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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its down to the individual not the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its down to the individual not the site"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know ur gonna get abuse if ur new on the site lol and yes I like bareback sex lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse "

It's a swingers site, safe sex is an option on preferences but the site doesn't tell members how to conduct their sex lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bareback,don't mean you do it with everyone.

It's a choice someone makes which they enjoy.

And also this site is about enjoying your self.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Up to the individual to make their own life choices.

Some do some don't, I always protect myself and it's up to you to choose for yourself.

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By *tuartb1970Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells

There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned

Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse "

You state a lot of women do bareback doesn't it mean the man does too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own n all that

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I do bareback with my husband and my pics show that but when I play with any other man he rubbers up....I think this might be the case with quite a few people on here

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Up to the individual to make their own life choices.

Some do some don't, I always protect myself and it's up to you to choose for yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simple just concentrate on own life let others live theirs no matter what they do.

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By *udie_GirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Rochdale


"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned

Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way "

I don't think condoms are anywhere near as fragile as some seem to think they are. Provide you don't rip them with a fingernail they will stand quite a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse

You state a lot of women do bareback doesn't it mean the man does too "

of course not.

you know full well its all the dirty women folks faults lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned

Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way

I don't think condoms are anywhere near as fragile as some seem to think they are. Provide you don't rip them with a fingernail they will stand quite a lot. "

i used to work for Ann summers and quite often did party games with condoms. you'd be amazed how many come out of the pack with a hole in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me "

smooth talking bastards! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is from my view.. most men in generally I think want bareback IF the woman sais hey fancy doing it without lol.

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By *ral4bothMan
over a year ago

Harrow

I met a TS on here before and when I got to her place she wanted bareback,to which I refused.

Anyway whilst fking her doggy with condom she was trying to take it off

Anyway to cut a long story short I made my excuses and left

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By *tuartb1970Man
over a year ago

tunbridge wells


"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned

Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way

I don't think condoms are anywhere near as fragile as some seem to think they are. Provide you don't rip them with a fingernail they will stand quite a lot. "

Well I had one come off half way through a session once

I was happily shagging away looked down and there was no condom, it was actually still inside my date!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Up to the individual to make their own life choices.

Some do some don't, I always protect myself and it's up to you to choose for yourself."

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"I know im new on here and probley gonna get abuse now but really bareback I notice a lot of women do bareback on here isn't this suppose to be a safe sex site ok start the abuse "

Just women do bareback??? surely it's a 2way thing??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is from my view.. most men in generally I think want bareback IF the woman sais hey fancy doing it without lol."

i think most people in general, whether male or female, would rather not the hassle of using condoms, but unfortunately, the way the world is and pregnancy risk on top of STi's then they are,and always will be, a minimal requirement for illicit sexual affairs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is from my view.. most men in generally I think want bareback IF the woman sais hey fancy doing it without lol.

i think most people in general, whether male or female, would rather not the hassle of using condoms, but unfortunately, the way the world is and pregnancy risk on top of STi's then they are,and always will be, a minimal requirement for illicit sexual affairs."

I've yet to hear anyone say they prefer sex with a condom 'it just feels better to me'. but as said, pregnancy plus sti risk just means bareback issomething I'm more than happy to save for one particular person rather than do with everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

huge turn on for me, but its up to the other person really, I believe. ; )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine lost her womb, because her husband was playing away, at 29 hardly funny or worth it...it lay dormant in her for months before it was detected

Just saying, my deep and meaning full over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never go bearback ,not worth the risk

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I never go bearback ,not worth the risk "

Yeah, those bears can be a bit dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know lol

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Dear god how many times is this one going to get rehashed ? Doesn't matter how many ways its put its always going to come down two answers .some do , some dont its all down to choice ,end of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me

smooth talking bastards! lol"

I just did a weird Muttley laugh readiing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BORE-BACK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still not safe sex folks even with condoms. Get tested!*

If you never have been you could still be passing infections on without even knowing it.

*This high-horse moralising came courtesy of Mrs D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never go bearback ,not worth the risk

Yeah, those bears can be a bit dangerous."

Though you might be safer if you're on its back rather than in front of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We received a wink from a couple who, on their profile, made it very clear that they would only meet people who were up for bareback sex. They had dozens of veris from people who all had 'safe sex' displayed on their interests.

No surprise, but a reminder to believe little of what you read. People lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tended to have bareback sex when the girl wants it. And even then, I've come away with thrush.

So for my safety, I use a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this day and age you would have to be seriously nuts to do this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex is an absolute fucking MUST for me.

Not even up for debate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BORE-BACK."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not safe sex folks even with condoms. Get tested!*

If you never have been you could still be passing infections on without even knowing it.

*This high-horse moralising came courtesy of Mrs D.

"

A great message and a good gag to boot, very good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's making the horlicks then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me

smooth talking bastards! lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like bareback,don't mean you do it with everyone.

It's a choice someone makes which they enjoy.

And also this site is about enjoying your self. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me

smooth talking bastards! lol

I just did a weird Muttley laugh readiing this."

so did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been asked by men if they can remove the condom for anal and to cum inside me

smooth talking bastards! lol

I just did a weird Muttley laugh readiing this.

so did I "

So did I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People always talk about the sex being safe and using condom for penetrative sex, but what about oral, do people do bare oral and if so doesn't that just kill the argument for covering up after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People always talk about the sex being safe and using condom for penetrative sex, but what about oral, do people do bare oral and if so doesn't that just kill the argument for covering up after?

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No everyone uses dams...:

Makes me laugh when someone throws something into the mixer and doesn't come back to back up what he's started x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People always talk about the sex being safe and using condom for penetrative sex, but what about oral, do people do bare oral and if so doesn't that just kill the argument for covering up after? "

But that's like saying we shouldn't wear seat belts because they don't stop all injuries and deaths in road accidents. It's not about being completely safe, but about being safer by taking simple precautions.

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Do what you and others you meet are happy with, very simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic comes up regularly but our take on it is that wearing a condom simply does not guarantee safety for swingers.

As an example I cannot tell you how often in group situations we have seen guys play with their uncovered cock & then immediately after slide their fingers into some woman's pussy.

Nobody seems to notice or bother!

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By *icekatCouple
over a year ago

north east


"I do bareback with my husband and my pics show that but when I play with any other man he rubbers up....I think this might be the case with quite a few people on here "

Same goes for me!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unless you've shagged these fab users, or read a lot of verifications saying 'thanks for the great bareback' you'll not know how many people have bareback sex via fab. And if you're not sleeping with them, then it's not yours or fab's business.

When you reach the age of 18, you are an adult. Your body is your property and you are largely free to do whatever you wish with it. If you take the attitude that others you sleep with have a sexual history that you don't know, then it's up to you to shag them as you feel appropriate.

Some users do bareback with their long term partners, rather than fb's, others do it with their longer term fb's. Communication allows everything to be covered before a potential meet. If you're in a club, then you can speak or use body language - if you carry your own condoms, then you have what you need at hand, and some lube helps too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's making the horlicks then ? "

whoever pays her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a bare back ?

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By *eamgbukCouple (MM)
over a year ago

sunny york

I'm bringing sexy back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a bare back ?"

someone who goes out without a raincoat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a bare back ?"

A horse called paddington in the 2:50 @ Kempton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no harm in putting a condom on, only takes a second and at least there is peace of mind for all concerned

Then again it's not 100% certain it won't tear or come off mid way "

It's not 100% safe either

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What's a bare back ?"

having sex without a condom

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It doesn't matter to me what others do. I keep myself safe and that's all I'm bothered about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter to me what others do. I keep myself safe and that's all I'm bothered about

"
best way to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow seems to be a lot of antibareback threads at the moment ( and yes we play safer unless it's between us )

as we always say treat EVERYONE as if they have had bareback because let's face we all have at one point or another even if it's with our long term partners,

Get tested regularly even if you use a condom , people seem to think condoms stop everything and anything they DONT.

I always wonder how many who play "safe" actually get tested ( I know most on the forum will but how many on the site ?) and wonder how many people use a condom/oral dam for oral sex ?

ANY form of intimacy has a certain risk, and I can garentee that all this bareback bashing will just increase the risk ( because it will go underground,people will lie and then you don't know who does,who doesn't )

Let people have the right to choose , would you shout as much about the choice to drink alcohol ? Or eat sugary foods? Or smoke? Or ride a bike ? Or go swimming in the sea? Everything everybody does has risks BUT it's their choice no one forces you to do it too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

This thread ties in well too

http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/259309#message_4796275

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow seems to be a lot of antibareback threads at the moment ( and yes we play safer unless it's between us )

as we always say treat EVERYONE as if they have had bareback because let's face we all have at one point or another even if it's with our long term partners,

Get tested regularly even if you use a condom , people seem to think condoms stop everything and anything they DONT.

I always wonder how many who play "safe" actually get tested ( I know most on the forum will but how many on the site ?) and wonder how many people use a condom/oral dam for oral sex ?

ANY form of intimacy has a certain risk, and I can garentee that all this bareback bashing will just increase the risk ( because it will go underground,people will lie and then you don't know who does,who doesn't )

Let people have the right to choose , would you shout as much about the choice to drink alcohol ? Or eat sugary foods? Or smoke? Or ride a bike ? Or go swimming in the sea? Everything everybody does has risks BUT it's their choice no one forces you to do it too

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This anti bareback attitude is very common on the forums. As a result many people hide the fact that they like bareback sex.

We are one of the few who openly admit we love it and have mentioned this on our profile.

Only rarely do we find that we are refused a meet because of this but at least we are open. Most others seem afraid of the potential criticism & hide the fact that they bareback.

Incidentally don't draw any conclusion from our friends list or verifications as we don't bareback all the time.

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