FabSwingers.com forum: whats the big deal with anal..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry to say but I think anal is one of the most overatted acts going...probably upset a few but I just think...

Its the wrong hole!!

Shit comes out!!

Is it not the same in theory as gay sex when a man wants to do it!

If not what's different!

I've tried it and I have to say I think the fact that its taboo is what makes people get all giddy..

Like schoolboys 'stick it up her bum'!

Pah!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blood comes out of the other one.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Someone obviously gave it to you in the wrong way

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

More lube next time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hang on!, u mean this packet of fecalfudges are truly home made!?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Once I get past the initial uncomfortable sensation, it's really pleasurable

But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it feels good. Plus if you have a loose vagina it's a tight hole alternative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to say but I think anal is one of the most overatted acts going...probably upset a few but I just think...

Its the wrong hole!!

Shit comes out!!

Is it not the same in theory as gay sex when a man wants to do it!

If not what's different!

I've tried it and I have to say I think the fact that its taboo is what makes people get all giddy..

Like schoolboys 'stick it up her bum'!

Pah!"

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

I found it really depends on who I'm with as to whether I would even consider it. Only two men in the last four and half years really made it totally mind blowing just being touched there. They were the ones where the sexual chemistry was off the scale!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it feels good. Plus if you have a loose vagina it's a tight hole alternative "

fits whole head up fanny while fingering arse...my finger is slowing down because I cant breathe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the whole idea of it being taboo and naughty n dirty about playing with a girls arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to say but I think anal is one of the most overatted acts going...

If not what's different!

I've tried it and I have to say I think the fact that its taboo is what makes people get all giddy..

Pah!"

Aw don't give up so quickly. You just need to use more lube and try to relax. Once it's inside you and you're body accepts it, you'll really start to enjoy it.

Try a different position. Everyone thinks you should take it doggie but why not try missionary and wrap your legs around him as he pounds into you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's about power and power is very hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it feels good. Plus if you have a loose vagina it's a tight hole alternative

fits whole head up fanny while fingering arse...my finger is slowing down because I cant breathe"

I've seen a porn film where a man puts his head in a woman. I will never forget that image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it feels good. Plus if you have a loose vagina it's a tight hole alternative

fits whole head up fanny while fingering arse...my finger is slowing down because I cant breathe

I've seen a porn film where a man puts his head in a woman. I will never forget that image

lol that was fake for some bizarre sex site lol...very old now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, the reason anal sex appeals to me is for the intimacy and trust involved, knowing that successful, enjoyable anal sex is a combination of good hygiene/preparation and harmonious technique between both participants speaks volumes of their sexual chemistry together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because it feels good. Plus if you have a loose vagina it's a tight hole alternative

fits whole head up fanny while fingering arse...my finger is slowing down because I cant breathe

I've seen a porn film where a man puts his head in a woman. I will never forget that image

lol that was fake for some bizarre sex site lol...very old now lol"

I'm relieved for the poor woman! I did see her have a lot of objects pulled out of her too,tell me that was fake please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally, the reason anal sex appeals to me is for the intimacy and trust involved, knowing that successful, enjoyable anal sex is a combination of good hygiene/preparation and harmonious technique between both participants speaks volumes of their sexual chemistry together."

it is very intimate and pleasurable with a partner who cares about the receivers pleasure

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By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to say but I think anal is one of the most overatted acts going...probably upset a few but I just think...

Its the wrong hole!!

Shit comes out!!

Is it not the same in theory as gayy sex when a man wants to do it!

If not what's different!

I've tried it and I have to say I think the fact that its taboo is what makes people get all giddy..

Like schoolboys 'stick it up her bum'!

Pah!"

if done right by someone who knows what they're doing, the pleasure is immeasurable...it makes every nerve ending in my skin crackle with sensation...fuck the taboo stuff...that truly doesn't interest me...and it aint that taboo...it's massively intimate and intense and for me, takes immense trust...the orgasms I get from it turn my legs to jelly...

that's what I enjoy about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brian , you said on today's post entitled " do women really enjoy anal sex " :-

" I've yet to meet a woman who wants to receive anal from me, but when I finally do get the opportunity, it'll be deep and gentle as always" .

I'm confused ? Have you had anal or haven't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brian , you said on today's post entitled " do women really enjoy anal sex " :-

" I've yet to meet a woman who wants to receive anal from me, but when I finally do get the opportunity, it'll be deep and gentle as always" .

I'm confused ? Have you had anal or haven't you?

As you quoted

'Personally, the reason anal sex appeals to me'

Notice I never made mention on having actually performed it, only the reason why I'd like to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had it once in the past and V found it completely mind blowing.

so much more preasurable than vaginal sex.

hyper sensitive

no idea why.

but she has to be extremely horny and extremely relaxed to begin with otherwise she tenses up (same reason as ms cleaner above) so i dont push, probe or force, as tbh im not that bothered about anal, but if there is something that gives her extreme pleasure, it would be remiss of me to not want to give it to her.

thats why anal is liked by some women.

why men like it, i dont know, and tbh, its not something that concerns me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry...each to their own then...

But the option of a nice warm pussy or a tight dirty kak hole..doesn't take much thinking for me..

Fortunately I'm yet to find a foof thats so loose that I have to stop play and suggest using the dirtpipe.

Enjoy what ya do...I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a really intense feeling that is very different from vaginal sex. With one of my regular friends I have orgasms I can't describe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is a really intense feeling that is very different from vaginal sex. With one of my regular friends I have orgasms I can't describe "

Its the same for males, I don't know why some women claim to have extremely strong anal orgasms, but when a guy climaxes whilst massaging his prostate, its like having an orgasm in two places at once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anal is best enjoyed with lots of trust, lots of build up play and a good quality anal lube. I've only had successful anal a handful of times (rarely with someone who's a casual encounter) but it feels so good when that happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think anal is best enjoyed with lots of trust, lots of build up play and a good quality anal lube."

......... And a thorough douching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" I think anal is best enjoyed with lots of trust, lots of build up play and a good quality anal lube."

......... And a thorough douching

Haha, that too. Have douche, will travel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of trust needed yes definitely. Slim cock too but am wondering how a girthy one will fit?

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche?? I think you mean enema

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the best one to buy please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the best one to buy please?

I got mine from Lovehoney but it's the only one I've had so can't compare.

I'll just say it works fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of trust needed yes definitely. Slim cock too but am wondering how a girthy one will fit?

your skin stretches

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not into anal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of trust needed yes definitely. Slim cock too but am wondering how a girthy one will fit?

It does fit but I find it less comfortable than a slimmer cock. Problem is I kept getting tense when presented with a fatter cock which makes it worse. For me a lot of finger and tongue play (for those who like it)with lots of lube does the trick and wearing a butt plug during play definitely helped.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think the fact that it doesn't fit..needs plenty of lube.. Tenses up etc...is a sign that it shouldn't go up there..haha

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the fact that it doesn't fit..needs plenty of lube.. Tenses up etc...is a sign that it shouldn't go up there..haha

It's a mental block I'm referring to in my case so required patience, it was worth getting over the fear though. Some ladies have difficulty with vaginal sex and some gag with oral. Should it not go there either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never tried it never will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the fact that it doesn't fit..needs plenty of lube.. Tenses up etc...is a sign that it shouldn't go up there..haha

I once met a girl who was frigid...it would NOT go in I mean not even the tip..

So...

I didn't try...I think its a sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the fact that it doesn't fit..needs plenty of lube.. Tenses up etc...is a sign that it shouldn't go up there..haha

I once met a girl who was frigid...it would NOT go in I mean not even the tip..

So...

I didn't try...I think its a sign

So I got tense trying anal....therefore it's a sign people shouldn't do it?

She got tense trying vaginal.......therefore it's a sign people shouldn't do it?

Anal takes time and willingness, it can be worth the effort but obviously not if the end result is no pleasure. Those who enjoy it experience pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree each to their own..but for me pleasure come naturally I don't want to persuade myself I might enjoy it...I instinctively know when somethings feeling good...

It's usually

Warm

Wet

Eager

And exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get tense waiting for my man to bite me but I still see him and he still bites me. People are always going on about pushing boundaries. We do this for the thrill of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I do enjoy, but it's not something I do with every partner. It's a very different feeling that can be very intense and pleasurable, especially with vaginal/clitoral stimulation at the same time. I'll only do it though with partners I trust, and if I have time to do a thorough douching beforehand...I can't relax otherwise and nothing is getting in there if I'm not relaxed, and incredibly turned on. So far though haven't found size to be an issue with proper preparation...and both of my fb's who I usually have anal sex with are pretty big.

Op...if it isn't for you though then so be it. World would be a boring place if we all liked the same things.

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