FabSwingers.com forum: 100 messages; 10 replies; 1 meet. What's your ratio

By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets

All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets

All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one

All I can say to you is that eeeeeerrrr U the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a 1000 messages 500 reply's and 1 meet that's bad

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I hate to say it, but your average is much better than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never counted but I do ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where you're going wrong.....you haven't messaged me!

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Have never kept a count of how messages we send out.

But would guess that we probably get around 50% replied to and that includes the thanks but no thanks replies.

We do ok and it doesn't stop us trying...

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I can see where you're going wrong.....you haven't messaged me!

Loool squames. How are you doing babes.

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets"

This was a wet finger in the air type guessestimate and not specific count. Wouldn't it be super sad if I actually counted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell. Where do you get the time to send all those messages. Maybe that's where i'm going wrong; not by bulk messaging haha.

..unless it's someone i know i barely get a reply back. Then again, i'm not really sending out 100 messages so the chances are bound to be low.

Everyone i want live miles away though!!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Bloody hell. Where do you get the time to send all those messages. Maybe that's where i'm going wrong; not by bulk messaging haha.

..unless it's someone i know i barely get a reply back. Then again, i'm not really sending out 100 messages so the chances are bound to be low.

Everyone i want live miles away though!!

I'm guessing my ratio used to be similar to OP but these days I send less get more replies and meet people I've got to know.

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets

This was a wet finger in the air type guessestimate and not specific count. Wouldn't it be super sad if I actually counted lol"

Indeed

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

My ratio......several hundred messages....A handful of replies and no meets

but hey you can't win them and besides it's all good fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20ish messages sent

Most replied

5 meets

Wouldn't know how to work the ratio out, to be fair I don't message that much mind...I like the independent woman they know what they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't count received or sent messages to busy being a perv

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

"Don't count received or sent messages to busy being a perv"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets

All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one

But your male and looking for Cock, so yes It will, but for guys seeking Ladies hats a whole different ball game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My message/reply ratio is more like 50%, largely due to the fact that I send so few (my last mail I sent two days ago). I think many guys on here would have a greater success rate if they were more picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fabs since last been here has def changed so have u. My ratio is now 100 messages, 19 replies and 1 meet. Pretty low I know, how is it going for you guys and girls and couples out there. Let's discuss. "

I have no idea how many messages I send, but not as many as that, but I do more than OK for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets

All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one

But your male and looking for Cock, so yes It will, but for guys seeking Ladies hats a whole different ball game "

A no-ball game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send any messages asking for a meet

but I answer all (sensible) messages. No meets yet, one planned in a couple of weeks, but I live in quite a remote area so that's to be expected.

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"20ish messages sent

Most replied

5 meets

Wouldn't know how to work the ratio out, to be fair I don't message that much mind...I like the independent woman they know what they're looking for.

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Don't count received or sent messages to busy being a perv"

Lol

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I haven't been on here for ages but I remember that my reply ratio was 1:12... of those then the meet ratio was 1:6 ish...

so working that backwards... if I messaged 72 women, I'd end up bagging one!

however, I have always been picky.

My chances are increased substantially by going to a club where its easy. The question is, do I spend £35 or just meet off here?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"My message/reply ratio is more like 50%, largely due to the fact that I send so few (my last mail I sent two days ago). I think many guys on here would have a greater success rate if they were more picky."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge"

I tried that, it didn't work for me lol.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Out of 100 messages I receive:

50% are from friends on here and are on-going conversations and very nice they are, too.

Of the other 50, 30 are probably saying I look nice and if they were closer...

The remaining 20, 15 are frim people totally unsuitable, ie, no pics, too old, only want to meet on a Tuesday afternoon in Asda car park and so on.

This leaves me 5 plausible messages.

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Have absolutely no idea what our ratio is nor do we really care ,we get meets we get layed we have fun end of lol

mind it probably helps that we are on another site as well but hey its all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do people actually count? Wouldn't have a clue. Many messages are to friends etc anyway. Certainly don't go short of meets - one meet ain't a good return for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never bothered counting.

All I need to know is I've sent many messages out. Rarely get anything back and have zero meets; often weighing up the merits of perseverance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge

I tried that, it didn't work for me lol. "

Tried this an was a disaster.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take heart. In direct marketing a 1 to 2% response rate to a mailshot is often regarded as normal, so actually you're doing OK

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

Take heart. In direct marketing a 1 to 2% response rate to a mailshot is often regarded as normal, so actually you're doing OK

Thanks interruptus. Your statistics means I can smile again and walk with my head high, or even better with my cock high lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly 400 messages, two meets, so not great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly 400 messages, two meets, so not great

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"Roughly 400 messages, two meets, so not great

I think you still fall within interruptus statics of 1 to 2% generic marketing success ratio. So I wouldn't be too sad about it.

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"Out of 100 messages I receive:

50% are from friends on here and are on-going conversations and very nice they are, too.

Of the other 50, 30 are probably saying I look nice and if they were closer...

The remaining 20, 15 are frim people totally unsuitable, ie, no pics, too old, only want to meet on a Tuesday afternoon in Asda car park and so on.

This leaves me 5 plausible messages.

That reminds me I had better message you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any stats to hand but I have sent out two mesaages but got no replies this month. Luckily I get more than I send out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 6000 messages, 40 replies, big fat zero meets. A few crazy ladies and timewasters... Not bad going!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you sending these ladies..

not being funny at all but ive had a great response whenever I've messaged people, please tell me you're not just asking for a fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got all my filters on at the moment as I

I'm lazy and don't reply to everyone,I prefer to send initial messages out if I like the look of someone,the response rate is high but that doesn't always mean it will end up with a meet once I've been chatting with someone

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will sound cocky but I tend to very rarely message first nowadays... and still manage to get meets!

So my ratio for the past month would be 0-5-5, or something like that

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By *emon99123Man
over a year ago

London

id guess probably less than 10% reply rate. if i'm being generous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you've done pretty well compared to my average..... not that I'm counting, that would be silly with my reply rate !!!!!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I have never counted messages sent \ replies \ meets

All I can say is I have nearly always got a meet whenever I have wanted one

You're meeting blokes so can not in all fairness be compared to the OP as gay/bi men will always find it easy to find other guys to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not as good as that.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Never counted and kinda sad to keep track. When I want to meet though I generally do but I quite often have repeat meets"

As a single female you will generally get a meet when you want one. The same cannot be said of a single bloke so yours is not a fair comparison to the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just let people message me first, they're usually flooded with messages as it is so it shows they're interested. Saves me the effort of typing out a message only for it to be lost in the deluge"

Women are deluged with crap messages. Honestly, it's not difficult to stand out from the crowd! Bother to write something decent and I'll always reply, even if it's a thanks but no thanks.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"What are you sending these ladies..

not being funny at all but ive had a great response whenever I've messaged people, please tell me you're not just asking for a fuck

Is that not the right approach??? Oh bugger!!!!

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By *lackduffy OP Man
over a year ago

london

"About 6000 messages, 40 replies, big fat zero meets. A few crazy ladies and timewasters... Not bad going!

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lol, h got to laugh .....

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