FabSwingers.com forum: average guys can get meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average.

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By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago

manchester

Well done brad

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average."

hope it goes well for you... well done

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

true on all fronts - you're obviously qn up front honest dude who has had fun - power to all us average people! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you mate and nice to see some positivity. I hope you have a very enjoyable next meet together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an average dude with a 6pack lol.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average.

hope it goes well for you... well done

wow - wow - if we're looking for a single guy to join us would you be up for it? Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average guys do get meets. Regularly.

One persons average is another persons stunning.

Chances out there for everyone, but as Brucie says 'you jusy have to play your cards right'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive."

Mate you where not wrong and fair play for doing it...

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By *eviant100Man
over a year ago

I would say I'm average looking and yes it's hard, but keep trying and your meet some genuine fun people

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive."

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

yes I been on here 3 years was on as single and nothing then on here as Cpl and had lots of meets come off site for a year back on here now . I have try the nice way and nothing try the hi can I fk you way and still nothing.

70% of people on here are fake even the Cpl ones . when you get reply they say get back to you but they never do

onne thing I have done is keep all your sent messages when you meet some one and starts meets if any of your passed get intouch block them

no mater how you are on here it want work

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

Good work fella

A post like that puts perspective on things.....

One ladies frog is another ladies prince.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that"

they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you this is what fabs is all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that"
Because they have chosen them, or met them at parties ect.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Good for you this is what fabs is all about

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I can vouch that average guys do indeed get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who are upfront and honest are always preferable over looks in my book, I've met many 'Mr Averages' and had some great times.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that

they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z"

well why don't they block the ones that do it not all of us we not all here for that I read all profile first before send message and still nothing back so that s why men do it may as well say want a fk and not read it or read it send nice message and still get deleted . all I would like is one message that says hi sorry your not for us easy

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

"People who are upfront and honest are always preferable over looks in my book, I've met many 'Mr Averages' and had some great times. "

yes you are right there be you on here I am never lie or anything but most women and single females think we all the same but if they take the time to chat they will find out we not all bad

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that

they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z

We block all single males - if we want to find one we will message him - too much hassle to have it otherwise Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Please - this is supposed to be a positive thread - not a rant.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is thatBecause they have chosen them, or met them at parties ect."

yes your right they chosen them but not met them at partys

why put it on profile if they not going to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that

they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z"

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

not a rant sorry I was just saying wll stop now mate very sorry

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Please - this is supposed to be a positive thread - not a rant. "

yes - lets keep on track! The OP is a great example of a nice guy having fun - some other dudes may need to take notice! Z

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not a rant sorry I was just saying wll stop now mate very sorry"

Please join in - be positive.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

for the average guys from me

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

who is op lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/04/14 23:02:39]

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"who is op lol"

opening poster i think Z

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

yes mate how you meet and have the time of your life

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"who is op lol

Original Poster"

You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Z

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Good on you big fella, hope your meet goes well etc etc, always nice to see a positive single male thread....keep up the good work

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I did not start it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay positive no matter what , evrn if you have to fake it for a while, It is very attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that

they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z

we havnt blocked single males because we get the occasional email from some regarding posts or comments we made which can lead to a bit of banter, we have stated on our profile what we are looking for and if people are just too stupid to take it in or understand it then i for one feel no need to reply to a chancers message.

If you dont know how to play the game save time and pay for it.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes your right they chosen them but not met them at partys

why put it on profile if they not going to meet them"

How on earth do you know how & where others meet single males do you have crystal balls?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

A rant hi-jack....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive."

Good for you, have a great time

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Good on you, hope you have lots of fun

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

no I rad the profile its so easy tey it

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

sorry try it I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no I rad the profile its so easy tey it"

Too many Stellas ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look and read profiles of women/ couples even though am not what they are looking for

Nothing wrong with window shopping

From another average man

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I just love the average man and met some bloomin' good ones. I just like to occasionally hand pick them myself

OP good luck with your meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes"

Good grief man! Your negativity and whinging just makes you completely unapproachable,you're like a human version of eeyore the donkey

Cheer up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wooo hoooooo

Let's hear it for the average guys!!

Fist bump

ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wooo hoooooo

Let's hear it for the average guys!!

Fist bump

ish"

But what about us beautiful people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wooo hoooooo

Let's hear it for the average guys!!

Fist bump

ish

But what about us beautiful people?

Your out of my league so you cancel yourself out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average."

Well done OP - nice to see a single guy being positive and getting somewhere!

From an other average dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats on getting a meet.

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By *anny.Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Im as ugly as hell and have a tiny cock, but I still do alright. Good luck on your meet, I hope you get stuck right in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you sound like a lovely guy with a great attitude. Hope you have a great time! She's a lucky lady.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op is a lovely guy,He got of his bum and went to a sussex social,and was a blooming good laugh ,that does help too shows He is approachable and makes a effort to meet,,I was pleased for him the other day and told him so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you. Hooe it goes well. from a average female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the positivity mate.......I posted a similar thread a while back extolling the virtues of this site

I'm below average on my oppinion and have had plenty of meets and more planned....its all about who you are, being positive, happy and above all being yourself on here. I love this site so much I can't even begin to tell you..........good man, more like you please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can they!!! Hope for us all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read so many guys saying 'i cant get a meet' - I thought it would be good to say something positive."

well done. Nice to see a positive thread. Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes"

Stop whingeing and take a leaf out of the OPs book

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By *tuartb1970Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

Well done mate, it takes time and patience on here to get a meet

Being pushy never works, just being yourself and taking the time to be pleasant and approachable helps loads

Hooray for the average guy, which I'm proud to say I'm one of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the avg looking guys n gals get the majority of the meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is beautiful to someone....

Well done OP, us average guys just keep going

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks to everyone for their kind words.

i didn't mean it to be a 'look at me post' more to give other average guys a 'can do attitude'.

Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of average guys get meets, some not so average guys dont get that many so its not all about looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done a real trooper it's lovely to see something positive for a change hope you and the lady have a wonderful time ( good girl) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please - this is supposed to be a positive thread - not a rant.

yes - lets keep on track! The OP is a great example of a nice guy having fun - some other dudes may need to take notice! Z"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average."

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

i wouldnt call you average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average??? Wots average? Ur all stunning in ur own ways, and confidence out weighs stupid "wana fuck " messages, u put in the effort u get rewarded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"o and another thing read Cpl profiles they say not meeting single males but when you read who they met 90% are single males can you people tell me why is that

they block single males till they want to find one otherwise they're inundated with 'wanna fuck' messages Z

Couples and women get 100's of messages a day there's not enough time a day to reply to them all. Go to a local swing club its the best way to get a foot on the ladder, don't pester people always be polite and a gentleman, no one likes a whiner. Offer to take them out for coffee or lunch and treat them well and pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes"

Your 2nd verify is very off putting tbh its almost like you wrote it yourself or payed someone to write it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well do the OP, yes average polite none winging Guys do OK on here.

Shame some winger has dragged down the original post!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whooop!

Us average buggers are sexy as fuck too you know! Go for it OP!! Do us proud!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't send any people messages that state no single males but read profile and can see most are fakes

Your 2nd verify is very off putting tbh its almost like you wrote it yourself or payed someone to write it. "

I agree

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

"This is not a rant.

I know guys are drastically outnumbered, but I consider myself with average looks and a cuddly figure.

I was contacted by a lovely lady on here and we met for a drink.

Now - we've planned a meet for some fun.

So, it goes to show that average guys (those without a 6 pack or a brad Pitt look-a-like) can meet with the right profile.

Be positive and polite - that's my opinion.

Good luck Mr average."

good for you nice to see a positive post on here .hope you have a positively filthy time mate

And to the moaning single guys judt remember playing with someone is a privilege not a right .

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants

Totally with you on this Trooper!

Average guys have to put in more effort sometimes. Nice to see it pay off!

I'm no oil painting (well, maybe a Picasso or Dali!) but do ok.

Personality, sense of humour and just being nice counts for a lot!

And not whinging about not getting meets has to be a plus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed. Nice to read a positive thread from the OP.

Have a good time!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well do the OP, yes average polite none winging Guys do OK on here.

Shame some winger has dragged down the original post!!!"

Thanks - yes it's a shame. There's always one (at least). Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

You are absolutely not average…..i know - i just checked…. and you're pretty close to me… and to be honest we should do away with this ping pong seduction and just meet instead…. just a thought…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

For the avoidance of doubt the invitation was to Chaotic Temptation not the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

Goes for me too, yeh go team average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

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Ha message with a face picture simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

Ha message with a face picture simple"

Think i'm outside your age range and probably species preference

but happy to if i can think of a way of getting it to you…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

Your hardly 'average' chaotic but at least your humble lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

It's not just average people....

I am about to start the group "even munters get meets"...have thought of a catchy name for it yet!

What can I say... Must have a brilliant personality to overcome the hideousness!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

Your hardly 'average' chaotic but at least your humble lol "
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I look like crap in the morning as well as everyone else there for averagely normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From one average to another well done OP and I hope your meet goes fab

Your hardly 'average' chaotic but at least your humble lol .

I look like crap in the morning as well as everyone else there for averagely normal

I should very much like to see you in the morning then, just so I know your not telling porky pies....obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Average??? Wots average? Ur all stunning in ur own ways, and confidence out weighs stupid "wana fuck " messages, u put in the effort u get rewarded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just average people....

I am about to start the group "even munters get meets"...have thought of a catchy name for it yet!

What can I say... Must have a brilliant personality to overcome the hideousness!!!

munter hunters obviously

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A nice positive post from da trooper. May the force be with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average guys are awesome!

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