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"So why are you on here then ??????? sorry ..clearly need to clarify lol peoples status says on a break .... but there always online ?????? Pretty much the same as the Im leaving the site posts ... just leave why tell everyone .. and if your on a break have a break In what way? " | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons" ok so why tell everyone ? just hide the profile | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons" This. I take a break from meeting but stay on and talk to friend's and participate in the forums x | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons ok so why tell everyone ? just hide the profile" Because they want to.... Is it really that much of a bother? | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons ok so why tell everyone ? just hide the profile" friends like to look at your pics | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons ok so why tell everyone ? just hide the profile" Why should we, my profile, I will do what I like | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? " If your having a break presumably that's from swinging so you wouldn't go on a swingers site I guess ... bit like dieting but going in the chippy for your tea ...not really a break is it | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? If your having a break presumably that's from swinging so you wouldn't go on a swingers site I guess ... bit like dieting but going in the chippy for your tea ...not really a break is it" Why... It's not all about sex... | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? " My understanding from a guy I've chatted to and one on the forums who obviously run this site as others do who are forever telling us what we should do, we should ONLY log on if we are looking for a shag apparently | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? If your having a break presumably that's from swinging so you wouldn't go on a swingers site I guess ... bit like dieting but going in the chippy for your tea ...not really a break is it" but people do come on here in between fucking? Never window shopped? | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? My understanding from a guy I've chatted to and one on the forums who obviously run this site as others do who are forever telling us what we should do, we should ONLY log on if we are looking for a shag apparently " and,fingers crossed,the perfect partner would be online at the same time too | |||
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"Here we go ...... " silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? My understanding from a guy I've chatted to and one on the forums who obviously run this site as others do who are forever telling us what we should do, we should ONLY log on if we are looking for a shag apparently and,fingers crossed,the perfect partner would be online at the same time too" Yea and pigs might fly too | |||
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"Here we go ...... silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is " True , you got me there There are those who would say that , car keys in a bowl ..... | |||
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"Here we go ...... silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is " Nope genuinely interested if we wanted a break we would use other social media sites to keep up with friends .. | |||
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"Here we go ...... silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is True , you got me there There are those who would say that , car keys in a bowl ..... " you can't make the rules up to suit you. If people don't want to fuck they can have a break,chat to people they have and then start fucking again when they are ready. You do things your way,they do it theirs | |||
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"So why are you on here then ??????? Great question ... Couldn't agree more ! Now wait for the tirade of messages from all the forumites giving you a plethora of reasons .... Yawn " errr you're a forumite too! and if you don't want reasons then don't post a question lol.... | |||
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"Here we go ...... silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is Nope genuinely interested if we wanted a break we would use other social media sites to keep up with friends .." you do that then and others will do it their way | |||
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"Here we go ...... silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is True , you got me there There are those who would say that , car keys in a bowl ..... you can't make the rules up to suit you. If people don't want to fuck they can have a break,chat to people they have and then start fucking again when they are ready. You do things your way,they do it theirs" not making rules just asking the question ... all weve had so far apart from one post actually answering the question is abunch of responses questioning our right to ask lol | |||
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"Here we go ...... silly question though wasn't it. Bit like saying why do couples not full swap when that's what swinging is True , you got me there There are those who would say that , car keys in a bowl ..... you can't make the rules up to suit you. If people don't want to fuck they can have a break,chat to people they have and then start fucking again when they are ready. You do things your way,they do it theirs not making rules just asking the question ... all weve had so far apart from one post actually answering the question is abunch of responses questioning our right to ask lol" you really don't know why someone would put "having a break" on their profile? | |||
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"So why are you on here then ???????" same reason you chose to comment - cos they can/want etc | |||
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"So why are you on here then ???????" To annoy you...?????? | |||
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"do I get a prize if I guess the correct answer.....?! " I'm sure that something could be arranged... | |||
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"So why are you on here then ??????? sorry ..clearly need to clarify lol peoples status says on a break .... but there always online ?????? Pretty much the same as the Im leaving the site posts ... just leave why tell everyone .. and if your on a break have a break In what way? " See what you mean. Why bother announcing every little thing? Agree. | |||
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"So why are you on here then ??????? sorry ..clearly need to clarify lol peoples status says on a break .... but there always online ?????? Pretty much the same as the Im leaving the site posts ... just leave why tell everyone .. and if your on a break have a break In what way? See what you mean. Why bother announcing every little thing? Agree." so people can see they aren't meeting and not message them I would assume | |||
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"So why are you on here then ??????? sorry ..clearly need to clarify lol peoples status says on a break .... but there always online ?????? Pretty much the same as the Im leaving the site posts ... just leave why tell everyone .. and if your on a break have a break In what way? See what you mean. Why bother announcing every little thing? Agree. so people can see they aren't meeting and not message them I would assume" I thought it meant like in the status updates. There's easier ways to stop people mailing. But either way it doesn't matter, people should use the site how they want. | |||
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"So why are you on here then ???????" Who made you the profile police?? You use your profile how you want and let others do the same. If KT bothers you that much I'd suggest a break would be good for you as well lol its just words on a screen!!! | |||
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"So why are you on here then ???????" or maybe its nobody's business but thier own ? Whats the big deal ? | |||
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"What I have gleaned over the time I've been in the forum....it all depends on who you are. If you post regularly and "the forum" likes you, likes what you say then anything goes. However if you are "an outsider" they pull you to bits even though the majority of them actually agree with what you say they ain't gonna admit it.....but hey do you give a shit because I certainly don't. Majority so quick to put the defensives up. Playing devils advocate me thinks." That's all probably true. Same in real life though, some people adjust their outward beliefs/ attitudes/ opinions to fit in with their peers. I think life is more interesting if people aren't afraid to say what they think. Unfortunately it's not just the 'in crowd' that affects the way people post. The so-called 'outsiders' with their snide comments (I don't mean this post I quoted) also affect how people post. They probably don't see it- and won't admit it- but both sets of people types put people off posting. | |||
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"What I have gleaned over the time I've been in the forum....it all depends on who you are. If you post regularly and "the forum" likes you, likes what you say then anything goes. However if you are "an outsider" they pull you to bits even though the majority of them actually agree with what you say they ain't gonna admit it.....but hey do you give a shit because I certainly don't. Majority so quick to put the defensives up. Playing devils advocate me thinks. That's all probably true. Same in real life though, some people adjust their outward beliefs/ attitudes/ opinions to fit in with their peers. I think life is more interesting if people aren't afraid to say what they think. Unfortunately it's not just the 'in crowd' that affects the way people post. The so-called 'outsiders' with their snide comments (I don't mean this post I quoted) also affect how people post. They probably don't see it- and won't admit it- but both sets of people types put people off posting." | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons ok so why tell everyone ? just hide the profile Because they want to.... Is it really that much of a bother?" | |||
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"What I have gleaned over the time I've been in the forum....it all depends on who you are. If you post regularly and "the forum" likes you, likes what you say then anything goes. However if you are "an outsider" they pull you to bits even though the majority of them actually agree with what you say they ain't gonna admit it.....but hey do you give a shit because I certainly don't. Majority so quick to put the defensives up. Playing devils advocate me thinks. That's all probably true. Same in real life though, some people adjust their outward beliefs/ attitudes/ opinions to fit in with their peers. I think life is more interesting if people aren't afraid to say what they think. Unfortunately it's not just the 'in crowd' that affects the way people post. The so-called 'outsiders' with their snide comments (I don't mean this post I quoted) also affect how people post. They probably don't see it- and won't admit it- but both sets of people types put people off posting. Well be last time we ask anything so I guess your right lol blimey ! oh well move on have fun sorry to the ones we offended wasnt intended like that just a genuine question ........ ciao xx " | |||
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"So why are you on here then ???????" I don't have to explain my reasons to you or anyone else, it is my profile and I use it how I wish. Sorry to be blunt but it's the truth. It doesn't say anywhere in the site that you have to be arranging meets, attending parties, going to clubs etc etc etc to be a member of this site.... | |||
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"So why are you on here then ??????? I don't have to explain my reasons to you or anyone else, it is my profile and I use it how I wish. Sorry to be blunt but it's the truth. It doesn't say anywhere in the site that you have to be arranging meets, attending parties, going to clubs etc etc etc to be a member of this site.... " No ones asking you to explain it..but the forum is here for people to discuss and express likes and dislikes. | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons ok so why tell everyone ? just hide the profile" Why should I? The site is for me to use as I want. | |||
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"I often get asked why I am here as I'm not currently meeting...my answer is that despite the fact I have no time at present to meet anyone new, I consider myself a swinger and this is a site for Swingers! " Absolutely and this was the sort of response we thought we might get Like we said earlier If weve offended anyone we apologise and absolutely everyone has the right to use the site as they wish . Question was posed after an evening at the pub and probably was put a little blunt | |||
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"I often get asked why I am here as I'm not currently meeting...my answer is that despite the fact I have no time at present to meet anyone new, I consider myself a swinger and this is a site for Swingers! Absolutely and this was the sort of response we thought we might get Like we said earlier If weve offended anyone we apologise and absolutely everyone has the right to use the site as they wish . Question was posed after an evening at the pub and probably was put a little blunt " Not offended, but does get a bit tedious having to answer the question. I just don't bother! | |||
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"Hahah...knew this would cause a stir... Must admit.. Bit like putting my house on the market and saying 'might sell it...not sure, but by all means come and have a look'.. Suppose its the Facebook nation that report their thoughts..each to their own." Actually that's a fair point I suppose if someone never swings, but not if they occasionally meet or have reasons (theirs to decide and not mine to judge) for not actively swinging I took several years away. Admittedly I stayed away from the forums but my husband continued to make connections, one of whom we have since met. Swinging isn't a quick sprint for everyone, some of us play the long game too. As for non-swingwers,I would never join weightwatchers because I don't diet, im not interested in dieting and don't therefore want to talk about it. So it would be weird (not wrong just weird) to do so. Cue people telling me to consider joining weightwatchers lol. | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? " I'd have been well and truly booted out by now if a "no shagging then you're out rule" were imposed | |||
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"So why are you on here then ???????" I have been asking myself that very same question. | |||
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"Hahah...knew this would cause a stir... Must admit.. Bit like putting my house on the market and saying 'might sell it...not sure, but by all means come and have a look'.. Suppose its the Facebook nation that report their thoughts..each to their own. Actually that's a fair point I suppose if someone never swings, but not if they occasionally meet or have reasons (theirs to decide and not mine to judge) for not actively swinging I took several years away. Admittedly I stayed away from the forums but my husband continued to make connections, one of whom we have since met. Swinging isn't a quick sprint for everyone, some of us play the long game too. As for non-swingwers,I would never join weightwatchers because I don't diet, im not interested in dieting and don't therefore want to talk about it. So it would be weird (not wrong just weird) to do so. Cue people telling me to consider joining weightwatchers lol." Oh and by non-swingers I only mean choosing not to swing, not people struggling to find meets! | |||
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"So why are you on here then ??????? I don't have to explain my reasons to you or anyone else, it is my profile and I use it how I wish. Sorry to be blunt but it's the truth. It doesn't say anywhere in the site that you have to be arranging meets, attending parties, going to clubs etc etc etc to be a member of this site.... No ones asking you to explain it..but the forum is here for people to discuss and express likes and dislikes." I was answering the question...'so why are you here then?'...I know what the forum is here for...I was expressing my opinion...if that's ok with you? | |||
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"Hahah...knew this would cause a stir... Must admit.. Bit like putting my house on the market and saying 'might sell it...not sure, but by all means come and have a look'.. Suppose its the Facebook nation that report their thoughts..each to their own. Actually that's a fair point I suppose if someone never swings, but not if they occasionally meet or have reasons (theirs to decide and not mine to judge) for not actively swinging I took several years away. Admittedly I stayed away from the forums but my husband continued to make connections, one of whom we have since met. Swinging isn't a quick sprint for everyone, some of us play the long game too. As for non-swingwers,I would never join weightwatchers because I don't diet, im not interested in dieting and don't therefore want to talk about it. So it would be weird (not wrong just weird) to do so. Cue people telling me to consider joining weightwatchers lol." allas some may say I should get of here and join weight watchers ,,,,,, on second thoughts | |||
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"I often get asked why I am here as I'm not currently meeting...my answer is that despite the fact I have no time at present to meet anyone new, I consider myself a swinger and this is a site for Swingers! Absolutely and this was the sort of response we thought we might get Like we said earlier If weve offended anyone we apologise and absolutely everyone has the right to use the site as they wish . Question was posed after an evening at the pub and probably was put a little blunt " You will get all different kinds of responses, everyone is different. You're lucky no-one derailed the thread with talk of biscuits. If people were offended by your post, so what? Don't let words on a screen put you off posting. We need all kinds of opinions to make the forums interesting. | |||
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"Hahah...knew this would cause a stir... Must admit.. Bit like putting my house on the market and saying 'might sell it...not sure, but by all means come and have a look'.. Suppose its the Facebook nation that report their thoughts..each to their own. Actually that's a fair point I suppose if someone never swings, but not if they occasionally meet or have reasons (theirs to decide and not mine to judge) for not actively swinging I took several years away. Admittedly I stayed away from the forums but my husband continued to make connections, one of whom we have since met. Swinging isn't a quick sprint for everyone, some of us play the long game too. As for non-swingwers,I would never join weightwatchers because I don't diet, im not interested in dieting and don't therefore want to talk about it. So it would be weird (not wrong just weird) to do so. Cue people telling me to consider joining weightwatchers lol. allas some may say I should get of here and join weight watchers ,,,,,, on second thoughts " everyone has a type and a preference so like big some like thin some like muscles and some like cuddly BUT arroganance and judgmental people about sizes instant turn off | |||
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"Hahah...knew this would cause a stir... Must admit.. Bit like putting my house on the market and saying 'might sell it...not sure, but by all means come and have a look'.. Suppose its the Facebook nation that report their thoughts..each to their own. Actually that's a fair point I suppose if someone never swings, but not if they occasionally meet or have reasons (theirs to decide and not mine to judge) for not actively swinging I took several years away. Admittedly I stayed away from the forums but my husband continued to make connections, one of whom we have since met. Swinging isn't a quick sprint for everyone, some of us play the long game too. As for non-swingwers,I would never join weightwatchers because I don't diet, im not interested in dieting and don't therefore want to talk about it. So it would be weird (not wrong just weird) to do so. Cue people telling me to consider joining weightwatchers lol. allas some may say I should get of here and join weight watchers ,,,,,, on second thoughts everyone has a type and a preference so like big some like thin some like muscles and some like cuddly BUT arroganance and judgmental people about sizes instant turn off" You have completely misunderstood the point im afraid. | |||
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"In case anyone was wondering .... custard creams every time xxx " Love them, but also love chocolate digestives! | |||
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"I often get asked why I am here as I'm not currently meeting...my answer is that despite the fact I have no time at present to meet anyone new, I consider myself a swinger and this is a site for Swingers! Absolutely and this was the sort of response we thought we might get Like we said earlier If weve offended anyone we apologise and absolutely everyone has the right to use the site as they wish . Question was posed after an evening at the pub and probably was put a little blunt " I think you used too many question marks | |||
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"Keep in touch with friends, support of friends, working abroad maybe, too much going on with the outside world, all sorts of reasons This. I take a break from meeting but stay on and talk to friend's and participate in the forums x" Me too. Have built up good feedback and would hate to start at the beginning again going cap in hand for repeat verries...." met this guy last time" blah blah.... | |||
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"In case anyone was wondering .... custard creams every time xxx Love them, but also love chocolate digestives! " Too much risk in chocolate digestives ..the quality of the chocolate varies too much ... you cant make a custard cream wrong you just cant its Mr consistency of the biscuit world ... I really should have stopped posting when I said I would | |||
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" I think you used too many question marks I think we will stick to tea and biscuits instead of pints and cocktails " has to be Tetley tea | |||
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"In case anyone was wondering .... custard creams every time xxx Love them, but also love chocolate digestives! Too much risk in chocolate digestives ..the quality of the chocolate varies too much ... you cant make a custard cream wrong you just cant its Mr consistency of the biscuit world ... I really should have stopped posting when I said I would " Ah but the chocolate hobnob is the sas of the biscuit world. | |||
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"In case anyone was wondering .... custard creams every time xxx Love them, but also love chocolate digestives! Too much risk in chocolate digestives ..the quality of the chocolate varies too much ... you cant make a custard cream wrong you just cant its Mr consistency of the biscuit world ... I really should have stopped posting when I said I would " Ah but the chocolate hobnob is the sas of the biscuit world. | |||
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"So now go Walk out the door Don't turn around now You're not welcome any more.... Where's Tina when you need her for backing singer......???!!! " Errr wasn't it Gladys and not Tina? | |||
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"So now go Walk out the door Don't turn around now You're not welcome any more.... Where's Tina when you need her for backing singer......???!!! Errr wasn't it Gladys and not Tina? " not that Tina | |||
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"So now go Walk out the door Don't turn around now You're not welcome any more.... Where's Tina when you need her for backing singer......???!!! " so whats your favourite biscuit ? | |||
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"So now go Walk out the door Don't turn around now You're not welcome any more.... Where's Tina when you need her for backing singer......???!!! Errr wasn't it Gladys and not Tina? not that Tina " There's only ONE Tina xx | |||
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"So now go Walk out the door Don't turn around now You're not welcome any more.... Where's Tina when you need her for backing singer......???!!! so whats your favourite biscuit ?" Jammy Dodgers please xxx | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? " At least twice daily, it's clearly stated in FAB's book of forbidden rules!!! | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? At least twice daily, it's clearly stated in FAB's book of forbidden rules!!!" Oh god dont start being serious Ive just deflected them onto biscuits now look what youve done | |||
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"So now go Walk out the door Don't turn around now You're not welcome any more.... Where's Tina when you need her for backing singer......???!!! Errr wasn't it Gladys and not Tina? not that Tina " Oh right lol. I'm off back into my corner! | |||
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"How often do we have to fuck to be allowed to stay here? At least twice daily, it's clearly stated in FAB's book of forbidden rules!!! Oh god dont start being serious Ive just deflected them onto biscuits now look what youve done " Haha mines a Jaffa cake!!! | |||
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