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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like many people we keep our most extreme &/or personal photos for our private gallery.

If we didn't want them hidden from general view then they would be posted publically for all the world to see.

So why do people seem to think that they will have a random friend invite accepted without even the courtesy of a message first saying hi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because God loves a trier

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Because sometimes it works. Just leave the invite there, stops them trying again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because sometimes it works. Just leave the invite there, stops them trying again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose everyone is different but I personally like to chat and forge an empathy with someone or a couple before inviting them as a friend.

I also prefer not to have pics on my profile for personal reasons and also like keeping my friends hidden.

So in essence I agree with you.

I prefer to meet face to face for coffee to see their whole persons, looks can be deceptive xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose everyone is different but I personally like to chat and forge an empathy with someone or a couple before inviting them as a friend.

I also prefer not to have pics on my profile for personal reasons and also like keeping my friends hidden.

So in essence I agree with you.

I prefer to meet face to face for coffee to see their whole persons, looks can be deceptive xx Jim"

Very true as do I well said that man..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally we think it is rude.

One of the biggest problems on this site is trying to separate the real players from the many laptop warriors who are only interested in a wank looking at photos.

Our broad brush interpretation is that someone who simply sends an invite without first attempting to open a conversation is simply a photo collector.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Like you we too get random friends requests usually from single guys. We just leave them there we find if we just delete they just re send it.

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By *ykoCouple
over a year ago

york

Yes we agree we get loads of friend requests with out even sending a message first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally we think it is rude.

One of the biggest problems on this site is trying to separate the real players from the many laptop warriors who are only interested in a wank looking at photos.

Our broad brush interpretation is that someone who simply sends an invite without first attempting to open a conversation is simply a photo collector."

You may well be right but each to his own. This site is in essence for people who enjoy sex in its many forms. Some like to play and some like to watch

I steer clear of the people who don't appeal to me but there are many really nice ones too

Tc xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like you we too get random friends requests usually from single guys. We just leave them there we find if we just delete they just re send it. "

Without getting in to a "single guys bashing exercise" we find the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like you we too get random friends requests usually from single guys. We just leave them there we find if we just delete they just re send it.

Without getting in to a "single guys bashing exercise" we find the same.

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The only thing I would add is that the single guys on here outnumber the females and couples by a phenomenal amount.

Your spoilt for choice but also there is bound to be lots of voyuer amongst the more timid men.

I'll disappear, probably said too much already xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just chancing their arm,it takes no effort to send a friend request,if they send a 100 to random profiles which is probably how they do it maybe 1 will accept,I doubt they even look properly at the profiles they send them to

I just ignore any that I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hide most of mine don't give too much away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because God loves a trier "

I don't recall him saying that.

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