FabSwingers.com forum: Found out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.

Mortified or not bothered?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not bothered, I am single and can do as I please.

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

my parents were swingers, though i never really cared what they thought about anything anyway. I also dont hide any porn in my house tho its not deliberately on show. If you looked through my dvd's and books you would find some

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

How would friends family found maybe looking on a swingers site ? So they are either interested In lifestyle or being nosey ? It's not something to be ashamed of just we are private people anyway so do keep. Things quiet ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like to think about. I know my parents would react negatively for sure, and it would be only their reaction that I would care for..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be bothered it our choice what we do no one elses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered about family as I don't see any of them. My friends know I'm nuts so this wouldn't surprise them. Most of my friends are on here anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ashamed of what we do, but I wouldn't want to hurt my children or parents so I would be mortified

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s amazing how much interest is created when the subject of swinging comes up around the dinner table, but I’ve yet to hear someone actually say yes we are into that or we fancy trying that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

my parents would be upset and worried so I wouldn't want them to know even though our sex life is none of their affair. I don't know how our kids would react but I have no intention of telling them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not ashamed of being a swinger either but being of an older generation than most on here my family and friends would probably be shocked. I enjoy my secret side and prefer to be totally discrete xx Jim

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm not ashamed of being a swinger either but being of an older generation than most on here my family and friends would probably be shocked. I enjoy my secret side and prefer to be totally discrete xx Jim"

Yes that's why I wouldn't want my parents to know we're the same generation as you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You make yourselves sound like fossils

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By *ot in nottsMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"It’s amazing how much interest is created when the subject of swinging comes up around the dinner table, but I’ve yet to hear someone actually say yes we are into that or we fancy trying that."
. I always remember my dad saying if I bought a woman home he would 'take part' don't think family or friends would be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be mortified, not because I'm ashamed but I value my privacy and what I get up to is my business and no one else.

My parents and a few friends would probably disown me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You make yourselves sound like fossils

I'm not offended by your comment at all and as you well know sex often gets better and better with age. Although I must say I don't look as young as I feel when I look in the mirror xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that's why I wouldn't want my parents to know we're the same generation as you

Your profile is a great advert for the pleasures of swinging and growing older disgracefully. The youngsters have much to look forward too xx

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Not ashamed of what we do, but I wouldn't want to hurt my children or parents so I would be mortified "

This

Although my mum would probably just say no wonder you won't settle down

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"You make yourselves sound like fossils

Do we? By being truthful about our age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum and sisters no.but hubby family don't .

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.

Mortified or not bothered?

If they looked down at me I'd swing for them.

What we do is up to us.

As mentioned before I'm not a swinger so Im guessing really.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Our friends and some of our family know and no one is particularly bothered - as long as we are happy they are happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want anyone to know as i like to keep my sex life private from family, i dont wish to know about their sex life and vice versa

Someone at work found out thou, via a swinging site ! Bit scary at first but was ok when we met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldn't be too bothered about peeps knowing , but alas swinging is still taboo in some peoples eyes so whilst we wouldn't mind, we thinks it's best some of our family and friends don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wouldn't be too bothered about peeps knowing , but alas swinging is still taboo in some peoples eyes so whilst we wouldn't mind, we thinks it's best some of our family and friends don't know"

Yes i agree but on couple of occasion a friend or two did guess and it led to some fun also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met my new partner on here and have been skirting round the truth when people asked how we met. his family would be ok with it but not mine. Easier not to mention it!!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

My mum knows as do my 2 best mates. I hate secrets and lies. I'm single and hurting no one so what does it matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, this is your generation.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No, this is your generation."

Are you answering me? I don't think of myself as as fossil and we used the word generation as a way of showing how old our families would be and what their attitudes might be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.

Mortified or not bothered?

They're unlikely to find out as I don't feel the need to discuss my private life: operative word "private" I'd be more mortified if they found out my bank balance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently told friends of mine, two were shocked but soon got over it and the couple I told were so blasé about it. I feel much closer to them now, not having to lie about what I am doing or who!! The couple are now my phone buddies which is fantastic

My family though is a whole different kettle of fish, I wouldn't tell them purely for the fact they wouldn't understand.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My mum knows as do my 2 best mates. I hate secrets and lies. I'm single and hurting no one so what does it matter"

I don't think of it as being secretive or lying, none of my family know the details of any aspect of our sex life I suppose they assume that we have one and leave it at that just as we do with them. If you're open about your sex life with your family good and if you're not that's good too but not really lying in my opinion.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

They already know what I get up to - more or less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.

Mortified or not bothered?

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..Mortified.. Discrete all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not bothered, I am single and can do as I please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would be modified!! Ha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont go out of my way to publicise it, but I really couldn't give a fuck if my family found out. They're the biggest hypocrites going in any case, so why should I feel guilty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are public about it we don't give a damn.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Not bothered, I am single and can do as I please.

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By *ougaronprowlWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I just had a message from someone saying they are one of my sons friends, except he has no pictures or name on there to give him away! Not sure what to say or do now! Any advice?

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By *amBam minus Pebbles21p3Man
over a year ago

Hampton Court/Belfast

"How would you feel if your friends/family found out that you were into swinging.

Mortified or not bothered?

..Mortified.. Discrete all the way.

Oh holy shit!! I love your ass... off topic I know but just had to blurt that out. Soz

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Yes that's why I wouldn't want my parents to know we're the same generation as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they wouldnt be too surprised as i was a naughty girl when i was a teenager.

my son found out i was a bit embarased, but he knows my partner is ok with it because he asked him, we get on ok as we all live together, hes always thought i was different from his mates mums anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents know about it and that I am using sex meet sites.. I even tell them where abouts but not excatly where I am going

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We've been 'outed' twice! the important people in our lives know all about us and have been very open minded and accepting

We don't give a damn what anyone else thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are public about it we don't give a damn. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you say you have no face pis on site ? so who is the blonde bird on the bed with the pink stockings, one of your pupils ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt care about my parents, they are very openminded and easy going.

V would be mortified if her mother found out, so we no longer do anything where there is a chance she could.

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