FabSwingers.com forum: Use of the word slut

By *teve261970 OP Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Always wondered how people deal with this? I would never use this without pre-arrangement. Just know some people enjoy it during role play. Some people enjoy acting or letting go/giving up control everyone's got their own views on whether they use it or not. I always respect the rules of the house no questions asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been called it in a while, but I love it.

Get called a dirty slut, you wouldn't believe what it does.

All just sex talk no harm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut "

I love being called a slut and a whore and worse (better in my eyes). I tell men I love it so it makes it quite easy. On the odd occasion a guy has actually been shocked said he would never call a woman that as it's offensive or demeaning I take things no further as we're not likely to be compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut

only certain men would call me it. I'm not into role play or acting

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love being called a slut, whore or bitch....makes me horny!

When I am horny you can call me anything you want and I would love it....the naughtier the better

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

we all probably use certain language, terminology or phrases at some times that we would not do so at others..

as long as folk know this and no offence is intended or caused its all good..

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Only one can call me a Slut (and suchlike ) and that's Mr .... Anyone eles would get told straight, about themselves!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not been called it in a while, but I love it.

Get called a dirty slut, you wouldn't believe what it does.

All just sex talk no harm done."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut

only certain men would call me it. I'm not into role play or acting "

Oh God no it's not role-play for me either. I adore being submissive and dirty talk turns me on. Being called a slut when being fucked is just a knee-trembler for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right person at the right time then it's a turn on. A random are you a slut type message I don't like, find it rude!

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By *teve261970 OP Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

As I say I always respect house rules, just getting people's perspective on it. Not like it is the be all and end all of a night/afternoon/meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the right person at the right time then it's a turn on. A random are you a slut type message I don't like, find it rude!"

Of course, that goes without saying. I discuss it with guys so they know I am open to it. If they're lukewarm that's ok, it's not a must-do. However if they're offended (and it has happened) it won't work, so I take no umbrage as everyone has their lines that they don't cross, but I would not pursue contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There would be very very few people who would get away with calling me a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There would be very very few people who would get away with calling me a slut

It is one of the words that make me lose interest.

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By *teve261970 OP Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

Thanks for the feedback, really appreciate different points of view, probably a few more on tomorrow lol.

Best wishes & happy swinging

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Never called a woman a slut and other such words and never intend to, in or out of a bedroom.

just wouldnt feel right in myself to say those things.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Never called a woman a slut and other such words and never intend to, in or out of a bedroom.

just wouldnt feel right in myself to say those things. "
Even if the woman liked it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am more than happy to be called a slut...and worse heheh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends certain people would not get away with it, where as others can say what they like

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut "

aaaaaaaaaaahahahahahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only like hubby to call me a slut. Anyone else who said it would be disrespectful in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never called a woman a slut and other such words and never intend to, in or out of a bedroom.

just wouldnt feel right in myself to say those things. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the right person at the right time then it's a turn on. A random are you a slut type message I don't like, find it rude!"

Exactly this! Depends on the person you're with. The wrong person saying it at the wrong time - I'd lose interest completely ! Dirty talk done well is a massive turn on - done badly - you might as well chuck a cold bucket of water over me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In private, and as a part of intimate play, then yes, it's entirely right if used in the right context - I do like being treated like a slut sometimes and that goes with it...

But use the word at any other time - especially in general conversation - and you can expect to make intimate and painful acquaintance with a rusty pair of scissors!!!!

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By *eno_2004Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has different effect with the tone of voice too. An accusatory tone would make me feel bad

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"If I act like a slut I expect to be called a slut

only certain men would call me it. I'm not into role play or acting

Oh God no it's not role-play for me either. I adore being submissive and dirty talk turns me on. Being called a slut when being fucked is just a knee-trembler for me."
I bet you like been taken from behind, having your head pull back by your hair and been call a dirty slut while getting pounded hard??!! J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."

I understand what you mean, its just that I disagree with society's view on the concept. Slut - bad = woman who enjoys having sex with lots of men. Player - man = hero cause he shags around, where is the fairness in that? Why can't a woman enjoy her sexuality without being called names, so the word slut to me is not negative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt

Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt

Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes "

Frill understands me.

I understand Frill.

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt

Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes

Frill understands me.

I understand Frill.

Lol

It needs the growl though, right? Soft, wimpy voice just won't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a word that always amused me after reading the dictionary definition if it. My partners step dad called it her once and was shocked by her response and the modern interpritation of the word so he showed us the dictionary to show us what he meant lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.

But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt

Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that.

Because typically it requires effort for a man to get laid whereas a woman could literally walk into a bar and say right who's coming home with me and have a dozen offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.

But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions."

If I get an initial mail saying that, they are off. Only my doms are allowed to call me what they want

Anyone else will see the 'not so sub side' of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm told "you're a dirty cock loving cum slut' I'll melt

Pull my hair back and growl it in my ear, oh yes

Frill understands me.

I understand Frill.

Lol

It needs the growl though, right? Soft, wimpy voice just won't do it

Absolutely, a guy whispered all manner of filth in my ear unexpectedly in a club and his voice was gruff when he said it. I was gone at that point.....oh my. He knew I loved it and he was a totally natural dirty talker. I was well and truly put in my place.

Only works with a guy you're comfortable with and who has the natural confidence to treat you how you yearn to be treated of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a word that always amused me after reading the dictionary definition if it. My partners step dad called it her once and was shocked by her response and the modern interpritation of the word so he showed us the dictionary to show us what he meant lol.

I joke that im a slut in the original sense often.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

It's like any other aspect of sex isn't it...it's fine if everyone's into it, and you just need to make sure of that.

I like it a little rough on occasion, but I wouldn't just go there without knowing she would enjoy it; likewise calling her any names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.

But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions."

Of course, but that's the same with anything, saying you like anal on your profile wouldn't mean you're happy with someone making references to what they're going to do to your arse in an opening mail.

Saying that I've never had any messages like that. Finally got a 'want to see my cock' yesterday. I said yes. He ran away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.

But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions.

Saying that I've never had any messages like that. Finally got a 'want to see my cock' yesterday. I said yes. He ran away."

I love it when they run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think its ok during sex role play if the female makes it clear she enjoys it.

But we hate it when guys use it in first contact. Calling bev slut bitch slag on initial mail will lead to a block no exceptions.

Saying that I've never had any messages like that. Finally got a 'want to see my cock' yesterday. I said yes. He ran away.

I love it when they run

I felt cheated. The first person who's probably ever said a straight yes to him (and meant it) and he buggered off. Chicken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not allow anyone to call me names. I have never been into men calling me offensive names during sex as I find it demeaning.

My OH would never call a woman names or spank them, hair pull, be rough etc, even if they wanted it, it is against his nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wondered how people deal with this? I would never use this without pre-arrangement. Just know some people enjoy it during role play. Some people enjoy acting or letting go/giving up control everyone's got their own views on whether they use it or not. I always respect the rules of the house no questions asked. "

It can enhance for some others struggle to cope with it the ones who take offense well just need to get over it as its not a biggie really. Sometimes we like it sometime we are not really bothered its only a word after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."

Snap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use the word slut lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not been called it in a while, but I love it.

Get called a dirty slut, you wouldn't believe what it does.

All just sex talk no harm done."

there is a time and place

and also people.

i call V a slut and its fine (as we use dirty chat in our sex play)

someone in the street does it and he is likely to be picking up teeth.

on meets, well we prefer others to show each other, and us respect, so if dirty talk is going to happen, its with all parties agreeing, rather than someone throwing it out there and HOPING it goes down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses and each to.their own its just personal preference.

Happy swinging

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I love my fella to call me a slut now and again but it has to be the right moment.

I'd love him to whisper it in my ear whilst I was being taken by another man...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I think to me, it's context and timing orientated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said in the right context, at the right time and with the right person it can be horny as hell. Any of those elements missing and you would get a smack in the gob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

J loves being called a slut, did not like it at first, but grew to love it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a woman who loves being called a slut, call her a whore and it's good bye balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a woman who loves being called a slut, call her a whore and it's good bye balls"

I'm an equal opportunity insult receiver. I love it all. They're words not deeds , therefore if a man imparts filthy, dirty words to someone receptive it does not indicate a man who treats people a certain way in a non-sexual context.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know a woman who loves being called a slut, call her a whore and it's good bye balls

I am in support of the definition of the word slut as described by the authors of 'The Ethical Slut':

"a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you."

Ultimately words mean what you want them to mean, and can mean different things to different people. What's important is finding those who share meaning.

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By *he Master JMan
over a year ago

Southall

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."

I called my friends niece a _ezebel once joking around

Bloody world war 3 nearly broke out

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By *he Master JMan
over a year ago

Southall

I was a doorman for 10 years you can imagine what I was called

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that."

Tesco?!! It'd be shoved up his arse, no need for a bag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whereas call me a slut and youd be going home with your cock in a Tesco carrier bag...

Just goes to show, different strokes for different folks an' all that.

Tesco?!! It'd be shoved up his arse, no need for a bag!

Brings a whole new meaning to the oft heard sounds of 'unexpected item in bagging area'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to use this when playing , gets mildred all horny ,

don't think others would be aloud to say it to her tho

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Only Mr Mcjoy is allowed to call me Slut and I love it

Can't see it going well for anyone else who tried though

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not allow anyone to call me names. I have never been into men calling me offensive names during sex as I find it demeaning.

My OH would never call a woman names or spank them, hair pull, be rough etc, even if they wanted it, it is against his nature.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Love to be called all sorts of dirty names slut whore etc gets me more turned on

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

Find the word totally disrespectful , whether in role play or not

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