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Hair pulling - question for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Over the years with some lovely ladies when we've been going doggy or spoons, they've asked me to pull their hair as we get towards the big finish. So - here's the question - what is it about hair pulling that's such a turn on? I've no objection to it - it creates a fine finale - just wondered what the magic is x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Over the years with some lovely ladies when we've been going doggy or spoons, they've asked me to pull their hair as we get towards the big finish. So - here's the question - what is it about hair pulling that's such a turn on? I've no objection to it - it creates a fine finale - just wondered what the magic is x"
Caveman sex...it's a dominant thing for the hair puller and submissive for the hair pullee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its just the extra oomph mmmmm love it so long as its firm and not trying to scalp me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer being strangled to hair pulling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's a dominance thing I love it when my hubby does this and he knows it!

It just drives me crazy & makes me even hornier, although tbh I have no idea why!!

Maybe its the pulling or tightness??

Be interesting to see what other ladies say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! Hair pulling and a good spank as you're getting pummelled into the mattress. Sigh! I should be so lucky... Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.

A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.

For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. But, depends on who it's with. If the moment is right, the passion and lust is there - it just happens. Sometimes you don't even think about it. You just do it.

...but it's sexy as fuck though.

Mind you, they used to be pulling my hair before. (sighs) the good old days eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.

A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.

For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy."

This is the reason I grew my hair longer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not averse to a bit of gentle biting inplaces it would normally tickle - when very aroused drives me crazy in a very very good way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.

A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.

For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy.

This is the reason I grew my hair longer!! "

and why im keeping mine longish lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh yes, hand on the throat firm at any time..... !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that hair being pulled properly makes every nerve ending on my body stand to attention .

Makes me more sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trace likes one arm held up her back while having her hair pulled and being pounded to an climax doggy style.......mucky tart lol.

P.S: She says she likes it because she has a sensitive head and likes the mild restraint of the arm up the back.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

having hands held is another turn on - oh having lovely flashbacks at this minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my hair being pulled think its the making me sub and him having me how he wants me makes me cum loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather someone put a pillow over my face until I stop jerking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"having hands held is another turn on - oh having lovely flashbacks at this minute "
oh god yes love it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

the shape of a womans back as she arches her back and holds her arse up and back to recieve your cock pounding as you pull on a large hank of her hair is a real turn on .. obviously the idea is to force her head up and not to pull any hair out lol also capture any stray wrists you can lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like being ridden from behind and your hair are the reins

It is a power/dominance thing

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

a bit like riding in the avatar film lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.

I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.

I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy "

A common misconception is that dominance/submission is about inequality but that's a very simplistic and naiive view (no offence meant with the words!!) because it really isn't. In my case it couldn't be further from the truth as I am naturally a more dominant female.

I suspect many men and women who enjoy this type of relationship/encounter will understand what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow thanks for the insights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pull it..

Fucking hard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are lucky and their hair is long enough, you can wrap it around the neck and then pull it. But you need to be careful doing that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pull it..

Fucking hard! "

youd get a good kicking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me personally it's animalistic subjugation which I find a huge turn-on.

A guy grabbing my hair spontaneously makes me feel weak. It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.

For the same reason I love a hand round my neck and held firmly (but not constricting) during doggy.

This is the reason I grew my hair longer!! "

me too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno but I fucking love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pull it..

Fucking hard!

youd get a good kicking"

Kicking?....where?..

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By *ady_CuntaliciousWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I like one hand around my throat and the other pulling my hair, makes me cum a lot harder...so hot!..

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By *s louWoman
over a year ago

Enniskillen


"ooh yes, hand on the throat firm at any time..... ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dunno but I fucking love it "

but tugging not yanking .. along with wrist holding, neck biting, bum slapping (although not necessarily all at the same time )

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.

I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy

A common misconception is that dominance/submission is about inequality but that's a very simplistic and naiive view (no offence meant with the words!!) because it really isn't. In my case it couldn't be further from the truth as I am naturally a more dominant female.

I suspect many men and women who enjoy this type of relationship/encounter will understand what I mean."

I'm a naturally submissive female (only in the bedroom, I have been called bossy a fair few times out of it!) and I love having my hair pulled as well as a fair few other acts of submission. However, I am totally equal with my partner in our mutual decision to incorporate dominance/submission play. It is my choice to trust him and his choice to indulge me. I am a woman he never regarded as anything less than strong, assertive and independent before we introduced the D/s element to our sex life and he still sees me exactly the same way. It takes a certain amount of courage to admit that you actually enjoy being submissive, especially if you're the kind of woman who daily rails against sexism and double standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like rough,dominant men sexually. It's a mutual pleasure thing not control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it when a man pulls

My hair as his just about to cum.

Def is a turn on ....

Equally though I'm guilty of grabbing his hair to

Maybe I just enjoy ruff sex....not keen on hands round throats though

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

For me it is a very sub thing and love being dominated

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By *aul n PleasureCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Love it!..along with arm holding n ass grabbing! Love my man to take control of me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love it!..along with arm holding n ass grabbing! Love my man to take control of me xx"

Mmm yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's being totally dominated and controlled (but with my consent), there is something so sexy about a man who grabs a big handful of hair and pulls.

Not like silly hair pulling in the playground but a big manly handful, almost moving your body for you.

Yummmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the finale? Grip, wrap and pull,show them who is boss

Her

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By *aul n PleasureCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Love it!..along with arm holding n ass grabbing! Love my man to take control of me xx

Mmm yes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it. But, depends on who it's with. If the moment is right, the passion and lust is there - it just happens. Sometimes you don't even think about it. You just do it.

...but it's sexy as fuck though.

Mind you, they used to be pulling my hair before. (sighs) the good old days eh.

"

I did see the beard getting a good tugging at the fab social though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it. But, depends on who it's with. If the moment is right, the passion and lust is there - it just happens. Sometimes you don't even think about it. You just do it.

...but it's sexy as fuck though.

Mind you, they used to be pulling my hair before. (sighs) the good old days eh.

I did see the beard getting a good tugging at the fab social though "

Yeah, that's why i'm growing it. It's a replacement for my hair. Not sure if it has the same effect though.

Mind you, i once did meet someone who liked having her hair pulled but also liked having her arse squeezed proper hard. And i mean proper! It took me a while to realise how the hell can i do that...but, i found a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair pulling? And biting... Dear god yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair pulling? And biting... Dear god yes!! "

oooh biting. That's another story altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Evie loves hair pulling and hand around throat. She love me taking control of her. It took me a while to get used to it, but now I love it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair pulling? And biting... Dear god yes!! "

...on the shoulders? Fuck yeah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hair pulling? And biting... Dear god yes!!

oooh biting. That's another story altogether "

Bad bad nanna! it's bloody delicious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not just pulling hair but running fingers through and gripping that gets me.

."

I agree... sort of holding your head by the hair at the back of the neck.... my weakness xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a caveman apparently

Hair pulling is expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull my hair, slap my arse & talk dirty to me please X

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I can't remember whether I like it or not with a man (been a while since I've been alone with a man), I know I don't like women doing it to me...I love pulling hair, spanking, pinning down, strangling, biting, slapping and spitting at others though...not a question of equality etc I think it's a personal choice for whoever is on the receiving end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know exactly, all I know is that it feels so damn good and very sexy; love it!!!

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer being strangled to hair pulling.."

Nice- let me do both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the animal in us. Hair pulling, biting and scratching. We can't help ourselves when we loose ourselves in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On your knees, having it pulled up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive got long hair. Tied it up recently, during doggie, he pulled it, just gently felt good. then he pulled my hair out of the bobble, said he liked it down.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I prefer my hair wrapped tightly round the hand or held firmly rather than pulled. Love it while being taken from behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to have mine pulled quite a few times this week mmm love it

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"I prefer being strangled to hair pulling.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pull it..

Fucking hard! "

you'll know about it if you do...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im guessing that the turn on is dominance.

I like equality in sex, I dont have men dominating me so i dont allow hair pulling or strangling or being rough. But a lot of women do find it sexy

A common misconception is that dominance/submission is about inequality but that's a very simplistic and naiive view (no offence meant with the words!!) because it really isn't. In my case it couldn't be further from the truth as I am naturally a more dominant female.

I suspect many men and women who enjoy this type of relationship/encounter will understand what I mean."

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a lie down in a darken room after reading that lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pull my hair, slap my arse & talk dirty to me please X"

Agreed !

There's a definite art to dirty talk though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both like a bit of hair pulling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pull it..

Fucking hard!

you'll know about it if you do...!!

"

That hammer looks frightening...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its just the extra oomph mmmmm love it so long as its firm and not trying to scalp me "

My sentiments exactly

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By *aughtiness123Couple
over a year ago

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Mmmm I love having my hair pulled and a hand round my throat as Im fucked hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ponytail is good for pulling

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The right guy taking charge can work wonders, but I usually reserve hands in my hair to the hair salon or my own, unless someone is appreciating my style.

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