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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you look for before you message someone...

I rarely message and I think its mainly because I try to read between the lines and study pics for clues to what they're like..

possibly read wrong most of the time..

And truthfully..do some men just message every female hoping for a reply or do you actually look for what you 'want'.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the profile, then look at the interests and if I feel we could be compatible then I send a message of introduction. Never send desperate, random messages as I feel they stand out as being desperate. I'm looking for shared interests really, otherwise how are you going to get along.

Hey....Don't get many replies though, but that's part of the fun I suppose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ditto...I like to see what they like..dislike etc..saves so much time.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There's no point in sending a message where there's no hint of shared interests, a likelihood that you're at least compatible to the profile text content - and most importantly - that you meet the basic preferences that the profile contains!

Oh - and not forgetting the all important 'geography' factor!

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look for a Pulse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no point in sending a message where there's no hint of shared interests, a likelihood that you're at least compatible to the profile text content - and most importantly - that you meet the basic preferences that the profile contains!

Oh - and not forgetting the all important 'geography' factor!

A"

Her

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles. "

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles. "

Very similar tac tic supported by lots of men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no point in sending a message where there's no hint of shared interests, a likelihood that you're at least compatible to the profile text content - and most importantly - that you meet the basic preferences that the profile contains!

Oh - and not forgetting the all important 'geography' factor!

A"

Agreed.......but the 'geography' factor can be overcome if the desire to do so is there

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"There's no point in sending a message where there's no hint of shared interests, a likelihood that you're at least compatible to the profile text content - and most importantly - that you meet the basic preferences that the profile contains!

Oh - and not forgetting the all important 'geography' factor!

A

Agreed.......but the 'geography' factor can be overcome if the desire to do so is there "

True!

But worth checking whether people travel first.

We get a fair few messages from Scotland, Ireland and even the States suggesting a meet at theirs!

Sadly the private jet is at the cleaners at the mo!

A

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles.

Very similar tac tic supported by lots of men on here "

If they're lucky I send a pic of my cock. It's one I took sitting on the bog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also have a quick look at their veries

to see the kind of men they meet,

When i see that all of their meets are with men 5ft 10 plus i move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read profiles and veris and hope to find the kind of person im looking for. Wont message anyone for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles.

Very similar tac tic supported by lots of men on here

If they're lucky I send a pic of my cock. It's one I took sitting on the bog. "

You totally spoil us women on here

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles.

Very similar tac tic supported by lots of men on here

If they're lucky I send a pic of my cock. It's one I took sitting on the bog.

You totally spoil us women on here "

I haven't offered to cum on your face yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles.

Very similar tac tic supported by lots of men on here

If they're lucky I send a pic of my cock. It's one I took sitting on the bog.

You totally spoil us women on here

I haven't offered to cum on your face yet!"

:-0

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I copy and paste "Fancy a fuck now?" and send it to every online female within 200 miles.

Very similar tac tic supported by lots of men on here

If they're lucky I send a pic of my cock. It's one I took sitting on the bog.

You totally spoil us women on here

I haven't offered to cum on your face yet!

:-0

"

Its a tried and tested approach

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