FabSwingers.com forum: looks or personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Personality mainly although looks play a small part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both,

We need attraction but a mental connection also

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

both .. there is beauty in everyone .. sometimes you just have to look harder

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Definitely both, there has to be a connection with personality in order to keep our attention but the physical attraction is just as important when organising meets.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% looks 10% personality

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

looks first personality second, we aren't here for a romantic relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks then personality, they have to look ok to me but not good looking.

its not always easy to tell just by looking at pictures what people are like but you can get a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction has to be there of course but personality plays a big part in the attraction. Ps I get better looking after a bottle of wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"both .. there is beauty in everyone .. sometimes you just have to look harder"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to like how they look at first but their has to be a mental connection also so personality plays a big part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing draws to me tbh, if they are up to fuck thats all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Although personality usually clinches the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing draws to me tbh, if they are up to fuck thats all that matters

Well, at least you are honest.

Both for me, I don't really want to sleep with someone if I'm not physically attracted to them but I wouldn't sleep with them if they were a complete a-hole either (although I would just do them up the arse now I mention it).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing draws to me tbh, if they are up to fuck thats all that matters

Well, at least you are honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly interested in availability

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

First it's looks (am I attracted to them) then personality (do I want to spend time with them)

If the answer is no to any of the above, then it's out with the wand! I can wait for who I want to meet!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I doubt personality is top of the list for partakers of gang bangs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a person doesn't like what they are looking at then it doesn't matter to many if you have the best personality in the world they don't stand much chance of anything more than chatting.

Male or female.

(Just my opinion - no offense intended)

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Got to be both... have to be attracted to the person/people and for them to have a good personality! xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If a person doesn't like what they are looking at then it doesn't matter to many if you have the best personality in the world they don't stand much chance of anything more than chatting.

Male or female.

(Just my opinion - no offense intended)"

Yes I'm inclined to agree, not many of us are here to form committed relationships we're meeting for sex so looks are the main thing initially. Of course you need to get along I do have to like the people we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, if I'm not attracted to a man why would I want to even kiss him let alone get jiggy with him

Personality comes into it after the fancy the pants off him stage is decided. Even if a man is drop dead gorgeous I still need to find him interesting enough to talk to and spend time with before and after we get jiggy

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

You'll snare us with your looks and keep us coming back with personality every time. It's that simple with us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has too be both.. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both bit if they make me feel relaxed and make me laugh its a winner

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By *irm hand LukeMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/West Oxfordshire

Blimey, chance of a meet would be a fine thing lol

Once you see the face pic its goooooodnight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. Stamina and health are essential to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab meets, looks comes first, personality further down the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality "

Probably a bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality

Probably a bit of both

attraction is good,but the convo needs to be good too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it has to be both??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here via a message I would say looks 1st & personality 2nd.

In the forums though peoples personalities can shine through which can be a very attractive trait.

So all in all ~ both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both as the people have to be reasonably attractive but personality is a huge part as we love to laugh & really don't take playing too seriously. Afterall this supposed to be FUN

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Both - obviously I have to be physically attracted to someone, but I am afraid that the most attractive of people can put me off by opening their mouth.

I have met truly stunning women that I could just never, ever fancy.

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By *asterSheffMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

Hygiene comes first for me, then I'll look at the other two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both the initial attraction draws me in but there personality makes me want to stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality "

Looks same as just about everyone then personality I laugh at this personality mainly thing as you get no replies without pictures but 10x more with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people with personality too but looks are important too. Having said that most people have something really nice about them. So it's their whole persona wich appeals to me the most. Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have both ...... looks only get you so far in this . Can have the best body and face and he a real nasty piece of work .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to have both ...... looks only get you so far in this . Can have the best body and face and he a real nasty piece of work ."

I totally agee. Being a nice person is really important to me too. And being a interesting and a giver of pleasure is so important too xx Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality

Looks same as just about everyone then personality I laugh at this personality mainly thing as you get no replies without pictures but 10x more with them."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. The size of their bank balance is the most important thing.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Both

Looks will get our attention and a good personality will keep it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are important, there has to be some degree of physical attraction in order to sexually excite me toward a woman, but if they have little in the way of an attractive personality also, then their initial appeal soon wears off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality, you are attracted to the other person for who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. The size of their bank balance is the most important thing."

I can do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% looks 10% personality "

I agree I don't really care about personality as long as they look and fuck good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% looks 10% personality

I agree I don't really care about personality as long as they look and fuck good "

I may as well get my coat now. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks first, but personality must kick in soon after. If there's a dominant air about him, that will come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% personality, 10% looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go for lucks we wouldn't meet if we didn't find them attractive. Then we get to know someone if the personality stinks we would decline on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality "

Big tits and a nice arse

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"So when you are looking to meet what draws you on looks or personality

Big tits and a nice arse

Ohhh hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely both, there has to be a connection with personality in order to keep our attention but the physical attraction is just as important when organising meets.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't beat a good looking personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks : tho we are both attracted to the unconventional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice healthy mix of both, the looks will draw you in initially in most cases, but a shining personality, a filthy sense of humour and passion will keep me coming back

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