FabSwingers.com forum: playing away???

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When married and not too exciting at home is it wrong for discreet fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course it is

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I for one would question how respectful of women you really are when you are not only married and cheating, but by the fact you can accommodate, seemingly willing to use your marital bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it wrong for your other half to go off for discreet fun?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"of course it is

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

dam right it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its fine, as long as you dont mind her doing the same, and having many more lovers

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"When married and not too exciting at home is it wrong for discreet fun?"

if the wife/husband knows... nope..

if they dont... yep!

if they knew... you wouldn't need to be so discreet..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mention in your profile you are very respectful of women, but I assume you asked this question as you are married, so therefore surely you are not very respectful of your wife?

I personally think it is not the best, if you are looking for fun outside of the relationship, surely it is easier not to be in one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was goin to be a thread about football... how wrong was i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me. "

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Yes some can and do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When married and not too exciting at home is it wrong for discreet fun?"

Oh dear another self justification thread from a cheater?

You don't mention you're married in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, very wrong. Put the effort into sorting out your marriage not cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!"

I don't think it is , everyone has their reasons for doing what they do and as long as I know I can make up my own mind what I want to do. I'm good like that I have my own opinion and I stick to it just as you all have yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever let's you sleep at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever let's you sleep at night

I have no issues sleeping at night because of my opinion however too much coffee is a bugger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's your own business but it's not fair on her ,,,

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not married lol it's a friend that has been telling me it's ok but I don't think it is and want him to stop it. Should I tell his wife then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not married lol it's a friend that has been telling me it's ok but I don't think it is and want him to stop it. Should I tell his wife then?"

Show him this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not married lol it's a friend that has been telling me it's ok but I don't think it is and want him to stop it. Should I tell his wife then?"

why should you tell his wife?

just because its not ok doesnt mean its your place to tell his wife.

unless you facy a crack at her i really dont see what you would gain from it, apart from a fat lip and the loss of a friend, as i doubt he, or her for that matter, will thank you for it.

just tell him you dont agree and you would rather not be implicit in his betrayal of her, and leave it at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought this was goin to be a thread about football... how wrong was i

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its a game of two halves brian

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By *ittleBitOfFunCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"You mention in your profile you are very respectful of women, but I assume you asked this question as you are married, so therefore surely you are not very respectful of your wife?

I personally think it is not the best, if you are looking for fun outside of the relationship, surely it is easier not to be in one?"

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Y E S no two ways about it!!!!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!

Hey you, stop having differing opinions from the majority. Don't you know you're a herd animal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!

Hey you, stop having differing opinions from the majority. Don't you know you're a herd animal? "

are you calling her a cow?

thats awful

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm not married lol it's a friend that has been telling me it's ok but I don't think it is and want him to stop it. Should I tell his wife then?"

Oh lol! Hold on I just have to dash upstairs and see if I have mug across my forehead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!

Hey you, stop having differing opinions from the majority. Don't you know you're a herd animal? "

Is it a herd of sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!

Hey you, stop having differing opinions from the majority. Don't you know you're a herd animal?

are you calling her a cow?

thats awful"

Mooooooooooooo

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I have done in the past played with married guys and until I changed what I was looking for would have carried on. All I asked was that they were honest with me.

Honest with YOU??? You think a man who plays behind his wifes back can be relied upon for honesty?????

Was going to say that. It's a bit rich !!!

Hey you, stop having differing opinions from the majority. Don't you know you're a herd animal?

Is it a herd of sheep

Flock knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When married and not too exciting at home is it wrong for discreet fun?"

Not at all, as long as it cuts both ways!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's wrong end of.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

NOT WRONG totally RIGTH

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"When married and not too exciting at home is it wrong for discreet fun?"

your choice, just let people know so they can make an informed decision.

and get on with it...

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

Not fair is have a boring sex life or sometimes sexless fuck do it my friend be happy and remember tomorrow can be your last day here on hearth enjoy it xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Not fair is have a boring sex life or sometimes sexless fuck do it my friend be happy and remember tomorrow can be your last day here on hearth enjoy it xxx"

but it isn't him.....it's his friend and he's trying to stop him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone cheats in life at some point so why not on their wifes/ husbands

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"everyone cheats in life at some point so why not on their wifes/ husbands

Do you really think that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"everyone cheats in life at some point so why not on their wifes/ husbands

Do you really think that?"

I wholeheartedly disagree with this.

I have NEVER cheated and I believe she has never cheated.

We do consensual, so whilst we sleep with others there is no deception involved.

I dont get swingers that say as long as they are honest 'with me'...

Lying to their nearest and dearest and yet you, a stranger, deserve honesty from a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"everyone cheats in life at some point so why not on their wifes/ husbands

Do you really think that?"

haha .......maybe

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