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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us "Is that fair to impose your boobies on people who may not want to see them on a beach? | |||
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us
Is that fair to impose your boobies on people who may not want to see them on a beach? "Oh hello. I don't impose my boobies as you so quaintly term my breasts on anyone. If you read my post It says that we go to a part of the coast where you can find a whole section of beach to yourself and nowhere does it say that I continue to sunbathe topless if someone sits near us. | |||
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us
Is that fair to impose your boobies on people who may not want to see them on a beach?
Oh hello. I don't impose my boobies as you so quaintly term my breasts on anyone. If you read my post It says that we go to a part of the coast where you can find a whole section of beach to yourself and nowhere does it say that I continue to sunbathe topless if someone sits near us."To those that would be offended by a set of breasts on a beach ..........I say get a life and stop being so uptight. They are merely breasts.   | |||
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us i
You didnt say that you then put your top. Good to hear you are not being hypocritical.
I think its ridiculous that ypu can go abroad and be naked on most beaches in Spain and topless most beaches but not in uk. Hence we only us naturist beaches.
Is that fair to impose your boobies on people who may not want to see them on a beach?
Oh hello. I don't impose my boobies as you so quaintly term my breasts on anyone. If you read my post It says that we go to a part of the coast where you can find a whole section of beach to yourself and nowhere does it say that I continue to sunbathe topless if someone sits near us." | |||
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"It's funny that flashing your stocking tops should put you straight to the top of the sex offenders register but baring your boobs on the beach is ok? i think we have uncovered a major double standard here...lol" Context, as I have said before is all. If no one who would be offended can see there is nothing wrong with breasts, stocking tops or completely nudity. | |||
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"It's funny that flashing your stocking tops should put you straight to the top of the sex offenders register but baring your boobs on the beach is ok? i think we have uncovered a major double standard here...lol"  | |||
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"It's funny that flashing your stocking tops should put you straight to the top of the sex offenders register but baring your boobs on the beach is ok? i think we have uncovered a major double standard here...lol Context, as I have said before is all. If no one who would be offended can see there is nothing wrong with breasts, stocking tops or completely nudity." Well that must be brilliant that you always know that when you expose yourself that no one will be offended, but if its someone else off the site does it you then you somehow have the insight that the 'innocent' person watching will be offended! | |||
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"It's funny that flashing your stocking tops should put you straight to the top of the sex offenders register but baring your boobs on the beach is ok? i think we have uncovered a major double standard here...lol Context, as I have said before is all. If no one who would be offended can see there is nothing wrong with breasts, stocking tops or completely nudity. Well that must be brilliant that you always know that when you expose yourself that no one will be offended, but if its someone else off the site does it you then you somehow have the insight that the 'innocent' person watching will be offended! " Oh please! | |||
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" To those that would be offended by a set of breasts on a beach ..........I say get a life and stop being so uptight. They are merely breasts. " | |||
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"It's tan lines for me, I do put my top back on most of the time unless for a quick dip in the ocean, x" | |||
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"If you're offended by a naked body the problem - is yours."
Strangely enough, for a swinging site, there seems to be a very prudish element on Fab when it comes to subject of partial or full outdoor nudity, even in secluded places.
We wouldn't mind betting that the first thing these naysayers do when they go abroad is to get their tops off on the beach, whether its nudist or not.
If people don't like it on our beaches then move away, the same as we would if there was a bunch of boozy Chavs with screaming kids and a blaring radio near us.
No wonder people feel free to go topless abroad with no problems what so ever when there are so many people perpetuating their prudish, Victorian attitude in this country. 
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us "We get that as well it really bugs me (M) especial when you have walk a long way to find a quiet bit Grrrrrrrrrrr  | |||
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us We get that as well it really bugs me (M) especial when you have walk a long way to find a quiet bit Grrrrrrrrrrr "Yep, we find a while section right down by some secluded rocks.....next thing you know four generations of a family sit down next to you for a picnic despite there being about two miles of empty space.  | |||
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us "And the ones who come and sit next to you would probably be the sort to complain lol. It reminds us of a case some years ago where an old girl reported a young guy across the road for masturbating naked, on his bed in full view of her. The fact that she could only see him if she went into her loft, climbed onto a chest of drawers and gazed through her skylight to see down into his bedroom made no difference as far as she was concerned. She also said he did it most days lol. Her case was quite rightly thrown out!
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"we go to a certain part of the coast where its possible to find a whole section of beach to yourself, I sunbathe topless there. However no matter how much space there is or how many other sections of beach there are you can guarantee that someone will come and sit almost right next to us We get that as well it really bugs me (M) especial when you have walk a long way to find a quiet bit Grrrrrrrrrrr
Yep, we find a while section right down by some secluded rocks.....next thing you know four generations of a family sit down next to you for a picnic despite there being about two miles of empty space. "We get it as well when we go nude abroad. Find a lovely spot away from everyone so if the moment takes us we can fool around a bit, then along comes a couple that sits that close to us you can smell their sun cream, and then it is only the male that goes nude, and then spends the whole time walking up and down looking at us while his wife reads a book while trying to keep out the sun all day. We would not mind if they were good looking and our type but they never are. Why is that? And do not get me started on the single men | |||
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"It's funny that flashing your stocking tops should put you straight to the top of the sex offenders register but baring your boobs on the beach is ok? i think we have uncovered a major double standard here...lol" I sincerely doubt that showing your stocking tops would get you arrested in the UK, flashing your gentitalia maybe but not hosiery  | |||
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"On the beaches we go to on the continent women are mostly topless whether they have their children with them or not. Its a question of what's acceptable and in the UK I don't think its widely accepted yet." yeah, and them German women have got pubes like Noddy Holders sideboards hanging out their drawers
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"Why do women do it ? To get a tan ? Or to show off a bit ? Does it bother you who looks at you ? Does it turn you on or excite you others looking ? " i do it to get a tan - don't walk about topless as others may be offended! Z | |||
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"Why do women do it ? To get a tan ? Or to show off a bit ? Does it bother you who looks at you ? Does it turn you on or excite you others looking ? Don't mind tits like spaniels ears, it's the haystack thongs that scares the kids i do it to get a tan - don't walk about topless as others may be offended! Z" | |||
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"shouldnt be done around kids, really Why?" because nakedness in other people is sexualised, otherwise there wouldnt be voyeurs sitting on the dunes, with binoculars, perving at semi naked women, or magazines full of scantily clad women. people are too quick to get their kids to grow up nowadays, that seeing other naked is just another step of it. now, dont get me wrong, im as open minded as the next person, and in an ideal world we would all be free to dress as scantily or not, as we all feel we want to, but lets face it, thats not the world we live in. there are parents that dont want nudity around their kids, otherwise they would go to dedicated nudist beaches. they want people to be dressed appropriately. | |||
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"shouldnt be done around kids, really Why? because nakedness in other people is sexualised, otherwise there wouldnt be voyeurs sitting on the dunes, with binoculars, perving at semi naked women, or magazines full of scantily clad women. people are too quick to get their kids to grow up nowadays, that seeing other naked is just another step of it. now, dont get me wrong, im as open minded as the next person, and in an ideal world we would all be free to dress as scantily or not, as we all feel we want to, but lets face it, thats not the world we live in. there are parents that dont want nudity around their kids, otherwise they would go to dedicated nudist beaches. they want people to be dressed appropriately." They had better stop their kids watching tv, reading newspapers and magazines, seeing popstars and become Quakers. Live and let live and let themmake up their own minds. You can over protect kids and that will not prepare them for life. Tolerance and openmindedness is the way forward. | |||
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"and some do stop their kids looking at all that crap. others just tut and complain about it, but never do anything about it and the best ones are openminded and liberated enough to show their kids that naked doesnt have to be sexualised. we should all be happy in our skin, and open, but thats not what society promotes, is it?" Its not the people going topless who are demonising nakedness. The more it becomes the norm the less impact it will have. If people keep protecting their kids from simple nudity it actually has the reverse effect of making it more attractive by being forbidden. If everyone was topless or nude on beaches then noone would be bothered within a few days. | |||
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"Why do women do it ? To get a tan ? Or to show off a bit ? Does it bother you who looks at you ? Does it turn you on or excite you others looking ? " All of the above. | |||
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"shouldnt be done around kids, really Why? because nakedness in other people is sexualised, otherwise there wouldnt be voyeurs sitting on the dunes, with binoculars, perving at semi naked women, or magazines full of scantily clad women. people are too quick to get their kids to grow up nowadays, that seeing other naked is just another step of it. now, dont get me wrong, im as open minded as the next person, and in an ideal world we would all be free to dress as scantily or not, as we all feel we want to, but lets face it, thats not the world we live in. there are parents that dont want nudity around their kids, otherwise they would go to dedicated nudist beaches. they want people to be dressed appropriately." You're not as open minded as you like to think, that's apparent by your comments. The issue is with attitude. If you get your rocks off from nudity, the issue is with you, not the nakedness. Some people get off on stockings, does that mean they shouldn't be shown to children? Children see nakedness from the very earliest stages of their lives, it doesn't bother or interest them in anyway. It is adults (in this country) that teach them to hide it. As for the 'world we live in', it's a big world. This small country doesn't represent it. | |||
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"and some do stop their kids looking at all that crap. others just tut and complain about it, but never do anything about it and the best ones are openminded and liberated enough to show their kids that naked doesnt have to be sexualised. we should all be happy in our skin, and open, but thats not what society promotes, is it? Its not the people going topless who are demonising nakedness. The more it becomes the norm the less impact it will have. If people keep protecting their kids from simple nudity it actually has the reverse effect of making it more attractive by being forbidden. If everyone was topless or nude on beaches then noone would be bothered within a few days. " | |||
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"and some do stop their kids looking at all that crap. others just tut and complain about it, but never do anything about it and the best ones are openminded and liberated enough to show their kids that naked doesnt have to be sexualised. we should all be happy in our skin, and open, but thats not what society promotes, is it? Its not the people going topless who are demonising nakedness. The more it becomes the norm the less impact it will have. If people keep protecting their kids from simple nudity it actually has the reverse effect of making it more attractive by being forbidden. If everyone was topless or nude on beaches then noone would be bothered within a few days. "Very well put | |||
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"shouldnt be done around kids, really Why? because nakedness in other people is sexualised, otherwise there wouldnt be voyeurs sitting on the dunes, with binoculars, perving at semi naked women, or magazines full of scantily clad women. people are too quick to get their kids to grow up nowadays, that seeing other naked is just another step of it. now, dont get me wrong, im as open minded as the next person, and in an ideal world we would all be free to dress as scantily or not, as we all feel we want to, but lets face it, thats not the world we live in. there are parents that dont want nudity around their kids, otherwise they would go to dedicated nudist beaches. they want people to be dressed appropriately. You're not as open minded as you like to think, that's apparent by your comments. The issue is with attitude. If you get your rocks off from nudity, the issue is with you, not the nakedness. Some people get off on stockings, does that mean they shouldn't be shown to children? Children see nakedness from the very earliest stages of their lives, it doesn't bother or interest them in anyway. It is adults (in this country) that teach them to hide it. As for the 'world we live in', it's a big world. This small country doesn't represent it." thats what i have said lol, just you put it much more succinctly than i did, so we are agreeing on the subject. | |||
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"The only time I would feel a little bit awkward is if I was with my little boy and someone was topless near us but I am talking a normal beach not a nudist beach. " . \I am going to embellish on this he has learning difficulties and does not understand social boundaries he would go upto them and probably hug them he loves the feel of people's skin and if it is exposed he would want to touch them all the more that is why I would feel a little awkward. | |||
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"The only time I would feel a little bit awkward is if I was with my little boy and someone was topless near us but I am talking a normal beach not a nudist beach. . \I am going to embellish on this he has learning difficulties and does not understand social boundaries he would go upto them and probably hug them he loves the feel of people's skin and if it is exposed he would want to touch them all the more that is why I would feel a little awkward." that would be my excuse too lol | |||
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"The only time I would feel a little bit awkward is if I was with my little boy and someone was topless near us but I am talking a normal beach not a nudist beach. . \I am going to embellish on this he has learning difficulties and does not understand social boundaries he would go upto them and probably hug them he loves the feel of people's skin and if it is exposed he would want to touch them all the more that is why I would feel a little awkward. that would be my excuse too lol" . Him hugging strangers in the street is awkward enough let alone a topless woman  | |||
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"The only time I would feel a little bit awkward is if I was with my little boy and someone was topless near us but I am talking a normal beach not a nudist beach. . \I am going to embellish on this he has learning difficulties and does not understand social boundaries he would go upto them and probably hug them he loves the feel of people's skin and if it is exposed he would want to touch them all the more that is why I would feel a little awkward. that would be my excuse too lol. Him hugging strangers in the street is awkward enough let alone a topless woman "yeah, V says the same about me too lol i like your kid already, and ive never met him lol | |||
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"The only time I would feel a little bit awkward is if I was with my little boy and someone was topless near us but I am talking a normal beach not a nudist beach. . \I am going to embellish on this he has learning difficulties and does not understand social boundaries he would go upto them and probably hug them he loves the feel of people's skin and if it is exposed he would want to touch them all the more that is why I would feel a little awkward. that would be my excuse too lol. Him hugging strangers in the street is awkward enough let alone a topless woman
yeah, V says the same about me too lol
i like your kid already, and ive never met him lol". Ha he is great and makes me laugh out loud often, I think I am virtually impossible to embarrass because of the way he is | |||
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