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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I spend a good few hours grafting away with woman to get a straight deleted message. Someone tell me what's going on?

Have a look at my profile and gimme some headers.

Thanks FAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can be easily put off with the fact you can't accommodate. Makes them think your married or have a girlfriend and have something to hide. If it's neither then you have to explain the reason why you can't accommodate in your profile. You really have to sell yourself on here. More thought into your pics also helps alot to. I've been told I have a good profile with good pics, so take a look if you want. Hope this advice helps. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks mate appreciate that a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're very welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you spent about 5 minutes on your profile. It says nothing of interest or substance and won't stand out from tge 100s of other single men's profiles on here. Minimal effort tends to equal minimal reward

Look at some of the well verified profiles on here and spot the difference between those and yours

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Women can be easily put off with the fact you can't accommodate. Makes them think your married or have a girlfriend and have something to hide. If it's neither then you have to explain the reason why you can't accommodate in your profile. You really have to sell yourself on here. More thought into your pics also helps alot to. I've been told I have a good profile with good pics, so take a look if you want. Hope this advice helps. Good luck. "

I don't agree that someone should have to explain on their profile why they can't accomodate.....whether they are a couple or single.

But I agree with the rest about selling yourself more and better photos.

You profile doesn't say anything about what you are looking for or enjoy or show any sign of personality.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Women can be easily put off with the fact you can't accommodate. Makes them think your married or have a girlfriend and have something to hide. If it's neither then you have to explain the reason why you can't accommodate in your profile. You really have to sell yourself on here. More thought into your pics also helps alot to. I've been told I have a good profile with good pics, so take a look if you want. Hope this advice helps. Good luck. "

Disagree totally! No one has to justify anything to anyone on here! I used to only meet men that could accommodate, if they didn't I moved on, I certainly didn't ask them why not!

Op, your profile is lazy and uninspiring. There's nothing to entice people to you, you really need to put some effort in. Most people read the profile before the message. If the profile doesn't appeal the message is deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you need to up the profile text ~ it's your selling tool on here so it's got to be good to stand out from the 100's of other single men profiles

I like picture number 2!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry didnt read profile too busy looking at his abs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

My 2p's worth?

The profile text says little and is similar to 100's of others.

Describing yourself as 'well hung' is pointless - if you think that's a key USP of yours then people will assume you have little else to offer. Plus one mans 'hung' is another's average.

Your pics aren't that inspiring - and whilst it's good you have a face pic up. - don't forget that after seeing it some people simply may not be attracted to you.

What were your expectancies on joining the site?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend a good few hours grafting away with woman to get a straight deleted message. Someone tell me what's going on?

Have a look at my profile and gimme some headers.

Thanks FAB"

Not much wrong...but can I ask..

Are you just sending messages to everyone..

Women are not daft

(FAR FAR from it)..

They will know if you are just looking for a quick fuck no matter how its worded..try finding a profile that stirs you..and take time to reply...

Aim high son...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the point that you find it a chore by having to 'graft' with women, probably suggests your messages are more workmanlike than personal and sensual.

as has been said, from your profile to your messages to how well you smell on a meet and your conversation, everything about doing things online is about selling your best features, and if you feel they are your abs and a large cock, then its not going to inspire much in many im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend a good few hours grafting away with woman to get a straight deleted message. Someone tell me what's going on?

Have a look at my profile and gimme some headers.

Thanks FAB"

So you "grafted" chatting for hours to her then she deleted your messgaes?

what did you say in the last message to piss her off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Updated... Thoughts now people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I'm being honest it really reads like you're applying for a job. All this experience and applying for vacancies sound all very business like. It needs soul and passion and needs to sound friendly to. I know it's hard. Took me ages to word mine right.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Updated... Thoughts now people"

Your headline looks like it ends 'Not' !!

It's better - and if you think it's more 'you' - then keep it. A profile should be written to reflect you - not be a reaction to suggestions or specific advice.

Oh - and it seems you can now accommodate? If so - fine. If not - putting this and then telling folk you can't because 'Aunt Flossy' is visiting won't wash!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha I can definitely accommodate

And as for profile header that's the hardest part! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sound a bit desperate and like you're trying to please everyone and willing to just say what you think they want to hear. Just be honest.

Oh and

"Don't be put off by my age I'm vastly experienced with many a women "

I hope your knob isn't 5 hat cheesy

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