FabSwingers.com forum: Disabilty is This a turn off?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok I have a fairly mild disability being profoundly deaf though I do Wear cochlear implants to correct this.

I have always been pretty up front about this and I do manage a conversation though I cant use a phone.

So I am wondering is a disabled person of any type a turn off and would you be able to handle a few compromises that a disability might bring?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I met a woman with hearing aids once. She didnt tell me an I had a hell of a time trying to figure out why there was a high pitched noise everytime I went near her neck.

It didnt bother me in the least, just went to other areas. It in fact it helped, as I didnt have to get over her HH tits from then on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think a disability is a problem. You are doing the right thing by making potential meets aware of it. Those that see it as a problem are probably not the type of people you want to meet anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should always take people as they find them, it shouldn't stop anybody being who they are.

If people have an issue with it then they are not for you.

Same goes for fat, thin, big cock, little cock, black, white, good grammar, bad grammar.

Actually, the bit about the grammar isn't quite true.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical disability I don't think would be a problem for me......I met a lady in a wheel chair at bestival a few years back....we didn't do anything I just met her but she stands out in my mind as one of the most beautiful sexy women I ever saw...I'm with chaotic on the neurological disability thing though, I persanally would feel very ill at ease with somebody who I saw as vulnerable....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a problem but our same rules and preferences would apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disabilities wouldn't be an issue to us.

Unless, they have an issue about it

We've had pm's from Asian guys, and whilst we dont have an issue with someones skin colour, when they bang on over and over about how they are Asian, and expect us to have an issue with it, then we decline.

Often we get comments because we haven't highlighted on our profile, we are an 'interace' couple. I dont see what our skin colour has to do with it though

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By *exywheelsCouple
over a year ago

inverness

Why should it make a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slept with a blind girl once, didn't matter one bit, she was a top girl , a great laugh and a piss taking cow! So physical disability's are fine, neurological is a different matter,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Certain types of disability would affect my playtime so it would be a problem. My playroom is upstairs so a wheelchair user would be out. I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets, use blindfolds etc.

Doesn't mean I'm a "ist"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my regular men wears hearing aids in both ears. I just shout at him

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

We met a couple that came to ours she was deaf but did not know till they came was no problem still had a good time we also meet a couple where he is a amputee again no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult."

Yes same here

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By *mma_j_cdTV/TS
over a year ago

chester

I can honestly say hand on heart I see the person not the disability. I have met some disabled people who have had the most charming delightful personalities I have felt blessed to have met them

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

it is a turn off for some people. I get told by narrow minded idiots that 'people like me' shouldn't be on this site.

I tend to only do social meets at present, due to my health being particularly bad at the moment and have met many people who have been lovely, so I'll continue to stay on here and meet new people.

Would I meet someone disabled? Yes, I already have met a fellow wheelchair user and a guy that was deaf. He too had the implants. But knowing BSL was a bonus. We just had fun signing rude words!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult."

well said,, disabled people need sex to , so it wouldnt bother me sex is fun have fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets"

Everyone should have a hobby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Certain types of disability would affect my playtime so it would be a problem. My playroom is upstairs so a wheelchair user would be out. I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets, use blindfolds etc.

Doesn't mean I'm a "ist"

So true. If certain people can't do the sort of things you're looking for you wouldn't go for them. Nothing to do with a disability.but people should always be told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets

Everyone should have a hobby

And what a wonderful hobby it is

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to hang playmates from hooks/brackets

Everyone should have a hobby

And what a wonderful hobby it is

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

One of my meets has aids in both ears. I didn't notice for months!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody seems to care about my neurological condition in a good way.

I'm weird yes, but I'm far from vulnerable. It's a mild condition I deal with easily. It helps for people to know, but the people who don't give a shit are the ones I'll get on with easier.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

I met someone who was disabled a long time ago , and she was such a lovely woman , we had some amazing sex, so yes disabled people are just as sexy as "normal " people

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By *ooking4you69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"it is a turn off for some people. I get told by narrow minded idiots that 'people like me' shouldn't be on this site.

I tend to only do social meets at present, due to my health being particularly bad at the moment and have met many people who have been lovely, so I'll continue to stay on here and meet new people.

Would I meet someone disabled? Yes, I already have met a fellow wheelchair user and a guy that was deaf. He too had the implants. But knowing BSL was a bonus. We just had fun signing rude words!

I can't believe how rude some people can be on this site....good on you for not letting them get to you

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

disability should not prevent someone having a sex life

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

A straightforward mention early in the messaging process helps. I have some health issues at the moment and though it's not a disability a handful have declined to meet me. Which is fine.

But I'd rather know early on before I start to get excited about a meet. And by mentioning it early, without fuss and making it clear that I am comfortable in my skin and will not be offended by a thanks but no thanks it keeps it civilised and pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hearing aids not completely deaf tho yet?

mildred is registered disabled, too many peeps looking at her good bits to realize she has bad bits,

physical wouldn't bother us , the mind would be different depends realy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think for me the main sticking point is when you tell people you cant easily use the phone.

It seems that many women wont meet unless this happens and don't believe me when I tell them its a problem.

its a bit frusrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wait until I've got them naked and say sorry no squatting for me, I have dodgy knees

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

LOl dodgy knees or not you look pretty damn good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit. "

Really? you look damn hot :p

I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.

But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head

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By *vaneTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Ive met a lot of ex servicemen with missing limbs etc. They usually get an extra special service from me. They also have some great stories. If someone was mentally handicapped then id have issues from a different stand point.

I met one guy who gad polio as a child he was only 5 foot and hunched but he had a dick that almost touched his knee.

So you just never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wait until I've got them naked and say sorry no squatting for me, I have dodgy knees

Dodgy knees here too, and I'm half your age.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As a few have said, as long as the person wasn't a vulnerable adult no problem at all. Plus last year I passed my stage 1 Bsl cert

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Sadly it's a issue for some, have had people just walk away when meeting, despite it stating on profile I'm deaf.

Some people can be really thoughtless and hurtful, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I developed a balance problem last year which means I can't drive. My brain is still in tact, I just have to be careful in the way I move. Am still getting the urge so I know the rest of me works ok .

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.

Really? you look damn hot :p

I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.

But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head

Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.

Really? you look damn hot :p

I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.

But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head

Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel."

After (ahem) perusing your pics I suspect the ladies might need to have your scar pointed out to them cos they might get distracted by other bits.

Just sayin

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.

Really? you look damn hot :p

I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.

But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head

Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel.

After (ahem) perusing your pics I suspect the ladies might need to have your scar pointed out to them cos they might get distracted by other bits.

Just sayin

Thankyou!

It is why there are no pics of my stomach...

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"A disability that was not a neurological disorder would not bother me at all but I could not meet someone for sex if they would be classed as a vulnerable adult.

Yes same here

This and I hope everyone would feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have some....er...mild disfigurement and I have been very pleasantly surprised at how nobody gives a shit.

Really? you look damn hot :p

I'm always a bit self conscious on here because of the amount of scars I have I some times cover some with a bandage if in a club or a first meet.

But the ones I've shown them too have been very good but it's still in my head

Yeah. I had an ileostomy when I was 22, so I can relate to the "scar" thing. It has put me off clubs where the dress code for fellers is shorts or a towel.

After (ahem) perusing your pics I suspect the ladies might need to have your scar pointed out to them cos they might get distracted by other bits.

Just sayin

I thought that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I have a fairly mild disability being profoundly deaf though I do Wear cochlear implants to correct this.

I have always been pretty up front about this and I do manage a conversation though I cant use a phone.

So I am wondering is a disabled person of any type a turn off and would you be able to handle a few compromises that a disability might bring?"

No problems with most disabilities but saying that as with anyone there has to be an attraction there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never really thought a disability would or shoud be a problem and since being diagnosed with ms about 2 yearsgago it made it 100 % clear to me its not.... sexy fun with sexual people is sexy whatever. ..whatever disability size creed.. as long as its a sexy rewarding friendship x

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