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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it when we advertise for a mmf a large amount if men message us but only want to talk to the female. A mmf involves 3 people not two so surely the 3rd man can talk to the second man too.

There are some genuine chaps on here but I have to say there are a few that tarnish the experience for others.

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By *inkykoupleukCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Couldn't of said it better myself.

We tend to ignore anyone who approaches us as a single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On first contact with a couple I naturally assume I am addressing the male or at the least both, but never suppose I'm messaging to the lady alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed.

It is hard to find someone thats not full of crap. In our experiance d has to be happy with my choice too. Theres no point in having an mmf if the other guy doesnt have any respect for the mr.

It just wouldnt work.

Happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know if it helps but my first mmf I was very nervous but now just cant get enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps they want to ensure that

a) there is actually a female in there couple as its not unknown for single guys to pose as a couple

or

b) that the female both knows about the mmf and consents to it without being pressured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, maybe try a bi guy but tell him no touching the hubby! he will give you both attention lol! i am absolutely busting to try an mmf threesome! cant seem to find a decent couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you. The men often get ignored and that is one of the lovely things for me. Three truly playing as one, enjoy the foreplay as you chat and enjoy making everyone special xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On first contact with a couple I naturally assume I am addressing the male or at the least both, but never suppose I'm messaging to the lady alone. "

Very well put. I'm the same and there has to be a nice chemistry between all three of you. Saying that I find it quite difficult to meet the right couple. Perhaps my age has something to do with it jim

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"perhaps they want to ensure that

a) there is actually a female in there couple as its not unknown for single guys to pose as a couple

or

b) that the female both knows about the mmf and consents to it without being pressured. "

Both points valid and as a guy I would want to check the same but I am talking about men that pose as couples and just think we are going to fall for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing worse arranging a meet for mmf and all the other male wants to do is chat to the women and as soon as the male says some thing he goes off line now we simple block them if the don't want to speak to us both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she sounds like a lawyer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast"

fucking choked then pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men on here are idiots lol? I have been out for a beer a few times with the male half of one of the couples on my veri's, were both straight but he's a sound bloke and a mate? Plus I get regular 3somes and party invites? Think the older guys are much more likely to talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl "

why so??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so?? "

just had a vision in my head of the high five

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five "

how was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it? "

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off "

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation "

it wont be ur inbox tingling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation

it wont be ur inbox tingling "

promises promises, i want action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation

it wont be ur inbox tingling

promises promises, i want action "

we should stop taking over threads lol

havnt u bought ur ticket yet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation

it wont be ur inbox tingling

promises promises, i want action

we should stop taking over threads lol

havnt u bought ur ticket yet?? "

We should but probably won't. Not just yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why it's an issue really. If people are disrespectful in any way, you don't have to meet them or even chat to them.

We always get both get addressed in mail on our couple profile. I have my theory why that is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always talk to both, as you say it's a 3sum and everyone needs to be involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast"

Have you heard of the Eiffel Tower? I want to do that.

...haven't met a couple yet though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

Have you heard of the Eiffel Tower? I want to do that.

...haven't met a couple yet though.

"

Think so, refresh my memory

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation

it wont be ur inbox tingling

promises promises, i want action

we should stop taking over threads lol

havnt u bought ur ticket yet??

We should but probably won't. Not just yet "

You 2 (well 3) definitely need to get a room...I feel like a right perve observing all your forum flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's not a great way to approach a cpl, any cpl i've joined the fella and i have got on well and had a laugh. Helps with the high fiving during the spit roast

fucking choked then pmsl

why so??

just had a vision in my head of the high five

how was it?

ill let u know when ive finished my self off

good girl, my inbox is tingling in anticipation

it wont be ur inbox tingling

promises promises, i want action

we should stop taking over threads lol

havnt u bought ur ticket yet??

We should but probably won't. Not just yet

You 2 (well 3) definitely need to get a room...I feel like a right perve observing all your forum flirting.

"

working on it lol. You are a perv c'mon and make it a 5some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never had a problem with single men, they have always got along great with Luke, which really helps when it come to play time

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