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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should people with a 'single' profile state if they are literally single?

Lots of couples play separately with permission and full knowledge of their other half. It's not a dating site so I'm a bit confused when people sometimes complain that singles aren't literally single.

*** I just mean halves of couples playing with full consent- this thread is not about anyone playing without consent. ***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should people with a 'single' profile state if they are literally single?

Lots of couples play separately with permission and full knowledge of their other half. It's not a dating site so I'm a bit confused when people sometimes complain that singles aren't literally single.

*** I just mean halves of couples playing with full consent- this thread is not about anyone playing without consent. ***"

I see your point but some people might be a bit freaked out by finding out that their "date" is married after the event maybe? I know its a swingers site but I'm sure a lot of people on here would still like to know a bit about the people they meet?

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Yes...always pays to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category."

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet a married woman if her husband doesn't know she has sex with other men"

The OP is talking about people whose partners DO know they are having sex with other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't meet a married woman if her husband doesn't know she has sex with other men

The OP is talking about people whose partners DO know they are having sex with other people "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here."

Why though? It's NSA sex. What difference does it make if the person has a partner or not? I can understand if it was a dating site. But it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should people with a 'single' profile state if they are literally single?

Lots of couples play separately with permission and full knowledge of their other half. It's not a dating site so I'm a bit confused when people sometimes complain that singles aren't literally single.

*** I just mean halves of couples playing with full consent- this thread is not about anyone playing without consent. ***"

most people we know who have single profiles clearly state their situation on their profile and under what circumstances they play under. There are many though who just like to deceive and thats just sad all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here.

Why though? It's NSA sex. What difference does it make if the person has a partner or not? I can understand if it was a dating site. But it's not."

There are plenty of us who have morals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here.

Why though? It's NSA sex. What difference does it make if the person has a partner or not? I can understand if it was a dating site. But it's not.

There are plenty of us who have morals."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here.

Why though? It's NSA sex. What difference does it make if the person has a partner or not? I can understand if it was a dating site. But it's not.

There are plenty of us who have morals."

I think you have misunderstood the OP. It's got nothing to do with morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here.

Why though? It's NSA sex. What difference does it make if the person has a partner or not? I can understand if it was a dating site. But it's not.

There are plenty of us who have morals.

I think you have misunderstood the OP. It's got nothing to do with morals. "

Threads don't often stay in the confines of the opening post. It has already migrated to including those who are not single and playing without permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is you are Single,have a single profile.

If you are a couple,have a couples profile..

If your a couple but play separate,then you should state that in your profile.

its confusing seeing couples having separate profiles cos you dont know if they're trying to play away etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single on here but am married. it is on my profile but hey if you don't like it that's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a single on here but am married. it is on my profile but hey if you don't like it that's ok "

you state that which is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should use their profile however they want to use their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I wasn't single, I wouldn't be here. Simple as. I've never been one to decieve. Never been in my nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wasn't single, I wouldn't be here. Simple as. I've never been one to decieve. Never been in my nature. "

Swinging isn't about deceiving. Kind of the point!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I dont think attached singles should have a singles account at all.

for years it's been said that attached singles should have their own category.

I would second the motion for singles (attached - permission or otherwise) had their own category. Unfortunately you'll still get the liars on here."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I wasn't single, I wouldn't be here. Simple as. I've never been one to decieve. Never been in my nature.

Swinging isn't about deceiving. Kind of the point!"

I was on about if I was in a relationship with a non-consenting partner. IE. Playing away and cheating. I don't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and Ruby each have a single account as well as a couples account. Why?

It's a pain posting on the forum from the couples account as sometimes we forget to sign which one of us it is that's posting.

Neither of us meet singularly anyway and our individual accounts, when not hidden, clearly state that.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

It wouldn't make any difference, those that aren't willing to be honest, still won't.

There's more on here that meeting is just a fantasy , not something they intend to go through with, I think, then anything else. I'd prefer a seperate caterorgy for them, the cybersex onlys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single account if playing alone - and a sentence saying married or playing with consent or whatever should suffice - will only mean another catagory with people saying they are a true single when theyre not as some people cant help themselves but lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our profile is totally honest so it gives people a choice if they want to message or meet us.

I think its better to be open and honest about your situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is you are Single,have a single profile.

If you are a couple,have a couples profile..

If your a couple but play separate,then you should state that in your profile.

its confusing seeing couples having separate profiles cos you dont know if they're trying to play away etc"

This is all we do, it's clearly stated on our profile, I don't want a single profile, im not single. Im a happily married woman in a relationship where we're sexually free.

I'd never lie about it, I have no desire for anyone to believe I'm available.

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