocked people before because of what they say on the forums, so i remember what sort of people they are, not because i dont want them to contact me, or because i think they are going to contact me. i dont usualy bother now though, only block people who keep messaging me, too pushy, too rude or i have a bad feeling about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.

I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.

and now your blocked lol "
"like i care really!!

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By *exxxesCouple
over a year ago

Newbury / London

It can also be useful in hiding some pretty dodgy pictures appearing on the homepage (local updates). They can be quite harsh sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

makes me laugh...men are now blocking me!! lol...like am ever going to check them out anyway!! to all the people that read...and understood my topic - thank you for your input...some very informative replies

and to all the people who didnt read it right...and are now reaching for the block button...block block block away...its your right to do so

just dont think i'm bothered about it in the least. i asked a question...and for the most part got good sensible replies...thank you -you sexxxy forumites

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and to all the people who didnt read it right...and are now reaching for the block button...block block block away...its your right to do so

just dont think i'm bothered about it in the least. i asked a question...and for the most part got good sensible replies...thank you -you sexxxy forumites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely block but if I do its for a good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked people who live in the next street, people i went to school with, even people my kids went to school with. .

It's a privacy thing . . Some people just don't need to know we're on here . .

D (f )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive blocked some after a meet, because they werent very complimentary to me next day in messaging, so why meet me in first place? Blocked also because they arent my type and it saves replying to messages explaining why. Id rather not say why. I know im blocked on here and I know why too. Just move on

Nice new pictures, have you lost weight?

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

"I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.

I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.

and now your blocked lol "like i care really!!

man cant take a joke (i hadn't blocked you)

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By *inkykoupleukCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Block list is like a filter. If we come across a profile that has "no black, no asain"

Then they get blocked to save coming across the same profile months later.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block people if I've messaged with no reply, If they don't want single Black men with two legs.

I use the blocking as a filter system for not to be pester people.

and now your blocked lol "like i care really!!

man cant take a joke (i hadn't blocked you)"
"sorry...been getting messages from people..mainly guys..telling me i am now blocked!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got 2 blocked.

One guy because of his pics. He put them up every day n i got sick of seeing them.

The other guy was a meet who didnt even have the balls to speak to me after our meet x i want my veri of him gone x

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

I do pre-emptive blocking. Usually because it is someone who lives in the area where I work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block list is like a filter. If we come across a profile that has "no black, no asain"

Then they get blocked to save coming across the same profile months later.

good idea.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Theres loads of reasons, some that have been mentioned here might be the exact reason Only people that will know then is the people or person that pressed the button marked b,

Have fun looking at those tha haven t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked a person because I work with him!! I clicked on a profile, then his photos to see his big smiley face and a little willy looking back at me! I blocked not because I am size orientated (although it did make me giggle went he sat in the office going on about the size of his cock) but because I didn't want the man who I sit opposite and is my line manager seeing what I like to do out of my work time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

Maybe it's your mrs

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

You will just drive yourself mad if you just keep concentrating on how others use the site... Be that messaging, blocking ect.....

Just work on the one thing you can control to be the best you you can be...... You!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so.e great replies to my question...some good replies and answers to

but can i say... i am not looking for the reason i was blocked...i asked why would you block someone who hasnt messaged or _iewed your profile. i find it amusing some people seem to form an instant opinion about me...thinking i seek to control others _iews opinions about myself!! the way i see it you either like me or you dont..you either like what i say or not...its your choice...as is blocking me..and forming opinions of me

if you point a finger at me without understanding my question...your the one with the issue..not me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You will just drive yourself mad if you just keep concentrating on how others use the site... Be that messaging, blocking ect.....

Just work on the one thing you can control to be the best you you can be...... You!!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice new pictures, have you lost weight? "

Thank you. Only a tiny bit. Someone took my pictures for me yesterday. He posed me, made it look good. I love my profile pic. I actually look slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice new pictures, have you lost weight?

Thank you. Only a tiny bit. Someone took my pictures for me yesterday. He posed me, made it look good. I love my profile pic. I actually look slim

Losing a little bit of weight makes a difference though, he did a good job with the pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

Its a preventative action you might have met someone they don't like or looked at your profile and just though 0% so blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice new pictures, have you lost weight?

Thank you. Only a tiny bit. Someone took my pictures for me yesterday. He posed me, made it look good. I love my profile pic. I actually look slim

Losing a little bit of weight makes a difference though, he did a good job with the pictures.

"
He did I'm well impressed with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who post loads of cock pics. I can't be bothered seeing masses of them on my homepage so i just block them so they disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block myself if I could.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Because they know you are way too good for them . Do not take it personally .

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Like someone else said,this could be for many reasons...

Life is short,i block people I am not interested in,this saves time and I encourage people to do it with me.this prevents winks,endless messages and saves us all time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol"

How do you know they have never _iewed your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i dont understand some people!? i know we all have the right to block hide or ignore others...but whats blocking someone who has never messaged or even _iewed a profile all about??

lol

How do you know they have never _iewed your profile?

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"sorry...what i mean is...when i tryed to look at a profile...in my area..it came up saying i couldnt due to being blocked for whatever reason! so i was wondering....why would 'you' block someone (anyone) before they have messaged or _iewed your profile?? they may well have _iewed me..in stealth mode lol....who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its your parents

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