FabSwingers.com forum: Replying to a message

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

Am just after a little advise,

I have never sent my face picture out to anybody before,

I'am just after your first impressions on my picture Its the only one i have on here at the moment, Am just sending it to a few profiles of the type of woman that am looking to meet before i send it out to local woman, I would appreciate your honest opinion.

If someone sent you a message like this would you reply to it,

or does it sound like someone who lacks confidence and not even worth a responding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have face pic as profile pic, it too small to make out. That's what I do sometimes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell you to send it to the local women who you have an interest in as they will be your target audience,not random women from all over the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am not sure how i would react if they recognise me that's all,

Am not the best at spelling, its not something i look for in a woman,

and it was a typo ffs.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Most people would prefer to see a clear and recent face pic of someone who they might consider having sex with. You can judge if and when to send one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!"

A little harsh to say he was asking for advice not criticism...

No matter what you put in a message, always attach a face picture, be yourself, relate the message to the person, inject some humour but most of all, be patient and never expect a reply.

Good luck OP and have fun

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!

A little harsh to say he was asking for advice not criticism...

No matter what you put in a message, always attach a face picture, be yourself, relate the message to the person, inject some humour but most of all, be patient and never expect a reply.

Good luck OP and have fun

Pretty much this

We are more likely to reply either way to a message with a face pic attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always ask to see a face picture how can I make a decision on carrying on with conversing or even expect to know if I am interested at all without knowing what someone looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!"

class lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!"

Really? ne naw ne naw quick hide its the spelling police

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!

class lol"

Oh the irony

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did send a face pic with the message, And understand it would just get lost with the amount of messages women receive daily, didn't mean to waste anyone's time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!

class lol

Oh the irony

It most definately is not class to be needlessly rude or aggressive about a simple spelling mistake,its even worse when someone that applauds that rudeness has spelling mistakes in his own profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full interest helps!

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore the pedants.

I think it's best to get over whatever is stopping you sending face pics and send them early on.

Far worse to spend weeks conversing only to send face pics and neither or either isn't feeling it

Take a selection, pic your best choice and start sending it soon into opening up communication.

Your arse is lovely but very seldom will someone meet you off the strength of good chat and a peachy bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take the status off, it sounds #to me) like your looking for a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did send a face pic with the message, And understand it would just get lost with the amount of messages women receive daily, didn't mean to waste anyone's time.

Since they're not local they might just ignore you because of distance...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll need to risk wasting someones time to get anywhere. It's scary sending face pics I know as rejection can follow, but also it might not. Decent intro and face pic, if you do it early then you're wasting neither your time nor anyone elses.

Are you assuming you're not peoples type without even knowing what their type is or if they even have one?

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Learn how to spell 'advice' Ffs!"

I thought this too initially.

Then I thought "Give the guy a break."

Also, it may be better for those of us who can spell if I say nothing.

I wish I was prefect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did send a face pic with the message, And understand it would just get lost with the amount of messages women receive daily, didn't mean to waste anyone's time.

Sammy, don't apologise! You have asked for advice, there are some here who will shoot you down, for any little thing, they are in the minority. The majority of posters will be happy to give you tips and advice. Hang in there, be patient and don't be put off by over critical users.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the positive comments,

But i think purehoneypot was the only one responded to what i asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did send a face pic with the message, And understand it would just get lost with the amount of messages women receive daily, didn't mean to waste anyone's time.

Good luck

"Thanks for the positive comments,

But i think purehoneypot was the only one responded to what i asked

This can be a very daunting "journey" when you first set out and your confidence will grow over time. Read thro the replies again (skip the ones criticising your spelling you were not asking for advice about your grammar) and I think you will see that there is a lot of good advice in what people have said, maybe not as literal as you were expecting but great advice all the same.

Be yourself and try to remain positive & believe in yourself, you owe nobody an apology unless you offend them.

It is very difficult for single guys on here because there are so many and the confident guys generally fair better but don't try to change WHO you are. You are a fit looking young guy and it's clear you have given some thought to what you hope to get out of this. Do not expect too much tho, that way when you do have meets its a happy bonus.

Good luck

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