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being a male in your 40s

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By *hockynw OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looked over, but I suspect the majority of folks have a preference for younger men, not all, but definitely a majority. But there are still plenty of people who like men in their 40's and older so focus on them and enjoy your fun.

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By *hockynw OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

yes I have spoken to a good few cples and when it got to meeting up they said they were into younger men for mmf fun,,made me feel like is was ready for the knackers yard lol

but hay everyone has a preference ,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on what age group you're trying to attract,I wouldn't class 45 as too old but if I was 25 then maybe I would

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,"

nope... you get out what you put in.....

get out and about and get yourself know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have exactly the same amount of fun now compared to when I started dabbling in this area in my 30s. There are lots of couples my age seeking younger guys but plenty also looking for guys their own age. First thing I look at on a profile is what age they're after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have exactly the same amount of fun now compared to when I started dabbling in this area in my 30s. There are lots of couples my age seeking younger guys but plenty also looking for guys their own age. First thing I look at on a profile is what age they're after. "

You have more fun than anyone I know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my best meets have been gentleman in their forties x

.I don't want under 30s, or over 50s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty forties....like a fine wine ...mature and fruity !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,"

Nope, I get looked over a great deal, quite closely too. I don't think my age affects my ability to meet women. Obviously, I don't contact those whose age range I'm outside of, so the situation of meeting someone who thought I was too old (or young) wouldn't arise. Being 40-ish means I am more confident and, dare I say it, more experienced and skilled than I used to be. I think I'm in my prime now and can only get better. I haven't plateaued yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite the opposite.

Then again, I choose who we message very carefully.

The more discerning you are, the higher your potential rate of success in my opinion.

If you ask 20 and only 1 says yes that is a 5% success rate.

If however you take time to study profiles and send specific messages you might get 3 out of 5 willing to meet, so whilst not 100% it is still a much better success rate than cock led messaging.

The site will work for you - but you have to help it along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have exactly the same amount of fun now compared to when I started dabbling in this area in my 30s. There are lots of couples my age seeking younger guys but plenty also looking for guys their own age. First thing I look at on a profile is what age they're after.

You have more fun than anyone I know!!! "

Little old me? I'm an innocent. It's not me who randomly attends mid-week gangbangs. Oh, hang on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,"

I do within my own home.... you're not alone Brother!!

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

you should be my age, then you know problems about age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so very glad I'm not single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have exactly the same amount of fun now compared to when I started dabbling in this area in my 30s. There are lots of couples my age seeking younger guys but plenty also looking for guys their own age. First thing I look at on a profile is what age they're after.

You have more fun than anyone I know!!!

Little old me? I'm an innocent. It's not me who randomly attends mid-week gangbangs. Oh, hang on.."

Cheeky........

Oh and the Avatar might seem familiar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,"

I looked you over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,

Nope, I get looked over a great deal, quite closely too. I don't think my age affects my ability to meet women. Obviously, I don't contact those whose age range I'm outside of, so the situation of meeting someone who thought I was too old (or young) wouldn't arise. Being 40-ish means I am more confident and, dare I say it, more experienced and skilled than I used to be. I think I'm in my prime now and can only get better. I haven't plateaued yet! "

Good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All my best meets have been gentleman in their forties x

.I don't want under 30s, or over 50s "
a feel a hundred times better now x x x

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By *hockynw OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I think I need to move,,lol south sounds fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is what you make it

Never give up at 40

Men start dying and become a precious item more attractive ageing

Women wrinkle

Friends wife died and he went on a cruise

Found it full of single women 50 to 60

Husbands died

He is having a middle aged gigolo ball

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is what you make it

Never give up at 40

Men start dying and become a precious item more attractive ageing

Women wrinkle

Friends wife died and he went on a cruise

Found it full of single women 50 to 60

Husbands died

He is having a middle aged gigolo ball

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"being a male in your 40s does anyone else feel over looked due to there age in the swinging scene,,"

No, I get a good amount of attention, from a variety of age groups too.

I'd probably get more attention, but of the wrong sort, by decrying how terrible my lot is....

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