FabSwingers.com forum: deleting MY verification

By *itTVlondon OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Hi All, Could anyone tell me how I go about deleting MY verification from someone else's profile - he's turned out to be not such a nice guy after all! Pls advise.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Block him. It vanishes from his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him and the veri will not show on his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All, Could anyone tell me how I go about deleting MY verification from someone else's profile - he's turned out to be not such a nice guy after all! Pls advise."
only way is to block him, you can unblock him later if you want but the veri disappears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U can block him that will not let him show ur verification unfortunately u can't get the tick removed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi All, Could anyone tell me how I go about deleting MY verification from someone else's profile - he's turned out to be not such a nice guy after all! Pls advise.only way is to block him, you can unblock him later if you want but the veri disappears

If you unblock him the veri returns again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did you very him before you met him

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Why did you very him before you met him

It doesn't say anywhere on the OP that they didn't meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you very him before you met him

It doesn't say anywhere on the OP that they didn't meet."

Then why would what happened after the meet affect the verification of the meet?

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By *itTVlondon OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Thank you SO very much all of you You are STARS!!!!!

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By *itTVlondon OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"Why did you very him before you met him

It doesn't say anywhere on the OP that they didn't meet.

Then why would what happened after the meet affect the verification of the meet?

Up to the OP why they've decided that someone they met turned out not to deserve the verification that was written. Maybe if we were allowed to edit them things would be better.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification."

but he turned up, was a real person and you enjoyed yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification."

Lots of people do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you very him before you met him

It doesn't say anywhere on the OP that they didn't meet.

Then why would what happened after the meet affect the verification of the meet?

Up to the OP why they've decided that someone they met turned out not to deserve the verification that was written. Maybe if we were allowed to edit them things would be better."

Which would just lead to spiteful deletes and edits when a person decides they do not want a repeat meet which hey is exactly what has happened here it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy turned up was what he said was polite and nice just didn't want to meet again why does that change anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you had a fabulous meet,the verification was honoured, no matter what happened later.

Her

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By *itTVlondon OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

He explained to me that he would not verify my cos a friend of his was on the site. But yes the meet was ab fab!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kid"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of people arent as nice as what you think they are though. often you exagerate how good or nice they were.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification."

...erm...and?!! What am I missing?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy turned up, you both had fun so can't see what the problem is?

Yes you say he only wanted to see you because he wanted his first veri, but isn't that why everyone is on here? To have fun?

OP, you must have got something/enjoyed yourself to verify him genuine in the first place..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"lots of people arent as nice as what you think they are though. often you exagerate how good or nice they were."

True, but what did the meet do wrong?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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"lots of people arent as nice as what you think they are though. often you exagerate how good or nice they were."

I must admit that if I was told I was met just to get a verification I would be a little bit miffed too, but I probably would just delete and move on. Anyway, the guys got his tick now whether the veri is there or not so he's succeeded.

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By *itTVlondon OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

Reading all your posts has put it all into perpective. So glad I posted what I posted. I just feel that he could've told me he could not verify me before I actually went ahead and verified him. But silly me - dunno why I cared. I won't from now on and will simply block the culprit in future. All in all it's almost a non-issue but glad u responded so positively.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True, but what did the meet do wrong?"

Doesn't want to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He explained to me that he would not verify my cos a friend of his was on the site. But yes the meet was ab fab!"

Your OP is asking how to delete a veri of said guy and now you are saying he refused to verify you because if his mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He explained to me that he would not verify my cos a friend of his was on the site. But yes the meet was ab fab!

Your OP is asking how to delete a veri of said guy and now you are saying he refused to verify you because if his mate?"

may be his mate doesn't know he shags blokes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lots of people arent as nice as what you think they are though. often you exagerate how good or nice they were.

True, but what did the meet do wrong?"

He didnt really like her did he?

its like, oh she will do sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kid"

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By *itTVlondon OP TV/TS
over a year ago

London

most of my verifiers are straight and still verify me so he had issues I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reading all your posts has put it all into perpective. So glad I posted what I posted. I just feel that he could've told me he could not verify me before I actually went ahead and verified him. But silly me - dunno why I cared. I won't from now on and will simply block the culprit in future. All in all it's almost a non-issue but glad u responded so positively."

not everyone veris, though. I've had a couple that didn't, and a couple that deleted their profile after. i don't treat it as anobligation for others to veri me, and just smile when they do. i personally think maybe too much emphasis is put on them by some people. they're useful in some respects but have drawbacks as well.

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By *romageFraiseWoman
over a year ago

London

If you've wrote a veri saying how nice a person is and they later turn out not be, why would you want them to keep your veri? Got fed up with every single meet asking me to do them a veri right after we met so now I just say will do it when I'm ready to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you've wrote a veri saying how nice a person is and they later turn out not be, why would you want them to keep your veri? Got fed up with every single meet asking me to do them a veri right after we met so now I just say will do it when I'm ready to"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I seldom give verifications and certainly don't expect them. Men that contact me seldom have "sub" on their profiles as not to limit potential meets.

Could be "straight" men don't want future potential meets to know they've been balls deep in another man.

Some will tell you what you want to hear others will be open: bottom line we're all here to get what we want.

Enjoy your encounters for what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He explained to me that he would not verify my cos a friend of his was on the site. But yes the meet was ab fab!

Your OP is asking how to delete a veri of said guy and now you are saying he refused to verify you because if his mate?"

She verified him he didn't verify her now she wants to remove her very of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" most of my verifiers are straight and still verify me so he had issues I guess."

Issues maybe but he should have been honest before you met then you could have decided whether or not to go ahead and meet him. He could have got cam verified but I'm pleased you had a good meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone a long time ago had a great meet everything was fine we both verified each other after then he started pushing for more and stalking me so although the meet was great his true colours showed after so I think this would be a great reason to be able to delete or edit a verification all I could do was block him I couldn't report him as no proof so just shows that there is a good reason for wanting to delete a verification that has been given (and yes I do realise that it is my fault for not being careful but everyone makes mistakes)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nice social meet we left on good terms,I verified him. He said he was going to verify me but then changed his mind and said he'd only verify me when I'd f#cked him..nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone a long time ago had a great meet everything was fine we both verified each other after then he started pushing for more and stalking me so although the meet was great his true colours showed after so I think this would be a great reason to be able to delete or edit a verification all I could do was block him I couldn't report him as no proof so just shows that there is a good reason for wanting to delete a verification that has been given (and yes I do realise that it is my fault for not being careful but everyone makes mistakes)"

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Aw this is where verification and review clash

The verification is of course correct however if op gave a gushing review and now discovers the person is not quite as described op may feel her review is misleading. The reason for the offending male not to give review makes no sense as his friends can see the ops review lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its my ball, your not playing fair so im taking it back..nerr nerr

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that."

So does that mean you find it acceptable for a person to use someone else to get verified? It happened to me once. Met for a social drink and the guy came across as very polite, and was only too eager to meet up for some fun the next day. I verified him that night, and when it came to the next day, my message wasn't replied to, and he even had the nerve to display my verification while looking for another meet! How anyone can not understand, why I wouldn't want that verification to be removed is beyond me. He obvious wasn't the polite and genuine person, I thought I had met so why would I even want to give people that view, which is also deceiving everyone else on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this before. Always from straight guys unsurprisingly. They never verify back and they hide yours, never have the veri summary displayed either.

So now I don't meet them unless they have something more to offer, like being able to accomodate. And I never verify first.

I'd tighten up your meet criteria. Don't let them treat you like a dirty secret, there's too much of that in our world. If you're going to let a guy stick his dick in you and have a good time it'd be nice to get some acknowledgement of the fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they were, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they were, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

Spot on!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they were, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol @ tv/ts on a sex site, surprised at being treated like a dirty secret.

What did you expect op? Tea with his mum and dad.

Just lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its entirely up to the individual what they do after they've given a verification,I wouldn't want my name associated with someone that was who they appeared to be on a meet and then turned out to be a complete and utter cockhead afterwards,blocking them and removing the veri would be my only way of disassociating myself from them and taking away any account of a meet as I would feel as though I was deceiving the next person to meet them,its a function that was given because so many people requesed it and admin felt there was a genuine need for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this before. Always from straight guys unsurprisingly. They never verify back and they hide yours, never have the veri summary displayed either.

So now I don't meet them unless they have something more to offer, like being able to accomodate. And I never verify first.

Good for you, have some self respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think veries should be able to be changed \ deleted at all once they have been posted, it's stupid and goes against the whole reason for having them.

Even if that person left the site the very should still show but user no longer on site should show on the others list.... blocking a person should not have any baring on a previously posted verification.

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that."

I've lost count of the amount of guys who do that. I find it far easier to get laid than they do, and this is what the site is all about, so I think fair enough, I'll happily help them on their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they were, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

I can see why she would want her veri removed, not because he didnt want to meet her again but because he sounded to me like a twat as she was good enough to meet him and leave him a veri when he couldnt be arsed to reply to her message or leave her a verification, all he had to do was say thanks for meeting me but your not really my type.

Seems to me there are a few women haters on here, does being a swinger mean you have to be as hard as nails.

That its ok to treat people like they are rubish.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

You met you had a great time what is your problem. Pick your toys back up and stop sulking. It shouldn't matter if they verify you back or not. I've written some and not got one back but I don't care it's no big deal. I know soneone that doesn't write any verifications.

Don't see the issue personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol @ tv/ts on a sex site, surprised at being treated like a dirty secret.

What did you expect op? Tea with his mum and dad.

Just lol.

Why LOL? Why shouldn't we be afforded the same courtesy as anyone who meets up for a shag on here?

Far too many straight men on here who haven't got the bollocks to admit liking TV's, and a lot more just use us because they can't be arsed to put in the effort to meet a real woman.

It isn't about having a fucking relationship is it ? It's about not being a cowardly bellend. I know some girls don't help themselves but jeezus, the attitude towards us is shocking.

And I wouldn't LOL too much, supposedly single straight men who can't accomodate, dont display veris or the summary and say they need discretion are the prime candidates for wanting to fuck girlboy arse instead of having a lonely wank.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

"He explained to me that he would not verify my cos a friend of his was on the site. But yes the meet was ab fab!"

Thats a bit daft cos now his friend is going to know anyway as he has a veri from you on his profile. If I wss you id leave it up for that very reason lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a few people and never got a verification back it was not an issue for me as he needed the verification first meet for him and for me well I am verified people can see I meet etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol @ tv/ts on a sex site, surprised at being treated like a dirty secret.

What did you expect op? Tea with his mum and dad.

Just lol.

Why LOL? Why shouldn't we be afforded the same courtesy as anyone who meets up for a shag on here?

Far too many straight men on here who haven't got the bollocks to admit liking TV's, and a lot more just use us because they can't be arsed to put in the effort to meet a real woman.

It isn't about having a fucking relationship is it ? It's about not being a cowardly bellend. I know some girls don't help themselves but jeezus, the attitude towards us is shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a nice social meet we left on good terms,I verified him. He said he was going to verify me but then changed his mind and said he'd only verify me when I'd f#cked him..nice

What an absolute w#nker. Better off not giving yourself to a twat like that. Guys are always so nice til they've slept with you but that was just cold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont show my veris now after a few issues with guys getting harrassed by certain veri chasers. I do give out veris but if I subsequently find the person wasnt what they seemed - I just block so my good name isnt associated on their profile anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice if there was an option to delete a verification given to someone without blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 53 verifications. Don't worry about one guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 53 verifications. Don't worry about one guy! "

Also reminds me of a line from that really old western movie, the treasure of sierra madre

http://youtu.be/VqomZQMZQCQ

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"It would be nice if there was an option to delete a verification given to someone without blocking. "

Why? If you want to remove a veri it's probably because they've passed you off lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

there is some different things going on in this thread... a lot of it is really petty...

the whole "i want to take my veri back because they wont veri me" is really playground... sorry, but it is!!!

the point of a veri for me is two things... they turned up, they are who they said they were!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there is some different things going on in this thread... a lot of it is really petty...

the whole "i want to take my veri back because they wont veri me" is really playground... sorry, but it is!!!

the point of a veri for me is two things... they turned up, they are who they said they were!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice if there was an option to delete a verification given to someone without blocking.

Why? If you want to remove a veri it's probably because they've passed you off lol "

Not neccessarily, you may have misjudged someone as I have on the odd occasion. I find blocking a bit petty and uneccessary unless someone has been abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice if there was an option to delete a verification given to someone without blocking.

Why? If you want to remove a veri it's probably because they've passed you off lol

Not neccessarily, you may have misjudged someone as I have on the odd occasion. I find blocking a bit petty and uneccessary unless someone has been abusive. "

Its easy to misjudge people on here.

put it down to experience and why worry about blocking someone you dont think much of, they dont mean anything to you and you dont owe them anything.

people block others because they dont like something they said on the forums all the time so what difference does it make. Some people on here seem to think that you should be grateful for someone wanting to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be nice if there was an option to delete a verification given to someone without blocking. "

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kid"
bit harsh that they only asked and they might have had a bad experience with that person so they are no longer someone you would want anyone else to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kidbit harsh that they only asked and they might have had a bad experience with that person so they are no longer someone you would want anyone else to meet."

Yes you would feel like a bit of an idiot saying how nice they were if they werent, it would be a lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kid"

I've met & verified before only for them to turn nasty on me. It happened to me once when a girl got jealous of me meeting others.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"The guy turned up was what he said was polite and nice just didn't want to meet again why does that change anything"

Ou thoughts exactly, we verified a guy recently, he chose not to meet us again or verify us but we verified him being genuine and a polite guy, would not dream of deleting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there is some different things going on in this thread... a lot of it is really petty...

the whole "i want to take my veri back because they wont veri me" is really playground... sorry, but it is!!!

the point of a veri for me is two things... they turned up, they are who they said they were!

Then a couple of weeks down the line its actually turns out that they are not who they said they were,they are displaying sociopathic tendancies and being complete arses,thank goodness if that happens it can be remedied by me being allowed to at least remove my name from their profile

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

So does that mean you find it acceptable for a person to use someone else to get verified? It happened to me once. Met for a social drink and the guy came across as very polite, and was only too water to meet up for some fun the next day. I verified him that night, and when it came to the next day, my message wasn't replied to, and he even had the nerve to display my verification while looking for another meet! How anyone can not understand, why I wouldn't want that verification to be removed is beyond me. He obvious wasn't the polite and genuine person, I thought I had met so why would I even want to give people that view, which is also deceiving everyone else on the site.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they we'r, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

I can't believe how bitter people are being to the op, especially the ladies.

There's obviously, less of a chance that a single guy would feel used for a veri, if they where meeting a single lady or couple, as it's much easier for them to get a meet, therefore not feeling it right just to use someone for that purpose.

Why aren't verifications used to verify a person character, and just to say that person exists? I can tell if a person is real or not, if they are picture verified. I want to see what that persons character is like from what I read, and if the person you have verified turns out just to be using you, then there hardly honest,more a deceitful person, who obviously use people for there own benefit. They have know respect for the individual for doing it, so doubt they will have respect for me.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

So does that mean you find it acceptable for a person to use someone else to get verified? It happened to me once. Met for a social drink and the guy came across as very polite, and was only too water to meet up for some fun the next day. I verified him that night, and when it came to the next day, my message wasn't replied to, and he even had the nerve to display my verification while looking for another meet! How anyone can not understand, why I wouldn't want that verification to be removed is beyond me. He obvious wasn't the polite and genuine person, I thought I had met so why would I even want to give people that view, which is also deceiving everyone else on the site.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they we'r, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

I can't believe how bitter people are being to the op, especially the ladies.

But my version of a nice guy might be different to yours. That is why verifications are no good at being a reference for good character.

You cannot tell if someone is real by photos because people post fake or old photos. Even if you can with someone you don't know that they aren't a fanticist who gets off on leading up to a meet then doesn't show. That's what veris are for, to say they turned up.

The OP admitted that she had a great meet with said man so its not like she verified him even though she hated every minute of it. OK so he allegedly said he only met her to get verified, so what? I have only met men before because I needed a fuck, do you think they felt all hurt and used?

The only reason the OP wanted to remove her veri was because she was hurt and pissed off. She expected a veri in return and didn't get one so is sodding off, taking her ball and goal post jumper with her!

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By *bbwlizWoman
over a year ago

oldham

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

So does that mean you find it acceptable for a person to use someone else to get verified? It happened to me once. Met for a social drink and the guy came across as very polite, and was only too water to meet up for some fun the next day. I verified him that night, and when it came to the next day, my message wasn't replied to, and he even had the nerve to display my verification while looking for another meet! How anyone can not understand, why I wouldn't want that verification to be removed is beyond me. He obvious wasn't the polite and genuine person, I thought I had met so why would I even want to give people that view, which is also deceiving everyone else on the site.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they we'r, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

I can't believe how bitter people are being to the op, especially the ladies.

But my version of a nice guy might be different to yours. That is why verifications are no good at being a reference for good character.

Nowhere does it state, The only purpose of a verification is to say - They turned up! If that was the case, they may as well be a tick box, in order just to say that. Would make far much better sense ......... don't you think?

A 'normal' human emotion, would be to feel 'pissed off', knowing you had been used. What is most surprising is the bitter attitude towards the op, or anyone who has felt the same, and the way how people can justify a person who would use someone like that, as being okay. { And that's putting it extremely mildly ] Receiving a verification back, is not the issue with the op, it's the reason why. Being used!!

Obviously, some people have no morals and respect. Not an ounce of decency, to even treat another human being with any kind of respect, just by people's own selfish choice, and self centred values.

What a nice world we all live in!

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over a year ago

"Let me explain what happened : I verified him after a Fabulous meet and later discovered he only came to me cos he wanted a first verification.

Lots of people do that.

So does that mean you find it acceptable for a person to use someone else to get verified? It happened to me once. Met for a social drink and the guy came across as very polite, and was only too water to meet up for some fun the next day. I verified him that night, and when it came to the next day, my message wasn't replied to, and he even had the nerve to display my verification while looking for another meet! How anyone can not understand, why I wouldn't want that verification to be removed is beyond me. He obvious wasn't the polite and genuine person, I thought I had met so why would I even want to give people that view, which is also deceiving everyone else on the site.

see the point is, it's a veri, not a character review

When you click it, it says you are verifing them as what they said they we'r, that they turned up.

No where does it ask for your opinion of their character and leaving a veri does not entitle you to sex

If a single male had posted that he would be hung drawn and quartered on here yet it's ok for women to use a veri as a hitting stick

I can't believe how bitter people are being to the op, especially the ladies.

But my version of a nice guy might be different to yours. That is why verifications are no good at being a reference for good character.

Obviously, some people have no morals and respect. Not an ounce of decency, to even treat another human being with any kind of respect, just by people's own selfish choice, and self centred values.

What a nice world we all live in!"

Very true, well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You verify someone if you think they're genuine.

Just because you fall out doesn't mean they're no longer genuine.

Act like an adult and not like a spoilt kid"

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