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what do you think is the best way to start on a meet with a couple?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious to know how others first start on a meet.

For us were not into the meeting elsewhere beforehand.

We met a single guy for our first time and because we had started before he had arrived we were already horny and wound up so it was a case of straight to the bedroom and there was very little nervousness, but not sure that way would work on meeting with a couple, any advice or your experiences might help us along, as were more nervous about how we get started than the actual swinging.

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK

on are first met with a couple we had a few drinks music on in the back ground, just making convo... its good if the 2 guys talk and the 2 girls have a chat the bound comes quicker i think, like football for the guys and shoes etc for the girls, but if all of you talking its good to tell a few funny storys about yourself in my option it leads to a good convo , once a good convo starts and there no long silence ul find yourself thinking you have knew them for ages after that things will just flow.

but then again people will do things different so thats just how we got over are first met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we found all together on the sofa put on some porn and talk about fantasys etc gets the mood going, also split the couple ie f next to other m and m next to other f, and be brave dont forget they are there for the same reason as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it all depends but i think you are right,too many people make "conditions" - if its just pure sex then let's get down to it and have as much fun as poss.

Andy

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By *ighlandcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Inverness


"we found all together on the sofa put on some porn and talk about fantasys etc gets the mood going, also split the couple ie f next to other m and m next to other f, and be brave dont forget they are there for the same reason as you"

We are like yourselves, had our first meet at our house last weekend, very relaxed sat like you were saying, had great fun!!!

We usually meet socially first then see how things go, other than that its usually at a club.

Lorraine xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Being met on arrival bi scantly dressed peeps will help defeat any pre anxiety barriers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have rule that we meet somewhere we both agree on.

Then if all goes well we move on if not we can just walk away no pressure on both parties then.

Only meet one cpl we were very nervous turned out we weren't for each other so we just said our goodbyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it all depends but i think you are right,too many people make "conditions" - if its just pure sex then let's get down to it and have as much fun as poss.

Andy"

Im sorry! Please read my profile. It says MUST have long fat fingers !

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Trouble with me is i talk so much i forget about the sex part lol

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By *icknDeeCouple
over a year ago

hartlepool

We find the best way to start is by sending a couple a message, or replying to a couple we like the look of...

Works for us

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By *ambridgecutieWoman
over a year ago

near Luton

We prefer to have a glass of wine and a chat, invariably it leads to chat about sex and our experiences to date..then its just down to whoever has the guts to mention heading to the bedroom!!

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By *ambridgecutieWoman
over a year ago

near Luton

I totally thought I was on my couples profile then...either way the advice stands!

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