FabSwingers.com forum: How to punish your man?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can someone tell me ways to Punish a guy? Really wants to dominate thx118.

thinking of getting some dom T girls and dom Fem. Look at our couples profile naughtyaffairs

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Bloody hell is he starting to

Collect couples profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butt fuck him with a strap on?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butt fuck him with a strap on?..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody hell is he starting to

Collect couples profiles

Seems to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marry him. Lol

Just kidding - I'm sure you're a lovely lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there some pissing up lamp posts goin on here ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol no he is not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there some pissing up lamp posts goin on here ?"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

does 2 constitute a collection?

is he a switch then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course it says on our profile.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Hide the remote Control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hide the remote Control.

sadist !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might as well hide his bike!! Oh made him loosing his bike counts? Coz he did once lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

CBT?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh id I hide the remote he will fall asleep xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahah that's punishment ultimate!! I like things to be straight up

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Hahahah that's punishment ultimate!! I like things to be straight up

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Wait til he has a hard on then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Serious answer. How about post orgasm torture? He has to be tied up and gagged while you do it

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Hook him up with one of the needy posse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks that's what I was thinking too. He has he bed resistants. I wanna get another T or a woman and get him fucked in front of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about soft CBT just tie up his cock and balls with a pretty ribbon so it's girly and leave the end un wrapped and flick it, tease it etc its not too harsh but just a bit uncomfortable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks that's what I was thinking too. He has he bed resistants. I wanna get another T or a woman and get him fucked in front of me

does he like being fucked? If so it wouldn't be a punishment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butt fuck him with a strap on?..."

I'm doing that next weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahahaha. That's after me Lamo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hahahahaha. That's after me Lamo

Haha

we were gonna do it this weekend but I panicked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!

Oh he does

We bought a cane last Sunday and some needles so he'll definitely get punished

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hehe u better not have any marks one simba with needles. Coz I know know every mark on him!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hehe u better not have any marks one simba with needles. Coz I know know every mark on him!

lol

Oh I'll be leaving marks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.

It is cringeworthy to watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.

It is cringeworthy to watch.

No never met each other

I'm uncomfortable but only coz I've never done this before, it's all quite new to me! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.

It is cringeworthy to watch.

No never met each other

I'm uncomfortable but only coz I've never done this before, it's all quite new to me! Lol"

If the level of discomfort gets to the stage where it upsets you, please have a grown up discussion with the guy in the middle of all this.

If you don't and you allow it to continue, it will destroy you.

I was seeing a guy for a while and got too involved - in other words it was more than just shagging - and I had to stand up and be counted.

He could av told me to get fucked, but he didn't : infact we ended up having 7 years of 'fun' because I had the bollocks to say I wasn't happy with how things were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is cringeworthy to watch.

Its the written equivalent of car crash telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you two actually know each other ? and/or are you both happy with 'sharing' the same guy ? cos to the outsider it looks like this thread is an exercise in territory marking.

It is cringeworthy to watch.

No never met each other

I'm uncomfortable but only coz I've never done this before, it's all quite new to me! Lol

If the level of discomfort gets to the stage where it upsets you, please have a grown up discussion with the guy in the middle of all this.

If you don't and you allow it to continue, it will destroy you.

I was seeing a guy for a while and got too involved - in other words it was more than just shagging - and I had to stand up and be counted.

He could av told me to get fucked, but he didn't : infact we ended up having 7 years of 'fun' because I had the bollocks to say I wasn't happy with how things were."

Doesn't upset me, but if it does I'll speak to him and end it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't upset me, but if it does I'll speak to him and end it"

You don't have to end anything - just have an honest and reasoned talk.

We still had fun, sometimes just us, sometimes together but it was controlled - in so much as we both had a say in who and how we met.

Hope it works out well for you all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nobody needs to be upset as long they know what they are doing and where they stand! For me he is my soul mate! We passed tht BS relationship stage! And we are looking to explore which I'm very comfortable only doing with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't upset me, but if it does I'll speak to him and end it

You don't have to end anything - just have an honest and reasoned talk.

We still had fun, sometimes just us, sometimes together but it was controlled - in so much as we both had a say in who and how we met.

Hope it works out well for you all x"

I'll just end it when the time comes, otherwise it'll just get worse and would never expect anyone to choose between people so sasha will be able to have all the fun she wants with him if it's not for me

I'll most probably leave the swinging scene all together if it still makes me uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there won't be any fall outs or anything, I'll still remain friends with Alan

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no u can have the fun with him, as u know I'm a busy bee and away and me and Alan

Live 240 miles away! At least I know he is in safe hands with u whn I'm away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no u can have the fun with him, as u know I'm a busy bee and away and me and Alan

Live 240 miles away! At least I know he is in safe hands with u whn I'm away

Feel like a dick now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You all need to talk.

In private x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm very comfortable with K. As she sounds like a vey nice girl. Alan has told me abt her. So

U don't need to be upset babes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very comfortable with K. As she sounds like a vey nice girl. Alan has told me abt her. So

U don't need to be upset babes.

I'll go hibernate for a bit lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Back to my question of punishing the guy! Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Alan is a very nice guy! And he loves his friends and he will bring the world just to make one happy!. This what I like about him.... Trust me I have met enough guys and this one is in different level. That's why I'm looking ways to make him satisfied xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vroom vroom=====..CRASH!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha

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By *r-UniqueMan
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

I read the title of the thread and no posts at all. The first thing that cake to mind when you asked "how to punish a man". Well the best way to punish a man is by marrying them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read the title of the thread and no posts at all. The first thing that cake to mind when you asked "how to punish a man". Well the best way to punish a man is by marrying them

Haha yeah and don't give him sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no don't wanna marry! I just like things to be straight up. Married couple kill each other. I wanna keep the essence of swinging...... Name or the game and abide by the cardinal rule of swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He will get enough sex and wanna see him

Suffer infront of eyes and his face goes red!! What dominatrix I wanna be.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw he doesn't have the under bed restraints, there at mine lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Doesn't matter have our own gear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't matter have our own gear

Ahh that's ok then lol we used them when he used the needles on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this thread is like watching East Enders !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh not into that shit! I wud not let a mark on

My body! I love my self too much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read the title of the thread and no posts at all. The first thing that cake to mind when you asked "how to punish a man". Well the best way to punish a man is by marrying them

Haha yeah and don't give him sex"

then get sympathy when he cheats on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh not into that shit! I wud not let a mark on

My body! I love my self too much!!

I've got tattoos so I'm ok with needles, just didn't like it when I was blindfolded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x"

I speak before using my brain

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh no I can't girl! Very scared! That's why I always admire people with tatoos. Thumbs up for u xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!

Oh he does

We bought a cane last Sunday and some needles so he'll definitely get punished

For the safety of my anus I hope never to be trapped in a room with pair of you O.O

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gonna ruin him and send him ur way on Sat!! He needs to be punished!!

Oh he does

We bought a cane last Sunday and some needles so he'll definitely get punished

For the safety of my anus I hope never to be trapped in a room with pair of you O.O"

Lmfao! Up for some dp sasha?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't u mud wrestle over him lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No one cheats here for the record lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh no I can't girl! Very scared! That's why I always admire people with tatoos. Thumbs up for u xx

Haha!

I'm fine with tattoos just not injections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x"

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.

Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't u mud wrestle over him lol"

Now that would be funny lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.

Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!

Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.

Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!

Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck

I'm not married lol it was a joke. I'm only 24 :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.

Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!

Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck

I'm not married lol it was a joke. I'm only 24 :p"

What's age got to do with it? I got married at 20

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh I love my married men! No issues there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ditch the wife !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.

Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.

For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.

As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies please, take this in private.

Surely if you are open enough to share a man, you are open enough to have a dialogue that doesn't involve point scoring in a public forum.

And before you say 'don't look' it is impossible not to, I am gay

Doesn't make it any easier to view though and neither of you is doing yourself any favours.

It looks cheap - which I am sure neither of you are x

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

All three of us are exploring about in bdsm so it's good to get advice on new ideas.

Just so long as my wife doesn't find out about them I'll be fine!

Thought one of the ladies had issues with meeting married men. Good luck

I'm not married lol it was a joke. I'm only 24 :p

What's age got to do with it? I got married at 20"

I suppose it doesn't but I've never really seen many people my age married. Or at least not for very long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.

Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.

For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.

As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here."

This isn't more than a bit of fun for me, if it was I'd stop seeing Alan but we'd remain friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh this is more just their sense of humour than point scoring it's in jest and good humour.

Read this thread from beginning to end. If you believe that is the case, you are in denial at best and delusional at worst.

Seriously sort 'your ladies' out : or this will end in tears for at least one of you.

For you, this may be 'fun' but for both of them, you are more than just a bit of fun.

As I said to the girls before, good luck in making it work, but to do that you have to acknowledge what is going on here."

They are not "my ladies" to "sort out" they're grown adults with minds of their own the three of us are very open and everyone had knowledge of what is going on.

None of the three of us wants a relationship just enjoying the good things without the hassle.

Oh and I know it's the case as I'm talking to them both at the same time and they're more annoyed at your high horse than each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone is going to get hurt