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"we are a fun couple (we think) and after meeting couples can anybody tell us if our profile is off putting or the pics are no good etc cos it seems no couples want to meet us plenty of blokes or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site" looks fine to me. looking ar ur veries it looks like u are doing well on here with cpls as well as singles | |||
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"we are a fun couple (we think) and after meeting couples can anybody tell us if our profile is off putting or the pics are no good etc cos it seems no couples want to meet us plenty of blokes or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site" Nothing wrong with the profile. The reference to 3000 timewasters as you call people is rather condescending though. I see this thread for what it is though a "look at us we need couples meets so message us after seeing this". I have no doubt you will find people do that. | |||
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"I see this thread for what it is though a "look at us we need couples meets so message us after seeing this". I have no doubt you will find people do that." yeap, another look at me | |||
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"Look at me ! Look at Me ! Look at me ! All those verifications and you need to ask that question ... Cumon, pull the other one, it's got bells on" Ding-dong! | |||
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".... or are there just 3000 timewasters or wanabees on this site" Regardless of what is on your profile, your perception of success will be most influence by your expectations: If you expect 3000 people to be queuing up to meet you… you’re not going to be thinking your profile is successful no matter what you write on it. By potentially labelling 3000 people as timewasters and wannabes, whether you meant to or not, you are implying you are expecting a bloody long queue….. which begs the question, do you really want to meet just anyone who asks? Have you ever knocked people back because they didn’t meet your preferences? If you have, then shouldn’t you also expect some of the 3000 won’t think you are right for them? If you haven't, then I can see why some of the 3000 won’t think you are right for them. May be some of the 3000 have queues of their own.... and having read your post, you may well (as you probably hoped) bumped up a few places with some folk... but I am also sure you dropped down a long way on plenty of others. | |||
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"is too many verifications on profile a off putter" It doesnt put me off in the slightest, but it can be a double edged sword. I've had some people turn me down because there's a perception that I "get around" too much (go figure!!) - other people have been very positive about it - even to the extent where they have commented on the fact I've met people they know and would be happy to meet on the basis of that. You'll never please everyone all the time - so don't try | |||
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