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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm try thanks but I'm not interested in social meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say "thanks but no thanks". Simple as that really.

I will also add that it is good form to meet socially, especially if you're a single guy wanting to prove he is genuine, as swinging is also a social activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never meet without a social first, on my single profile the same too. Many are the same. A lot of single women won't agree to sex with someone they've never met before, safety has a lot to do with it too. We generally play after if all are happy but if its just a social and you don't fancy it, just say so although if you're not travelling far, why not go? It may lead to more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a social first, if you both get on with each other a second meeting might go further then a drink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally understand the safety element and I have met previous women for a coffee etc first before going off to have some fun but to purely meet at a pub for lunch isn't really what I'm looking for. Same person invited me to be her guest at her friends wedding without even meeting me? I'll message her with a thanks but no thanks.

Cheers guys, have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always meet for a social first, saves any awkward conversation. Also good for discussing limits etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror... "

You say no you tell her you have no interest in chatting to her you are only really interested in inserting your cock into one of her wet orifices that should do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

social is good for all sorts of reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a piss take if you ask me. Or she's lonely but doesn't like sex

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

Just say no thanks ... easy!

Be honest and tell her why you're on here.

However a lot of social meets turn into something a lot more!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone would like to hold a social meet and in or around Fleetwood come to our place where lot of swingers meet and have a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im new on here to mate but I think social meets are important.. personaly id like to get to no the person see if we click Id like to have a laugh as well as sex.. nnothing worst than the awkward moment after you cum and dont want to spend any longer in the same room to this person you have no attraction to ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't seen the point of a 'social meet' but had meet a couple for a social meet at the weekend and actually the time flew by and they were gorgeous and funny so hence can't wait to the next meet which won't be so social. In fact it has made me realise best to meet neutral so you really know what each other is like

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Totally understand the safety element and I have met previous women for a coffee etc first before going off to have some fun but to purely meet at a pub for lunch isn't really what I'm looking for. Same person invited me to be her guest at her friends wedding without even meeting me? I'll message her with a thanks but no thanks.

Cheers guys, have fun xx"

we always meet socially first but asking someone to be a guest at a wedding in these circumstances is plain weird in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow yes wouldn't go to a wedding with someone that would definitely be a no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow yes wouldn't go to a wedding with someone that would definitely be a no thank you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a social meet as its a good ice breaker and no one feels under any pressure because theres alway a next time and usually leaves u wanting more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find an awful lot of women on here would want a social meet first.It's not a date and she doesnt want a marriage proposal. Safety/chemistry issues. If you don't understand that then I think an escort site would be better for you. It would be a block and move on to the next profile that respected that point of view. Plenty do.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror... "

Is social meets the only think she is looking for on here....I am confused?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror... "

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake. "

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??"

I full accept that and don't get me wrong I'm happy to meet for socials a couple of times before sex but she was saying it would just be social 100% what do I do? Not looking for a instashag but am looking for some fun eventually and if we don't get on fair enough we go our desperate ways x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I full accept that and don't get me wrong I'm happy to meet for socials a couple of times before sex but she was saying it would just be social 100% what do I do? Not looking for a instashag but am looking for some fun eventually and if we don't get on fair enough we go our desperate ways x"

neither of you could offer the other what they required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I full accept that and don't get me wrong I'm happy to meet for socials a couple of times before sex but she was saying it would just be social 100% what do I do? Not looking for a instashag but am looking for some fun eventually and if we don't get on fair enough we go our desperate ways x

neither of you could offer the other what they required. "

Exactly so we chat on here a lot but decided not to meet, I didn't know what to say to her x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??"

I got called a freak and an imbecile the other night because I wouldn't meet a guy and drop my knickers straight away. He said "what's the difference between a social and a date"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I find a pure and simple social an interesting facet to swinging as I get to talk with a lady with very similar attitudes to sex as I have and that can be very liberating at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I got called a freak and an imbecile the other night because I wouldn't meet a guy and drop my knickers straight away. He said "what's the difference between a social and a date" "

Se I wouldn't expect that stall dates/socials are good to get know each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow sparkle good you knew what hie was like and didn't end up wasting a second on him

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I full accept that and don't get me wrong I'm happy to meet for socials a couple of times before sex but she was saying it would just be social 100% what do I do? Not looking for a instashag but am looking for some fun eventually and if we don't get on fair enough we go our desperate ways x

neither of you could offer the other what they required.

Exactly so we chat on here a lot but decided not to meet, I didn't know what to say to her x"

It's difficult telling someone you don't want to meet them if you've chatted for a while I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea that a social meet would outwit any potential physcos ffs!...a nutter is more likely to get a thrill from meeting socially.. I can just see some odball turning up for a coffee in a raincoat all drooly

"geez you and your pesky social meet fooled me,"

Its like mobile numbers I can buy a Sim card for 99p and viola!

Just use common sense then you can skip the kenco and crack on with the good stuff..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I full accept that and don't get me wrong I'm happy to meet for socials a couple of times before sex but she was saying it would just be social 100% what do I do? Not looking for a instashag but am looking for some fun eventually and if we don't get on fair enough we go our desperate ways x

neither of you could offer the other what they required.

Exactly so we chat on here a lot but decided not to meet, I didn't know what to say to her x

It's difficult telling someone you don't want to meet them if you've chatted for a while I know. "

Yer it is! She's a lovely lady but she doesn't want what I want and visa versa x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Wow sparkle good you knew what hie was like and didn't end up wasting a second on him "

I thought....what a gentleman NOT, more like an immature little boy who throws his toys out the pram. I did report him but it probably won't do any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called a time waster and a fake for wanting a social meet first. Quite ironic as one was arranged and the day of the meet he called me fake, well he was the one that didn't go through with the meet! I think its quite sad when someone won't meet for a drink, you never know where it might lead and its nice to meet new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the idea that a social meet would outwit any potential physcos ffs!...a nutter is more likely to get a thrill from meeting socially.. I can just see some odball turning up for a coffee in a raincoat all drooly

"geez you and your pesky social meet fooled me,"

Its like mobile numbers I can buy a Sim card for 99p and viola!

Just use common sense then you can skip the kenco and crack on with the good stuff..)"

Using your thought process then a Lady should always meet in a public place first for safety reasons, More chance of catching a nutter out over a Drink isnt there ?

Gimp

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I say each to their own. There is no need for the name calling and immature behaviour from some people, if someone doesn't fit your requirements and needs then move on...why the insults????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been called a time waster and a fake for wanting a social meet first. Quite ironic as one was arranged and the day of the meet he called me fake, well he was the one that didn't go through with the meet! I think its quite sad when someone won't meet for a drink, you never know where it might lead and its nice to meet new people. "
Yes and you will see if any game is being played on you, if you get called a timewaster, tell them to do one.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have my social and possible play going ahead..to be honest, I've met more people for first time meets and had sex than I have for social(rarely had many social 1to1 meets)..granted have a wee drink etc..but then its most likely getting some sexual fun going...and for me, thats likely fun throughout the nite..not a quick shag n cheerio.

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By *mmie2014Man
over a year ago

London


"I find a pure and simple social an interesting facet to swinging as I get to talk with a lady with very similar attitudes to sex as I have and that can be very liberating at times. "

Dah! Dah ! lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I love the idea that a social meet would outwit any potential physcos ffs!...a nutter is more likely to get a thrill from meeting socially.. I can just see some odball turning up for a coffee in a raincoat all drooly

"geez you and your pesky social meet fooled me,"

Its like mobile numbers I can buy a Sim card for 99p and viola!

Just use common sense then you can skip the kenco and crack on with the good stuff..)"

I don't use social meets to out the nutters, I use them to decide if I actually do lust after the person and want to arrange a meet (or even abandon our coffees and go off there and then) where we can rip each other's clothes off.

Some people may look like they tick all the boxes but are not that appealing in the flesh. So 'cracking on with the good stuff' is not always wise without a safe escape plan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the idea that a social meet would outwit any potential physcos ffs!...a nutter is more likely to get a thrill from meeting socially.. I can just see some odball turning up for a coffee in a raincoat all drooly

"geez you and your pesky social meet fooled me,"

Its like mobile numbers I can buy a Sim card for 99p and viola!

Just use common sense then you can skip the kenco and crack on with the good stuff..)

I don't use social meets to out the nutters, I use them to decide if I actually do lust after the person and want to arrange a meet (or even abandon our coffees and go off there and then) where we can rip each other's clothes off.

Some people may look like they tick all the boxes but are not that appealing in the flesh. So 'cracking on with the good stuff' is not always wise without a safe escape plan!"

Indeed, like one guy I met who looked nothing like his pics, looked like he'd slept in his clothes for a week and smelt like it too lol! Way too dodgy agreeing to sex with someone you've never met, for me anyway, and it seems many others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??"

I like many other men on here see it as a sex site, the name has shite all to do with it, The term swinger is very old fashioned and I am not and never want to be a 'swinger'

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I like many other men on here see it as a sex site, the name has shite all to do with it, The term swinger is very old fashioned and I am not and never want to be a 'swinger' "

A lot of men do treat it as just a sex site, with a lot messaging women saying "let's fuck now", that's the problem. They seem to think a "social meet" is some sort of "date"....the two are clearly not the same. There are plenty of women on the site willing to fuck at the drop of a hat but I think the majority rules with a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I like many other men on here see it as a sex site, the name has shite all to do with it, The term swinger is very old fashioned and I am not and never want to be a 'swinger'

A lot of men do treat it as just a sex site, with a lot messaging women saying "let's fuck now", that's the problem. They seem to think a "social meet" is some sort of "date"....the two are clearly not the same. There are plenty of women on the site willing to fuck at the drop of a hat but I think the majority rules with a social first. "

I am not opposed to having a social meet , to claim this is a site exclusive to is called swingers is bonkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some look at a social meet as a date, if on a one to one.

Looking at it from a single woman's point of view if a man will not or have no patience to meet a woman for a couple of drinks don't be surprised if she blows you out.

Even couples like social meets, its a bout having a connection, if there isn't one how are you supposed to go any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

Classic example of a single guy not getting the swinging scene. It's not a sex site -fab swingers. The clue is in the name!! Good luck if you brand everyone who wants a social as a fake. Instashag mentality anyone??

I full accept that and don't get me wrong I'm happy to meet for socials a couple of times before sex but she was saying it would just be social 100% what do I do? Not looking for a instashag but am looking for some fun eventually and if we don't get on fair enough we go our desperate ways x

neither of you could offer the other what they required.

Exactly so we chat on here a lot but decided not to meet, I didn't know what to say to her x

It's difficult telling someone you don't want to meet them if you've chatted for a while I know. "

That's awkward but not as awkward as having met someone a few times for social and sex and you stay in contact inbetween. they suddenly drop you and you wonder why. And no, I haven't asked why, I'm just accepting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only meet anyone for a social first. Sometimes I wish I hadn't even bothering going. But once or twice its been well worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman wanted to meet for sex first meet, I'd be worried, sounds desperate. Lunch seems a bit weird though, I'd like to have lunch with someone I don't fancy about as much as I'd want to shag them. Coffee or a drink !

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

All I would expect from a social meet is a coffee/drink, good conversation and hopefully ignite the spark if it was there......maybe I'm expecting to much and this site isn't for me!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I would expect from a social meet is a coffee/drink, good conversation and hopefully ignite the spark if it was there......maybe I'm expecting to much and this site isn't for me!!!!! "
that's a good attitude

Her

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"All I would expect from a social meet is a coffee/drink, good conversation and hopefully ignite the spark if it was there......maybe I'm expecting to much and this site isn't for me!!!!! that's a good attitude

Her "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I would expect from a social meet is a coffee/drink, good conversation and hopefully ignite the spark if it was there......maybe I'm expecting to much and this site isn't for me!!!!! that's a good attitude

Her

Thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman wanted to meet for sex first meet, I'd be worried, sounds desperate. Lunch seems a bit weird though, I'd like to have lunch with someone I don't fancy about as much as I'd want to shag them. Coffee or a drink !"

I like to see how someone eats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet always coffee only. If they get through that... well who knows what will happen the second time we meet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I would expect from a social meet is a coffee/drink, good conversation and hopefully ignite the spark if it was there......maybe I'm expecting to much and this site isn't for me!!!!! that's a good attitude

Her

Thanks "

The spark should be important for both parties ?

Just chatting on site can be misleading and there maybe attraction ?

But for both safety and attraction a meet should be a must ? A spark between you will make the experience for both fun and enjoyable !

Would hate to have the experience of either parties just going through the motions !! Where's the fun in that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman wanted to meet for sex first meet, I'd be worried, sounds desperate. Lunch seems a bit weird though, I'd like to have lunch with someone I don't fancy about as much as I'd want to shag them. Coffee or a drink !

I like to see how someone eats "

I'd like to show you

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"All I would expect from a social meet is a coffee/drink, good conversation and hopefully ignite the spark if it was there......maybe I'm expecting to much and this site isn't for me!!!!! that's a good attitude

Her

Thanks

The spark should be important for both parties ?

Just chatting on site can be misleading and there maybe attraction ?

But for both safety and attraction a meet should be a must ? A spark between you will make the experience for both fun and enjoyable !

Would hate to have the experience of either parties just going through the motions !! Where's the fun in that ? "

Nice to see there are some men who agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake. "

School boy error in my opinion ... I've had a few that won't do the social ! They missed out in the end !!! If you want one night stands then I understand it ... But these were men that said they were looking for a regular FB!!!! Mad Coz one social could lead to loads of fun in the long run !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

Has exactly the same thing a couple of days ago, I was also stumped of what to do and questioned her why she was on here and not plenty of fish or match.com. This is a sexy site not a social dating site! If you get on with someone and want to meet socially perfect but at the end of the day I saw it as delaying tactics or a as a fake.

School boy error in my opinion ... I've had a few that won't do the social ! They missed out in the end !!! If you want one night stands then I understand it ... But these were men that said they were looking for a regular FB!!!! Mad Coz one social could lead to loads of fun in the long run !!!! "

Has done for me. Not sure why people can't just meet for a drink, its a chance to suss each other out and see if there's a spark and I'd much rather meet people than sit at home on my own watching TV!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social is to see if you click sexual encounters will follow if you agree.

But always better to have a social first makes the encounter much more enjoyable

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Hi guys, just wondering what the general view is as I don't have a huge amount of experience on here. Surely vast majority are on here to have sexual encounters? I've been speaking to one woman who purely wants a social meet. I have friends for that? How do I say thanks but no thanks without sounding like a horror...

You say no you tell her you have no interest in chatting to her you are only really interested in inserting your cock into one of her wet orifices that should do it. "

I just choked on my bloody dinner!

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I had a friend who used to meet with her husband for a social first either a foursome or more. They established before hand they would put an empty coat on the back of a chair, throught the night everyone had to put one pence into the pocket of said coat...if there were not the same amount of one pences as there were persons then it didnt go ahead. She said it saved a lot of embarresment all round and it worked apparently. Not the way we would do it but it worked for them. But on the way home she would say to her husband....well did you put one in or not and he said the same. Works for some not for others...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Even as a single guy, I like socials first. How do I know if I want to fuck someone I have never met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even as a single guy, I like socials first. How do I know if I want to fuck someone I have never met?"

My thoughts exactly.

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over a year ago

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By *parky 101Couple
over a year ago

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Even as a single guy, I like socials first. How do I know if I want to fuck someone I have never met?

My thoughts exactly."

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