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By *rinteresting OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Hey there people of fab I feel like I have a bit of a problem. I have never cum from either a handjob or a blowjob I've enjoyed many but no matter how long or how vigorous the rubbing I can never quite get there.

It feels kind of like a mental block considering I can easily cum whilst masturbating by myself but once someone else enters the room I can't do that either. Penetrative sex is a different matter and I explode from that but the more oral stuff just never gets me there. Don't get me wrong I still love a good bj just feel like I'm missing out sometimes. Any thoughts? Or anyone with similar problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey there people of fab I feel like I have a bit of a problem. I have never cum from either a handjob or a blowjob I've enjoyed many but no matter how long or how vigorous the rubbing I can never quite get there.

It feels kind of like a mental block considering I can easily cum whilst masturbating by myself but once someone else enters the room I can't do that either. Penetrative sex is a different matter and I explode from that but the more oral stuff just never gets me there. Don't get me wrong I still love a good bj just feel like I'm missing out sometimes. Any thoughts? Or anyone with similar problem? "

Ditto...very rare for me too..think its happened once, got to be totally relaxed. I think my control issue has a LOT to do with not letting go.

Thanks for bringing it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same. The only time I've ever came with someone else is through penetrative sex...

I know when someone else is pleasuring me, I'm more concerned that they're getting fed up or not truly enjoying it, that I can't focus on cumming.

At least with sex, I know he's getting enjoyment too. .

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By *epperzx_69Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I've had this happen too. I think there Is a deep down feeling or thinking that no matter what the girl says or how enthusiastic she is sucking and wanking she (or women typically) don't enjoy a mouth full of cum. So, unconsciously I hold back as I wouldn't want to do something she didn't like.

Yes there are girls that do enjoy a nice load but, let's face it, the general consensus is that they don't like it and this is reinforced in pirn movies where the girl spits it out or let's it dribble out her mouth.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

There is also the fact that you know better than anyone else exactly how to get yourself off so it's generally easier to make yourself cum than for someone else to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this happen too. I think there Is a deep down feeling or thinking that no matter what the girl says or how enthusiastic she is sucking and wanking she (or women typically) don't enjoy a mouth full of cum. So, unconsciously I hold back as I wouldn't want to do something she didn't like.

Yes there are girls that do enjoy a nice load but, let's face it, the general consensus is that they don't like it and this is reinforced in pirn movies where the girl spits it out or let's it dribble out her mouth.

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This isn't always the case . I get the pleasure from the guy filling my mouth , and am somewhat disappointed if he can't cum .

I may share the cum with another girl in a group scenario , but I love playing with it as my husband watches and gives me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Group hug guys!!!

I have only ever had an orgasm from oral sex once. It's a psychological thing but also I'm circumcised so I believe that may play a part...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever orgasmed through electrical stimulation and flagellation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same as op even with penetrative sex,I wouldn't be popular at quick cum and go meets!!

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

You guys need me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral sex for me is always tricky as it's rare that I cum.

Only 3 guys have managed it and for me it all boils down to how comfortable and relaxed I am, that's partly my issue but I also think it's partly down to the guy to make me feel relaxed enough.

Similarly to a previous post I sometimes worry that the guy doesn't really like doing it so I think I tense up.

You really aren't alone with this issue so don't worry about it!

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Mr here, well i cum from all 3 lol, blow job, hand job n sex so feel free to try out this 100% lad lol. Cum guaranteed

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By *lderguy4funMan
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

me too love a good blowjob esp cum in mouth mmmmmmmmm handjobs too no prob5 with all three don't know how a guy can not cum while getting a blowjob a finger up the arse helps me cum loads too maybe tell her to use her finger lol

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By *rinteresting OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Group hug guys!!!

I have only ever had an orgasm from oral sex once. It's a psychological thing but also I'm circumcised so I believe that may play a part..."

I have a feeling this is also a big thing. I'm also circumcised.

Thinking about how the other person is feeling is also a big thing for me so can't concentrate on myself.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I can't recall ever coming from oral either, but I have from a handjob, but I was in my teens....

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By *rinteresting OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Very interesting it shows how important the mind is to sexual activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't cum from blowjobs or handjobs, even though they feel amazing. I have no trouble wanking and cumming on a partner and I can cum from sex, I do have tend to last for a long time though. Not that I get compliants lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had this happen too. I think there Is a deep down feeling or thinking that no matter what the girl says or how enthusiastic she is sucking and wanking she (or women typically) don't enjoy a mouth full of cum. So, unconsciously I hold back as I wouldn't want to do something she didn't like.

Yes there are girls that do enjoy a nice load but, let's face it, the general consensus is that they don't like it and this is reinforced in pirn movies where the girl spits it out or let's it dribble out her mouth.

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If a woman doesn't want the load in her mouth, she shouldn't suck it. Simple as. I think it's incredibly insulting for a woman to offer her mouth but not be prepared to recieve their gift.

I suspect the woman wouldn't be pleased if she were having her pussy licked and just as she were about to cum have the man say 'no love, do it yourself'.

You ask her first. If she doesn't like cum,don't stick your dick in there, but remember, don't ever do something for them that you aren't comfortable with. It works both ways,

Miss F xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love receiving oral, but have rarely cum, from it. Although the woman gagging does seem to help. I can count on 3 fingers how many times, I have cum. Hand jobs work although I do worry they may end up with arm ache! Also when getting a handjob I never seem to become fully erect, not like I do when fucking. However enjoy both and especially enjoy giving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it incredibly hard to cum from mouths, hands, fingers even those together where as I can cum pretty easily through penetrative sex

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By *rinteresting OP   Man
over a year ago

London

So very recently I've got really close but it felt like I just couldn't reach the other side no matter how much she tried. It frustrated her to the point that she lost her sex drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had an issue with this, just relax man. Now you have had it once you probably think about it as your about to cum so that stops you. Just chill

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

It is surprisingly common so I wouldn't worry about it if I was you. So cool as a woman if a man says this to you and you manage to do it. Score 3 times to me now WooWoo lol

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