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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So from the sender's point of view why would you send someone a friend request having had no contact at all prior to this? I'm really interested why you would want to be friends with someone in that situation. Is it just to access private friends only pic albums or is it like Pokemon card collecting? Just accumulation!

My main reason for asking is that I don't have a private friends only album which I had assumed would be the main reason, pic collectors etc and am now perplexed as they still keep on coming?

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

I don't get why you would send a friend request with no previous contact either.

You add friends not for friend only pictures but also to easily find someone you may want to contact at a later date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't get why you would send a friend request with no previous contact either.

You add friends not for friend only pictures but also to easily find someone you may want to contact at a later date"

Can use hotlist ffor that and shhhhh, don't tell anyone, but they don't even know you've hot listed them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger."

Ok, so why do I get on average twenty friend requests a day? Most unaccompanied by a prior message or chat in the chat room?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's a funny old world.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger.

Ok, so why do I get on average twenty friend requests a day? Most unaccompanied by a prior message or chat in the chat room?"

You're a single woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger.

Ok, so why do I get on average twenty friend requests a day? Most unaccompanied by a prior message or chat in the chat room?"

Because you're gorgeous and men want to perv at you (probably).

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger.

Ok, so why do I get on average twenty friend requests a day? Most unaccompanied by a prior message or chat in the chat room?

Because you're gorgeous and men want to perv at you (probably)."

And there is that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger.

Ok, so why do I get on average twenty friend requests a day? Most unaccompanied by a prior message or chat in the chat room?

Because you're gorgeous and men want to perv at you (probably).

And there is that."

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By *eather_satinCouple
over a year ago

West Sussex

I agree. I find it quite odd that people friend request without even attempting to chat first. Even then I'm reluctant unless we've been chatting a while. I think it is just people hoping to get a peeknat your friends only photos. However if you have none then they may just be very shy? Answers on a postcard......

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've got it on my profile that I won't add random friend requests and yet they keep on coming. Although I suspect that's got plenty to do with the fact that people still don't read profiles. Oh well, its no effort to ignore them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The thing is that this site has a lot of features and people will use them in varying ways which might not always be the way you would use them yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They derive no benefits from being a friend, so is weird and as a post doctoral student at Sydney university......I'm interested?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They derive no benefits from being a friend, so is weird and as a post doctoral student at Sydney university......I'm interested? "

Some people derive a certain sense of well being from having hundreds of friends even if they have never met them and there's a good chance that a percentage of them are not who they claim to be.

Facebook is to blame.

Good luck with your thesis don't forget to credit me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some men see it as a quick of verification by adding friends on to their profile.. Its just a roundabout way of beating the system.. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some think that being on a friends list entitles them to fast track ticket to sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think some men see it as a quick of verification by adding friends on to their profile.. Its just a roundabout way of beating the system.. Just saying "

I don't assume that lots of friends means they're genuine in fact thinking about it I take to mean that they're less serious about it because they just randomly throw out friends requests.

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By *b69Man
over a year ago

warrington


"Some think that being on a friends list entitles them to fast track ticket to sex "
to be honest I'll admit I'm abit shy never used a site like this but when u add folk you can learn from peoples status what thire into an like talking about if that makes sense once I get to know somone by talking I ain't shy and to some as you've described it is wierd :-/ lol hope that made sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this all the time. And I'm sorry but we do not accept them unless we have met u on a meet or spoken to you in a club lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a woman would complain about these lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a funny old world. "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Some think that being on a friends list entitles them to fast track ticket to sex to be honest I'll admit I'm abit shy never used a site like this but when u add folk you can learn from peoples status what thire into an like talking about if that makes sense once I get to know somone by talking I ain't shy and to some as you've described it is wierd :-/ lol hope that made sense x "

Just hotlist them.

There's a better chance you won't get refused!

A

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)


"I don't get why you would send a friend request with no previous contact either.

You add friends not for friend only pictures but also to easily find someone you may want to contact at a later date

Can use hotlist ffor that and shhhhh, don't tell anyone, but they don't even know you've hot listed them! "

Oooo I didn't know that.

My list will now be cut in half lol

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By *meandhim4u2Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

isn't it something to do with sending you a message, if they are on your friends list it cancels out the message filters.... so they can message and wink you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I've been reading this thread, 2 random friends requests have appeared, no message though a wink from each and one is over 2 hrs from me.

Maybe I should go ask them why they've not sent me a message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely the clue is in the name 'friend'.

Not stranger."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never sent a friends request to anyone unless we had communication or have met...

unless my finger slipped

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"never sent a friends request to anyone unless we had communication or have met...

unless my finger slipped"

Yep

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"They derive no benefits from being a friend, so is weird and as a post doctoral student at Sydney university......I'm interested? "

How much do I need to tell you, I can do it slowly to help with mental pictures for you......... 'My cock is so hard', ....... 'You're so hot.' yadayadayada, that good enough?

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