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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any ideas to get lads to actually READ the profile, lol? I hate to sound like a whinging hag, but us females get bombarded. I'm honestly not rude by nature, but end up deleting emails because they didn't bother to read my profile. Girls, what do you do with all the messages? X

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Maybe block all guys and do the searching for someone..

Will ease the angst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't a clue how to make em...and the funny thing is the ones who claim they have read mine (when active) ask for daytime meets, which I can't do!

As for the messages...apply filters to reduce messages from people you have no interest in and I delete if I have no interest in them. I used to reply, but got bored of abuse or being asked why...plus if you don't reply it gives them a message when they try again stating that you didn't reply last time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment ive put filters on to stop messages because I felt overloaded,if I havn't ill read the profile before I open the message and use a process of elimination,if its clear they havn't taken the time to read the profile I don't feel I should take the time to reply so do mass deletes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Get them to sign a treaty. It worked for John Major!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get them to sign a treaty. It worked for John Major! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At the moment ive put filters on to stop messages because I felt overloaded,if I havn't ill read the profile before I open the message and use a process of elimination,if its clear they havn't taken the time to read the profile I don't feel I should take the time to reply so do mass deletes "

Thats what I tend to end up doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven't a clue how to make em...and the funny thing is the ones who claim they have read mine (when active) ask for daytime meets, which I can't do!

As for the messages...apply filters to reduce messages from people you have no interest in and I delete if I have no interest in them. I used to reply, but got bored of abuse or being asked why...plus if you don't reply it gives them a message when they try again stating that you didn't reply last time."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven't a clue how to make em...and the funny thing is the ones who claim they have read mine (when active) ask for daytime meets, which I can't do!

As for the messages...apply filters to reduce messages from people you have no interest in and I delete if I have no interest in them. I used to reply, but got bored of abuse or being asked why...plus if you don't reply it gives them a message when they try again stating that you didn't reply last time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men! We clearly say that we don't accept friend request from people we haven't met yet get loads of couples sending them without even a message to say hello first! Funnily enough they often have rather demanding profiles themselves.....go figure....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few profiles that ask for a particular word to be out in the message header. So if they haven't put that word in the top you know they haven't read your profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've seen a few profiles that ask for a particular word to be out in the message header. So if they haven't put that word in the top you know they haven't read your profile."

Yes, mine is "steve come and fuck me" it's so nice getting messages that say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get them to sign a treaty. It worked for John Major! "

What was his fab profile name?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen a few profiles that ask for a particular word to be out in the message header. So if they haven't put that word in the top you know they haven't read your profile."

I used to use the word thing. made no difference, unless they had more than one brain cell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of guys stating they love my profile, so I ask what bit....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just men! We clearly say that we don't accept friend request from people we haven't met yet get loads of couples sending them without even a message to say hello first! Funnily enough they often have rather demanding profiles themselves.....go figure...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got to admit that I've come to regard it as a bit of sport, replying and getting them to tie themselves in knots. If I got some time I will write something like this :

Hi, so pleased you like my profile. I didn't think there were many men out there who enjoyed scat fun/taking my hubbie up the arse/testicle piercing. Come over this afternoon and I will get the instruments sterilised ready xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find the majority of guys who read profiles generally do not meet the criteria so do as per the wishes of the profile owner not actually send a pointless message initially. Well that could just be me though lol.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I have a lot of guys stating they love my profile, so I ask what bit.... "

Thats easy, you ve got boobs,

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