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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you do your thing with people who will do their thing with you....

just get on with it

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

Would you be happy if you found your wife on here meeting men for sex without you knowing?

If yes - all good! I'm sure she has needs too.

If - no........

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you split up?

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is more like a sport to me if your a boxer you don't want to keep boxing the same person... See were I'm going here :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner."

This

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By *harma and GregCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Why don't you split up?

X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!"

Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with Nicecouple, never ends well this sort of thread.

But for my two pennies worth; you are 38 and its possible you have children at that age? How do you think they would see your "naughtiness". Especially if the consequences are a broken home? There are always victims in these circumstances and blaming wrecking several people's lives on having a high sex drive is a bit piss poor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

these are the questions to ask ur wife..

and have some less bravado male nonsense about being highly sexed etc...it never washes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!"

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

Yes when comes at expense of hurting others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ... "

Then don't get married or in a relationship, simples really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aint marriage for life, but if its gone wrong end it!

You aint helping things are you?

If she is sex less ask your self why!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile on here

She'll divorce you in a heartbeat (well I would anyway)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ... "

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X"

more to a marriage than sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you love your wife. If you do then you shouldn't be anywhere near this site.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why don't you split up?

X

more to a marriage than sex "

Very true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree with Nicecouple, never ends well this sort of thread.

But for my two pennies worth; you are 38 and its possible you have children at that age? How do you think they would see your "naughtiness". Especially if the consequences are a broken home? There are always victims in these circumstances and blaming wrecking several people's lives on having a high sex drive is a bit piss poor "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your wife was a swinger you'd be getting big ups from people on here. Do what you want and face the consequences if there ever are any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why people are on here is entirely up to them

I personally don't have a problem with married men or women being on here behind their partners back

What I find so very distasteful are the ones who always blame the other half for the lack of sex, and worse are the ones who are willing to entertain in the family home whilst said partner is away for the day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all very interesting replays but half of you just don't get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice, is not to ask people who know nothing about you, for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no time or respect for these sort of people. People who are on here for sex without their wives, husbands or partners knowing shouldn't be allowed to be on here. It's cheating. No ifs or buts about it. You make it sound as if you have the right to find sex elsewhere just because you're not getting it at home. In my eyes it's definitely not your wife that's in the wrong. Sort your life out and your marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it is the partners sudden change in sex drive with no explanation or willingness to drive a person to look elsewhere. For some it is the attention,not just sex. Some also see it as revenge or a form of punishment. Whatever the reason it's up to the individual

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Thank you all very interesting replays but half of you just don't get it "

Which half?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know its wrong but it hasn't stopped you so far,you're an adult you should be mature enough to deal with the fallout should it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

It's your conscience , do as you wish .

Although you say your wife is sexless , how would you feel if she was getting her satisfaction elsewhere ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all very interesting replays but half of you just don't get it "

I know what it feels like to be cheated on so I do 'get it'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes it is the partners sudden change in sex drive with no explanation or willingness to drive a person to look elsewhere. For some it is the attention,not just sex. Some also see it as revenge or a form of punishment. Whatever the reason it's up to the individual "

Then the individual should grow a pair and talk to his wife about the problem first before automatically thinking he has the right to look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

It's your conscience , do as you wish .

Although you say your wife is sexless , how would you feel if she was getting her satisfaction elsewhere ?

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she might be which could be why she isn't fucking him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it."

Your on a swingers site! Lol what did you expect man nuns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner."

As one of the guilty I agree entirely with your final point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it.

Your on a swingers site! Lol what did you expect man nuns?"

Or you could use the term monks??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it.

Your on a swingers site! Lol what did you expect man nuns?

Or you could use the term monks??"

Yeahh that works lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of us aren't here to judge - if you play with fire you run the risk of a scorch - we are here for fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all very interesting replays but half of you just don't get it "

What is it you think half of "us" just don't get? You used the words "naughty" and "wrong" in your OP, what sort of reaction were you expecting to get - a pat on the back and well done mate?

If you think it is acceptable to be on here because you have needs that's your choice, some will happily meet those needs and some won't approve or condone.

However, is it fair to justify yourself by publicising your wife's lack of interest sexually to a crowd of complete strangers when she is not in a position to defend herself?

Were you to open a thread tomorrow and find she has started it with a post making disparaging remarks about your sexual performance how would you feel knowing we were all reading it and commenting?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

Why not just get on with it? Blaming your wife is low!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

It is wrong for men or women your right though life is too short, just be careful.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner."

So this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife in the kitchen.. Whore in the bedroom... Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh spunkster u silly billy, why ask such a question u know we are both in the wrong playing behind our partners backs, some very nasty people on the site that say they don't judge but ultimately they do ignore em and carry on having discrete fun and get ur ass down here soon please xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I think it's totally upto you to do whatever you want to do, everyone is here for different reasons.

However as there are two people in a marriage there are two stories ~ might be a good place to start by asking your wife what is hers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

womens too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

So this! "

Maybe its wrong to blame her but maybe he has good reason to.

Some people do have low sex drives.

I dont think its a proper marriage if there isnt much sex, even if you get on ok in other ways.

just because some people put up with their partner not wanting sex doesnt mean everyone else should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know your wife is sexless? Just because she isn't putting out for you doesn't mean she has no sex drive, you're just not doing it for her at this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

womens too x "

Agree lusty not just men who have needs and the other halves sex drives go, but you still love em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no time or respect for these sort of people. People who are on here for sex without their wives, husbands or partners knowing shouldn't be allowed to be on here. It's cheating. No ifs or buts about it. You make it sound as if you have the right to find sex elsewhere just because you're not getting it at home. In my eyes it's definitely not your wife that's in the wrong. Sort your life out and your marriage. "

This is exactly why I won't (knowingly) meet men who are partnered. It's wrong on so many levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is probably getting nailed by somebody else so doesn't feel the need for sex with you anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know your wife is sexless? Just because she isn't putting out for you doesn't mean she has no sex drive, you're just not doing it for her at this time"

That could be true, you can get bored with someone or they are getting on your tits.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

So this!

Maybe its wrong to blame her but maybe he has good reason to.

Some people do have low sex drives.

I dont think its a proper marriage if there isnt much sex, even if you get on ok in other ways.

just because some people put up with their partner not wanting sex doesnt mean everyone else should."

If I were going to cheat I'd sign up and get on with it as I'd obviously have an itch in immediate need of itching.

It's threads like this seeking approval whilst badmouthing spouses I personally find unsavoury.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Why don't you split up?

X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no time or respect for these sort of people. People who are on here for sex without their wives, husbands or partners knowing shouldn't be allowed to be on here. It's cheating. No ifs or buts about it. You make it sound as if you have the right to find sex elsewhere just because you're not getting it at home. In my eyes it's definitely not your wife that's in the wrong. Sort your life out and your marriage.

This is exactly why I won't (knowingly) meet men who are partnered. It's wrong on so many levels. "

I don't meet on this profile anymore but when I did, the first line of my profile said I wasn't interested in married/attached guys. I have no interest in why people are on here as its none of my business but I do not want any part of playing with someone else's partner behind their back. I still had guys who were married message and one I arranged to meet who announced the day before the meet he had a gf. All I ask is people are honest from the start so others can make their choices and no one's time is wasted.

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By *onkeydickspartiesMan
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

It's your conscience , do as you wish .

Although you say your wife is sexless , how would you feel if she was getting her satisfaction elsewhere ?

"

Very true

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By *onkeydickspartiesMan
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

It's your conscience , do as you wish .

Although you say your wife is sexless , how would you feel if she was getting her satisfaction elsewhere ?

"

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife in the kitchen.. Whore in the bedroom... Just saying "

Archaic? Chauvinistic? Keep digging .....

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just saying

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

your wife isnt sexless at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she just doesn't want to have sex with a man who loves himself more than he could ever love her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wife in the kitchen.. Whore in the bedroom... Just saying

Archaic? Chauvinistic? Keep digging .....

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just saying "

Its an old saying thats said in jest, makes sense though if you love him enough.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it."

this..

do some folks actually not understand or are deliberately obtuse..?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

everyone has different ideas on making a relationship work as long as nobody gets hurt I don't see a problem

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

So this! "

ditto..

get on with it in a manner that doesn't tell everyone you have little respect for your OH..

if anyone is meeting guys who will be this lacking n respect for someone they live with its not a huge leap of the imagination to assume they will think little of someone they're may be emptying their sack with..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP hit reply privately instead of reply in forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everyone has different ideas on making a relationship work as long as nobody gets hurt I don't see a problem"

Somebody is always going to get hurt in this situation. Most probably the person who isn't playing away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "
...Read your marriage vows .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had ...Read your marriage vows . "

How would you know what they were? I don't even know what my own were let alone anybody elses, least of all somebody I don't know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it.

Your on a swingers site! Lol what did you expect man nuns?"

I don't expect anything, it leads to fewer disappointments. I was only pointing out that I have come across three men today who think of sex on their terms only and don't seem to understand that not everyone sees it the same way.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"And in boxing, you're aim is to hurt them!!

Well said!

Haha it was just an example. Would it be better if I said a runner? They don't want to keep racing the same people ...

No. For the second time today men have shown their absolute lack of understanding of what constitutes a good sexual relationship. Thank goodness there are more men on here who do get it.

this..

do some folks actually not understand or are deliberately obtuse..?"

I have no idea but I'm bloomin glad that there are far more who do understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

more to a marriage than sex "

Maybe there is, but cheating on your wife isn't the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everyone has different ideas on making a relationship work as long as nobody gets hurt I don't see a problem"

So you think lying and cheating is ok then.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I play and I'm married, we're all adults free to make own choices

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

So this!

Maybe its wrong to blame her but maybe he has good reason to.

Some people do have low sex drives.

I dont think its a proper marriage if there isnt much sex, even if you get on ok in other ways.

just because some people put up with their partner not wanting sex doesnt mean everyone else should."

All the above may be true BUT it shouldn't be shared on an internet forum, it's hugely disrespectful to a partner and we have absolutely no evidence that its true. I have never heard of anyone being sexless before, asexual, hermaphrodite yes but sexless...never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is wrong , but we do meet married bi men (come on - most on here are partnered or married anyhow)and fully understand thier need for discretion with the bi thing......... but its thier problem if they get caught.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

So this!

Maybe its wrong to blame her but maybe he has good reason to.

Some people do have low sex drives.

I dont think its a proper marriage if there isnt much sex, even if you get on ok in other ways.

just because some people put up with their partner not wanting sex doesnt mean everyone else should.

All the above may be true BUT it shouldn't be shared on an internet forum, it's hugely disrespectful to a partner and we have absolutely no evidence that its true. I have never heard of anyone being sexless before, asexual, hermaphrodite yes but sexless...never. "

Can you imagine if the poor woman found her husbands account. She'd be devastated I'm sure. Then she does a bit of digging and find that he's also written a blasé post about her in the forum condoning what he's doing and how little he cares?? I know who I feel sorry for, and it certainly isn't the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play and I'm married, we're all adults free to make own choices"

What about the choice of the one that gets hurt.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

And your saint? Never ever strayed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And your saint? Never ever strayed? "

No I have never strayed. I've been cheated on so I now how it feels. I have no time for people that cheat I'm afraid. Lowest of the low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a who's who of high morals on here. I'm disappointed not to have seen 'each to their own' or 'personal preference' anywhere so far..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I play and I'm married, we're all adults free to make own choices"

and one of the biggest choices we face is whether or not to use that freedom regardless of consequence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And inviting people to the marital home while the wifes away! Your wife is so lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a who's who of high morals on here. I'm disappointed not to have seen 'each to their own' or 'personal preference' anywhere so far.."

I always agree with 'each to their own' and 'personal preference', but not at the expense of someone else being hurt badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a who's who of high morals on here. I'm disappointed not to have seen 'each to their own' or 'personal preference' anywhere so far..

I always agree with 'each to their own' and 'personal preference', but not at the expense of someone else being hurt badly"

I always yawn at it. Nice change to see opinions, even if they're bizarrely incisive given nobody knows bugger all about the actual situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

It shows a total disrespect for your wife, how would you feel if it was her cheating on you! So YES it is very wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness is this still going? The OP doesn't appear to have been very evident during the debate, he just lit the fuse and retired to safe distance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

more to a marriage than sex "

Like honesty and communication?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a hard thread because none of us know the circumstances. Some of us on this website Don't ask the question if the guy we're meeting is attached. Can't say we always do.

We are of the opinion it's their business. If you can deal with your own conscience then I should just get on with it and you'll find people like us who don't always ask and you'll be satisfying our need.

If your wife does find out then be prepared for some fireworks is all I can say and remember the old saying "out of the frying pan, into the fire" can be such a wise saying.

Good luck. I think you are going to need it LOL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing to add. If your wife finds out she could cite the couple you've met as respondants by the way so if you do get caught do not say who it was you met. You could be dropping them in deep shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goodness is this still going? The OP doesn't appear to have been very evident during the debate, he just lit the fuse and retired to safe distance! "

And replied to my inbox told him he pressed the wrong button but he hasn't come back.

I have met married men, I can't stop a man cheating and they will do it regardless but what grips my shit is when they blame their wives, saying they don't put out enough etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a who's who of high morals on here. I'm disappointed not to have seen 'each to their own' or 'personal preference' anywhere so far.."

The majority of posters on this thread have not criticised the OP for his choice to play behind his wife's back but for using her as justification to do so, the lady is not here to defend herself and there are two sides to every story.

Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Well I've made my bed, and happy to lie in it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of men cheat on their wives they always have done, it was always easier for men because they had more freedom and more chances to.

Lots of people would cheat more if they had the chance too but they dont.

They may say they wouldnt but if they were being offered it to them on a plate by someone young and pretty not many would turn them down, i dont think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice."

To be honest I couldn't give a hoop what he does. I'm just fascinated at how much people can judge by a few lines, and impressed at the strength of moralistic lecturing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice, is not to ask people who know nothing about you, for advice."

Perfectly said.. one astute individual. . Very rare here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice, is not to ask people who know nothing about you, for advice."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My advice, is not to ask people who know nothing about you, for advice.

Perfectly said.. one astute individual. . Very rare here! "

Well that's made the rest of us feel loved

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

all this sadly for me IS the reason i will

NEVER be with a man again cos if my god i not want sex then he will be on a site like this looking for it,

ive been hurt by cheating ,my man never went without ever ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice.

To be honest I couldn't give a hoop what he does. I'm just fascinated at how much people can judge by a few lines, and impressed at the strength of moralistic lecturing."

To be honest I don't give a monkey's whether he chooses to cheat on his wife either, I do object however to the fact HE uses a public forum to justify his choice by alluding to someone who is not able to defend herself - I don't need an essay to feel that is wrong his comment was sufficient, if that is moralistic so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all this sadly for me IS the reason i will

NEVER be with a man again cos if my god i not want sex then he will be on a site like this looking for it,

ive been hurt by cheating ,my man never went without ever ... "

Yes lots of men do but not all of them do, lots of men just look at porn.

Some men dont look at porn they are just as happy to look at women with their clothes on.

Some men are too scared to have sex with other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I play and I'm married, we're all adults free to make own choices

What about the choice of the one that gets hurt. "

If / when they find out then they have the unfortunate choice of whether to stay or leave.

Things are never totally black / white and in my experience there is usually more than the one reason for cheating....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

I've just read her profile mate........reads similar to yours

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice.

To be honest I couldn't give a hoop what he does. I'm just fascinated at how much people can judge by a few lines, and impressed at the strength of moralistic lecturing.

To be honest I don't give a monkey's whether he chooses to cheat on his wife either, I do object however to the fact HE uses a public forum to justify his choice by alluding to someone who is not able to defend herself - I don't need an essay to feel that is wrong his comment was sufficient, if that is moralistic so be it. "

Morals isn't a dirty word or something to be sneered at. Unfairness is and talking about someone behind their back is unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

more to a marriage than sex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

It shows a total disrespect for your wife, how would you feel if it was her cheating on you! So YES it is very wrong"

It's not just the cheating it's talking about his supposed sexless marriage and trying to justify cheating to a bunch of strangers on a forum that anyone can see....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

If you have to ask the question in the first place, you already know the answer

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Has it been a week since the last one of these?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice.

To be honest I couldn't give a hoop what he does. I'm just fascinated at how much people can judge by a few lines, and impressed at the strength of moralistic lecturing.

To be honest I don't give a monkey's whether he chooses to cheat on his wife either, I do object however to the fact HE uses a public forum to justify his choice by alluding to someone who is not able to defend herself - I don't need an essay to feel that is wrong his comment was sufficient, if that is moralistic so be it.

Morals isn't a dirty word or something to be sneered at. Unfairness is and talking about someone behind their back is unfair. "

I cant imagine much damage can be done by talking on here 'behind her back' - unless his name really is Mr Spunkity and he really does live in Hull and she happens to accidentally come across his comments on here while browsing for relaxing spa breaks near Heathrow...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

If you have morals, yes it's wrong!

Or maybe she just doesn't want to have sex with you....thought about that...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had "

This wont be a popular post but im noticing you have already had comments. Im married and it doesnt go down well here if marrieds are cheating. I have my reasons, which are that me and oh dont and havent had sex for years. Its not his fault, as ive said before on previous threads here about this subject. Not sure whose fault it is to be honest. Anyway, I dont blame him, so not a good idea to blame your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're having to ask this question then you are undeniably filled with guilt.

My suggestion is to leave the site and work things out at home. You know your wife better than strangers in a forum on a swingers site

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice.

To be honest I couldn't give a hoop what he does. I'm just fascinated at how much people can judge by a few lines, and impressed at the strength of moralistic lecturing.

To be honest I don't give a monkey's whether he chooses to cheat on his wife either, I do object however to the fact HE uses a public forum to justify his choice by alluding to someone who is not able to defend herself - I don't need an essay to feel that is wrong his comment was sufficient, if that is moralistic so be it.

Morals isn't a dirty word or something to be sneered at. Unfairness is and talking about someone behind their back is unfair.

I cant imagine much damage can be done by talking on here 'behind her back' - unless his name really is Mr Spunkity and he really does live in Hull and she happens to accidentally come across his comments on here while browsing for relaxing spa breaks near Heathrow..."

I think you miss my point but it's of no consequence

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By *eordie JoJoTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

As far as I'm concerned..... I'm single and ready to mingle..... Your status is no concern of mine

This isn't match.com

Just my _iew of course ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex is more like a sport to me if your a boxer you don't want to keep boxing the same person... See were I'm going here :p "

So you like a good fisting around the ring is what your saying right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Sex is more like a sport to me if your a boxer you don't want to keep boxing the same person... See were I'm going here :p

So you like a good fisting around the ring is what your saying right? "

lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

cold, calculated and no remorse... and thats why it gets peoples back up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on a site like this is a personal preference and I think the majority of us believe in each to their own, we don't all use the forum to justify our reason to be here tho nor to "blame" others for our choice.

To be honest I couldn't give a hoop what he does. I'm just fascinated at how much people can judge by a few lines, and impressed at the strength of moralistic lecturing.

To be honest I don't give a monkey's whether he chooses to cheat on his wife either, I do object however to the fact HE uses a public forum to justify his choice by alluding to someone who is not able to defend herself - I don't need an essay to feel that is wrong his comment was sufficient, if that is moralistic so be it.

Morals isn't a dirty word or something to be sneered at. Unfairness is and talking about someone behind their back is unfair.

I cant imagine much damage can be done by talking on here 'behind her back' - unless his name really is Mr Spunkity and he really does live in Hull and she happens to accidentally come across his comments on here while browsing for relaxing spa breaks near Heathrow...

I think you miss my point but it's of no consequence"

Kind of my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

more to a marriage than sex "

I know. But he's lying and cheating. I feel sorry for her.

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By *ral.steveMan
over a year ago

LEEDS

Well this as just killed his chances anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this as just killed his chances anyway "

I was thinking that. As someone has already said, probably best just to go about your business without drawing attention to yourself in this instance. I'm sure there are many married women playing alone on here but I don't recall many posting threads like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its not for having children, sex is not a NEED its a want.

if we were to die without it, we would be hardwired, each and every one of us, to have a high sex drive.

but we arent.

some do, some dont.

you find sex important to you, and thats fine.

but if you think anything of your wife, you really should rethink your priorities in life.

how do you think she will take your infidelity?

has she suddenly gone off sex, or has it always been the same?

if its a sudden thing, then it more than likely is more than just not wanting sex.

she may well be depressed, and you arent helping her mental state

or, and this is probably why you havent broached the subject, she just doesnt fancy you anymore.

you arent the man she married and such, is possibly getting what she wants elsewhere, much the same as you, just probably, with a little more success.

either way, probably best you ask her and not try and justify your life choices to those that either dont want to know, or dont care

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Shes getting it elsewhere mate!!!!

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By *tuartb1970Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

I was in a relationship where the sex dried up completely and the nearest I came to foreplay was a peck on the cheek

Was it my fault or her fault? I couldn't tell you

But I never cheated on her even though there was times I was sorely tempted

Needless to say we have gone our seperate ways

If it isn't working and you no longer feel anything towards your partner and no children are involved then just end things and move on.

But that is just how I dealt with it

Everyone's different and nothing is just black and white

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Why don't you split up?

X"

She probably tired out juggling a home and children and a job. generally why wives are sexless, sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

She probably tired out juggling a home and children and a job. generally why wives are sexless, sad really."

Maybe they shouldnt of had kids then, you make your bed then you lie in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

She probably tired out juggling a home and children and a job. generally why wives are sexless, sad really.

Maybe they shouldnt of had kids then, you make your bed then you lie in it. "

well if she is stuck in a sexless bed, then he should be also.

Takes 2 after all

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By *i_sm234Man
over a year ago

Bargoed

Personally i think if you both agree to it then its alright maybe it could add some spice back into the love life.

End of the day married/attached people will have fun and there's no way of telling if they are, so might aswell as we all just have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this tend to polarise opinion and rarely end well.

For me I don't really care what you do but I always find it distasteful when married people blame their partner.

This "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

She probably tired out juggling a home and children and a job. generally why wives are sexless, sad really.

Maybe they shouldnt of had kids then, you make your bed then you lie in it.

well if she is stuck in a sexless bed, then he should be also.

Takes 2 after all "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

She probably tired out juggling a home and children and a job. generally why wives are sexless, sad really.

Maybe they shouldnt of had kids then, you make your bed then you lie in it.

well if she is stuck in a sexless bed, then he should be also.

Takes 2 after all

"

Don't recall the OP saying he had kids and that was the reason ~ or are we making assumptions again lol...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you split up?

X

She probably tired out juggling a home and children and a job. generally why wives are sexless, sad really.

Maybe they shouldnt of had kids then, you make your bed then you lie in it.

well if she is stuck in a sexless bed, then he should be also.

Takes 2 after all

Don't recall the OP saying he had kids and that was the reason ~ or are we making assumptions again lol...?! "

Assumptions always being made on here. Hence why I asked him the original question.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe like you she is getting it other places .. x Thats why not into you ?

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Yes, it is wrong. On so many different levels. Usually the only folks who are totally ok with it are the ones that are doing it. Dont take it wrong, its not a moral crusade and we could personally care less what you do, but you asked, and in our opinion it is the wrong way to go about life. Completely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is sexual monogamy still considered to be so damned important in this day and age?

If it was not erroneously used as the ultimate measure of love and commitment otherwise perfectly good relationships would not be destroyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not wrong.. I seen countless of married women .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes! you`re defiling the sanctity of marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More fun to swing together!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It always makes me smile when these threads come up as the man is always blamed for the woman not wanting sex.

Now ok, it might be right in some cases, but not all women like sex whoever it is with.

Poor men get the blame for everything.

To the OP...I am guessing you know it isn't the right thing to do otherwise you wouldn't be hiding it from your wife....but if you can live with cheating on your wife then I am sure you will find people who don't mind meeting married people.

I am not sure about them doing it in your bed you share with the wife though, but who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe like you she is getting it other places .. x Thats why not into you ?"

OK I have a reason why I take the position of live and let live. I too was in an unhappy marriage. yes sex dried up for all the usual reasons. Kids, work, life Bla Bla Bla. Porno mags found which she hated and so on and so on. I tried not to let her down and even told her that I had needs that were going unfulfilled and that she could have a lover if she wanted. I was slapped down for being a filthy pervert to have such ideas. It was all make believe out of a fiesta magazine so not to be discussed.

Slowly but surely we grew apart.

So too get to the comment made by this poster as quickly as possible we ended up divorced but I subsequently found out that my ex wife had been dating a married men too so there is a ring of truth in what some people say. Hey I'd have loved for my ex wife to have had sexy fun. Mrs N and I enjoy that sort of thing now and again, so my ex wife could have had her cake and eaten it couldn't she.

Bit sad really but I guess it's lack of communication is the key. This is the beauty of my relationship with Mrs N. I just found the whole thing so hypocritical and not black and white as some people suggest. Good luck to the OP. I think he is going to need it as in said in a previous post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its not wrong.. I seen countless of married women ."

just because you do it, doesnt make it right.

people murder, should that be made ok, just because it happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No its not wrong.. I seen countless of married women ."

But only one verification, how sweet, bless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is sexual monogamy still considered to be so damned important in this day and age?

If it was not erroneously used as the ultimate measure of love and commitment otherwise perfectly good relationships would not be destroyed. "

monogomy isnt as recognised in relationships that are between 2 openminded people, that are open and honest with each other.

you only have to see the amount of profiles on here that say they happily meet individually.

where the problem lies is when only 1 of the partners is expected to be monogomous, or indeed, both are expected to be, yet 1 decides they dont like the arrangement.

the difference on here between married single men, and married single women, is that the women tend not to make threads on the forums asking if its ok, why it should be ok, and even justifying their own choices in life.

i am firmly in the camp that, if sex is important enough to risk your relationship for, then get out of the relationship as its not for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe like you she is getting it other places .. x Thats why not into you ?

OK I have a reason why I take the position of live and let live. I too was in an unhappy marriage. yes sex dried up for all the usual reasons. Kids, work, life Bla Bla Bla. Porno mags found which she hated and so on and so on. I tried not to let her down and even told her that I had needs that were going unfulfilled and that she could have a lover if she wanted. I was slapped down for being a filthy pervert to have such ideas. It was all make believe out of a fiesta magazine so not to be discussed.

Slowly but surely we grew apart.

So too get to the comment made by this poster as quickly as possible we ended up divorced but I subsequently found out that my ex wife had been dating a married men too so there is a ring of truth in what some people say. Hey I'd have loved for my ex wife to have had sexy fun. Mrs N and I enjoy that sort of thing now and again, so my ex wife could have had her cake and eaten it couldn't she.

Bit sad really but I guess it's lack of communication is the key. This is the beauty of my relationship with Mrs N. I just found the whole thing so hypocritical and not black and white as some people suggest. Good luck to the OP. I think he is going to need it as in said in a previous post."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the deception and dishonesty behind the fulfilling of one's own needs that is wrong.

Don't expect a pat on the back here for cheating. Either do it and pay the consequences or try and fix your relationship.

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"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!"

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

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over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?"

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your comments , I take them all board , x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol"

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could "

you know me.

good with my mind AND my fingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hidden your profile? Why op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could "

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol"

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that. "

I can see it in your cock slice.....i mean cake slice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that. "

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments "

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all."

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could have a light shine on me that will bring about such a change, I really do.

Unfortunately I'm walking the devils side of the tracks and I'm having a bit more difficulty in crossing back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low"

Okay well that kind of now puts your reaction into perspective ~ like I said previously if something positive comes out of a forum posting then it's a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its only OK if its mutual or you both agree its OK

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

Not sure you should be seeking approval from people you might never meet think you would be better off talking with your wife

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Why stay in a sexless marriage? Too much hard work to leave... Can't be as painful as being CHEATED ON!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low

Okay well that kind of now puts your reaction into perspective ~ like I said previously if something positive comes out of a forum posting then it's a good thing. "

Thank you for your abuse and kindness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low

Okay well that kind of now puts your reaction into perspective ~ like I said previously if something positive comes out of a forum posting then it's a good thing.

Thank you for your abuse and kindness "

errrrrr.....I prefer word 'opinion'....!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hidden your profile? Why op?"

Because it is an option on the site and he has used it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low

Okay well that kind of now puts your reaction into perspective ~ like I said previously if something positive comes out of a forum posting then it's a good thing.

Thank you for your abuse and kindness

errrrrr.....I prefer word 'opinion'....!!"

haha Jesus Christ it was a joke women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah - a happy ending. I may get emotional..

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

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"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low"

if you are being genuine, then good for you fella. Nothing wrong with making a better person of yourself however the breakthrough comes about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking I'm a naughty boy but hey is life to short ? Highly sexed and wife is sexless so is it wrong men's needs have to be had

I've just read her profile mate........reads similar to yours"

BTW she is anything but sexless. Whoa baby!!!!

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over a year ago


"After reading everyones opinion on this subject I have seen the light.. I would hate to be cheated on , lied to, feel unappreciated and unwanted.. Everyone loves bedroom fun but if you can't stay faithful to one person be single and mingle its not fair hurting someone for your own selfish fun... Wow can't believe the penny has dropped I now despise cheats!

Really ~ is your opinion so easily swayed by what others think?

nope, its just easier to get a shag when you come across as a modern sensitive man, rather than a selfish tit lol

You put it sooooo much better than I ever could

I'm sensitive, I have a special cream and everything and this and that.

Its hardly being swayed .. Seeing it from someone elses point of _iew and understanding it makes a difference you can laugh and twist it all you like if it makes you feel better your thoughts will not change my life what so ever but understanding the hurt cheating can cause could have a massive impact on my life ... Soo crack on with your sarky comments

I just asked the question and you've answered ~ if something you have read has altered your _iew for the the better then all's good....just seemed a little ott to me that's all.

if you had cheated as many times as I have in the past you would no it needed something ott I've not once thought about how they must of felt or how I would feel if it was done to me.. Its a cuntish thing to do and makes me feel low

if you are being genuine, then good for you fella. Nothing wrong with making a better person of yourself however the breakthrough comes about "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way we see it, if someone cheats and lies to the person that's supposed to be the most precious in the world, what sort of lies and deception are they going to lay on total strangers?

XXXX

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